I'm in college just for a frame of reference. I wanted to know some of y'alls opinions on this. Some of the dudes I know don't even hang out with girls really, they just go to lots of parties, use social circle game and eventually smash. Because of the fact that I can't dance, I can't be that huge social circle guy just yet. What do y'all think about using parties to get laid vs just hanging out with them and building sexual tension until it eventually leads to something?