Passive aggressive men.

gleeeshy · 2020-08-12T12:29:32+00:00

"moves around" ?????

Here's the secret. People are only gonna act this way towards you out of jealousy. Think about it, you never would get aggressive with a fat ass greasy aspie gamer neckbeard because he is so below you it would only serve to bring you to his level. People start shit with those that they view as competition. Thus, the better looking and more successful you are, it gets easier to get girls, are harder to make dude friends.

draco19901 · 2020-08-12T13:13:35+00:00

What can men do in a competitive world, if they are face to face with a "better" man if violence will bring about penalties, either from an ass-whooping, or from social sanctions?

The real problem is that he is your brother, and not some random jerk.

You should probably try to hash it out with him and have him channel his aggression elsewhere. He needs an outlet for it, and it shouldn't be you. An actual punching bag is an ideal tool.

PepinoSF · 2020-08-12T23:06:34+00:00

man to man natural competition. if you are stonger, beat the shit out of him for respect ONCE. if you are weaker, then put up with his jerky whims intil you move out

deeznutsbeswingin · 2020-08-12T12:26:03+00:00

I mean really it’s just proof that your frame is so far beyond his that he doesn’t even dare to talk to you straight up. You’re going to deal with a lot of this from men, and the best way I’ve found is to keep them down by ignoring them unless they communicate overtly to you.

To everyone else it will be obvious that you are a god and he is a wiener because he will make passive aggressive comments to others too, but the fact that you don’t give a fuck or even acknowledge him sends you straight up the hierarchy

PopePalpatineTheWise · 2020-08-13T03:45:52+00:00

I've had this experience in my prev work place by a white knight who was pissed at me, and he started crying after I told him that if this continues he's going to get in trouble with our boss, which I am extremely tight with.

He cried after that lol. These types of men can't handle direct conflict so they act like a weasel. I've learned to just force the situation in such a way that they HAVE to be in conflict with you. It's kinda risky and it takes balls, so there's that con.

Tell him that you will beat his ass (or whatever consequence) if emails get deleted regardless if he admits that he's the one that did it and you force things to escalate to conflict, and now you two have no choice but to enter the frame battle, which hopefully you will win.

Title	Passive aggressive men.
Author	WasteSpinach4601
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	August 12, 2020 12:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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