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I got the idea that this 38 years old coworker was hitting on me...do you think she was sending clear signals she wanted the dick? She might have been or she might not have been. She's a co-worker and in light of the #MeToo movement you should steer clear.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:41 PM
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Because Mexico is still traditionally conservative compared to the United States. Feminism hasn’t hit Mexico as hard as it has the US and Western European countries. I bet this would change in a few years if Mexico finally stamped out the drug cartels and government corruption.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:02 PM
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Sure thing man! I'll post on the front page to let everyone get a hold of it
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:57 PM
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Could be one of two things: 1) She’s an introvert. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. I’m an introvert myself. What this means is that I can only handle so much interaction with other people before I get super tired and need my alone time. Extroverts are the opposite. Being around a ton of people give them energy and being alone does not. Introverts also value person-person conversations more than person-group of people conversations. They prefer deeper conversations with other people rather th…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:03 AM
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Nailed it. The most effective way of breaking a habit feedback loop is to interject something that gives you similar or equal payoffs. A habit feedback loop essentially works like this. You think about looking at porn, which leads to you looking at porn, which leads to you masterbating, which leads to releasing a shot of dopamine. The dopamine will wear off eventually and later in the day your body will want more, leading to the thought of you wanting to watch open again. Breaking it looks like …
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:17 PM
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If you have the voice and time why not? Ha
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:36 PM
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Not that I know of. I don’t think this was a legitimate published book. Looks like it was just self-published
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:31 PM
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Just uploaded my copy for you. The link is good for 7 days. Enjoy! https://ufile.io/1t6kb
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:25 AM
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That wasn’t a slight neg at all. It was pretty aggressive. Should have said something like, “Make sure you wear those sexy sweat pants for me again.” Calling her a bum was pretty much that
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:16 AM
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Looking at your post history and seeing that you started to post on TRP and ASKTRP about seven months ago, I'm assuming that's when your marriage started to go downhill? From this post it seems like your wife cheated, breaking your self-confidence. It's ok. You can always rebuild yourself. If your wife cheating on you is the reason for your divorce then I want to give you some advice. I'm not married, never have been, and I don't have any children but maybe I can give you some clarity to help in…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:47 AM
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First thing, you should take some time to work on your spelling, grammar, punctuation, and structure. This isn't me trying to shit on you, just trying to give you some advice. It is supremely important to learn how to turn ideas into effective and clear writing. Doing so will help you not only communicate with others a lot better but will do wonders for your learning journey Second, I don't think you've read any of the stuff on the sidebar or any of the recommended books. Your teacher wasn't bei…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:46 PM
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He’s right but he isn’t describing the entirety of TRP ideals. What he’s describing are men who don’t get themselves out of the ‘anger phase’ after finding TRP. These men will bitch and moan about how unfair the legal system is, label all women as cheating whores, try to find the ‘unicorn’ virgin etc... If you stick around here fo a bit you’ll find meaningful advice from men who got themselves out of the anger phase. They understand and accept the biological and societal co-evolution that got us…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:22 PM
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And count all the sperm cells just in case you’re missing any
/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:38 AM
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Dread. The only way she will start making healthier changes is if she sees you getting attention from other women as a result of you getting fit. Don’t try to push her to hit the gym since it’ll backfire on you. Just do you. Hit the gym, fix your diet, get better clothes, and talk to other women while you and your girlfriend are out with mutual friends. She’ll turn around quick
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:12 PM
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They’re just covering their asses. The case has NOTHING to do with you personally and I don’t think future jobs will ask you about it.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:56 PM
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You should try it out with women and let us know how that turns out for you
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 10:03 PM
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He owned up to whipping his cock out multiple times in front of women without consent. It was an open apology letter. You can’t get more factual evidence than him fessing up to it. Louis C.K. Responds to Accusations: ‘These Stories Are True’https://nyti.ms/2hreoUH
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 07:28 PM
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The same tactic that feminists have used countless times to destroy the careers of men they didn't like blew up in their fucking faces, and they can't handle it. As a result, they are lashing out at any all all successful men and tearing their careers down as surrogates for Trump. #metoo isn't some great cultural shift or civil rights movement, it's a bunch of crybaby cunts throwing a massive temper tantrum. No, the #MeToo movement was not started because they couldn't bring down Trump. It was s…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 08:46 PM
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Read the book “People Skills” by Robert Bolton. I used to be like you until I put these skills to practice. Completely 180 life turn.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 08:02 AM
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Yes, by definition Frank Underwood is a cuck; a man whose wife has sex with other men. The dynamics of Frank’s and Claire’s relationship though is based on gaining power at all costs and if both have to have sex with other people to achieve it then it’s just the price they have to pay. Frank is no way a stoic or pragmatist. Realize that this is a tv show and shouldn’t guide your personal behavior or beliefs though. Frank and Clair are written as extreme Machiavellian sociopaths. These types of p…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 07:45 AM
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You’re right. If the marriage has already gone to shit then there’s really nothing a man should do to try and salvage it. He should have done this way back in the relationship. She’s always far gone in the marriage. She already sees him as weak. My advice should have been followed early in the relationship. Honestly, he’s far gone now. Best thing is for him to move one, be a good father to his kids, and rebuild his life
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 07:22 AM
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Good on you for leaving a toxic relationship. In some ways your ex mirrored your mother so it’s understandable why you stayed with your ex for so long. It’s the only kind of love you’ve known so you were naturally attracted to your ex. I’ve also read your previous posts and I have to say that you have some work to do to sort yourself out. You seem to get jealous very easily over some minor things. Now bare in mind that I don’t know you or your relationship 100% but reading how you were constantl…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:27 PM
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Wow you’re incredibly insecure and possibly a little gay. “Big, juicy dick”, really dude? If you want a virgin move to an Arab country. Your views on women are incredibly flawed
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:21 PM
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God fucking damn. I had to check my balls to make sure they didn’t shrink from all the estrogen spewing from your post. Cheated why you were apart? That’s not fucking cheating. You were broken up! You’re operating within a broken frame. You’ve lost her respect and adoration. You’re not her boyfriend. You’re her safety net, the backup when Chad pumps and dumps her. Get rid of her and focus on self improvement
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:33 PM
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Hitting the gym will raise your confidence once you start seeing results. Take a before picture and another every few weeks to see your progress
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:57 PM
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1) How old are you? 2) Are you lifting weights? 3) Get your hormones checked out. Low testosterone can cause mood swings in men. Confrontation shouldn’t make you cry. Low test could be a symptom of this 4) Start a martial arts program. Jiu-jitsu or mma in general is good since most fights end up on the ground. 5) Start journaling. Writing down your thoughts can help you make sense of what’s going on in your brain
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:49 PM
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If you were aggressive then I would suggest sitting her down and letting her that you love her and want the best for her. Apologize if she feels like you stepped over a line but let her know that you’re always there to listen.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 10:12 PM
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You’re going to end up pushing your sister away for being so controlling. Just be there for her, friendly to him, and watch out for any signs of abuse or whatever. You’re the bigger brother. Set an example of what a confident man should be
/r/askTRP16/10/17 10:01 PM
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Who gives a shit. Ignore it and let the fire burn out. No use in circle jerking over this.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:54 PM
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Can you still use a rowing machine? How about swimming? Both can help you lost fat without using your legs too much. How’s your nutrition?
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:38 PM
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Are you renting the house? If you own it is it in both your names or just yours? If just yours then you have the legal right to kick her ass out
/r/askTRP12/10/17 04:10 AM
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Ehh that’s a red flag for me if she has to ask why you wanna hang out. It says she’s not interested in you and is questioning your motives. Unless you’re a pro it’s going to be nearly impossible to break her frame when she’s already this tightly wound up.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 10:01 PM
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What the fuck is a chiropractor going to do about scoliosis?? Surgery is the only way to fix that if he's past puberty age
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:04 PM
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What the hell is your question? Wondering if you're blind? Dude yes! You knew what was going on before children ever got into the picture and now this woman is going to be part of your life whether you like it or not. The signs are all there. You just don't want to believe them
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:01 PM
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You've just described the Green River Killer's method of killing his victims
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:57 PM
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You're not responsible for what any of your ancestors did. We're all responsible for our own actions as free individuals. Take it from a first generation Mexican-American who thinks white guilt is bullshit. Do you think I lose sleep over the thousands killed in sacrifice by my Aztec ancestors. Or the natives killed and raped by my Spanish ancestors under colonialism? Not at all. It's not my responsibility. Unfortunate that it happened but I'm not flogging myself in repent. Of course your brother…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:49 PM
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Compliments go a long way in opening a conversation. Something simple about what she's wearing or her hair or whatever. Plus there's always the chance you'll make her day so even though you may not get a number at least you did your good deed for the day.
/r/seduction09/10/17 05:03 PM
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Because you clearly have not read any of the recommended books are side bar content. Everything about you screams blue pill beta. Do your homework, realize she ain't shit, and then come back
/r/askTRP03/10/17 06:03 PM
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A few thoughts: 1) You don't have abundance mentality since you're obsessing over a chick who doesn't even want to see you face to face 2) You're giving her all the validation through your online flirting so she has no reason to see you face to face. 3) If she does have anxiety, why would you want to date/spin a girl with a mental disorder that is so bad that she can't even leave the house? 4) If she doesn't have anxiety then she doesn't like you I don't see anything positive in the things I pos…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:33 PM
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No problem. Btw this technique works on both men and women because it speaks to the need for humans to be listened to, understood, and accepted.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 08:13 PM
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The book goes into how to reaffirm emotions but basically you repeat what she says in a different way. For example she says, "Ugh I'm so annoyed at my mom for not letting me go out last night." You would say, "Yeah you're frustrated that your mom isn't letting you be an adult." See how it's the same but different? When you reframe your statements like this it tells her that you understand her and are actually listening to what she's telling you. I wouldn't apologize for shit. You didn't do anyth…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 03:18 PM
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Get a referral from your general practitioner for an endocrinologist or a urologist. They'll run blood tests and rule anything out
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:34 AM
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You can't use logic to explain yourself when women think emotionally. Work on your interpersonal skills. Part of that skill involves affirming her emotions so it makes her think you understand her. Read People Skills by Robert Bolton. It's a great resource for this kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:07 AM
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Maybe it's a hormonal issue. Get tested
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:05 AM
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1) Tinder, Bumble, and all other dating apps are crap. They just serve to validate a woman's narcissistic needs. Even if you manage to land a date the odds are that she will ghost you in the end. You're better off meeting women at the gym , fun events, etc... 2) You're one of many dicks. What else can you offer her? I don't mean financially since you would be playing straight into her biological urge to find men with large resources. I mean physically and life experiences. Are you lifting? Are y…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:03 AM
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It seems like she's taking all the necessary steps to try to deal with it. She seems to have a good head on her shoulders and a great family support system. The question is how does it make you feel? Are you emotionally capable of handling the fact that she was raped? It seems like you were okay with her being LTR material until she mentioned her past. Now the RP hive mind with probably say something like, "Bro, you don't know if she was actually raped or that she drunkenly fucked Chad at the fr…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:05 PM
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If she doesn't make an effort to improve then you have to ask yourself if she is someone you really want to keep long term. Last chick I dated absolutely hated giving head. You could see it in her face that she thought it was a chore. Even went out of her way to post a chick article on Facebook about why blowjobs suck. That little fling didnt last long ha
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:13 PM
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Don't feed the troll. She keeps asking the same questions and ignoring the answers. She's constantly blocked by the mods but she always comes back with a new account. She posts these questions on all RP related subreddits
/r/askTRP24/09/17 08:01 PM
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Sounds like a sleep disorder. If it bothers you this much I would suggest having your doctor refer you to a sleep specialist
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:53 AM
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You read the fucking sidebar including The Rational Male
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:47 AM
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Give the dude a copy of The Rational Male and ghost that chick. Too much drama
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:04 AM
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/r/seduction21/09/17 06:53 PM
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Fuck off, you have not idea what you're talking about. Dreams are dreams. No one has any control over them. To suggest he next her for a fucking dream shows both immaturity and ignorance of TRP
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:20 PM
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It happened. Nothing you can do to reverse it. While humans have an evolutionary mental barrier for incest yours was totally by accident. Remove it from your mind and just go on as whatever. Don't be awkward around her. You being stoic about the whole thing will put her at ease during family gatherings. Just don't get too sloppy drunk and tell people
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:37 PM
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I wouldn't even bother with her anymore. Both your ex and former friend are toxic people. Nothing good will come of it if you decide to keep her around.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:32 PM
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Unless she sees that you're getting a shit ton of attention from other girls then not picking her up isn't going to register in her mind how Alpha you are. Just that you're a lazy dude who won't bother driving 20 minutes to hang out. She's already into you. You won. You don't have to play hard to get. Pick her up and show her a good time. Only way you'll be beta is if she starts using you for your car i.e: running errands all the time without giving you sex/withholding attention.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 11:22 PM
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Holy fuck. Just pick the girl up, take her out, bang her, and the take her home. How the fuck is picking her up beta?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:54 PM
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He's gotta face and fight his dragons on his own. At this moment he's complacent and comfortable at being a dropout in life. Let him. Time passing or a traumatic event will occur and he will sink to rock bottom. That's where he'll find if he has the strength and will to change and improve
/r/askTRP25/08/17 02:31 PM
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"I've developed the tingles for her...I just want to lay in bed with her and cuddle...she showers me with kisses...I look like a needy bitch" Jesus fucking Christ OP. Have some self-respect for fuck sake. Are you even dating this chick?
/r/askTRP16/08/17 08:19 PM
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He's right OP. There's an 11 year difference between you and her. Up to now she has been used to high school boys/college freshman at the bottom of their SMV. At 30 you're starting yours. I'm assuming you have a career, a car, and a decent apartment. That's all new to her. She doesn't know how to act in front of a self-actualized man. At her age she's going to want to experience new things. Make her excited to see you whenever you guys go on dates. Plan fun and adventurous ones. She'll appreciat…
/r/askTRP16/08/17 02:48 AM
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Hrm maybe you can slowly turn this into a future threesome with one of her friends.
/r/seduction15/08/17 06:05 PM
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Do you fucking homework then. You come here asking for advice and I'm giving you by-the-book advice from the founder of TRP ideals himself. If you don't want to listen and practice what works then go ahead and fuck your relationship by being the little bitch that your are. Do you want to hear us tell you "No fuck no. Tell her she can't do it" ? Do that and then come back and let us know how that backfired on you
/r/askTRP14/08/17 07:14 PM
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This is classic mate guarding and, as u/Rollo-Tomassi says in his new book "Positive Masculinity", is one of the best signals of what makes a beta a beta. You're insecure about yourself and mate guarding basically tells her and other women that you are a jealous and weak male. The best cure for this is abundance mentality. You need to develop a strong mind and body and talk to other women, especially in your girlfriend's line of sight. This will help you develop a personality that subconsciously…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:40 PM
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No don't ask her why. Going out on the weekdays is tough because people have to work the following morning. Just tell her that you can't make six and reschedule.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:30 PM
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Maybe she wants to get home in time for Game of Thrones. Who knows man. She may have other plans or maybe she doesn't hang out too late on Sunday's because she has work in the morning. If you can't make 6 then reschedule
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:23 PM
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I'd fallen on hard times but I never put all my troubles on my friends. Every time we've hung out when I was depressed I've tried my best to enjoy their company. It has helped bringing me out of my funk even for just a tiny bit. In the end they have to go home and so do I so my happiness is on my hands alone. Even in my lowest of lows i have recognized I've needed outside help and sought it in the form of medication and therapy. This is the only way OP's friend can do to change himself if his fr…
/r/askTRP13/08/17 08:41 PM
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Change comes from within man. Your friend has to have the drive to feel better. You can't help him do that. He has to come to that realization. If anything you could tell him to take a good look at himself and ask why any woman would want to be with someone so unhappy. If your friend can't find the drive then I suggest you take a good look at Law 10. Even in your post I see that his depressive personality is taking a toll on your own happiness. Law 10 Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky: Yo…
/r/askTRP13/08/17 04:25 PM
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Join some after school clubs or a sport. It gives you an excuse to spend more time out of the house. You're 16 so I'm assuming you're a sophomore. Two years until you graduate isn't a long time. It will pass quickly. In the meantime try looking into colleges outside the state
/r/askTRP12/08/17 09:12 PM
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Women won't know you have abs until your shirt is off. Even then if you're just skinny then those abs are not abs, like huge titties on a fat girl. Bulk up
/r/askTRP10/08/17 05:27 PM
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Who cares? Your bosses know you're more than capable and know that she sucks at her job. When you do finally manage her don't give her any slack
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:47 PM
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If you have to ask yourself these questions then you really haven't swallowed the pill
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:11 PM
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Red pill car?? Wtf. Don't use your car to mask any imperfections you perceive you may have. Women don't give a shit about cars. Only men. The only thing you're projecting is that you're beta bucks
/r/askTRP09/08/17 10:47 AM
2

Very common. People tend to move away from hanging out with their friends because they want to spend every single second with their bf/gf. That's dangerous for obvious reasons. You're putting your entire happiness on the whim of one person and you lose friends that took time to cultivate. Your significant other should complement your life not revolve around it. Consider yourself one of the lucky ones for feeling the way you do. It takes a significant heartache before you realize TRP truths. As f…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:30 PM
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Read The Rationale Male before you read the sidebar. Most redpillers tell new guys to read the sidebar first but I think that's a mistake. Treat the sidebar as supplementary to The Rational Male. Anyways, here's my take. even though we live in different countries very far from each other Obviously first mistake. Relationships are extremely difficult if not impossible to be in if both people are far away. Look at the number of military divorces. Women won't stay loyal when she's surrounded by you…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:17 PM
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Jesus fuck, have you done any of the reading??
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:28 AM
2

I have a prescription for it for day time sleepiness. I don't use it every day, just when I didn't get enough sleep or know work will drain me. It doesn't give me "Limitless" kind of focus and drive. Just makes me feel "normal" like I used to be when I was younger. I concentrate more on it but it's not like Adderal.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:22 AM
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Instagram hoes. It builds their Instagram if they're tagged in his photos
/r/askTRP07/08/17 04:22 AM
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1) He inherited a fortune from his father 2) He's a former SEAL member 3) He's very good at poker 4) He pays models to spend time with him for photo shoots. This creates the illusion of popularity, high SMV etc... 5) Building a large lifestyle and promoting it well gives incentives for stars to hang out with him It's smoke and mirrors man.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 04:08 AM
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That's ridiculous. Read Sex God Method. Whoever gave you that advice is a an angry moron who hasn't done his homework
/r/askTRP06/08/17 05:58 PM
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Well no. Enjoy the company you keep but never forget your primary goal of improving yourself.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 02:36 AM
1

"Oh I didn't know we were friends" "Yeah, you're right. You'll fall in love with me so hard it'll ruin your life when I don't feel the same." Etc...
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:45 PM
1

That's because they're men. They will outright go after anyone they want to fuck. You should learn from them by going out and hitting on women. Waiting to get hit on by a woman is something women do when they want to get hit on by men
/r/askTRP05/08/17 04:30 PM
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Also do not tell her shit. Saying "We can't be friends" beta as fuck. That broadcasts to her that you're mentally weak because she got to you so easily. So what do you do? You ghost her. No texting, no nothing. Live your life
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:42 PM
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It depends on the context. Did you just go for the kiss after heavy flirting or did you just randomly try to kiss her?
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:27 PM
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Only way is to be a content creator with those kinds of posts. Pussy is easy to get so I don't put as much value to it as a lot of guys here. Self improvement is where it's at. Pussy can come and go but time is wasted if I don't use it to better myself
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:04 AM
1

No, you failed the shit test when she told you she just wanted to be friends
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:02 AM
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Only if you know you won't give a shit when she starts dating someone. If you lose frame she will forever lose respect for you
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:02 AM
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Because she's a woman. Women won't give you a direct and logical answer like men do. They hide it under emotions. It's a survival mechanism from our evolutionary history
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:01 AM
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She's expecting you to chase her and you'll lose if you do
/r/askTRP05/08/17 07:59 AM
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What the fuck is your question? All I'm reading is how much of a lazy bitch you are. If you're not willing to put in the work to improve yourself how do you expect us to help you? Man the fuck up kid because you'll get eaten alive here.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 07:37 AM
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People naturally gravitate towards outgoing and confident people. A social hierarchy naturally develops around men who display these qualities. An introvert CAN have those qualities in social settings but their tolerance for social events is lower than those who are extroverted. This may or may not negatively affect your social standing amongst your group since you're more likely to leave once you hit your energy expenditure limit. As long as you don't become a stranger over time you'll be fine.…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 01:09 AM
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I'm an introvert myself. I love hanging out with people, going out to bars, talking to women etc...but being social takes a lot of energy out of me. I value my time alone where I can read, meditate, and enjoy my overall solitude. Don't beat yourself up about being introverted. I recommend you read the book "Quiet". That book really changed the way I see my personality type.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:23 AM
1

Try variations of your squats, add accessories, and stretch out your IT bands, hamstrings, and quads. Use weightlifting shoes and knee sleeves if you can. Example: Front Squats Partial Squats (1 inch below or 1 inch above parallel but don't lock out at the top. Keep it tight throughout your reps) Pause Squats at the bottom Romanian Deadlifts Volume Volume Volume (Example: 40 reps at 70% of your 1 rep max. Doesn't matter if its 1 set of 40 or 40 individual reps. Just get it done.) IT Band Foam Ro…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 07:34 PM
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Cold? Eh, you were worried and males naturally want a logical and direct answer when women prefer a more emotional ride towards the answer. It was tactless for sure but if you're not planning on seeing this girl again then don't worry about. Not worth losing sleep over. If you plan on seeing her again so you can possibly plate her then I would invite her out to a happy hour to re-establish banter
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:37 PM
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Chances are she wasn't pregnant and took your $250. Or if she was then it wasn't yours. Women aren't just ok about getting random abortions. They're a serious decision and can fuck them up emotionally. Aside from that you lost your frame. You told yourself you could do better but here you are drunk calling her. She still sucked your dick but you still have the feels. This is Oneitis 101. You need to meet new girls and not settle for this one because she's easy pussy. Either soft next her if you …
/r/askTRP04/08/17 03:17 AM
0

This is his mother we're talking about. Not some random bar ho. She pays the bills
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:48 PM
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This guy is barely starting community college. He lives at home. He said his mother is obsessed about being clean. You don't think she'll have an issue with her son getting a blowjob by some random ho? Don't shit where you eat especially when you eat at your OCD mother's house
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:45 PM
5

Fuck that. You need to fuck his shit up
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:57 PM
1

How old are you? You seem like you're about to finish high school. What were you doing? Just making out or full on banging? The "alpha" thing to do is to sit her down and talk to her about it. Apologize that she had to see whatever she saw and that you promise not to bring over girls to her house ever again. Her house, her rules, respect them. Then to break the tension say something like, "Hey at least now you know I'm not gay!"
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:56 PM
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Definitely. Young black men are looking up to these guys as their heroes. All it will do is get them hooked on opioids, in trouble with gangs and the law, and perpetuate poverty and violence in their neighborhoods. At least Tupac had a political conscious.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:26 PM
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DMX ran into some drug and legal issues that has set him back. He's no longer on a major label but he put out an album not too long ago. Dude looks like he's wasting away
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:12 PM
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Look at how beta Jay Z has gotten. Beyoncé is the alpha in that relationship. I'm assuming you mean the new breed of trap music known as "mumble rap" coming out of Atlanta, Chicago, and New York. I can't say for sure but I think it's a combination of the influence of southern accents and abuse of codeine cough syrup. Add in a little ghetto fabulous flair and you have rappers like Chief Keef, Desiigner, Migos etc... Gangsta rap isn't dead. The west coast is still holding on strong. Look at TDE an…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:44 PM
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Feminism is big fucking money in the entertainment industry. I work in the music industry and I've seen it first hand with Beyoncé hijacking the feminist narrative for profit. Masculinity is seen as toxic so you can't make money off of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:48 PM
2

*Her reason is because she said she needs to find her independence, figure out what she's doing with her life, and re assess at the end of the month if we will get back together. She's moved in with two of her best girlfriends. Now she "just wants her space." Sorry man but this means she wants to fuck other dudes but still keep you around just in case she can't snag an Alpha for a LTR. You need to hard next her. No contact at all. Hit the gym, reconnect with male friends, and hit on women
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:54 AM
3

I was told to post here because you guys give real advice. I'm going to stop you right there because I'm tired of having guys come to this subreddit without doing any of the reading and expecting us to fix your life in five minutes it takes to respond. Read the following books in this order: The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar This subreddit's sidebar Do the fucking work. We can't make you not be needy. That comes from w…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 08:31 PM
2

There is a section in the book "Practical Female Psychology" that answers this dilemma. "Materialistas are primarily motivated by material wealth, by money, prestige and the power that such things bring. An inexperienced, tactless Materialista may easily get upset at the suggestion that you split the bill on dates, whereas a more sophisticated Materialista may actually bait you by offering to pay on occasion, knowing that you will be compelled to pay later when it really counts.3 You will easily…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 08:17 PM
2

You don't MAKE them breakfast. You TAKE them out to breakfast and you pay for it. That gives you evidence in the form of receipts and video evidence from the restaurant security cameras.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:26 AM
1

I can relate. You're an extroverted introverted. You like being around people but you need time to receiver afterwards. Read the book "Quiet" and then let her read it.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 01:36 AM
2

Hands down the best book for social skills is "People Skills" by Robert Bolton
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:34 PM
3

I'm going to assume you mean guys who go full blown angry misogynistic. These guys are in the extreme end of the 'anger phase' of The Red Pill. While this phase hits men differently it will usually pass after more TRP reading, acceptance, and action. It took about 2 weeks for me to get over this phase. I wasn't full blown angry but more disappointed in myself for not realizing this sooner. It might take some men way longer to get over this phase. This phase is prolonged because instead of improv…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 08:02 PM
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Join a league sport. I joined a rugby team without ever knowing how to play. They taught me everything. Get yourself a hobby. Learn how to play an instrument or work with your hands (leather work or carpentry). Doesn't matter what it is as long as you enjoy it and it makes you happy. For example learning how to cook is a masculine trait. Not only will you be able to save up money instead of eating out all the time you will be able to impress women. Learn how to practice mindful meditation. Read …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:31 PM
3

You're not feeling oneitis coming on. You full on have it. Abundance mentality man. Stop obsessing over this one chick and go hit on other girls. This will have two effects. First, you'll see that women aren't anything special. They can be as conceited, vengeful, and opportunistic as anyone else. Secondly, hitting on other women will naturally raise your self esteem and shut down any thoughts of pedestalizing. Read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi and then supplement with the side bar. You h…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:33 PM
2

She will want dick eventually and she will have no problem getting it in a new country. Prepare yourself for a break up and don't do or entertain the idea of a LDR. Have some backup plates in hand so you don't find yourself drunk dialing your gf and letting know how much you miss her.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:40 PM
1

Sure, even modern African tribes will chase down their food until it collapses of exhaustion but tools, like the bow and arrow, made such high caloric expending type of hunting unnecessary.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:38 PM
4

Humans are not natural carnivores. We lack the teeth and physical characteristics to chase down an animal and kill it. BUT we have the innate capacity to create tools that allowed us to kill such animals. Fact is meat eating triggered an evolutionary path that made it easier to process fats and cholesterol and had the effect of making our brains larger. We're omnivores At the same time humans have only been farmers for a few thousand years. That is not enough time for us to be able to process hu…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:49 PM
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Exactly. That concept disappeared with birth control and the sexual revolution in the 1960's
/r/askTRP30/07/17 11:47 PM
3

Wholesome girls? You're not going to find them. Look up the madonna/whore complex. You want a conservative virgin woman you can ravage in the sheets. Shake yourself from this mindset
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:47 PM
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She'll just end up leaving you again and you'll be even more messed up. She's not mentally stable. Seems like her emotions are a roll of the dice. If she's not contributing to your life then cut her out
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:26 PM
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Tell him to fuck off. Where does he get off telling you how you should act and think?
/r/askTRP29/07/17 05:53 PM
1

Read The Rational Male, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and Practical Female Psychology. Supplement with the side bar
/r/askTRP29/07/17 05:46 PM
1

Then it really depends how you feel about the whole thing
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:25 PM
1

Look up your local Crossfit gym and hop in for a trial. You'll make both female and male friends. Plus since you're a firefighter I'd imagine you're fit already so you'll catch the attention of the dudes there.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:29 AM
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Don't let money problems keep you away from your education. You'll make more money in the long run if you have that diploma. I can't help you since I don't have experience in this situation but I've read similar stories in the personal finance subreddit. Check the legal subreddit too. These guys can point you to state or federal programs that can help your family out.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:27 AM
1

How old does she have to be over the age of 16? Is it a day, week, month or year? Just some legal loophole I'm trying to think of. If it's illegal then you can't just ghost her man. She's 16. She's going to get hurt, confide in friends, or worse her parents. If worse comes to worse you'll be reported and have to answer to the authorities. "She told me she was 17" isn't a legal defense. Keep treating her the way you've been treating her. Since she's 16 her views on love are still through rose-col…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:23 AM
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This is a mine field many men fail to cross over carefully. You're a man so you naturally want to protect what you have. Have it be money, property, or women, men will fight to the death to keep these things. It's in our nature. Since we no longer operate in this state of nature we have to operate in subtle ways. You can't just tell her that she's not allowed to talk to her ex. That will make you seem like a jealous beta and chances are she will tell her ex that your jealous of him. That would b…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 10:46 AM
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GLO is right. Your biology is causing you to subconsciously see her as unfit to breed with. Males are naturally detested by high n-count women because that means the probability of you passing on your genes moves closer to zero with every guy she fucks. Since her extreme validation requirements mimic this evolutionary trait you are naturally detested. You're a red pill man. Plate her, don't develop emotions, and take her social media validation with a grain of salt. Just don't care about it. But…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 10:10 AM
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Couldn't agree more. You have to use subtlety in implementing your red pill knowledge. A sudden change like you have shown will shock anyone, Male or female, at the new you. Glad you're swallowing the pill at such an early age. Some of us weren't that lucky
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:51 AM
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Congratulations Rollo! Can't wait to grab the kindle and audible versions once they're up
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 02:47 AM
1

If you find out that it's not porn then get your hormones checked out. Especially your testosterone
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:08 AM
3

You just answered your own question. He owns his own business (provider role), makes women prettier (validation), and bangs all the hot girls (lover role).
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:02 AM
2

Yeah they're good for the occasional fuck but I wouldn't keep them as plates or even consider them for LTR. I also don't wanna shit where I eat. Would suck if I had to switch gyms because some crazy lifter chick got her feels hurt.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:27 AM
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There's a huge tattoo trend amongst female crossfitters, Olympic weight lifters, and powerlifters. After dating a couple of them I've noticed that fitness + tattoos = emotionally scarred or immature women. I don't mind a small tattoo here and there but when I see a female lifter with huge thigh and shoulder tattoos I automatically think of red flags.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 01:30 AM
3

Pretty great
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:56 AM
6

Emotion: war movies, your favorite sports team loses, family member's funeral, your son or daughter come out as vegetarians/vegans, you hit a new PR at the gym No Emotion: Anything else
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:48 AM
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1) It's a dick move to be blasting music. Use some god damn headphones. 2) Who gives a shit if your sister has decided to drop out of life? She's necessarily not mooching off your mom if she's helping out once in awhile. Focus on yourself
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:12 AM
3

Yup, his hobbies are creating natural dread in her. It's either that or she's projecting the fact that she cheated him. In her mind if she can cheat then so can he.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 04:57 AM
4

This is the ideal plate my friend. As long as you don't date a girl who wants a poly relationship you're golden. You're literally cucking their boyfriends. Enjoy it but wrap it up
/r/askTRP24/07/17 04:47 AM
1

Eh it depends. How close are you with her? Is she just a tinder date or someone you've known for awhile? Personally, I wouldn't give a shit about her. She read my text and didn't reply to me for over a week? Fuck that. I have better things to do
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:51 PM
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Think of it this way. You had 13 years to work on yourself and your happiness and you threw that precious time away pining over a woman that didn't reciprocate. Whatever, doesn't matter, you can't get that time back. What you can do is ghost her from your life. Whatever fucking pedestal you put her on is composed of what your ideal version of her is. That's not her. She's human and therefore not a unicorn. She's selfish, vindictive, manipulating, and self absorbed like all human beings are. Get …
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:47 PM
1

Think of it as Plato's Allegory of the Cave. Blue pillers are happy living in their blue pill frame of mind (being in the cave). There's nothing wrong with that. Red pillers want much more than what that philosophy offers though (getting out of the cave) and they can be as happy if not more than them.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:59 PM
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Exactly. She threw you a softball and you let it strike. She was already interested in you. No need to play hard to get. You should have told her to "meet you here at this time". Since you flaked when she texted you it's your turn to ask her out.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:06 PM
2

If I could distill the core philosophy of The Red Pill I would say it's about taking care of your happiness before taking care of others.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:02 PM
1

Look at Jack Donovan. I don't agree with his political beliefs but I admire his outlook on like. He's a gay man that hates gay culture. He appreciates masculinity and detests femininity. He still gets it on with guys but does that mean he's feminine? No
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:33 PM
1

Other than the racial overtones it seems like you're jealous that the guy was more alpha than you. Develop an " I don't give a shit" frame of mind. As long as she's not still talking to home then why does it matter? You weren't in the picture back then
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:25 PM
1

Shows her I have a social life and continuing texting with a bumble match isn't my priority. If she was already a plate I probably wouldn't have told her my plans
/r/askTRP23/07/17 03:24 PM
2

Cultivate a frame of not giving a shit. Stoicism helps
/r/askTRP23/07/17 06:07 AM
2

You don't have to drop the girl in order to be red pilled. Take charge of your life though. Let her know through your actions that you value your personal time dedicating to personal improvement etc...
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:59 AM
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I'll give you an example. A few weeks ago I was hit up by an HB8 on bumble. She was a fit red head. We texted and flirted and I eventually got her number. We texted over the phone but told her I would get back to her the following day since I was going to a baseball game with some friends. The following day I hit her up and asked her out to brunch for Sunday. I was hit with a "read" but no response. Whatever no big deal. She later hit me up apologizing and told me that she already had plans. I r…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:55 AM
2

A dog will always be loyal to you. Will she? A woman that doesn't love animals is a huge red flag in my book
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:25 AM
2

The concept of a plate means that you have to keep "spinning" her if you want to keep her. Pass her comfort tests and her shit tests and you'll be fine. If you're not emotionally invested in her and have no problem if she leaves then good. She's a plate.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:24 AM
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Does it matter? Why worry about it? If a girl doesn't text me back right after I text her back then fine. I'm not gonna ruminate about it to the point that it ruins my day. My time is more precious to me than wondering what a woman is thinking for not getting back to me.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 05:22 AM
5

What are the names of these studies?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 09:11 PM
2

You're letting a woman make you consider dropping your source of income. This about this. You're too wrapped up in feels that you are willing to sacrifice your job just so you can't see her. Stop it. Go read The Rational Male
/r/askTRP22/07/17 09:07 PM
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You can't brush stroke this to an entire community. Unplanned pregnancies is rampant in the black community because poor black communities have less access to methods of birth control than other populations. Just because health care exist doesn't mean they can either afford it or have easy access to it. A lack of quality home life and eduction also contribute to making poor reproductive choices like foregoing the use of condoms. I think these women in that video and women today do not want to ma…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 09:05 PM
1

Why would you fake believing in God and showing interest in going to church? These two things aren't prerequisite to finding a good girl. If anything you would be lying about who you are and that facade will crumble over time. Also, going to church isn't proof that a woman is pure and chase. You have a madonna-whore complex. You want a woman that is virgin in appearance and behavior but a complete slut in bed. That doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:44 PM
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I've wondered myself for years. I've read about Oscar Wilde and Churchill and how naturally witty they are and wondered if it was nature or nurture. I think wittiness at their level is something unique to their personalities. That doesn't mean of course that you can't cultivate wittiness yourself. Over the years I've learned to become quick on the draw and be funny through a few ways. 1) Read up on popular culture. What is relevant at this current time? Reddit is a gold mine for this. Be current…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 03:26 AM
1

Knowing about foreplay and actually doing it are two separate things. If you haven't put theory into practice it's all going to go to shit if you get a girl to bed. Most guys cum right away during their first time. Not saying it will happen to you but the odds are against you. Rather than being preoccupied on getting plates you need to lose that virginity first. Whether it's a drunk one night stand or a hooker you need to lose that monkey off your back before you consider the option of plates.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 09:48 PM
2

I have a feeling that the "feels" prevent them from seeing women past LTR material
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:55 PM
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Probably because these guys are closer in age to her than me. I'm 30 years old and it would be absolutely easy for me to control a 19 year old plate who steps out of line.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:47 PM
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I can see nights where he comes home from work and gets berated by his wine drunk, and Xanax addicted alpha-widow.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:41 PM
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She's pretty, tall, blonde...and has nipple piercings at age 18. Sigh, I'll do you a solid and take her off your hands
/r/askTRP20/07/17 07:16 PM
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I don't understand your question. Are you asking, "How can you get plates as a virgin? or "How can you get virgin plates? For the first question. No you can't. Or at least it will be tremendously difficult for you because you have no experience in sex or women in general. As a virgin you probably don't have any game or have mastered women's social cues. To establish plates you have to be able to impress them enough to go out on a date with you AND then impress them enough after that to go home w…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 07:04 PM
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Depends on the woman. I know for a fact that one my plates is only fucking me. The second one I'm not entirely sure but I really don't care. I don't have any feelings for her nor do I fuck her raw.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 06:45 PM
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We're witnessing the making of an Alpha-Widow. Almost married Chad but threw it away to fuck Chris Brown. She will compare these two guys with every new guy she dates. She will settle for nothing less for years until she realizes she's lost her beauty. She will then settle for a beta bucks while trying to catch young dick in her 40's
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 06:38 PM
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No, my plates don't know that I have multiple girls but they know that we're not in a relationship though. I always wrap it up and get tested for HIV and STD's every six months. It's the responsible thing to do.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 06:13 PM
4

You suck at active listening. Read Robert Bolton's "People Skills"
/r/askTRP20/07/17 05:43 PM
1

I've given out copies of The Rational Male to friends I know would be open to reading it. I would gladly send him a copy
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:33 PM
2

Make an appointment with your endocrinologist and get your testosterone checked out (check it the testosterone subreddit for more test advice). You'll want to be optimal.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:04 PM
2

Yup! Can't call the man beta just cuz he's married
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:52 PM
12

Rollo himself is married and he wrote the second book of The Rational Male for married couples.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:33 PM
1

Have you read The Rational Male? When I first read the book it gave me such a cold and hard realization about how everything worked. Put me automatically in the anger and regret phase but it also made me a man of action. I stopped putting women on pedestals and started looking for #1.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:22 PM
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Holy fuck dude. You have some reading and internalizing to do. Read The Rationale Male and then ask again. You clearly haven't done any of the reading. Shit, it seems like your oneitis has swallowed it before you have
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:32 PM
1

Will do. Next time I'll put my comments after the post paragraphs. Second, kill me or her in that subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:18 AM
25

A platonic sleepover isn't worth spending $150+ a night in a hotel for though
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:50 PM
57

Good note! If a woman ever brings up rape from her past it's best to just cut your losses. Don't risk it
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:48 PM
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Her behavior wasn't immoral. AWALT man. Nothing she did crossed any ethical boundaries. In fact, it satisfied all her primal needs. Women seek protection in the form of goods and services that a man can provide. A man's primal need is the need to procreate. They both acted within their biologically implanted roles. Only difference is that she got what she wanted without giving him what he wanted. She came out on top. The issue here is that she gave the him the repeated allusion that she was goin…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:54 PM
14

It was deleted after she got mostly negative comments. Couldn't take the criticism
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:37 PM
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She ended up deleting her account after she got destroyed by redditors there
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:18 PM
1

Awesome. Best of luck man!
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:08 AM
2

You gotta do your research man. Reach out to the local bar association, google lawyers in your area and filter out the ambulance chasers
/r/askTRP17/07/17 10:19 PM
11

Fuck, ok you'll need to lawyer up. DO NOT TALK TO ANY POLICE WITHOUT ONE. Getting a lawyer isn't an admission of guilt. It's to protect you from career hungry police officers wanting a conviction. All contact between you and the police will be done by him. Make sure your lawyer is a man
/r/askTRP17/07/17 10:13 PM
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Tons of armchair lawyers telling you go sue the chick. Don't listen to them. Have a lawyer in mind but don't go seeking services until she presses charges. Most like@ely they'll tell you to monitor the situation and get back to them if it gets serious. From your post it doesn't seem like she wants to press charges but keep the high moral ground. Most likely she felt like a whore coming over and getting fucked. She didn't enjoy herself so now she's trying to rationalize like it was your fault and…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 09:45 PM
1

The Rational Male should be your next book. I highly recommend you read it first before hitting the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:00 AM
5

Stop being a passive aggressive bitch and just tell her not to leave her dirty clothes on the counter.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 07:57 PM
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That's not a thing with women. They branch swing if they meet someone better than you. They can be all about you one day and not care the next day. I doubt you've read any of the required reading. Before you read the sidebar get yourself a copy of The Rational Male and then supplement with side bar stuff. You haven't swallowed the pill. Hell, it's not even in your mouth yet.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:07 AM
1

Carbs tend to make you bloated so it's why they can make rounded cheeks puffier. You don't have to be below 15% body fat to have defined cheeks but it does help. Short term low carb helps
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:56 PM
1

No. Cheeks are defined by genetics. For example I have rounded cheeks. The only way for me to make them more defined is to stick to a low carb diet so my face looks less round. I'm a powerlifter so carbs are my fav. I can sacrifice cheek definition for strength gainz
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:29 PM
1

Also keep in mind that you will not see any noticeable gains unless you take pictures at regular intervals. Something like once a week or so.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:26 PM
1

Yes, shes emotionally abusing you so you think that she is the best you can do. Google "Signs of an emotionally abusive relationship" and see how many signs she displays. You have to be stronger than you are.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:41 PM
1

This statement speaks louder than anything you have written. You are willing to suffer through a relationship you dont want to be in with a woman who is clearly emotionally abusing you because you don't think you can get other women. Let's face it. If other women were pining for you this relationship wouldn't have mattered. You would have branch swung to the next best thing. Abundance mentality man. Talk to other girls and find one that meshes well with your personality. I've been in your shoes …
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:48 PM
2

Buy him a copy of The Rational Male. It's up to him to decide if he wants to read it
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:41 PM
10

You act. Simple as that. You work constantly to improve yourself by hitting the gym, reading as much as you can, saving for your future, and enjoying your life. All these years you have put women on a pedestal putting all their needs above yours. Now is the time to love yourself and focus on what makes YOU happy. What you're feeling is pretty common here in TRP. Most become angry but fine become depressed. It'll pass
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:06 PM
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You're a fucking loser. I'm Mexican-American, proud to be, and do just fine with women of all ethnicities. You're not a scientist so stop pretending you've made ground breaking research on the concept of race. Mexico has a ton of problems that prohibit the country from truly modernizing like its first world works counterparts. The drug trade, corruption, modern diseases like obesity and diabetes, falling GDP due to a world wide decrease in the demand for petroleum etc...are just some of the issu…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:30 PM
1

Yeah man. Even after a year I still had dreams about her. The pain will subside though. You don't have to block on Facebook. Just unfollow but you should stop following her on Instagram. Doesn't matter if she notices
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:20 AM
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1) Definitely! Her doing that should tell you that she's really into you and wants to make you happy. Surprise her with something romantic. Doesn't have to be over the top but enough that tells her "He knows me as a person and us as a couple." That's gonna make her heart pussy wet. 2) I got ya fam: http://vincent.mucchielli.free.fr/PUA/PUA/The%20Ultimate%20Texting%20Guide.pdf
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:59 PM
5

Two things. One is the rule of three and the second is Sex God Method. 1) For every two lovey things she does you do one. 2) The Sex God Method encourages emotional connection during sex because women are wired to respond emotionally to it.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:35 PM
2

I can tell you with 100% certainty that every dude here, at least the ones that take RP seriously, have experienced the same thing you're going through. I know I did. I had dreams about my ex that were essentially nightmares. I would wake up feeling anxious and depressed leading to my entire day being ruined. What you're going through is akin to PTSD. You're body has become so accustomed to the feelings, love drug essentially, that you're ex gave you. Like a drug addict coming out of a withdrawa…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:29 PM
2

Preach. Swole dysmorphia
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:09 PM
1

Look up how habits are created and maintained. It's all about making something so routine that it just becomes natural to you
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:05 AM
1

It all started with a list of goals in mind. Write down what you want to accomplish over the summer and how long it will take you. For starters: 1) Quit playing League of Legends: start weaning yourself by limiting how much you play. Go from 3 hours to 2 hours and then to 1 until you don't feel like you want to play. This might take you a week or two Video games, in my opinion, aren't all that bad if they're in moderation. Nevertheless, grinding games like WoW and LoL are built to suck all your …
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:54 AM
3

Monk mode is the probably the best first step for anyone new here. Dedicate yourself to reading the recommended books and then hit the sidebar for clarification.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 04:42 AM
2

Seriously, this fucking idiot comes here asking for advice knowing damn well he didn't read the sidebar or even peeked through Rollo's book. All these text messages just show how much of an emotional beta this dude is. Silent treatment, making her guess why he doesn't want her to go etc...for fuck sakes let your balls drop.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:37 AM
2

Yes! My all time favorite motivational movie. I'll watch it when I need a little pick me up
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:00 PM
1

An IUD can fall out and women respond differently to birth control pills. They can cause nothing or cause giant hormonal swings. Even if she finds that birth control doesn't cause her any issues you cannot be 100% sure she is taking them regularly. This is especially true for a woman who is not used to taking a pill every day by a certain hour. It's fair for you to ask her to get on a a birth control method but realize that it's her body and therefore her decision. If you really love the girl an…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:06 PM
5

There's a huge difference between being a nerd and being a geek. You can be a guy who is into anime, computers, gaming, or whatever else is considered nerd culture and still be fine. I'm a fan of One Punch Man, Cowboy Bebop, Vampire Hunter D, and Ghost in the Shell but you will never catch me going to an anime convention dressed up in cosplay. It's not my thing and they're completely filled with fat neckbeards and legbeards. I also have an active Steam account and still play video games as stres…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:00 AM
55

Paragraphs man. It's the fundamental structure of the English language. I can tell you that no one, including myself, will read your post unless it's structured
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 01:39 AM
2

I use the Quickbreeze. It connects straight to your faucet so you don't have to worry about constantly filling a reservoir. Plus since it's always connected you feel obligated to use it every time you brush your teeth. It's honestly changed my overall oral hygiene for the better. My dentist always gushes and gives me compliments on how healthy my gums are. You can get it on Amazon for like $34
/r/askTRP26/06/17 11:16 PM
4

It's depends on what stage of life you're in. The older you get the harder it will be to cultivate such a tribe. People move away or get married. Marriage will kill any weekend outings for men. That being said I wouldn't recommend for you to wait until you hit your personal goals. Join a social team sport on your city. I joined a rugby league when I moved to my current city. Didn't matter if I never played before. They taught me and I gained a close knit group of friends. Same thing with grad sc…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 09:26 PM
8

You're absolutely right about them having mental issues. It's extremely difficult for anyone to get out a deep depression. I can relate. I've dealt with my demons too. The most important thing, and a true test of inner strength, is when to realize you need help. There is no shame in telling your doctor you're suffering from depression. Taking a pill or two every day is perfectly fine if it gets you out of the dark and into improving yourself. Over time a person can wean themselves off of medicat…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:24 PM
45

That 'ideology' is complete bullshit. Anyone can improve themselves if they have goals and the motivation to complete them. If you are thinking of following this nihilistic and pathetic ideology I suggest the following goals before making that leap: Get a gym membership Find an appropriate gym program (even if its one you have to pay for) Log everything you eat in MyFitnessPal Get a decent haircut Buy good looking and inexpensive clothing Read up on charisma and body language Meditate Use water …
/r/askTRP26/06/17 07:39 PM
2

People Skills by Robert Bolton Charisma on Demand The Definitive Book of Body Language Magnetic Charisma
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:25 AM
1

Because the majority of people don't have them. Nevertheless, I'm sure you can find dating services that cater to such diseases. I know a few dating sites allow you to advertise your STD status and what not
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:23 AM
55

"The Red Pill doesn't have to be reasonable grounded in reality or relevant to the interests of it's community." Except that is what the Red Pill is trying to do: to show men the reality of male-female sexual attraction and relationships. This is the common interest of this community. Anything else is tangential or completely unrelated. If red pill doesn't have to be grounded in reality then what the hell are we doing here? "Furthermore if the Red Pill only tangentialy fights Globalism it could …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 03:33 PM
315

This. I live in DC and this meetup idea sounded great until I saw "resisting globalism" there. Red pill is a sexual market strategy but guys have been using it to support alt-right nonsense with no basis in reality.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 07:33 AM
4

How did you pick her up when you're so insecure? You sure you didn't pick up a hooker by mistake? You sure you're not gonna get jumped by some dudes for you cash when you go see her? The reason I also ask is because what kind of women I votes a random dude off the street to bang her later in the day?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:54 PM
1

You again?? For fuck sake give it a rest.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 05:29 PM
1

These guys are the kind of guys who haven't swallowed the red pill yet. The story of the guy getting over a break up by whoring around, drinking a lot etc... is as old as time. Look around this subreddit and you'll see that the majority of us got over a bad breakup by doing all of these things. The only difference between us and unplugged guys is that we refused to continue the same cycle of love-breakup-drink/drugs-love by delving deeper into the dynamics of Male/female relationships.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 06:31 PM
3

You should judged her on her actions. Be wary of any red flags that may pop up in the relationship though. She may seem well adjusted but her home life had an important part in shaping who she is now. Also, be wary of any of her family members trying to leech off of you because you're dating her. Don't let anyone borrow money etc...
/r/askTRP17/06/17 05:00 PM
1

I don't think this is a shit test since her family is giving her all the negativity. She's not giving you the shit test. I would accept what is happening and keep her at a short distance. More like a close friend than a love interest. Of course you should escalate if it starts to go stale. Especially is she decides to visit you. Let her do her thing with her parents and you focus on yourself
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:35 AM
5

Oof this was painful to read. The relationship between you and your father took a hit but it's minor. You are his son so he'll love you no matter what. He may question his parenting skills and wonder where he went wrong in the short term but it will pass. Everything will eventually return to normal. You violated probably the most quoted Rule of Power here on the subreddit, Rule 38. Rule 38: Think as you like but Behave like others If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unc…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:20 AM
8

A key point in Red Pill theory is that LDR are not relationships. Men should never get into them. The fact that she's 21 also means that she's at the beginning of her peak of maximum SMV and will be getting attention from guys that are a lot closer to her in distance than you are. You cannot guarantee that she will remain faithful when you live far away. That being said nothing good will ever come from this relationship if her parents are constantly nagging her to break up with you. At the same …
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:46 PM
1

Going bald is tough for any man but it's not the end of the world. It doesn't automatically make you the lowest of the low in SMV. Charisma, weightlifting, hygiene, and dressing nicely will outweigh that all the time. Here are a few natural bald alphas (celebrities), bald alphas that are not famous, and some bald betas. Steve Austin http://www.wwe.com/f/styles/wwe_large/public/rd-talent/Bio/Steve_Austin_bio.jpg The Rock http://shop.wwe.com/on/demandware.static/-/Sites/default/dw29757933/images/s…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:20 PM
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Like everyone else has said; it's in your head. Your self-esteem is holding you back. You being short and bald isn't a big deal if you're confident in yourself. Personality trumps looks. Look at Neil Strauss. That guy is short and bald and yet he literally wrote the book on pick up.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:39 PM
1

Who cares what anyone else thinks? You're so young now you have your whole life ahead of you to go back to school. The military will give you money to save, medical benefits, and the GI Bill. Take this time in the Airforce to discover who you are as a man. I'm about to turn 30 this year and will join the USMC after I graduate from grad school next year. I wish I joined when I was younger.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 08:06 PM
21

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. Sadly your brother is going to have to crash and burn wth this chick to fully understand RP theory. Just be there for him when it happens.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 08:01 PM
2

Send me a PM with a picture of you and I'll give you my honest opinion and advice.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 07:03 PM
1

4 plates usually means 4 plates on both sides. 405lbs and not 225lbs. 2 on each side would be 2 plates and not 4
/r/askTRP26/05/17 11:17 PM
3

Unless you have a micro penis you're fine man. Most women don't care about the size, only on how you use it. Why bother with size-queens anyways? Women who want bigger dicks are probably whores anyways
/r/askTRP25/05/17 11:44 PM
3

I automatically thought you were a neckbeard when you started to refer to people as "normies". You need to work on your frame of mind. Everything you said is not as bad as it seems. You're creating it in your mind. Marcus Aurelius wrote, "The things you think about determine the quality of your mind. Your soul takes on the color of your thoughts." If you're always thinking about how bad things how do you think your outward appearance will look like? Most likely you will look angry, depressed, sh…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 06:09 PM
2

Found it http://vincent.mucchielli.free.fr/PUA/PUA/The%20Ultimate%20Texting%20Guide.pdf
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:22 AM
2

I think there's a post somewhere about texting game. Some PDF called "The Ultimate Texting Guide" by Tyler Tray. Should be something worth checking out
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:00 AM
6

They're probably Facebook friends or they have the same friends. In any case if she actually said that I would agree and amplify with amused mastery. Something like "Damn, you found me out. So much stalking." Then go from there
/r/askTRP24/05/17 01:45 AM
5

A "hey how's it going" text will be seen as hell thirsty. Say something like "I heard you're back in town! Let's grab some drinks/coffee/lunch. I would love to catch up"
/r/askTRP24/05/17 01:20 AM
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Figure out your macros and stick to the recommended calories: https://www.iifym.com/iifym-calculator/ Download MyFitnessPal and keep track of EVERYTHING you eat People here recommend strong lifts. I also recommend that program but if you're absolutely new to working out then pick a program that shows you how to perform the exercises with perfect form. If you can spare the money the I would sign up for one of Powerathlete's programs. I love their Jacked Street program. If you can't spare the mone…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 01:18 AM
6

You have no concept of history or strategic military thought
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 08:43 PM
1

Holy fucking shit. I take back all my previous advice. It's not going to work in your situation and might even come off as sociopathic based on what you did. This is classic "niceguy" behavior. You need to go monk mode, read up on Rollo's book, and focus on not being a creep.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:15 PM
1

No prob man. Glad I could help
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:19 AM
1

Don't let that bother you. She's just a drop in your ocean. A crazy drop at that. She sounds like a handful and you don't need that in your life especially while you're in school. Apologizing to him will only make you look weaker. Brush it off and just go on with your days
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:11 AM
4

Live and learn. Don't apologize. Just act like you don't give a shit. For future reference don't shit where you eat and go after single girls. Getting a girl to cheat on her bf for you will only lead to problems in the future
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:58 AM
1

Pick a good workout program and stick to it. I'm currently on Powerathlete's Jacked Street and augmenting it with Marine specific workouts. Look it up. It's a great investment
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:51 AM
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Yes. I'm currently 200lbs but cutting to 175lb in preparation for the Marine reserves as an officer. I'm confident I'll still have an aura of masculinity. It's all in the mind man. As long as you're confident you can pull whoever you want.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:41 AM
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You don't even know if it's actually yours. She's a giant fucking train wreck. It wouldn't surprise me if she was a fucking other dudes on the side
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:39 AM
3

I don't understand. You tried to fuck someone else's girlfriend?
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:36 AM
1

Dread. Start taking pics of you having fun with female soldiers. Nothing too risky that could be misconstrued as possible cheating. Think of pictures that suggest you're nothing more than friends. Your wife will eat that shit up
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:27 PM
4

Abundance mentality. Ignore her and find other girls. You're in the beginning stages of oneitis with this girl
/r/askTRP21/05/17 09:54 AM
15

Ignore her, don't text her, and move on. That better snowflake?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 05:26 AM
1

No prob man. Best of luck in your journey
/r/askTRP21/05/17 05:05 AM
8

You're on this sub asking us what you should do about this girl. I've told you. Move on
/r/askTRP21/05/17 05:03 AM
1

The red pill subreddit can be very toxic. The loudest contributors tend to be alt-righters with specific opinions on race. That's not, in my opinion, what the red pill is. If you read Rollo's work or any of the other established writers on red pill philosophy you won't find anything about race playing a significant factor. Take anything written here or in the redpill subreddit with a grain of salt. A lot of these guys are still in the anger phase and misplace this anger in superficial ways. That…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:29 AM
1

Any chance you can get a same day visit on Monday? Some primary care doctors can pull that off
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:22 AM
1

The only question you proposed in your rant is if anyone has ever felt lesser for the race they were born into. The answer for me is no. The moment you start questioning your race is the moment you've already lost
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:19 AM
3

Since you have a short period of time to get this fixed I suggest going to your doctor and just asking for a prescription for viagra or cialis. Be honest on why you feel you need it. In the long term you need to look at your sleeping, eating, and workout habits. Additionally you should make an appointment with a urologist or endocrinologist to rule out any hormonal issues. I'm a big proponent of having your hormone levels at optimal levels.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:17 AM
0

She's a professional and I bet having to see and grab a bunch of dicks every day is gonna turn her off. Your dick is fine
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:14 AM
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I'm 5'7 Mexican-American dude living in an age where "Mexican" is a dirty word. I manage to do fine with women of all races including white. My last serious relationship was with a 5'10 blue eyed blonde bombshell. Work on your inner game, your physique, your grooming, your social skills, and your clothing. You'll be fine
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:12 AM
14

She's your fucking ex dude. Let it go. What can you honestly gain from keeping in touch with her? She's reaching out because she wants validation from someone she knows will give it to her. Move on
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:09 AM
1

No idea man. I wasn't really close friends with him
/r/askTRP18/05/17 09:06 PM
2

Look up the app Headspace. It's a subscription app but it provides you with a free 10-day trial. It guides you through mindfulness mediation starting from beginner to advanced. You can keep doing the 10-days over and over again
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:16 PM
1

I think this subreddit is unnecessarily angry because most posters are still in the anger phase. That phase can be short like it was for me or super long like some of these posters. He was a model in NYC throughout his early and mid 20's. He moved back in with his parents when his girlfriend broke up with him. She was also a model but didn't see a future with him. Male models have a short life span and make little money. I think she shacked up with some hot shot millionaire. While back with his …
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:30 PM
3

You read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP16/05/17 10:25 PM
2

Like Rollo said, "The one who has the power is the person who needs the other the least." This is the polar opposite of oneitis. Care about you and if she wants to be a part of your self improvement journey then fine. Just don't get too emotionally attached. She's not yours. It's just your turn. Read The Rational Male
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:45 PM
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I know this guy who actually was a model for Calvin Klein. Super fit, handsome, and extremely social. He's currently in the Air Force as a combat search and rescue (their special forces). He worked at my gym before he joined the Air Force. It wasn't just his good looks that got the attention of everyone but the way he acted. He was super friendly and made sure everyone felt included in whatever was happening. We weren't friends or anything but he definitely acted like we were when around people.…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:44 PM
2

Abundance mentality which you clearly don't have. She's not a plate if she's the only one you're spinning. Even if she was you two are not exclusive so she can do whatever she wants. You clearly have oneitis. Remember that she's not yours, it's just your turn. Practice soft dread by flirting with other women
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:37 PM
7

No no no! You don't shit where you eat!! Especially when she's a client. In your boss' eyes you cost him money while she, as a client, brings in money. All it takes for you to lose your job is her telling your boss that one of his employees sexually harassed her.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 01:42 AM
1

Fat and unattractive women tend to make the move instead of the other way around. Because the guy is so beta that he won't approach girls that are attractive he's relieved that a woman would approach him. He gets sex, she gets commitment and life goes from there.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 01:39 AM
3

Lift, dress well, work on your skills and hobbies, read everything and anything you can (even things you may not agree on).
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:39 AM
81

This is just retarded rambling
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:55 PM
2

Read The Rational Male. Rollo nails it in the first chapter that "there is no The One. There are good ones and bad ones but there is no such thing as a soulmate" Stop putting her on pedestal. You're acting like a pussy. She should be the last thing on your mind
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:17 AM
3

Great story man! I think your story would be a great example of what men should aspire to. We need to add this to the must read section. I can say almost everyone in this subreddit has experienced what you've been through and they would learn tremendously by your example
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 09:26 PM
2

I don't know what you've read but if you didn't read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi before anything else you're gonna be confused about the red pill. The Red Pill isn't shit from the_donald or alt-right subreddits. It's a theory on gender dynamics in the face of feminism masking itself as progress.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:46 AM
7

She doesn't exist to you anymore. Why spend all that energy trying to pursue her? Enjoy the day and talk to other girls in front of her. Show her you have options but don't try to do that with the goal in mind of trying to get a second chance with her
/r/askTRP04/05/17 10:05 AM
29

If it's the first time just say "Ok, not prob" If it's the second time say something like "Ok" and let her contact you to reschedule. If her cancelations were legit and she's actually interested in seeing you then she will put in the effort to see you If she cancels the third time then you say nothing and hard next her
/r/askTRP03/05/17 08:12 PM
1

I get the same comment from time to time. People get surprised when I feel them I've never served. My guess is that they see your improved physique, improved personality, and a walk that yells out confidence and a sense of direction. Not a shit test. Enjoy it
/r/askTRP26/04/17 02:11 PM
1

You can't accurately interpret low IOI's if you didn't initially approach her. In her mind she's just there to enjoy the movie and everyone around her is a stranger. She's not going to broadcast indicators of interests with this mindset. You need to kick this approach anxiety in the ass through exposure. I know Neil Strauss is in the realm of pickup artist but following his daily missions in "The Rules of the Game" are great for getting over your anxiety. His missions have you from realizing the…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 04:16 PM
2

Look up "Radical Acceptance" by Tara Broch, "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle, "The Power of Self Confidence" by Brian Tracy, and "Stoicism for Beginners" by Gregory Moto These are great books to help you change your mindset and become more goal oriented
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:56 PM
1

Smile direct is cheaper than Invisalign or braces.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 10:02 PM
-2

With the logic then every legitimate news source is fake news since they have clear biases. I'm saying that you have to question what they are peddling.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 08:29 PM
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CBS isn't fake news you moron. It's left leaning for sure but it isn't in the same league as Breitbart, Infowars or any other conspiracy site. Read a variety of news outlets and make up your own mind instead believing whatever flavor of the week politician tells you. That being said I don't have any sympathy for this chick. She came looking for a fight and she got one. I don't care if you're left or right of center. If you look for a fight you better be aware of the consequences. I pity the moro…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 06:27 PM
1

Here are my favorite books: 1) The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi 2) People Skills by Robert Bolton 3) No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover 4) The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle 5) The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar 6) Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:57 PM
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She's not going to commit suicide. That's a technique crazy girls use to get you to stay with them. If anything it should serve you as another red flag since 1) it shows she's insane and 2) she's emotionally abusing you by making you think her 'suicide' would be your fault. Stay strong. Two days isn't too bad. Try to limit your time around her. Go to work, hit the gym, grab dinner with friends. Only time you should be at your apartment is to get some sleep
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:35 AM
1

That's just D.C. man. I live in DC and most girls are like you described. The hotter ones are also social climbers since they're in a city full of lawyers, doctors, politicians, and policy wonks. You'd want to stay away from those women
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:59 AM
2

The more you workout the less sore you will get. Incorporate active recovery days and cardio days in between your lifting sessions. Using a hot tub or soaking in hot water with Epsom salts also help
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:49 AM
8

There's a difference between hard science and soft science. Climate change is backed by hard scientific facts. It is in the realm of irrefutable hard science. Red pill theory is a sociological theory and in the realm of soft science. That means that red pill is one of many theories that can explain the behavior of humans. There are not hard facts l, just tools to use depending on the situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:11 AM
4

Yup. Fuck this guy
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:08 AM
7

You're in no position to call anyone a beta. You're acting like a child. Read the side bar and the recommended books. Hit the gym, fix your diet, and learn some new skills. Bitching about your low SMV is not going to get you anywhere on this sub. Be a man of action not a man or emotion.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:03 AM
8

Jesus dude. Take a giant breath and take a few steps back. You're in the anger phase
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:29 AM
1

You're becoming too available so when she seems uninterested your brain automatically switches to dread mode. You need to do the same thing. You're working in a very difficult field to get into but now you're in the thick of it. Your life has become much more interesting. Talk to other women, develop an abundance mentality, and don't bee so available to her. Do you. Let her come to you
/r/askTRP10/12/16 10:00 PM
1

Oh man try being Catholic growing up. The man is shamed constantly
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:24 AM
1

Yes and no. Women would love to snag a man who makes six figures AND is an alpha. Yet TRP is filled with examples of men who make jack shit but end up stealing the women of men who make much more because they're more alpha. Would you discount a guy in JSOC making $54,000 a year for some beta cuck accountant making $90,000? 9/10 a woman would pick the SEAL over the safe beta until they hit the wall
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:07 AM
2

Great post man. The earlier in age we can educate men the better.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 05:56 PM
2

And that is up to the individual to choose or not to choose to do
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 07:23 AM
10

I wish that was the case but any deviation from the hive mind will quickly be down voted. Best advice I can say is educate yourself on the principles of TRP and give honest and helpful advice to those that look for it. I typically tend to stay away from all the negative posts because they're useless. Unless of course I want a good laugh
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 07:12 AM
2

Trying to "fix someone or a situation" can be something that was ingrained in us as children. Children who see their parents fight feel powerless to fix the problem so they take on this entire guilt growing up. Once they have stability as adults these former children will try their hardest to restore the stability that was absent during their childhood. This can take the form you described in the post. It's difficult but you have to just let go. Her issues are not your own and no words or action…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:44 AM
6

Passion quickly dissipates without reason. Go lift, stop being a beta bitch, spin plates, AWALT, make money all seem like passionable advice but they're useless at face value without explaining the why of it all. This is why understanding the core TRP principles is important.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:15 AM
2

I'm all for a red pill bar miztvah. Seriously though Rollo hits the nail on the head. All cultures have a right of passage that signifies the transformation of a boy to a man. The Masai tribe goes on a lion hunt, the Naghol from Vanuatu do land divings, Native American tribes go on a vision quest, Fula tribe boys whip each other in a test of strength, and the Amazon Satere-Mawe make gloves filled with bullet ants that boys have to wear and endure. I can keep going on and on. Western society now …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:09 AM
43

I completely agree with your post. I keep seeing postings that espouse arguments that are not found in concrete TRP literature yet are instantly upvoted because they fit the angry and loud narrative. I can't help but laugh when I see even endorsed contributors post ramblings without coherent structure and a core thesis yet are swallowed like TRP truth by members. If anyone really wants to understand TRP I suggest looking at the suggested readings u/AsianAway posted two years ago and then formula…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 05:52 AM
2

All humans are driven to a certain extent by their primal instincts. Humans essentially have three parts to their brain. The brain stem regulates crucial bodily functions like breathing, eating, sleeping and so on. The neo-cortex is responsible for higher thinking that separates us from animals. The amygdala is the emotional center and the fight-or-flight response. Testosterone can influence aggressiveness but not as much as you think. My testosterone levels are high but I'm not out getting into…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:26 PM
1

If reading TRP theory isn't helping you then talking to a therapist to get to the root of your issue probably will. There is no shame in seeking someone to help with your depression. Think of it as a temporary phase in your path to becoming a better man. As for right now you should block her/unfollow her from all social media so you don't become tempted. If you find yourself falling into the same angry and depressing mindset then leave wherever you are and take a walk or take that anger out on t…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 05:09 PM
2

Yup! ZMA
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:13 AM
1

50mgs
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:13 AM
1

Yeah I was worried about that too but I haven't had any problems. I think they would have surfaced within days of taking it though. In any case they are reversible
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:56 PM
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50mgs of Clomid every third night. I'm 29 and before Clomid I think I only really wanted sex once a week like you did. Now I'm checking out women left and right and want to fuck like crazy. That's a plus but the important part for me was the slow progress I was making at the gym even though I've been going for years. Its been like night and day now. Going 6 days a week and my body is responding well to it. I recover quicker than I used to. You should visit the testosterone subreddit for more inf…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:22 PM
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Make sure you keep your Vitamin D levels up. It usually drops during the fall and winter months when you're not getting enough sun. Low vitamin D can cause fatigue which could affect erections. Also, get your hormones checked out. Aside from low vitamin D I found out my testosterone levels, while still on the scale, were low for my age. That explained why I was always tired and making minimal gains at the gym. Talked to a doctor, was given medication, and now my testosterone levels are off the c…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 11:54 AM
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No one is going to read this with such an awful format. Use paragraphs man
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 05:05 AM
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The guy trashed you, the bosses, and the job itself. He doesn't like working there and no one else wants him working there. I don't see any other choice here. Fire his ass. Law 15: Crush your enemy totally
/r/askTRP01/12/16 06:22 PM
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She's trying to get "closure" and that means that she's trying to not be the bad guy in the situation. You're on the strong side of the argument. Just say "Nah, we're done. No need to meet" and then go on with your life
/r/askTRP01/12/16 07:02 AM
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It happens to a lot of us man. You're not alone. What I do to dissipate approach anxiety is make eye contact with every woman I find attractive as I walk on the street. Don't avert your eyes. Make her avert hers first. Make this a habit and you'll quickly see how not much of a big deal it is
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:44 PM
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This is one of the cases I would recommend you just fap
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:01 PM
1

Speak up. Be more fun
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:54 PM
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You felt it but you don't know for sure. The guy is extremely outgoing open and people are naturally drawn to that. It doesn't mean you're less respected than him.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:33 PM
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I'm also a moderate liberal so I know where you're coming from but u/MattyAnon is right. A lot of these horror stories are blown out of proportion. A woman that gets approached by a man she does not find attractive will label that man a creep and a misogynist. That's not the case with one she finds attractive though. We have been sold on the idea that women have been subjugated by men but is that really the case? Society now isn't a patriarchy. It's a matriarchy selling us the lie that men shoul…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:44 AM
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You're probably fine man. I wouldn't give up on her just yet though. Older women can make great plates
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:29 AM
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Associating the alt-right with red pill theory is circunstancial at best. Red pill theory says nothing about political beliefs. It's just a different sociological theory to explain current sexual and interpersonal relationships between men and women. The red pill community encompasses men of all walks of life regardless of their race, age, or political beliefs. I have to admit that there are some vocal pro Trump supporters on this subreddit and it's why he associates Red Pill theory with the alt…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:13 AM
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That's a good start but if you're not 100% ready for marriage then you're not ready man. It will only make it worse down the line
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:05 AM
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The red pill doesn't have a stance one anything. It provides a theory on the current state of interpersonal and sexual relationships between men and women. Men can read the theory and apply it to however it fits into their lives. Men here have a variety of experiences, political beliefs, value systems, education level, ages etc...so their interpretation of red pill theory can vary widely. It can be as you say as a matter of regaining respect or not.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:01 AM
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It's a shit test and she's gauging if you would make a great emotional tampon. Agree and amplify would work in this situation. Say something like, "Yeah I agree. I don't have time to listen to this but if you come over I'll help you forget you even have a boyfriend."
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:54 AM
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I've taken girls home back to my apartment after a night of drinking at a bar or a party and I've been in your exact situation. You just can't get it up because of the alcohol. I've pushed women away from my bed by being honest in a funny way. "Sorry, but whisky killed my dick. If you're a good girl and go to sleep I'll fuck you silly in the morning before we grab breakfast." Works every time That being said your situation is 100% mental. Women, at least with my experience, won't care. They know…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:52 AM
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Yup! You're going to have to be assertive on this. Be the fun guy everyone likes to be around with. Host weekly drink ups at a nearby bar or host a party.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:47 AM
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It's ok to say no from time to time. Especially if saying yes to something will really inconvenience you. You can also read No More Mr Nice Guy for more
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:45 AM
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It will be difficult finding a place that will hire someone so young and without sales experience. Since you're still an undergrad why not find a sales internship over the spring semester or summer?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:43 AM
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No worries. Op sec! Are there any people in your branch you can talk to about the legal ramifications of marriage? You'll want to protect your ass in case this goes sour.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:33 AM
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That's fair. If your values match up with your standards then there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:22 AM
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Eat more and lift. You should be eating more than 2,000 calories if you want to grow
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:20 AM
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I have a buddy who is a Captain in the US Army and he has two pieces of advice he tells his men when they first enlist. 1) Don't buy a car 2) Don't get married Women naturally love men in uniform because they look good and because of those sweet sweet sweet military benefits. It's very hypergamous and this woman being 10 years older than you makes it even more so. She's hit the wall and wants someone to settle down with to support her and her future kids. That in itself is not a bad thing but yo…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:18 AM
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Blondes know that they're in high demand so that's probably why they can be so arrogant. For me personally, I tend to stay away from the bleach blonde women you've described. If their idea of a good weekend is spending it at a nightclub it's a red flag for me. Tells me she's too into herself, drinks too much, probably flirts with other guys, and will be more of a headache than anything else. I've had some luck with natural blondes but they've tended to be more feminine, less dramatic, studious, …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:11 AM
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I agree that your life's purpose shouldn't be to find "that special someone." Like Rollo argues, "There is no one. There are good ones and bad ones but the one doesn't exist." A man should strive to be the best he can in body and mind before he decides on settling down. That being said, seeing every woman as some other guy's sloppy seconds is a pretty negative outlook on the whole situation. This isn't the 1950's where everyone marries their high school sweetheart. Finding a "pure virgin" is goi…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:04 AM
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Strep throat is common during the fall and winter months and extremely contagious. Some are more susceptible to it than others. All you need is some antibiotics for a week and then you're good. I don't understand why you broke it off? Was it that bad and painful that you had to drop your plate?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:05 AM
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One question to ask yourself is, "Would I date me?" Are you satisfied with what you have accomplished in life that being in a LTR is the next step logical step in your life? If not then you have to be wary that you're not just wanting to get into an LTR to give your life meaning.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:10 PM
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I have a natural resting bitch face and it makes people feel like they can't approach me. If I need to be serious then it doesn't bother me but I have to be conscious of softening my facial features in social settings. This can include smiling at appropriate times or generally be open and inviting. We're more connected with one another than ever before so facial and bodily social cures are important. There are a few books out there that can help. I recommend Robert Bolton's "People Skills" as a …
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:23 PM
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A LTR doesnt always have to come to an end but as u/loveydovey2121 said you'll have to implement red pill theory throughout it. Rollo Tomassi wrote the second book (the green one) to The Rational Male and it is about implementing a red pill mentality in a LTR. You'll have to remain stoic, rational, implement dread, and generally keep improving yourself to keep her interested.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:19 PM
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It's a lyric from a Drake and Future song. OP wants to know what he should do to transform this girl into a plate without resorting to taking her out on expensive dates. In my opinion of she has and off and on again boyfriend then that's a major red flag for crazy. You'll never be her number one but a beta emotional tampon for her.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 07:08 PM
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It's the other way around man. Men pursue women. Like I said, I've dated white women and continue to do so now. I've also hooked up with Persian women and some Latin women. Women don't see race as clear cut. They judge men based on how confident they are.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 11:11 PM
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No one will think of you any less. If they push you just say you found out you're allergic to it
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:45 PM
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This OP. Your regular doctor doesn't know crap about hormones. See a urologist or endocrinologist and do a full blood panel. r/testosterone can also help As for supplements. Take Vitamin D every day and ZMA
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:48 PM
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Seriously. The mods should be banning this
/r/askTRP26/11/16 11:49 AM
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Can't stress this enough. Hitting the gym and spending all day inside will tank your Vitamin D levels. I supplement with 5,000 IUs a day. You should add Vitamin D to your supplement regiment OP. Also, ask your doctor for a full blood panel that includes hormone levels.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:49 AM
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Mexican-American here. I grew up in a shitty area where gangs were normal and the girls at school were either overweight or ignorant or a combination of both. As a result I ever really went after other Latinas. When I got to college I started dating white girls and continue to do so now. Your race in the grand of scheme of things doesn't matter unless you live in small rural towns. Women respond better to confidence, charm, and how fit you are. If you're self conscious about your race then you b…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:16 AM
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Look up smiledirect.com. They're basically cheaper versions of Invisalign. Both you and your parents will be happy going this route.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:08 AM
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Yes, you're exactly right.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:06 AM
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Seriously OP? You want an answer without swallowing the pill. Read the side bar and read The Laws of Power
/r/askTRP24/11/16 07:19 PM
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I can't agree with u/Gomez more OP. It's the first Law of Power.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:33 PM
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Seems like you doing that put him in his place. I'd be surprised if he continues acting the same way considering you called him out on his bullshit in front of everyone. Now everyone knows how much of a dick he is and not to mess with you. There are a few avenues you could take going forward. Look into the Laws of Power for ideas
/r/askTRP24/11/16 08:04 AM
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True. If OP is 15 and barely a freshman then he should definitely get into a relationship to gain experience. Emotionally and physically. If he's 17 and on his way to college would be a different story
/r/askTRP24/11/16 07:55 AM
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Not everyone loses the virginity in high school man. College is the perfect time to date around and develop sexual experience. You'd be surprised how many virgins there are in the incoming freshman class
/r/askTRP24/11/16 07:36 AM
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I would advise against it for a few reasons: 1) High school girls are vicious. They will spread rumors about you if you try hitting on more than one of them/plate them. 2) Having sex is a logistical nightmare 3) You're better off keeping your grades up so you can get into college where you'll have a better chance to smash. With that in mind, don't get into a relationship in high school. It won't last when you get into college You can still flirt with them to develop your confidence and an IDGAF …
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:50 AM
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Fantasies and fetishes are normal man. The only issue is how often you watch porn. Psychologically it will numb how excited you get for sex. You'll start looking for more unorthodox styles of porn. Physically you could develop temporary erectile disfunction from all the times you masturbate. If you can quit cold turkey then go for it but if not then limit the amount of times you watch porn a week until you're not watching it at all.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:46 AM
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Congrats on taking the first steps on preventing others from walking all over you. You and your cousin had to wake up early and your brother had plenty of time to seal the deal. You spoke up for yourself and made your feelings heard. Chances are your brother doesn't thing any less of you but if he mentions how you cock blocked him or whatever just say that he cock blocked himself. Take care of your needs first before you take care of others. I know it's sounds weird when you have to deal with fa…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:40 AM
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The thing about spinning a plate is that you have to spin them. It's work. You don't have to put as much work into it as you do in a LTR but you'll have to do other things than just "hang out". Take her out somewhere cheap once in awhile. Museums, a local concert etc...
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:16 AM
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The three B's Bitches, Books, and Booze Don't take them at face value though. What I mean by those three is that I want to date as many women as I can before settling down, finishing my education and landing my dream job, and living life to the fullest by having fun (gym, traveling, new hobbies etc...)
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:13 AM
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If you want to keep these friends then it's on you to let them know how you feel that they flake on you. If they do it again after that then you have you face the fact that they are not worth keeping as friends. Friends come and go as we get older. People change. They get married, take on jobs, get new hobbies, and new friends. As a result it becomes more difficult to spend time with one another. I've lost friends that I've known since elementary school over the years. I changed. They changed. I…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:57 AM
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I have a Goruck GR1 backpack for my every day carry. Holds my gym stuff, work stuff, and grad school stuff. Works perfectly if you live in a major city. The only things I carry in my pockets are the triad-keys, wallet, phone
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:22 PM
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I want you to make a list of the things you want to do. This could be establishing a gym routine, going back to school, making new friends etc... These are your end goals. Each end goal will have a series of steps that will help you reach your goal. Using the above examples it could look like this: Gym 1) Find a gym with a reasonable price and distance from work or your apartment. 2) Look up beginner to intermediate workout programs 3) Read up on proper nutrition and supplements on examine.com 4…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 05:21 AM
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I never said they would protect against herpes but condoms do protect you from other STDs. I dot know what you're trying to argue but barring completely wrapping yourself in plastic the only way to be 100% risk free of STDs is not having sex at all
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 08:28 PM
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Ah, I see. I completely misunderstood your post then. For that I sincerely apologize.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:50 PM
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Yup! STD checks during every physical. HIV tests every six months
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:43 PM
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Yup, every time I've gotten into a serious relationship we've both have gotten tested and showed each other the results. It's the adult thing to do. For every other plate I make sure to wrap it up if I don't know for a fact that she's clean You shouldn't go raw unless you jumped to full LTR/Engaged/Married mode
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:41 PM
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Rollo Tomassi and Mark Manson do not condone cheating if you're in a marriage or a LTR. In fact, both of them tell you to be upfront with a woman about your intentions. If you're wanting and willing to cheat on your wife then you don't have a leg to stand on if she cheats on you.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:35 PM
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There are multiple studies that prove my point. Taking all of these together suggest that lower quality women have a higher risk of contracting and passing on STDs. That of course doesn't dismiss the "unicorn" data point here and there but we all know that AWALT. Best thing to do is wrap it up every time Mental illness among women and higher STD rates https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4692119/ Alcohol use contributing to higher STDs https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2588489…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:24 PM
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I don't know where you're getting your numbers but multiple medical studies have put condoms at a 98% to 99% success rate at preventing HIV and other STDs. That is, of course, if you're using them correctly and consistently. Additionally, you're chances of catching an STD depend on the quality of women you're plating. If you're fucking random low quality bar sluts then your chances are much higher than a woman you met in let's say graduate school or your weekend hiking club. Always wrap it up th…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 05:24 PM
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I don't have any knowledge about dental bridges and associated bad breath but you can still do stuff to minimize bad breath. Get yourself a tongue cleaner (I use the TongueSweeper), floss daily (I use a Quickbreeze that connects to your faucet), and mouth wash. I have no idea if that routine will help you with your very specific issue so you'll have to see a dentist if in fact that routine doesn't help.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 03:06 PM
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I think everyone here knows that alcohol is a confidence booster but to advocate it as a solution is a bad idea. Aside from the health risks it doesn't do anything but mask your insecurities. When the alcohol wears off and the girl finds out you're the complete opposite then the game is up. I'm not advocating complete abstinence or whatever but guys should cultivate real confidence because that's the confidence that will stick throughout life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:15 AM
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I think every man should be exposed to as much knowledge as they can devour-even if that knowledge opposes that man's worldview. It keeps you from developing toxic bias. With that in mind I think having a list of feminist literature would be a great idea. Nevertheless. I want to stress the importance of refraining from arguing with people that hold those opposing world views. You are not going to change their minds and it likely will result in a backlash. Law 9: Win through actions, never throug…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:04 AM
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If you have symptoms of low testosterone and have a full blood panel done that indicates low testosterone then definitely see a doc for treatment. Don't just get test from some rando and shoot up because you will fuck up your body if you don't know what you're doing. Other than that the easiest way to make your face look better is hitting the gym and watching your diet-specifically those carbs.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 11:27 PM
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I think it's great to read about someone's progress. Stories like these affirm the truth of red pill material. OP's progress is a breath of fresh air from a generally negative theme on this subreddit. Law 10: Infection - Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:00 PM
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I'm 5'7 and my last LTR was a 5'10 blonde girl. Sure it was awkward when she wore heels but I held frame. Since her I've dated girls 5'7 to 5'9. Hooked up with another 5'10. I have to tell you it's hard dating if you're short but not impossible. Hold your frame, be funny, and don't take shit too seriously. The women that want men to be 6 feet and up are twats anyways. They're living in a fantasy world
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:06 AM
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Don't step outside then. Tell him you'll call the cops if he doesn't leave. Take video
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:06 PM
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I know these responses are cold but it's the truth OP. "I need to find myself" is a classic move women use when they want to break up because they want to see other men. You're better off breaking your engagement. Just say, "You're right, I want to see other people too." And cut off all contact
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:05 PM
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Defuse dread game? If you have dread chances are you have oneitis. Stop texting her until she initiates
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:02 PM
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Save her texts, ignore her, block her from social media, and move on. If the threats continue then file a police report
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:58 PM
1

Look I don't know what you want to hear. There is nothing in this thread that is going to automatically fix you unless you put in the work. Get checked out
/r/askTRP18/11/16 05:50 PM
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Depression can have a variety of symptoms. It's not going to hurt you getting checked out. I mean, you said it yourself that you would kill yourself if you had the balls.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 05:36 PM
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There is no shame in seeking help. Depression is a crippling disease. Lifting helps but depression kills any motivation to hit the gym. If you need medication take it. At the same time I'm a huge proponent of hormone regulation because they play such a huge role in emotions. See an endocrinologist and get a full blood panel to test out your testosterone and estrogen levels. r/testosterone might be something you would like to check out.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:42 PM
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By you leaving her for another woman you completely nuked her social standing with other people--most importantly with other women. By claiming that you took advantage she restores her social standing and lowers yours. It's bullshit but that's women for you. They'll experts in psychological warfare. Men can talk it it or resort to fights but by the end the matter is done. Women on the other hand will try to destroy your entire sense of being. You're gonna be in the clear. I just mentioned all th…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:13 PM
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Download all past texts between you and her. Especially of any texts where you talk about coming over for sex. You'll want evidence of no wrongdoing in case she escalates with university officials. Don't contact her again or hang out with her. Chances are she's trying to get bullshit emotional sympathy from people so let it play out. If (and it's a big if) she escalates, hire a lawyer, do not contact her, do not say anything to friends. M In the meantime unfollow but don't unfriend her on Facebo…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:02 PM
1

Drop a wad of $100s and a Magnum condom for your Magnum dong
/r/askTRP16/11/16 01:46 PM
1

None of your four points counter my arguments. In fact, you resort to illogical ad hominem attacks to prove your points. It's ok though dude. Unlike yourself, I want to help my fellow man. This is why I'm going to deconstruct your retarded post. Portraits before the invention of photography were a serious affair. They were expensive and long to commission and thus smiling in them would be considered a waste of time, money, and a faux pas (that means smiling was a blunder or against the times you…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:53 AM
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Active listening will help you tons. "People Skills" by Robert Bolton helped me tremendously. Get it. I highly recommend it. It also helps to keep in mind that everyone has doubts, fears, and self esteem issues that inhibit their social skills. If you're shy or self conscious just tell yourself that everyone feels that way from time to time. Knowing that you can shift your frame to being the top dog in the room. You'll walk tall, be interesting, and give off an IDGAF attitude
/r/askTRP15/11/16 09:22 PM
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Shit happens. People get busy. Just say "no prob! Next time" and then initiate no contact. She'll reply back
/r/askTRP15/11/16 09:10 PM
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Hahaha Just keep your room clean and tidy. Vacuum and dust. Open up a window and let some air in. Do laundry. Especially if you have gym stuff laying around Light a man scented candle. Something like hickory clove or oakmoss sage
/r/askTRP15/11/16 09:05 PM
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Shit post. You're seriously trying to connect presidential smiles to the pussification of men?? There is no logical connection between those two. Eisenhower was one of the greatest men who ever lived and because he's smiling you're calling him a pussy? Geez dude. Smiling is part of human behavior. It makes us approachable and shows other people how we feel inside. You don't always have to have a smile on your face like a weirdo. Same thing with a serious face. No one will want to be around a guy…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:02 PM
1

"People Skills" by Robert Bolton
/r/askTRP15/11/16 11:16 AM
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No, you shouldn't outright tell her that she wasn't appreciating it. I guarantee it will put her off. What is going on here is OP putting too much effort into buying her love and attraction. It's shifted heavily towards him. Because she isn't matching or exceeding his effort, OP is feeling unappreciated. What he should do is stop trying to buy her attraction to him. Spending your money all the time on expensive dinners, flowers, or presents sends two messages to a woman. First, this guy isn't se…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 10:56 AM
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I'm glad you noticed that you're putting these women on a pedestal. Acknowledging that will help you develop that IDGAF attitude. The beta mind is hard to kill. It takes time but it's possible. I still haven't fully killed mine. I hit on a woman I went hiking with yesterday. Everything went great. Escalated Kino, made slight sexual jokes, teased her etc... After the hike my mind stared fantasizing about a LTR with her. Things like going out to concerts or having dinner together. I quickly killed…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:20 AM
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Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don't be unattractive What I mean by that is that you have to commit yourself to be the best you can. Being naturally attractive helps but it's not the sole thing you need. Getting fit, becoming financially secure, dressing well, and working on your interpersonal skills will dramatically build your confidence. In turn that confidence will help with your game. These traits are what makes a guy attractive to a woman. So if you hit on a woman you won't be "that creepy …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:12 AM
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Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others My thoughts and feelings on Trump aside, red pillers should stay away from anyone espousing extreme view points. Left or right. Law 48: Assume formlessness
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:57 AM
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Yeah that's my usual go to response with posts like these but the side bar is such a mess. Gonna try and return the favor in the future by pointing red pillers to the appropriate info. The hike went well. Escalated Kino, made slightly sexual jokes here and there when appropriate. She shows signs of interest like finding ways to get closer to me. I think there was a little bit of dread on the way back when she kept looking over at my phone to see who I was texting. Gonna keep at it.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:47 PM
2

Oh man where can I start? Alcoholic, smoker, doesn't try to stay fit, cheats on his wife, isn't happy with who he is. Don Draper was a very unhappy man and it drove him to do some pretty self destructive things. His game was on point but it only served to try and fill a deep hole. He constantly sought women to make his life feel complete. If that isn't the definition of oneitis then I don't know what else. I would emulate his game with women and his hard working personality but everything else c…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:43 PM
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Great advice OP. This is why the first two rules of Red Pill are "Do not talk about the Red Pill." Like Plato's "Allegory of the Cave" people will be hostile to you and your thoughts. It's better to operate in the shadows with a full hand. The Laws of Power say the same thing. Law 3: Conceal your intentions Law 9: Win through action, never through arguments Law 4: Always say less than necessary Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others Law 42: Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others Law 48…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:25 PM
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Right off the top of my head I would say "Mad Men" but Don Draper isn't a good role model. Ive been watching "Brooklyn 99" and I've noticed that the character Jake Peralta has very great game. He's funny, teases women he's into, and great at his job. He has his faults but he isn't afraid of approaching women he's into. I have to say that you won't find a perfect role model in American television. Most male characters tend to have a deep flaw. If you want to a mentor I would try to see if you can…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:39 AM
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Sounds like you want to do this and just want other guys to give you the go ahead. Guys here have given you two different opinions so just do you. It may not ruin your relationship as you say but your friend is going to see you in a different light.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:55 AM
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You're a shit friend. You're asking if it's ok to piss away a 10 year relationship for some easy pussy. A friend like that will stick with you from thick to thin while a woman can easily leave you on the side of the road when a more alpha guy comes along. Even if he says it's an uncommitted relationship you know he likes her. Tell him what she does to you and then show him red pill material. Help the man. Don't stab him in the back
/r/askTRP07/11/16 10:35 PM
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"...but she's different than other girls" You said it yourself. There are no unicorns man. AWALT. Read the Rational Male. Pay attention to the first chapter
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:32 PM
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Dating apps aren't worth your time. Women tend to flake more often than not. Plus they don't help you master game since you're not face-to-face with one another. Best way to gain confidence and master approaching is by doing.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:56 PM
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Have some more self respect man. If you're getting looks from higher level women then what are you waiting for?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:01 PM
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Get The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Both on kindle and the audible companion. Listen to it. Read it
/r/askTRP06/11/16 02:58 AM
2

High Intensity Interval Training. If you were to run on a track it would look something like this: 1 minute jog 15-20 second fast as you can sprint 1 minute jog 15-20 second fast as you can sprint Run until you can't anymore
/r/askTRP02/11/16 12:22 AM
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He needs to read the sidebar
/r/askTRP29/10/16 03:11 PM
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That's because no one reads anything. These type of posts have been common that past few days
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:13 AM
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You may not feel it right now but you're one of the lucky guys for having your heart broken. Coming from a broken heart makes it easier to swallow the red pill. That emotional wound will heal, scar over, and make you tougher with your future relationships with women - LTR or otherwise. Guys who come here with little to no experience with women or relationships in general will naturally fight the truths the red pill exposes. They'll resort to blue pill behavior as soon as they have the interest o…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:23 PM
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Your right and there are some girls who will protest or insist on paying half. You play that little game and the gem will still insist and you end up splitting the check. Those are rare. The majority of women though have this expectation of the guy paying for the first date at least.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:38 PM
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You are stating to revert to your old beta ways but at least you recognize it. That neediness you feel is dread since she's being unresponsive. Detach yourself from that. Have your own plans. Hit the gym or hang out with your own friends. Don't let her be your whole world
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:49 AM
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There's kind of an unwritten rule that the guy always pays first for the first date. It's stupid I know but it is what it is. If she expects you to pay again for the second date then it's a no go on that girl.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:34 AM
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Soft next her. De-escalate contact with her to develop dread.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:23 AM
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Don't be a Captain Save A Ho. You already know she's promiscuous me even if she was staying in the country she's not LTR material. You're suffering from oneittis and it's not uncommon with dudes new to unplugging. You have to realize with women you date that they don't belong to you, it's just your turn. Enjoy your time with her, learn from your experiences with her, get to know which qualities you like from a woman and what you don't. Just try to keep your emotions, as hard as it may be, from u…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:08 AM
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Don't shit where you eat and take the emotions out of attraction. You said you make out with other girls. Do that but not at work. Having plates will develop an abundance mentality. You've read the material but you haven't swallowed the pill. She's 19 so she's at the upward swing of her sexual market value. She's not going to stay with you and I'll bet she'll still fuck that other guy. Keep her as a plate but nothing else. Focus on your job, develop your DJ skills, hit the gym, and read both "Th…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:18 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:02 AM
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Could of returned his insult OP. Any guy faggot who talks shit for pulling 315 probably pulled it with a curved back. I have female friends who routinely pull 375+ Nevertheless, It's your PR OP, no one else's. Take pride in it and take steps to hit 405 by next year. Find other gym friends. Guys who lift tend to be really nice and supportive. Your friend Is an asshole for breaking that unwritten man code.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 09:15 PM
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Listen to this guy OP. Women can sense you intentions right off the bat. If you're going out then go out for you. If you strike a conversation with a woman then great but she should be of second importance. You're there primarily to enjoy yourself. She'll sense that and think that your confident, outgoing, and doesn't give a fuck about trying to impress a woman. Escalate attraction from that angle. Also, I hate clubs. I hate the loud music, the over priced drinks, and how desperate the guys look…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 05:37 PM
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This fucking sub sometimes...read the sidebar man.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:46 AM
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She saint your plate if you're obsessing over her. Oneitis
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:46 AM
1

Yes, I've used both for acne. I'm pushing 30 but I still break out occasionally but my skin care routine keeps me pretty clear. You're pissed off on what TRP teaches yet you're here asking for advice. You have to focus on you're self first man. No girl is gonna wanna fuck some depressed wimp who constantly complains. If you want to fuck so badly then hire an escort because you won't have any luck with normal women in your state of mind. They want someone confident, happy, and interesting. You're…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:27 PM
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I had very oily problem skin when I was younger. My face still gets oily from time to time but I keep it under control with a neutral face cleanser and a strong astringent. Don't use bar soaps since they will dry out your face like crazy. I use Kiehls Facial Fuel face wash and Clean and Clear Deep Cleansing astringent (the orange one not the blue one). Use cotton rounds on the astringent and wipe your face after you wash it or when you feel like you need to freshen up. Use a face moisturizer as …
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:33 PM
2

Aggression isn't always alpha. That guy's emotions took completely control over him while you remained calm, cool, and collected. You could have easily destroyer jim but you maintained your frame. You did great. Don't let the episode creep into your mind (i.e. "I should/shouldn't have said that/done that").
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:15 PM
1

It really shouldn't take as long as it has for me. I was just stubborn and didn't want to lose my spot in the 1,000lb club. Should have taken it easy but oh well. I've also had back injections which are a god send when the pain got too bad. They say that a herniated disc should take anywhere from a month to three months tops if you take your PT and exercises seriously. I also didn't want to become a curl bro but hitting those accessory lifts will help you out in the main lifts. I've seen my stri…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 08:17 PM
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Get your testosterone checked
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:27 AM
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DO NOT see a chiropractor first. They don't k is how to deal with herniated disc and an adjustment can make it worst. See a sports doctor first. They'll do an X-ray and MRI to rule out anything more serious. Most likely they'll provide you with a mild opioid like Tramadol and send you to PT. Take your PT serious. You can stick to a basic bro-split involving upper body work but nothing that makes you twist your lower back. No sit ups or crunches either. See if you can get your work to accommodate…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:09 AM
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