Some background -

Me - early 30s , successful entrepreneur , fit , 6’1. Possibly a narcissist and Machiavellian but not too much of a psychopath . But definitely a bit of emotional weakness. Business , body building and women are the only things I do. notch count - 26

She - mid 20s, feminine , beautiful , good fit , family oriented , wants a husband and a family . Quite redpilled. Notch count - 5 incl me

Recently had a big fight about her texting some tight dress pictures to a orbiter she met on tinder 5 yrs ago ( didn’t have tinder since we went exclusive ) and then deleted all chats with the guy . It made me look like a chump where my “serious gf” was texting tight dress pictures to some Tinder fukboi and deleted all chats . From outside , I know it looks like she is cheating .

But maybe it’s my emotional investment in the girl, it’s hard to contemplate this feminine , submissive girl would cheat on me .

(I know. I am biased and invested enough to deny AWALT.)

For context : We met on tinder too , been dating for 6 months now, but she has turned very submissive and feminine now and defers to me in every way. Deleted all apps and has all outward signs of a devoted gf.

But this event of her texting suggestive pics to a tinder match sent me off the rails and told her off , had a lot of drama for confronting and eventually broke frame emotionally ( I know this might be a mistake )and told her we could work it out if she deleted and blocked all the tinder boys on the phone and contact list ( boundaries or mate guarding , I don’t know ) . She again deferred and blocked everyone from her phone ( again except this one guy which I noticed , told her and just iced her with NC for the last 24 hrs . This is status quo)

Now, I have met her family and we have a serious thing going and I wanted a future with her. But these recent behaviours have got me to seriously reconsider . In five years , my SMV will peak ( multi million dollar net worth , late 30s, 10% body fat and jacked , Handsome face ( top 5%), dated over 100 women , fucked 25 and retained 20% of them as multi-year plates before dropping them for her )

I am unable to have an unbiased perspective on this and need your guys advice. Be brutal, be merciless, be helpful.

I want to know if I can still make this work .

Thanks .

Update : I have decided to plate her without telling her. Start spinning plates again and branch swing to a better option once I find it.

Have two new tinder dates tonight as we speak.