I'm 28, and have been RP since about October last year. I was in a relationship and was trying to go the MRP way but she wasn't able to adapt to my changes and we're no longer together.

I've always had performance anxiety, there hasn't been a single first lay with a girl where I haven't gone soft. When I'm in a relationship I'm usually alright unless I've been super stressed and can't focus.

I went and had my testosterone levels checked a while back for good measure and I'm all good there.

Anyways, long story short. Chatted up a girl on POF yesterday, got her to come over for drinks. Everything went great until half way through when I went soft because it seemed like she stopped enjoying it. Of course when that happens it snowballs and gets worse. She was cool though, sucked me hard and rode me untill she got off then sucked me until I nutted.

She was cool with it because my SMV was definitely higher than hers, but I've got a lot of girls I'm going after that are right around my level of basic physical attractiveness who might not be. And I don't want to have to rely on LTR's for my dick to cooperate.

Has anyone else had experience with this? Overcome it? Is it just something you get comfortable with after time?