Hey guys.

Have you ever had a case where you are actively hooking up with several girls but still get oneitis for a particular one?

In my case it comes 50% from sexual chemistry and 50% from the girl being "hard to win" in some other areas, and me getting stubborn about it. I rationally know I can find another one just as good, but on a deeper level I'm obsessed about getting validation as a socially acknowledged partner (from a girl who is socially successful), and have an "admitting defeat" feel about nexting.