Hi. I would like to know what do you think about situation, when both male and female know each other Facebook and other passwords.

I started my LTR when I was young and immature, I was very jealous, so... I wanted her Facebook (and not only) password, because I wanted to check what is she talking about with friends. I gave her my passwords too. Now I try not to control her, but sometimes I do it. She does it too, but... I have almost no friends, she is trying to find some new mates. She is kind for them, so I'm becoming jealous again.

I don't like when she is reading my messages, but I don't know if I could stand without possibility of reading her talks with her male friends, because she often is different while talking with other males than when she is talking with me.

Should I say that we have to change our passwords or let it be like it is?

Edit sorry for chaotic text