Ltr is a bit of a loser. Not many friends and quite insecure. Works with males mainly and all very very beta. Recently she asked me about potentially be invited to party by male colleague and asked how I feel about it. She prefaced it with a truth, that she doesn't have many friends and it would be nice to meet new people at the event.

However, as we all know betas orbit. She doesn't text the guy nor does she even have him on FB. There's literally no chemistry and he's got no game.

My issue is this she's asked how I feel about it. I said optics don't look great but I don't care and mentioned what if I did the inverse. She said she saw my point but that she trusted me. I said cool.

Then I withdrew slowly. She noticed. I said nothing wrong I'm tired. I gave her some attention and now I've withdrew again. She's going fill hamster about the whole thing to which I keep saying I don't care go ahead.

What's next course of action. She's going to go regardless of what I say. Should I care or is there anything to be done.