Hello,

New to this group, and this shit is starting to make some sense to me. The. biggest problem is getting out of the OneItIs mindset. I was blue pill as fuck w/ trying to be all loving and caring and the best bf ever and that shit was not it. How do I get or at least try to make an attempt of getting out the mindset? If there is not a valid answer, can someone guide me in a direction in which it will be of value. I really struggle in this fucking area and typing it out I can see already that it is beta as fuck.