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I'm confused. Why would you have resentment for your ex's bf? Why do you care?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:37 AM
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It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Hold frame bro
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:09 AM
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Hard next this racist fuck. Honestly bro have self respect and walk away ASAP
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:06 AM
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Lol this girl I use to date posted a poll on her Instagram story if she should start an OF. Her next story was that 93% said yes and the overwhelming majority were women and "how it's some empowering to see women support women." Some bullshit feminist doctrine. Yeah your so brave for selling naked pictures online. So pathetic
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:40 PM
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I knew a plate that bragged about cheating on her ex with a basketball player but according to her it didn't count as cheating because "celebrities don't count." Lol the hamster wheel never stops spinning
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:09 PM
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Look up CARS by FRC. Joint mobility. I'd your joints aren't moving well, it won't matter if you do soft tissue work all day
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:53 PM
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Jesus that article was fucking garbage
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:57 PM
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This. I opened up to my ex about my depression. What did she do? She used it to gaslight me to further her affair. "There's nothing going on with him. This is just your depression talking." She used my vulnerability against me. Don't ever do it.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:01 AM
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Yeah to be honest, it fucked me up for awhile. I couldn't imagine using something like that to manipulate someone. Women will go to extreme measures to justify their behavior
/r/askTRP01/01/21 10:16 PM
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Towards the end of my 3 year relationship with an ex LTR, I told her that I've been struggling with clinical depression my whole life. Her response? She used it as ammo to further her affair. "Jesus he's just a friend! This is your depression talking! You're acting crazy!" NEVER OPEN UP TO A FEMALE. They will usually weaponize it later. Open up to your homies, therapist or whatever but never your girl
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:52 PM
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Yeah I know what you mean. I felt burned by RSD. They gave out so much shit advice like: - Go out 5-7 days a week gaming vs building a dope life for yourself and game when you want to - That you needed to buy their products to up your game - Keep pushing even when the girl says no. If it's not win-win, why not walk away. What kind of beta bitch stays in a conversation when you're making the other person uncomfortable? - Constantly trying to jam Julian's fake guru persona down your throat
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:17 AM
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Fantasy is never as good as reality
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:04 AM
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The complete and total lack of remorse and selfishness women can inhabit. I was always told women were the kinder, more empathetic gender but if they feel wronged or want an excuse to cheat or act out, they will be unrelentingly evil with no guilt at all.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:28 AM
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I had a 3 year LTR BPD who was cheating on me for last 6 months of the relationship. Honestly, I was a completely broken man for about 9 months after. It honestly took me almost 2 years until I fully recovered. The biggest thing I learned, is you need to forgive yourself. I had a ton of shame for allowing myself to get gaslighted, disrespected and beaten down by her. Forgive yourself, set goals and focus on building your confidence
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:52 AM
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For me, no. I've been cheated on twice and both times I suspected it for weeks but allowed myself to get gaslighted and have my commen sense distorted. Unless he's a crazy jealous, irrational guy, he's probably right.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:12 AM
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Lmao you know the answer bro
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:09 AM
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When I told my ex I've been struggling with depression my whole life, she used it to help benefit her affair. She would say "you're acting crazy about him! He's just a friend. This is your depression speaking!" Meanwhile she was fucking him for last 6 months of the relationship
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:23 AM
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Lmao not only will if not work out, it'll be a collosal trainwreck when it does end.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:39 AM
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Took a long time to get over my 3 year LTR who cheated. She had an affair last 6 months and kept lying to me every day. I realized 3 things: 1) A lot of my pain came from shame. I put a lot of shame on myself for not breaking up with her when she crossed boundaries again and again. Also shame cause I allowed her to turn me into a beta bitch. 2) She's one of the least introspective people I've ever met. She'll continue to go on a self destructive pattern until it destroys her while I've continued…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:37 AM
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Bro you care way too much about this minor issue. Stay on your purpose and shit like this shouldn't waste a second of mental energy
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:28 AM
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Yeah I've been in this situation. She doesn't find her ex DMs annoying or unpleasant. She's creating plausible deniability. So if you see her phone with a bunch of messages from her ex she can be like, "omg he's so annoying. Why can't he leave me alone?!" But really she's probably fucking him or wanting to fuck in near future
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:25 AM
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Thankfully my FWB lives in my neighborhood so I've been getting laid 2-3 times a week this quarantine. I'd be going mad if not for her
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:02 PM
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There's a video on the internet that legit helped me. DM me and I'll tell you it. Pretty sure I'll get banned if I post it
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:19 AM
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Mobile personal training business
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:50 PM
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I started my own business about 6 months ago and it's been the greatest, most fulfilling purpose I've had in my life. Don't get me wrong, it's financially stressful and a ton of work but I've never felt more alive. Hopefully it's sustainable.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:15 PM
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Hot girl will win the narrative everytime. She can cheat, lie, steal and be a bitch to you and nobody will care. You make a hot girl cry once for standing up for yourself and you're an "abusive asshole " Essientially they have no integrity and aren't held accountable for anything in this life
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:05 PM
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Honestly I think I'm done with roommates for a little while. If money gets tight and I need to rent out spare room again, I'll definitely make sure to be more firm with enforcing boundaries. Also I should have vetted him better before letting him move in
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:56 AM
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No lease
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:53 AM
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Agreed. I fucked up at not enforcing boundaries hard enough in the beginning
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:53 AM
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You're thinking like a guy and not an insecure girl. She doesn't give a fuck if he was teasing. She wanted to be validated! She did something good (send a nude), just fucking validate her. Not everything needs to be a tease. That gets annoying
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:33 PM
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This. Bro I like dogs too. Fuck off
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:29 AM
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Statistics are damn liars
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:16 AM
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This. Wouldn't be surprised if she justified her cheating as you "raping" her. I had a BPD ex. They will do anything to justify their behaviors. Even more than the average girl. They have no integrity or ability for honest introspection. And I promise you, they will fuck you up. Nobody has a good BPD story. Even as a FWB, it isn't worth it. There's a lot of non-BPD pussy out there bro
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:13 AM
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Yes I've been a PT for over 5 years. Study FRC, Gray Institute, Institute of Motion, IKN, and other actual progressive, science based organizations. So many trainers just get caught up in old school training that they get left behind. Also it's a very ego driven industry. I do a lot of FRC techniques and 3D Maps techniques (Gray Institute) that dumb trainers don't understand and thus criticize out of ego protection. You're gonna need a thick skin. Be friendly, but stick to your own training phil…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:00 AM
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Just know her emotions and opinions of you can change at anytime. She might feel this way for a different guy every 2 weeks. Not trying to kill your vibe. It definitely a good thing, but just be careful
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:53 AM
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Borderline personality disorder
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:36 AM
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My ex was a BPD officer who also cheated on me with a coworker. She went full suicidal after I broke up with her. Lol and she passed the psychological examination easily
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:50 PM
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My ex of 3 years ended up cheating on me with her co-worker and then tried to ruin my life. I should have known 3 months in. We went to a New Year's party and she encouraged her friend to cheat on her boyfriend and then flirted with a guy in front of me to make me jealous. Everything inside me told me to break up with her but I was dumb enough to stay with her until she gaslighted and cheated on me. Really dumb of me but lesson learned
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:30 PM
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You determine your self worth. Sometimes you need to convince yourself. That's why things like reading, gym, making money, spinning plates is valuable. It enhances your self worth and feeling of entitlement. It's hard to cultivate self worth with just self reflection and good intent. I think your work ethic and conquering external goals help feed into feeling you're enough. Take it one step at a time
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:12 PM
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I feel like the book does a good job that the laws aren't always concrete and necessary. It's context dependent. I mean after each law he even spells out the reversals. It's a nuainced read. Don't just read the laws
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:09 PM
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"I'm not that easy."
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:15 AM
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With my business, I've done promotional work with some female influencers and the lack of integrity and professionalism is astonishing. They know they can get away with it though so they don't give a fuck. To be fair, a couple of them were really cool but most were narcissistic, rude and almost always late (if they showed up at all)
/r/askTRP06/04/20 06:16 PM
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I could probably go back and ask. Have you taken in? I kinda want to not take anything since it's not anything physiological and just rewire my brain.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:38 AM
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Yeah tight hamstrings, calfs and plantar fascia can all contribute. Usually it's a motor control problem and not necessarily a tight muscle problem
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:44 PM
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Nothing wrong with anterior pelvic tilt. If you have lumbar lordosis (excessive curve in low back), and a propensity to anteriorly pelvic tilt, you will put a lot of pressure on the back and as you go lower into the squat it'll be almost impossible for you prevent the "butt wink" (have pelvis posteriorly tilt as the bottom of the squat. I would argue that a slight butt wink at bottom of squat isn't necessarily dangerous, but definitely is if back flexion follows (which is usually the case). What…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:43 PM
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This 100%. She needs to shape the narrative of your relationship without putting any responsibility on herself. Even if she does apologize, she wants the validation of you wanting her back, so she can leave thinking you're below her
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:26 AM
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How does she feel about her sister/mother cheating? I had an ex who was rather dismissive of her father cheating on her mother . . . guess what she ended up doing to me.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:39 AM
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I'm a personal trainer so I lift 5-6 times a week. Definitely helps a little bit but something is still lacking
/r/askTRP01/12/19 05:23 AM
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A lot of it was my own fault for not leaving when I should have. I let her be the priority in my life and she brutally fucked me over for it. I'll post the story below if you're interested. Honestly, it took me about 9 months to fully heal from it. It fucked with my adrenal system. I would go through waves of terrible anxiety followed by depressed apathy. It takes awhile to feel like your normal self again. I'm still not fully there (a little over a year now). Main thing I learned is trust your …
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:58 AM
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Yeah I had a bpd ex do this. She cheated on me so I broke up with her (unfortunately we lived together). She threatened to kill herself everyday and being the beat bucks that I was, I tried to help her and talked her out of it many times. I came home almost everyday to her crying and locking herself in the bathroom with a knife. Whole time she was still talking to guy she cheated on me with (she promised she blocked him) and telling all her friends that I was "being an asshole for no reason." lo…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:56 AM
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Imagine if a male celebrity said "women are useless after 33." The feminist and general media would lose their shit
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:47 AM
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Nice. Sounds like things are going well. No regrets leaving personal training?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:31 AM
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Same. Got my degree in Kinesiology. Took about 9 months to a year till I started building clients and making okay money. The thought of starting from scratch is overwhelming. Plus I hate the gym politics and such. Definitely considering sales. I actually really like making commission. I was thinking maybe time share salesman. If you don't mind me asking, what did you do after you stopped pt?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:14 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate the advice
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:11 PM
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She likes talking about you to him? Okay that's bullshit. I'm sure her ex snapchats her to get the conversation going about you lol. I'd be very skeptical of her behavior for now on.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:03 PM
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If you hold frame and don't let your insecurities show, you'll make up for a lot of it. You can even say you're a minimalist. If she wanted to date older guys with fast cars and motorcycles, she'd be doing it right now. There's a reason she's with you. Don't act like an insecure beta to screw it up.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:11 PM
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This. Marriage gives her all the leverage and power. At any point she can fuck her co-worker and then take half your money. Why put yourself in that position?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:09 PM
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Bro you got off easy. That's nothing. You'll get fucked over a lot harder than that by women. Use this as a learning experience to grow. Get back out there and approach
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:49 AM
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Lol don't just stop using condoms with hot chicks. Make sure you have some sort of relationship with her and she's mentally fit to be a mother.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:44 AM
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Yeah I had an ex (when I was fully blue pill) who used to talk about a couple of her friends that would cheat on their boyfriends when they would all go out. She seemed really unfazed by it like it was no big deal at all. Then guess what she ended up doing to me.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:49 AM
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This. Sometimes, although not as often anymore with social media explosion, naive hot women under 21 won't know they're worth. Once they start fucking around with club/bar culture and have fun riding the CC they're ego gets inflated and they dump their LTR to play the hypergamous game. You're gonna notice her behavior change and she's gonna find small things to pick apart about you now so she can ride the CC guilt free.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:57 AM
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Lol she doesn't actually think it's gonna be grandmas. She just didn't wanna look like a thot so she's playing clueless
/r/askTRP11/10/19 08:04 PM
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Honestly I don't have feelings for her. Just want to turn her into a plate for sex only
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:07 PM
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No I broke up with her. I honestly don't feel anything toward her. I just want to lay her consistently
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:06 PM
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Yeah what does saying her name wrong add to the interaction? It's not funny, it's pretty weird and awkward. Especially if you didn't pivot to something clever and funny quickly
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:50 PM
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Sounds like you are in a good place with her so why potentially fuck it up with marriage. When you wife her up, power dynamic changes, and she's gonna change but at that point you're fucked. Why not keep things as they are?
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:46 PM
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Women will use hamster wheel rationalization to behave and get what they want. They know these guys want to fuck them and either A) they want to fuck too or B) Just want attention and validation. They can't admit that to even themselves so therefore it's just an innocent meet up with her friend. If her LTR questions her about it, "he's a jealous controlling asshole!" Lol it's wild bro
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:33 AM
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1000% this. Especially if she cheated. She can't admit to herself that she's an unfaithful whore so it must be your fault no matter what.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:40 PM
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I've been there man. You're gonna be angry for a little while. Try to find a healthy outlet for your anger. Get busy and just focus on your purpose
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:05 PM
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Lol what kind of toxic behavior is this? You're growing and they find it "gay" and "annoying." Leave her ass now.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 10:14 PM
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Only person you can truly trust is yourself. I've been lied, manipulated and cheated on by my last 2 exs to know that I will never invest heavy stakes (living together, kid together, pay for expensive stuff) in a women again. The juice is not worth the squeeze. However I wouldn't be opposed to getting into a committed LTR, but best believe I'm not gonna fully invest in her and I'll have women lined up for when it's over. This isn't coming from a fear or insecurity, just that the potential fallou…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:31 PM
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Nothing you can do about it now but internalize those lessons. Don't waste time beating yourself up for actions you did when you didn't know any better. Just like I don't hate my second grade self for not knowing algebra. I wasn't ready and didn't have that knowledge presented to me anyway. Know you've reached a point in your life where you are ready to accept the RP and take in the knowledge it provides. The past mistakes are irrelevant. You didn't know any better
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:24 PM
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She calls you a crybaby?! Don't tolerate that disrespectful behavior
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:26 AM
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I'd say no dependence on external validation.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 10:47 PM
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Thanks mate. Yeah I'm not engaging her or any of her friends.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:23 AM
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Great advice. I appreciate it mate
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:21 AM
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Yeah I was thinking same thing. Her overtly breaking boundaries and her apathetic texts seem that way
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:28 AM
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Lmao she's married but every year she sends her exboyfriend presents? Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:21 AM
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Don't show weakness. Seek comfort in friends and family members. Your girlfriend will not support you emotionally
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:10 AM
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Yep. Had an ex throw a temper tantrum and hysterically cry and throw things when I was late bringing home food cause I was working lol. Don't reward that behavior
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:04 AM
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Bro you should feel guilty for fucking your homies girl. You compromised your integrity and betrayed your friend for to stick your dick in a warm hole for a few minutes. Not good bro
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:01 AM
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100% the female ego has been inflated. 7s think they're 10s now due to all the validation they get on a daily basis
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:13 PM
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Belong to The World by The Weeknd. Honestly a lot of old school Weeknd has red pill truths. I don't remember the song but lyrics go something like: "First you'll hate him, Then you'll want me, Then you'll miss him, Then you'll hate me. Girl I know you so well. Girl I know your routine" I mean that alone has AWALT, alpha/beta dynamic and hamster wheel.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:10 PM
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I'll update. I'm gonna break things off tomorrow. Some good advice here. I'll be calm and IDGAF attitude, hand her her stuff and say it's over.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:24 PM
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I should clarify, she's going with two female friends but her male friend in the military invited her. Also it's out of state and so her and her girlfriends are gonna drive like 12 hours round-trip to get there and back lmao
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:23 PM
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Bro girls even cheat down. You could be high SMV but the janitor was making her laugh and she was drunk and horny. She won't LTR him but she'll fuck him under right circumstances
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:23 AM
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I get it that you are angry and hurt. I've been there man. I would just calmly tell her that you know she's been cheating and then break up with her and lose all contact. Act as though she meant nothing to you. Imo if you plate her, you'll lose respect for yourself. She lied and manipulated you, she's not worthy of you in any capacity anymore.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:57 AM
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Lol probably not far off from what her friends are saying
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:46 PM
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Women love this one. Such a disintegritious move.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:45 PM
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I know how you feel. After my LTR of 3 years cheated and fucked with my emotions, I felt really guilty for allowing that to happen. For almost 8 months after I kept replaying things she would do and say but I would get more angry at myself, instead of her cause I didn't have strong boundaries and integrity. The key for me was finding a purpose (new hobby, career, fitness goals) and hanging out with friends regularly. Hanging with friends made me laugh more and just get in a better overall not su…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:10 AM
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The hardest thing about my last LTR (of 3 years) was I was just so confused by her behavior. It didn't make any sense to me. She lies, manipulated and was cheating on me for months. When I found out, I broke up and told her to move out. She got suicidal and threatened to kill herself on a daily basis. I was a beta nice guy so I was her emotional tampon for months, trying to make her feel better. The whole time it was eating away at my happiness. The entire time I was helping her not kill herself…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:02 AM
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No reason she should be texted sexual pics to another male. Next her
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:22 AM
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She picked up on that you actually don't want her to go. If she goes A) she is into the guy and values him more than you and B) doesn't care about the potential repercussions from you. Imo if she goes you should break it off. It would just be the beginning of the end
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:20 AM
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I enjoy playing NHL videogame but i always have it muted and try to listen to informative podcasts on audiobooks so at least it's not a total waste
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:57 AM
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Lol she knew she fucked up but she played the victim role to all her friends and texted them all that I was an asshole . . . even though I was really a nice guy beta bucks. After she cheated on me she got suicidal and I helped her almost everyday while she was still living with me. The whole time she was shit talking me and still talking to the guy she cheated on me with (she promised she blocked him). That's when I realized no matter what a woman will twist it to whatever they want so just be a…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:41 PM
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Actually going through similar situation with my LTR. I work 12-13 hour days during the week and just don't have the energy/desire to go out on a weekday night. I try to explain that I take my career seriously and need adequate sleep and rest. When we do go out on weekends I try to be the fun outgoing guy as much as possible. At the end of the day, stay true to your priorities.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:17 PM
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You pushed her back?? Lol dude
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:22 PM
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Damn this is an amazing response
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:27 PM
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Depends on what she's saying about him. If she says anything like, "Bill is so funny. He is like the funniest person ever." Or "Bill is really cool and fashionable. I think you'd really like him." Then it's about over son
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:51 AM
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Victim mentality/no personal accountability is a huge one for me
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:46 AM
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100% agree with brags about being crazy. They embrace being shitty and have zero introspection. Run
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:43 AM
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This. Female cops are hella slutty. Source: had an ex gf who became a cop and cheated on me with half the police force of Las Vegas
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:49 AM
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That's pretty disrespectful of her. If she pulls some bullshit comment like that again just say in a calm tone, "Either you're being ignorantly disrespectful or you're trying to piss me off. Either way I won't stand for that shit. Don't do it again." Then change the subject
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:03 AM
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Abundance mindset when it comes to jobs too. If this is just a temporary job anyway then fuck it just quit and get a different one. That's what I did. My boss was a narcissist who dumped all of her work on me. I was unhappy, overworked and disrespected so I quit one day. Best decision I ever made. Much happier now
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:53 PM
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Yeah I've dealt with a few women like this at work (personal trainer). They look for ways to degrade and disempower men. Hold your frame. They get off on seeing guys get uncomfortable. Act like their negative opinions are worthless to you. They should be worthless to you cause these women are emotionally damaged and insecure enough to intentionally try to put other people down. Adults acting like little children. I've literally stopped training a few clients like this because the $ wasn't worth …
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:46 PM
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This just might be it. Subconsciously you want to change the hoe. Get her to give up her hoe ways and be with you. It's a hell of a validation spike
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:40 PM
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Before I got into TRP and was a blue pill beta, one of most shocking revelations was one my gf at the time (who also ending up cheating on me lol) had a friend from out of state come visit. Her friend looked like a typical nice good girl. She had almost 4.0 GPA (in college), she did a lot of charity work, she was just overall really sweet and nice. Anyway she had a boyfriend back in Colorado, where she lives. That night we went out she came up to us and asked if she thinks she should hook up wit…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:20 PM
1

I live in Vegas. It'll be hard to get in the high end clubs with that dress apparel but XS night swim is super lax and day clubs are a bunch of fun
/r/askTRP19/07/19 07:04 AM
1

I've gotten this before a couple of times. I just replied with something like "nah I just wanted to hang and let whatever happens, happens."
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:40 AM
1

Same. It's refreshing. Excellent post
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:53 AM
8

Honestly if you want unconditional love, get a dog. I'm not even joking. Women will never be able to love you unconditionally. Once you accept that, it gets so much easier to not get oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:57 PM
1

I see no problem here. Hold your frame and she'll hit you back up shortly
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:54 PM
1

Female bartender told me about the glubglub9000 from Call Her Daddy. Apparently it's an advanced blowjob technique. I approve
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:45 PM
4

"You're gonna hate him Then you'll want me Then you'll miss him Then you'll hate me " - Till Dawn from The Weeknd. Great explanation of alpha/beta attraction dynamic in women. ​ Part of her loves the beta guy. He validates her, does special things for her, and probably revolves around her constantly. However she'll be attracted to alphas and eventually cheat or leave this guy for an alpha. Probably this on/off this has been her getting comfortable with him, cheating on him with an alpha, missing…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 01:57 AM
4

What about people that born with terrible birth defects? People with 3rd degree burns, or lost limbs. Fuck I've had multiple friends die. Refocus on gratitude for what you do have.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 11:41 PM
13

It is interesting that she said she's not going to cheat on you but didn't tell him to fuck off or that she wasn't interested in him.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 11:33 PM
1

You can enter a LTR knowing that A) it's just your turn, but enjoy your turn and B) the second the relationship becomes more trouble than it's worth, drop it and go back to spinning plates (just ride it out until it downswings)
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:42 AM
1

After that comment, she doesn't deserve anything above a text breakup. She's lashing out with low blows to get a response out of you. This is just the beginning. Send the breakup text and then ghost her
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:38 AM
5

Is the 3 seconds of pleasure when you cum inside her worth potentially getting your life fucked over? That's a no for me dog
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:04 PM
8

After my ex of 3 years cheated on me I found trp. It took her 3 months to move out and in the mean time I was slowly started to take the red pill. Before she left she tried to act like a complete cunt and essentially blame and berate me for making her feel sad (fucking lol) for breaking up with her. I held frame and told her I'm not buy into her manipulate shit and she can fuck off with it. She suddenly did a 180 and started apologizing incessantly. That was the first moment were I started getti…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:30 AM
1

meh I don't see how its beta. I guess it could be considered beta based on the circumstances but just do what you want to do. My exes best friend was annoying af and I know they used to go on each others Facebook to creep so I just blocked her.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:24 AM
1

Lol women are insane. Honestly never had that happen to me but cheers to you for the lucky circumstances
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:52 AM
3

This. My ex was a borderline and after she cheated on me she threaten to kill herself everyday if I didn't take her back. We lived together so everyday at work I was stressed with if she killed herself. The emotional burden that takes on you is staggering. I was drained for months after. Cut all ties and move on. You don't want to drown trying to save her.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:41 AM
2

Just don't buy into the pity stories she tells you about her ex. Lot of girls use this as a way to play victim card and get sympathy. I had an ex who told me all this crazy abusive stuff from her ex, then later I found out it was bullshit and she cheated on him. Don't believe a word they say when they're talking about their exes
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:06 PM
2

Probably this
/r/askTRP06/07/19 10:53 PM
1

Agreed. Especially about lying about giving her number to another guy just a couple of days ago. Hard next bro
/r/askTRP06/07/19 10:47 PM
2

Dude it would be selfish of you to drop red pill truth bombs at such an inappropriate time to an audience who wouldn't be open to it anyway and would probably be offended by the timing. Don't be selfish. Your speech isn't about what you truly believe, it's about making people (especially bride and groom) feel good. There's times were you shouldn't be 100% authentic. This is one of those. Play your role
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:35 PM
10

This. When a girl sleeps with you on the first date and says "I don't usually do this," just know she's done that dozens of times
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:01 PM
6

Yeah just be totally nonreactive. Who cares if she's fucking other guys? Hopefully you're fucking other girls. Also if you convey that you don't care then she'll chase you more. I'd wait a little bit to hit her up tho. Wait for her to text you to come over.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:30 PM
3

No point in even plating her after that behavior. She doesn't deserve that. You did the right thing homie
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:28 PM
8

She's terrible. She had zero respect for you and the relationship. Don't ever contact her again. Get better friends too.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:49 PM
3

Women are so used to guys validating their emotions and behaviors that of you call them out they will be shocked and probably even a little turned on
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:17 PM
5

Exactly. This guy gets it. When my ex cheated on me she texted all her guy "friends" that I was "being an asshole for no reason." Only way to justify to her friends and potential mates is that her relationship of 3 years ended cause I was an asshole. In reality I was actually a nice guy beta bitch that she used to manipulate and cheat on. Women get rewarded for playing victim role and they would get shamed for cheating on their boyfriend so she lies to everyone to protect her social status and g…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:14 PM
5

Not worth all the headaches. Next her and move on
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:39 PM
1

Say she's your sister and then passionately make out with her
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:16 PM
2

Sounds like you enjoy the process of gaming a girl to fuck you. Nothing necessarily wrong with that. But nothing wrong either with eating the free bread if you're hungry. I think you might as well bang her. Worst case scenario you wasted no effort on an underwhelming lay
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:53 PM
4

Why would it mess with your head? Maybe it won't be as enjoyable as 8 or 9 but maybe with the sexual tension it will be great. You're overthinking this. If you wanna bang her, then bang her but if you don't, then don't.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:48 PM
2

She at the very least was using you to piss off her boyfriend but more than likely you could have made out with her
/r/askTRP27/06/19 08:49 PM
2

Stress management throughout the day. If you make a conscious effort to make people laugh (including yourself) and live in the present those long days become a lot easier.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:48 PM
1

I'm reading How to Win Friends and Influence People right now. If you're feeling a little negative I recommend starting with it. It's definitely already helped me look at people with more optimistic lens.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:19 PM
1

Sounds like you're not happy with current relationship. Maybe have an adult conversation with your husband. Not blaming him, just explain how you feel. Read "Crucial Conversations" if you really want to have a mature discussion.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:04 AM
2

Normal to feel a little nervous about the unknown but j guarantee you won't regret it. Best thing I did was quit my safe, boring corporate job with a bitchy controlling boss. Now I have freedom over my life and it's greatest feeling in the world. Good luck mate
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:48 AM
3

This. I had an ex cheat on me and then spread lies about me to her friends. I was so fucking confused why they all hated me at the end until I found out.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:36 AM
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How a women will warp her logic into something insane to justify cheating
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:25 AM
3

No joke read How to Make Friends and Influence People and then put out yourself out there
/r/askTRP24/06/19 11:42 PM
2

Man's Search for Meaning You Are The Placebo The Go-Giver
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:03 AM
1

Good post. I've often thought about food truck $ potential.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:37 PM
3

Lol bro I'm actually a personal trainer. I spend all day in a gym
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:37 AM
1

Don't stress too much about potential red flags that might pop up later. But also don't fantasize about a perfect marriage ahead. Sounds like you are really happy with her. Just live in the present moment and enjoy it
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:05 AM
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Bro you tried to save him. It's on him now. I wouldn't push too much further as it might affect your social group. Sometimes you gotta let people get their heart broken to learn a valuable lesson. Just be there for him when he finally realizes who she really is
/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:00 PM
8

Don't do it. My previous ex of 3 years was BPD. For the first year she was pretty good. She was calm, sweet, funny and seemed normal but when she moved in with me the change in her was dumbfounding. She was a genius with manipulation and setting up lies. She cheated on me with multiple guys. After we broke up she was "suicidal" in my house on a daily basis for attention and to put stress on to me. I had to talk her out of suicide on a daily basis the whole time she was still cheating on me, maki…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:07 PM
1

Ev is horrendous. It's a joke that he's an instructor. He talked about how he was depressed cause he was hooking up with a married girl that decided to go back to her husband. Wtf did you expect bro?
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:30 AM
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