I'm kind of new to trp and have kind of wanted an ltr. I met this girl on tinder and we hit if off. The first date she was complimenting me telling me I was good looking, not a douche etc. The next date we made out a bit but I didn't have the chance to f-close because she had work. I set up a third date for this Tuesday and she flaked claiming that her dad, whom she hadn't seen in years, took her to lunch. She said she'd get back to me when she wasn't busy which led me to expect to hear back from her later in the week.

She never did and seems to be ignoring my texts. I'm wondering if she was actually telling the truth about being busy as she had a full work schedule and claims to helps her disabled mother. I couldn't help myself and have been wanting to get into contact and have text herw few times trying just to touch base, and I'm afraid I'm just making myself look like a little bitch.

I've been flaked and ignored before, but I've never had a girl seem to be into me and just go radio silent like this. I think it's the lack of closure and it's making me sick and leaving me feeling immasculinated. I can't seem to get her out of my head and can feel depression creeping up. I've tried to set up other dates with other girls but it's affecting my game. I need a dose of reality or something.

EDIT: More information: I know it's only been two dates, but she's already asked me for the label of girlfriend, which I was alright with, but I told her no.

Thanks for any replies and sorry for the second post on the same girl.