Hey, I’m F 25. My bf told me about this sub a while ago and I thought I would check it out.

After reading up on it for a while, Id say the whole mentality seems pretty flawed and toxic.

One: not all women are cheaters.... and yes women can love you for you. We as women are faithful creatures by nature, and I never in a million years would cheat on my man. I love him more than anything in the world! And if I did want to leave, I would leave before cheating.

Two: Giving your woman less love and validation is a sure-fire way to lose her. Personally, If my man didn’t give me validation, I would leave. I think there should be a mutual respect.

Three: I read the little side bar rules thing, most of it isn’t really true, and I definitely would take it with a grain of salt. Me (and most girls I know) would never really ride the cock carousel... in fact probably only 1 out of 5 of the girls I know do the whole “cock carousel thing.”

My final comment is just be yourself! Women will love you for that as long as you have a backbone, passion, and not abusive. Don’t try so hard to be an alpha! I don’t know how many guys I’ve dated who tried to be the aloha male, and I can always tell when they aren’t truly one.

Just be yourself!