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The1ndex/r/askTRP21/09/19 10:03 PM
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It’s actually the opposite, scientifically, and anecdotally to what you interpreted from that article. The article simply talks about genes. Wow, cool, but let’s not jump to conclusions about inbreeding being our purpose so that we can retain more of our genes in our offspring… The thing we know for sure is that people are less attracted to people who resemble themselves. This is by design to prevent you from breeding with close family members. Same hair, eyes, skin, and smell? Gross. Casting yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 04:54 AM
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I strongly recommend STFU in theses situations, or to avoid them. Taking lessons from your plate/LTR is a recipe for disaster. Imagine being the CEO of a company, and some co-op student comes in and tells you you’re doing it wrong. It literally doesn’t fucking matter if they are right or wrong - it’s disrespectful.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 02:07 PM
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I think you could benefit from reading the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 01:47 PM
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Awalt. The church good girl tucking you back into her religion is a shit test. You failed. You should have chuckled at her and withdrawn attention. She’d be draining your balls today.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/21 01:44 AM
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Stfu and own your shit. You’re on here polluting the forum with your whiny bitch shit. We aren’t here to qualify your life for you.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:58 PM
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Red flags everywhere. Wake the fuck up — you’re on Reddit asking for us to qualify her for you, because deep down, your alarm system is going off, but the beta with scarcity mentality is suppressing it. Lastly, you don’t make a girl your LTR. She becomes a LTR organically because she brings value to your life. I.e. demonstrates mother of your kids worthy attributes: looks after her own shit, stays out of your way, isn’t a ho, doesn’t nag and ask for stupid shit, complies with the rules you set. …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:34 AM
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I’m 5’9, live and work downtown. Never felt short. This has nothing to do with this city.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:51 PM
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Understand that this was a shit test, and you failed. She penetrated your frame, obviously, because you broke up over this. You set the rules, they follow. They break the rules, they get deleted from your life. Start setting rules, and enforcing them.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:36 PM
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Focus on neither. If you were to die tomorrow, you’d want to have done a few things other than work 80 hours a week. You should probably start by reading the 4 hour work week by Tim Farriss, and the 80/20 Principle if you haven’t. You need to understand that time is your most valuable asset, not money or game. The bottom line is learning to save/invest/spend your time the most efficiently and affectively. My suggestion would be to create more balance, because the problem with time is that you ne…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:52 PM
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Probably because of all of the lgbq fat Karens out there with purple hair
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:14 AM
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Part of the side bar 101 is learning that you never owe a woman your exclusivity. A lot of you retards should read it.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:05 AM
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What has she given you that you feel obligated give her sex in return? Why would you ever feel obligated to give a woman anything? You lead, she follows. If you’re doing that, you don’t feel obligated about anything. If you feel obligated to give a woman sex, you have truly fucked up in a portion measured in light years.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 08:45 PM
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My mom got sick and died. My LTR at the time constantly complained during the time my mom was sick that “I wasn’t the same,” and shit tested me hard the entire time. I dumped her shortly after. Women’s nature unfolded before my eyes. You can read thousands of the same story. Women are children who are dependent on you, incapable of unconditional loyalty, and will maintain an “it’s all about them” perspective — obviously individuals vary. This is why TRP preaches leadership — as a leader, you’re …
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:30 AM
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I stopped at the “I have a serious girlfriend. We’ve been dating for three months” part. Three months? Come on man, how is she even your girlfriend after three months? Is this the first woman you’ve touched? You don’t even know this woman. Better to post single life things to increase your value, or don’t post anything at all. Leave her out of your social media.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:58 PM
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Frame. Frame is everything. When you start living in your own frame all of the time, you’re no longer at the mercy of the world. Master your frame
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:49 PM
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Where is your self respect? You really tolerate this behaviour in a LTR? Time to read the sidebar young padawan
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:25 AM
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Right, we have feelings, but unlike women, we shouldn’t be making decisions based off them.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:23 PM
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You don’t apologize to your woman, because it’s an act of submission. Is a man submitting to a woman ever an attractive behaviour? The answer is no. The correct answer is: it is never appropriate to apologize to your woman. I cannot believe some guy above me is suggesting you apologize for messing up a meal she is cooking. Your mentality and perspective is so far off it’s painful to read. The food she is cooking is the fruit of your labours. If you fuck it up, the only person you should be slapp…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 07:36 PM
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Your actions shouldn’t be based off how you feel. Bad answer.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 07:25 PM
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That’s the thing - your woman is not entitled to receive answers and reasoning from you. You can aa/am or ignore her.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:26 PM
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Virtue signaling 100%
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:32 PM
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I expect any strong and independent woman to be out there rioting, looting, and protesting. They love drama, attention, and emotion. They are herd animals, so what the herd does, they follow. This is a fine line to interpret. If she’s goes, and you don’t, she will respect you less. Remember, you DO NOT explain your reasoning to women. Do not DEER. You lead, she follows. Your woman asking you about BLM is probably going to be one of the biggest shit tests some guys have ever been hit with. Don’t …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:28 PM
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If you were spinning plates, or had other options, you wouldn’t be here posting this shit. Here’s what you did: you jumped into an exclusive relationship with a whore without vetting her properly. You didn’t read the sidebar and key RP content. Now your here asking for help to solve a problem that should never have been. What you should be doing: dump this whore, and start over the right way. Spin plates, vet, keep your options open, and dread right from the beginning. And, read the damn sidebar…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:22 AM
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She wants your sexual exclusivity but not a relationship? Typical female mental gymnastics. Ignore what she says. Tell her the terms and conditions, and she can decide to follow along, or not.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:35 PM
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That’s not necessarily oneitis. We build strong connections with people that we like, whether it’s a guy friend, family, or a colleague. You’ll never replicate her, but you can and will replace her with someone different. We are all different. I have let go a few girls who I love. There are many that come and go in between, but I always find another who I “click” with. Being a male, we try to solve all of our problems through thinking, and action. But, don’t overthink this one, you miss her, you…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:06 PM
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Just to be clear, TRP isn’t anti-girlfriend. TRP is a toolset for sexual dynamics, and much more. If you want a girlfriend, go get one. Just use the tools, and understand the truth about men and women.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:48 PM
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Decide what you want to do. Don’t take them on a date to please them, do it to entertain yourself. Treat them all the same. The ones worth keeping around for a long time will be the ones that aren’t a pain in your ass. There is a 100% chance that you haven’t read the sidebar, so start with that, and immediately order The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:37 PM
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Can we just have this as the auto reply every time someone asks this question. This is why you don’t just blindly follow exactly what someone says in TRP — environments and climates are different, and complex. TRP is a toolbox full of tools. It’s not an automation system. You still need to have brains and figure out how to build the house. Study the tools, learn to build.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:57 PM
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Oneitis is clouding your judgement. Even if this was a decent girl, you should upgrade for a younger version. Let the 34 year old girl lock down a 40 year old guy. You’re contemplating getting locked down with a woman significantly older than you, who you haven’t fucked, who is post wall and desperate, and is of the species renowned for being manipulative. If you really enjoy suffering, proceed.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 11:37 AM
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Biologically speaking, you will be driven towards women who are healthy, but a bit different from yourself. This drive ensures that the majority of the population aren’t fucking their siblings, creating weak genes, but rather fucking healthy strangers so form strong genes.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:55 PM
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A bomb did go off. At least where I live, life is completely different, and will be for some time. My hobbies were completely deleted. I’ve taken up hiking as a hobby. My point is, don’t sit around in shock. Keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:09 PM
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You would be shocked(or maybe not) to know that most women don’t have a clue how a car works. No I’m not talking port injection vs direct injection, I’m talking... they do not even know that front wheels turn when they turn the driver’s wheel. Remember, these are the people that society wants running the world. 🤡
/r/MGTOW26/05/20 06:07 PM
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Go outside the bedroom. Put remote controlled toys inside her. Take her out anywhere and try to fuck. Be careful, this can get you into big trouble.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:28 PM
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Read the sidebar...
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:44 PM
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This is one of the most non retarded question I have seen on asktrp in a long time. 48 Laws of power, and the Rational Male.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:32 PM
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You shouldn’t give a fuck about your relationship title. This isn’t medieval times where you had to label her queen so that she could command a small guard. You have a good thing going. Shut the fuck up and keep doing what you’re doing. When she asks “what are we,” tell her, “hang on, I need to read the asktrp sidebar”
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:24 PM
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I read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:00 AM
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If she’s a plate why do you care? The only thing you want from her is sex.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:55 PM
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Every moment that you’re with a female, she is evaluating what benefits she is receiving from you. When those benefits stop, she is gone. Even bigger to understand is that past and future benefits count for absolutely nothing to her. e.g. you provide benefits to her for 20 years, one day you get sick and lose your job, she will be gone. Women don’t have an innate drive for honour and duty. This is her biological nature.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:54 PM
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This is one of the iron rules... come one man...
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:01 PM
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Better to have no friends than to have “friends” that hold you back or bring you down. The people in your life will come and go. You can, and will make new friends.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:30 PM
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Why does it matter? Your bench is between you and you.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:24 PM
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They’re all the fucking same. AWALT. My preference for foreignish women is solely based off their ability to cook. Every American girl I dated didn’t know how to cook, didn’t want to, or only knew how to make macaroni and cheese. My worst nightmare is to get locked down with a chick that doesn’t know/want to cook. Yikes!
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:23 PM
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I think there is a bit of biological and social influence. Men biologically are influenced to bond with things. This could be a car, a job, a piece of land, or a woman. We generally like “things” and like to protect and provide for our “things.”
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:03 PM
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She’s a slut. Treat her like a slut. I.e. no LTR. She’s in track to hit 20-50 dicks by the time she’s 25.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:58 PM
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Because the negativity comes from children, I feel no shame.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:55 PM
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Plan B only distracts from plan A. There is no plan B. All of my success in life came from following this philosophy.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:48 PM
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TRP is a toolbox. Do with it what you want. I would be very cautious about making major life decisions because “trp told me to”
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:29 PM
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She told you she entertained the idea of fucking him. “Hey so just FYI I’m thinking of fucking this guy a work” That’s not LTR material.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:37 AM
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I was in a LTR when my mother died. This girl had always treated me respectfully, and was close with my mother. Immediately after my mother died, she started shit testing and treating me disrespectfully. I couldn’t even grieve until I dumped the girl. My weakness fucking drove her to attack me like a shark smelling a bleeding fish in the water. Here is the kicker. My dad broke down a few times, and every time he did, my sister would leave the room, and distance herself from him. This is 100% fem…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:38 AM
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Ah that’s too bad. I was referring to his image: well dressed, jacked, confident, short.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:24 PM
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Women don’t suck at sex, they just need someone to lead them. I have never had a repeat girl that I couldn’t quickly train into a rockstar. As a leader, the quality of sex is your responsibility.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:43 AM
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Reading the sidebar doesn’t hurt.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:36 AM
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You posted this same crap yesterday... Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:30 AM
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Develop your voice. Learn to speak loudly, clearly, and eloquently — there are exercises for this. You said you’re strong physically, and this is going to be a big component. Being jacked and having the appearance of being strong will go a long way. Have you watched Alpha M on YouTube? This guy is short and has a high pitched voice, but I’m sure he could kill it with the ladies.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:26 AM
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I’m not advocating anyone do that every time. I’m just saying, if you want the most control and flexibility as possible, that’s the best option. Personally, LTR goes on a IUD and then no condom for me. I check regularly to ensure that it’s still in there.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:40 AM
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IUD is arguably the best, most consistent, and most flexible version of birth control. You should be able to feel the wire the sticks out of her cervix with your finger. Being in control of the birth control means forcing her to get an IUD, and wearing a condom, and pulling out — this isn’t the most fun version of sex...
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:19 PM
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You didn’t soft next properly. Go read the sidebar. You’re supposed to resume like nothing happened. You do not explain your reasoning to a woman regardless of what the situation is. Learn to DARE instead of DEER.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:59 PM
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Stop giving her attention. What the hell are you thinking? This is your opportunity to apply massive dread.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:44 PM
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If she said “ok, fuck you” would you still feel bad? If you feel bad based on her emotions, stop. Her emotions of crying and being helpless are triggering the natural protector in you. Think logically. Will she be ok?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:49 PM
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He is stage 1 of 4 oneitis — still slightly coherent. Yes exactly.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:24 PM
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You don’t need to do anything. However, are you a man of honour? Being direct, clear, and concise to let someone know that her turn is over is an honourable action, and a characteristic of a high level man. Being wimpy, and acting without integrity and congruence is not honourable.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:21 PM
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Here is the key. You didn’t have a problem making this decision before because you were thinking clearly. You have a problem with this decision now because you’re not thinking clearly. You’re not thinking clearly now because you miss her.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:07 PM
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This should be the top voted. Beta cucks got you.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:01 PM
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This isn’t a plate. She’s your girlfriend, because she’s the only girl you’re seeing, and frankly, you treat her like your girlfriend. If she was actually a plate, you wouldn’t be posting this blanket cover up for your oneitis. What you’re doing: worrying about what a plate is saying, and what your future prospects with her are. What you should be doing: don’t listen to what she says, keep it to sex only, fuck other girls, let the plate break.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:00 PM
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Don’t ask your LTR for this. She will either do it on her own, or not. Is she your provider? You’re literally asking your LTR to help you out with your social status/business — this is completely the wrong way to go. You’re signaling to her that she is above you, and women fucking hate this.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:48 AM
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Yes, read the sidebar. You shouldn’t be competing with your LTR. You’re trying to keep up with her, and prove your value. But, it should be the other way around. She should be trying to keep up with, and prove her value to you. This shouldn’t even scratch the surface of your attention because you should be focused on your mission.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:43 AM
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You’re a fucking sad cunt, and this is your only problem. You think that is a bad hand in life? You’re ignorant, and you don’t have a clue. You’re one of those kids who think all of the successful people had everything handed to them for free. Oh poor me, riches, strength, and fame weren’t handed to me on a silver platter. Boo fucking hooo.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:36 AM
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This is indeed a sidebar thing, which you would know if you had actually read it. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:29 AM
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Stop sucking on the oneitis filled baby bottle. Who. The. Fuck. Cares. Move onto one of your many many other options.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:26 PM
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Why are you listening and pondering about what she says? If she meets up, good. If she doesn’t, who the fuck cares - move onto one of your other many options. Stop braising you’re nuts on a oneitis infection swab.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:21 PM
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Stop being a sad cunt. Go read the sidebar. You’re going through the withdrawal stage of your oneitis infection. The next time you decide to invest all your cookies into one girl, implement failsafe mechanisms so that you don’t get destroyed. The problem is that she was your provider. You’re a submissive man. Aka a woman. Dominant leaders don’t get sad when one of their followers leave.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:15 PM
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LOL.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:23 AM
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Don’t blabber with them. Don’t ask a girl out. Move directly to telling her she should join you for a walk, drink, dinner, fuck, etc. Invest little and move on. Obviously girls are flakier than ever.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:04 AM
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I liked the pie chart analogy. It can take a while to get the pie filled up to 100. We actually have to build the pie.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 08:09 PM
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There is nothing to fix. You shouldn’t be getting married. If for whatever reason you can hamster your way into wanting to sign that contract with the GOVERNMENT, do it a long time from now. You’re dating a girl your own age. Obviously she’s going to want to settle down before you. She’s looking at that big 30 like oh no no no. When you hit 30, you could have a girl exactly like her(early 20s). You can, and will be able to find another girl like her. Most women are very similar - it’s just your …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:51 PM
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You have a bad case of oneitis. Wake the fuck up. Slap yourself and go take a cold shower. Read the fucking sidebar. It’s become foreign to you. What you’re doing: obsessing over some chick, ignoring your goals, putting her as your goal, embarrassing yourself What you should be doing: ignoring this chick, focusing on your goals, and realizing that you’re the prize. Understand that when you’re the prize, aka the king, thousands of woman will come to you, and all women are basically the same. Ther…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:13 AM
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Give her orders. Tell her what you told us. “Do not stop when I’m coming, keep going and spit it out after if you must.”
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:57 AM
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There is no problem here. You just described female biological nature. You don’t handle it. You watch and learn. AWALT.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:12 AM
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Keep this between you and your family. Don’t involve your LTR. If she sees you crying, she will never see you the same. Likewise, if you fall into her arms crying like a puppy, it’s game over. There are countless examples out there. Go ahead and grieve. Just keep your LTR out of it.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:46 PM
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I am highly educated in the health and fitness world. I never said that you can sit on your ass eating potato chips and get jacked. What I’m saying is that your average 150lbs Joe thinking they are improving themselves by jumping on roids because their friends are doing it are fucking idiots.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:47 PM
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Kids these days want all the cake but don’t want to put in the work. The work is what develops your mind and body. Men taking roids is the same as women getting tattoos. Both have zero impulse control and vision for the future. Having a medical condition is one thing, but I have never seen a man that could not get fucking jacked in a short period of time through diet and hard work alone.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:56 PM
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Do not, under any circumstances, DEER. This includes when a girl asks you why you do or don’t do something. DEER vs DARE https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4349/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:48 PM
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Again, you’re DEERing to me, a stranger on the internet. Stop trying to explain yourself. I don’t give a shit about your explanations, excuses, or reasons. If I don’t give a shit as a guy friend trying to help you out, imagine how little shit any woman is going to give. Again, do not explain shit to anyone. Explaining is for subordinates. A king does not explain his reasoning to anyone.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:36 PM
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If you’re asking about your frame, yours is weak. This whole post is a DEER. The facts don’t lie. You have been orbiting this girl for years and have not fucked her. This is textbook oneitis and DEER. You need to revisit the sidebar, and get your oneitis treated. This girl shouldn’t even be scratching the surface of your attention, but here you are.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:55 PM
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Wrap your nuts in a hot steam towel before doggy
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:31 PM
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Read http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:12 PM
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Personally, I reward a LTR for her birthday with my time and effort. She can go out and buy a materialistic thing herself, but she cannot buy my time and effort. For an LTR I will plan something that we will both enjoy doing where I give her a lot of time and attention. I have never had a woman ask me to buy her something. This would be a turn off, and I would not do it. In fact, if it was a LTR, I would dump her.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:08 PM
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This is really good advice. I’m sure you have heard the phrase “don’t burn your bridges.” This applies to many situations in life.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:52 PM
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She has power over you because you need her more than she needs you. Want to obtain power and respect? Delete her from your life with no explanation.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:46 PM
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This is the way it’s always been. You just see it more and more because society has let women run rampant. Women make decisions almost entirely in their emotional reality. This is why women running the world is a complete joke.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:33 PM
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Keep things clean. It’s good for you. Read the book: The Organized Mind.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:26 PM
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Sounds good. What I have learned is that great men are made to build empires for the people. You have an empire. If you give this to the people, you will become fulfilled. I’m not talking about just throwing money at things. I’m talking getting your hands dirty, mentoring people who are struggling, creating a positive ripple.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:37 PM
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You only wrote about money and women. Find something you love to do, and get more involved in that, and help others. Have you ever heard the quote “it’s lonely at the top”?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:40 AM
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This kid has to be trolling LOL
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:36 AM
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Generally, you create your purpose, you don’t find it. As a man, no one just drops purpose into your life. Your purpose may be unclear at first. You will be uncertain at times, but after you have found it, you will know.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:01 PM
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It’s not just in media either. It’s all workplaces, especially at the top of corporations. If you’re trying to work your way into a leadership role where the majority are your own race/sex, forget about it. You could be 10x more qualified than everyone else, but because they’re looking for a woman or someone that is x race, they will not accept you.
/r/MGTOW02/05/20 12:12 PM
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It depends on how far you’re travelling and how long since last heard from her. You don’t need to confirm if you have communicated with her in the last day or so, and you’re not going far out of your way. This will show confidence. If she asks “were you worried I wasn’t going to show up?” You say something like girls don’t do that to me, wink. Don’t go with “I am here,” be funny about it. Say something like “the king has landed” or “your tutor is here.” When she asks later what you’re going to t…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 12:54 AM
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Your interaction seems a bit backwards from a leadership perspective. Don’t ask her what she’s up to later in the week, because this is a submissive way of passively expressing your interest in seeing her. Tell her her that you guys should hang out later in the week, and that you’re free on a and b. Don’t confirm your date with a “see you later.” You’re not seeing her, she is seeing you. I usually don’t confirm the day off, but when I do it’s “wear something nice, so we match” Mr. V’s guide to t…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:47 PM
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Pick her up, drive around, fuck in the car, or say let’s go back to your place.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:28 PM
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Feminism will force the law to adapt. Common law marriage is already a thing in Canada. I.e. if you live with a girl for more than a year(don’t quote me on the duration), she is entitled to alimony and half your assets as if you were married. I don’t know if this is good news. These changes have been driven by feminism, and anything driven by feminism is illogical and irrational.
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 03:08 PM
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Because women are pushed by society to be better than men at everything, while they are biologically less equipped. A woman is naturally the most comfortable in a group of close friends and where she is kept in line and lead by a strong male. Instead, women are being pushed out into the wilderness to fight and hunt on their own.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:01 PM
2

Shit tests never stop. Some girls shit test more than others. You have to get to the point where you want to be shit tested, because passing a shit test makes the girl attracted to you, and respect you. It pulls her deep into your frame. I have zero tolerance for disrespect, and would suggest every man to have the same. If you ignore it, or AA/AM she will do it again, maybe in public, etc. I will either delete her from my life immediately, or say “don’t do that, it’s unattractive” with strong ey…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:46 PM
6

You don’t understand what HPV is, how it works, or how to properly handle your situation. Most people who are sexually active have HPV. It may or may not cause symptoms/issues. You can get vaccinated against specific strains that are the highest risk for cancer. I would recommend this for everyone. I can’t speak for the entire world, but where I live, STD/STI treatment is anonymous and free. Go get treated, get vaccinated, and recover. You’ll be good to go in no time.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:44 AM
2

She is poking big fat holes in your frame. When a girl disrespects you, you either soft/hard next, or put her in her place as you would a child. e.g. tell her to go sit in the corner facing the wall until you tell her she can move. If it’s a shit test, you reply with AA or AM. What you don’t do: get emotional.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:34 AM
6

Ignore what she says and keep doing what you want. The plate will spin, and then it will break. P.s. You have oneitis. You just described her as a pain in your ass and LTR material. Look at that big fat juicy oneitis contradictory.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:24 AM
3

You forgot about IDGAF and outcome independence. You’re pissed off because she let you down — you relied on her for something: you’re needy and dependent on her. You should have been completely unaffected by this — check your frame.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:16 AM
5

Sure. But the question is: is the red pill becoming more blue pill over time?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:10 PM
4

Don’t text. Send her written letters carried by doves.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:07 PM
2

LOL 😂
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:50 PM
1

She shouldn’t get half of my assets because I acquired many of them before we theoretically got married and she became a stay at home mom. If I bought 8 cars, 4 houses, and had 6 million in investments before even meeting the woman, she shouldn’t be entitled to any of that upon divorce. If I built a billion dollar company while I was married, and my wife decided to quit her 50k a year job to raise my kids, should she get 50% of my company? No, she should not. She should be subjectively entitled …
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:39 PM
3

The skin stretches will help a lot over time. There are dedicated foreskin restoration forums with a lot of great info on how skin grows, etc. Understand that you have performance anxiety which affects your erection in a negative way. You need to work on this anxiety. Understand and accept that your dick won’t always work 100%, and that sometimes it’s not your fault. This isn’t a meditation thing, this is a go have sex thing many many times to get over the fear of failure.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:24 PM
3

Because your stay at home wife who cheats on you, divorces you, and takes half of your assets and future income doesn’t deserve to be on the street.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:50 PM
1

That will work too - the counter shit test, haha
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:46 PM
3

You’re supposed to read the sidebar before posting. It’s in the forum rules. This place has become incredibly soft, and I don’t think it’s a good thing. Every day I see shit posts about some guys LDR, or basic RP 101 stuff, and it clutters the actual good topics and discussions.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:44 PM
34

Prenups can be thrown out in court, and completely ignored, etc. The better option is to not get married.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:51 AM
3

Your girl is insecure and gets jealous often, but asks for a threesome? Something is missing here. This sounds like a shit test. Either way, I think you win by either finding the second girl, or telling your GF to find the girl.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:58 AM
7

Don’t listen to what women say, watch what they do. You can trust that your woman will behave like Mother Nature — it’s science.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:50 AM
1

This^
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:55 AM
1

This one girl...
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:52 AM
1

I have business to attend to.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:26 PM
2

“Most of you will say give her less attention, but this is a LTR so I guess different rules apply” Have you not fucking read anything? Holy fuck. Hit yourself in the nuts five times, and go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:23 PM
1

Software engineer here. Make tons of cash. I play sports 4 days a week, and lift on the other days, race cars, and have a few other hobbies. Sure some IT folks are complete nerds, but I do it for the lifestyle. Flexible hours, remote work, easy on your body, etc. Career in IT is a turn on for women. IT careers are known for being stable and high in demand in the foreseeable future.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:15 PM
1

I would have ignored. She would see what she wrote the next day and be embarrassed. I would have invited her over another time like nothing happened. You responded via text, and now she has that for reference forever.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:32 PM
13

Only takes a few years. Lots of smoking hot girls from high school were basically unrecognizable at 22.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 01:27 AM
2

Some of my hobbies are very expensive. These hobbies have been cancelled(probably for the rest of the year). So yes, saving more money than ever before. Work from home, exercise at home, cook at home.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 01:23 AM
4

No this is not true. Don’t listen to what women say. Being jacked as a guy is more comfortable for her, and more comfortable for you. E.g. when she puts her chin on your chest, it doesn’t fucking hit your ribs, and it’s soft for her chin. Big wide chest, more room for her head during cuddles. Big fucking tree truck legs for her to sit on. The list goes on and on. Women say all sorts of fucking retarded shit, and this is definitely one of them.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 10:03 PM
1

You’re in an good spot, and no, you have not missed out on the pussy train. That train starts when you’re a bit older. You want advice? Understand that your biggest freedom in life is the freedom to exercise and get ripped. Nothing other than your own health can prevent this. So take the opportunity and do it. Get big and strong. Get lean. Work on your finances with a simple budget. Learn to save, and then learn to invest. Work on your outcome independence and idgaf mindset.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:51 PM
3

I wash sheets once a week minimum. I sleep nude, and treat the sheets like clothes, which I wouldn’t wear 7 days in a row. I have a nice bed, and nice sheets. I prefer fresh sheets for sleeping. This makes escalating easy when a girl sees my bed, says wow, and jumps in.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:42 PM
1

Abort mission
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:22 PM
2

You can verbally set a boundary. Here is an example. A girl that you’re vetting for long term status, and has been pushing for more commitment from you, says she’s going out to watch a show with one of her guy friends. Your response can simply be, chuckle, “I do not give my commitment to girls who hang out with other guys one on one.” Do not explain why, or expand on your reasoning. The best girls are the ones that you do not have to explicitly state your boundaries, and who do not cross them.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:38 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP26/04/20 09:07 PM
5

Drama in your life will follow your commitment to a woman that keeps her orbiters close and flowing. You can set boundaries. Remember, it’s not a discussion, and you don’t explain why. You simply state the boundary. For example, “I do not commit to a woman who hangs out with guy friends one on one.” “Why does that bother you, we are just friends” “I do not commit to a woman who hangs out with guy friends one on one.” Repeat and/or ignore her. She can either step way the fuck into your boundary, …
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:52 AM
30

Ass. She can have no tits, but an amazing ass, and I’m good. Tits and no ass doesn’t work for me.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:34 PM
3

If you confront her about this(which I don’t recommend), be prepared for her to make 100 excuses how this is ok and that you’re the one with the problem. This is your LTR, not a plate or fwb right? Personally, I have zero tolerance for this kind of behaviour in LTR criteria.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:30 PM
2

Women are sexually attracted to powerful men. What makes a man powerful can be many things. The Christian guy volunteering and working hard is not powerful for two reasons. volunteering is submissive by nature(you’re giving away your time and presence for free) Christianity by nature is submissive(you’re holding hands with women in church, praising the real alpha male, Jesus(I.e. not you))
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:33 PM
2

Understand that as a man in charge, you may be able to lead fantastic relationships with the wrong people. This is like hiring someone who does what you ask, works hard, and always shows up on time. They are really good at decorating the office and you love that about them, but really you hired them to be good at accounting, which they are not. You have to fire them even though you appreciate what they had to offer, because at the end of the day you need an accountant.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 11:19 PM
2

You touched on a point discussed with your therapist regarding your LTR. You feel trapped. What I understand is that you are giving someone everything that they need, but in return they are not giving you everything you need(freedom). So fundamentally, this cannot be an exchange that will make you happy. It will always be, they are getting what they need, but I am not, therefore, this is a bad deal. There are a lot of variables that go into making a decision, so I won’t suggest any solutions oth…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:18 PM
5

Men are less considerate of others? No, I do not agree. Men are tactful and logical, so if a man is being inconsiderate, and being aggressive towards another person, a solution can be found. Women are dangerous because the reality that they live in is solely based on their current emotions. There is no logic, or reason, and therefore no solution. So when a woman is inconsiderate, and being aggressive towards another person, it’s an impossible equation to solve. Talking about sexual strategy, bot…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:50 PM
3

You need to keep the peace. Do whatever it takes to keep the peace. Video record any crazy behaviour. Understand that anything you do, or have not done but are accused of can be used against you in court. The worst place to be trapped is not a pit of lions, it’s a small condo with your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:30 PM
1

I’m a strong young man with HIV. All of the people I fuck unprotected who die of aids are weaklings.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:05 PM
3

Crafting the perfect marriage includes changing the law.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 03:15 PM
4

Stop being pussies over an existential threat 🤣 I bet you’re out there protesting that covid-19 is fake news.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:11 PM
3

This is why there is a saying “text for logistics only.” You can’t tell if she is joking, being sarcastic, or being serious over text. What you’re doing is texting her like she is your LTR, which she is not. You’re hamstering yourself by telling yourself you’re practicing something. The reality is, if you had abundance, this plate would be put on hold until further notice, because she has nothing to offer right now. Calling her and texting her is the equivalent of her giving you sex. This is a o…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:45 PM
1

Awalt, noob.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:31 PM
2

Disrupting her security. This can be anything: being absent being mysterious calling out her poor behaviour tell her to clean your kitchen Any time she is comfortable and secure with you, her hamster is not spinning. Apply dread, be dominant, don’t take her shit.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:54 PM
5

Women aren’t adults. Their brain stops developing as a teen. Women don’t get fulfilment from pursuing hobbies. Women get fulfilment from being provisioned by an alpha male and taking care of others(babies, old people). This is female solipsism on full display. She lives in her own reality that is defined by her current emotions. She cannot for a second look beyond her reality. The problem is that a man keeping a woman in line is called emotional abuse, sexism, and oppression. In an ideal society…
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 06:58 PM
0

You say she mirrored you. Then you say you’ll never find someone like her again. You’re making no sense. All women do this. And yes, her with next guy will be I recognizable.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:38 AM
1

Riperino
/r/MGTOW21/04/20 10:11 PM
4

It’s not solely about money, or looks. It’s a combination of attributes. Don’t forget, women make their decisions based on their emotions, not 1 + 1 = 2. And, this is a topic separate from female nature. Describing female nature as going from dude to dude is not an accurate description of female nature. Female nature is to seek protection and provision. I.e. be a dependent. This is why females are hypergamous - obviously if you’re going to be a dependent, you want to depend on someone who can ta…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:41 PM
19

It’s not about money. Women drown themselves carelessly in attention and sex in their younger years with random dudes, because they can. When they hit the wall, their options start dwindling and they start playing the long term game. Regardless of whether or not the above is accurate based on a given geography or society, women will always look for and pursue their next best option. You could be the king of the whole world, and the second you get sick, she will be gone. This female nature is bio…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:39 PM
5

Did it really never cross your mind to search for non latex condoms - holy fuck face palm
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:04 PM
32

Her hamster is already spinning. Is she really looking for comfort here, or is this a shit test where she’s trying to get you to explain your actions? Don’t give comfort by explaining your past actions. If she FEELS that you haven’t missed her in the past, nothing you say today is going to change her feelings. And, saying that you did miss her would go against her feelings and any rationalization she is coming up with. Give comfort through future actions and commitment - take her out and tell he…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:50 PM
1

If you had read any, and I mean even a morsel, of the the basic RP 101 content, you would have a vast depth of knowledge to answer your own question. You should be shamed for asking this question knowing that this reading was your assigned homework. Familiarity breeds contempt. Use absence to increase respect and honour. Dread.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:09 PM
1

This change is because you started living together. She used to use her texts to get validation and attention from you. Now she has all of the validation, attention, and commitment she could ever dream of, and that’s where women lose it. What you have described is exactly what I would expect from her given the situation.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:06 PM
1

Long term - younger one. It doesn’t matter much for you today, but when you hit 30, and you girl is going on 40, you’ll be kicking yourself.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:56 PM
1

If you don’t care, don’t give fake comfort. If she has a problem with it, it’s her problem, not yours. Your job isn’t to sit there and listen to her irrational whining. Remember, you’re supposed to be the prize. No one behaves poorly if they are to capture the prize.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:41 PM
4

I have dealt with women like this that have absolutely nothing - no job, no friends, shitty place to live, and would not submit. These are the women that would rather die than follow you. You can argue that it’s daddy issues, family issues, feminism and society, and success. At the end of the day, these are the women that will become a massive pain in your ass, and regardless of the reason, do not waste your precious time on them.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:46 PM
1

April fools day post is late
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:41 AM
173

Just wait until you see the next generation that’s been raised by these sluts.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:33 AM
3

The point is, if you read the sidebar, you wouldn’t be asking this question, along with all of the other TRP 101 questions you’ll be asking in the future. Your question is asked often. What you’re asking about is based off biological evolution. When one provider dies, or fails to provide adequate provisions, the female will move to the next provider without remorse. The females priority is her own survival - staying invested in a male that is either dead, or cannot provide or protect, is not the…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:15 AM
3

You want to become a developer. Specifically, a Salesforce developer. Learn OOP, SQL, and HTML/JavaScript.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:11 PM
5

No. You’re obviously American, and can only think as far as your borders’ reach. I’m sure the overflowing hospitals and piles of bodies in Italy are all a part of the American political war right?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:52 PM
2

I’m not really sure what that was all about.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 07:37 PM
0

You’re missing it: it’s not about what your unicorn hasn’t done. It’s about what she can do, and what she would do. Read: AWALT If you walk away from this unicorn, you will be shocked one month later when she’s covered in tattoos, has a new haircut, is dressing slutty, working part time at hooters, and is out there “finding herself.” There is nothing special about this girl. Do what you want, as a man, and own your shit.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:31 PM
1

Your question should not even be a question if you are living your life correctly. What are you doing, sitting around wondering how much you should text her? Your wealth changes nothing: read AWALT. Date multiple women, and promote the ones who you want. Much wisdom from many books and articles highlighted in the sidebar and other TRP indexes strongly advises against long distance relationships, but here you are, with your LDR onteitis.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:20 PM
4

Why are you listening to what a woman says? Apply the “right now” rule. She loves her ex, right now. Go fuck her, and she’ll be loving you, right now. This is TRP 101.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:19 PM
1

The betas got you bro 🤣
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:50 PM
1

Oneitis. You have made this bitch your mission. The evidence: you’re moving away in a couple months, and somehow, you’re going without sleep worrying about this girl. The funniest thing is that you committed your balls to her knowing that you will be leaving shortly. You did this because you’re desperate for this one girl. You should have kept her as a plate/fwb, or let her go.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:47 PM
2

This is the part where you throw her over your shoulder and take her to the bedroom.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:37 PM
30

“Her exbf is also the leader of our social group” I stopped reading here. What the fuck. I mean.. the thing... no... I give up.... face palm....
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:15 PM
2

Your drive is gone because you lost part of your purpose. This is normal. To get your drive back, you will need to find purpose. Finding purpose to the point where you are highly motivated takes time. It’s time to focus on small wins, like eating three healthy meals per day. When you breakup with someone it can be the same as them dying. You grieve, remembering the good times, and suffer through it. Grieving can last a long time, so understand that it’s ok to be angry and sad. Set small achievab…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:05 PM
1

Actually it’s supposed to read “The enemy of the best, is often the good” It means to sacrifice things that are good to make way for things that are great. I suggest figuring out a way to visit your LTR for sex. If you’re both in isolation there isn’t much risk. It can even be nice car sex. If she rejects you, move on.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:06 PM
2

You’re explaining your reasoning too much. Compare your conversation to how it would be with a five year old girl. Less explaining why, more commanding and leading. She is crying because sad/mad/scared/trying to test your frame/who knows/woman.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:48 PM
5

This isn’t GF material. Demote and arrange three sum.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:40 PM
1

This is going to hurt for a long time. Men like to fix problems, but this pain isn’t something you can fix. You must accept that it hurts and pick it up and carry on with it. Man, understand that this is a long project for you. We’re not talking months, we’re talking years. This quarantine thing is a real test for many people who have broken pieces that they cover up with distractions. Now there is nothing, and all that is left is a mirror to stare into.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:38 PM
1

You are not her top option.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:21 PM
7

Oneitis. You’re contemplating upgrading her when it’s a LDR. You’re doing this to please her and to keep her spinning. This benefits her, not you. I look for her to be getting validation and approval from me. E.g. I just learned how to bake xxxx, can’t wait for you to try it, I just got a dress I think you will like etc. Lastly, she needs to capture my attention - if she went radio silent, or bored me for a month or two whether in isolation or not, it would be over.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:34 PM
1

Why would you get married? Have you been living under a rock since the year 1900?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:40 PM
35

You missed the point. You’ve spent too much time lingering and listening to the retards on these boards. TRP isn’t about fucking as many bitches as possible. TRP is a toolbox. Learn what’s in the tool box, and how to use the tools. What you create is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 06:51 PM
2

This. See something attractive and it’s an explosion of drive.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:35 PM
29

TRP doesn’t mandate that you spin plates indefinitely. It’s not about rules, it’s about learning what’s inside the tool box, and learning how to use the tools. What you build is completely up to you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:31 PM
2

This x100
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:22 PM
2

This is naive, isn’t compliance test material, and lastly, you don’t shit test women. Shit testing is for followers, subordinates, you know, the people that need reassurance that their master will not lead them off a cliff. What you’re asking is to be loved for WHO you are as a person regardless of whether you’re good looking, have social status, and financial security. You need to understand that your financial security contributes to your SMV. Women love you for WHAT you are, not WHO you are.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:32 AM
7

They know. Some of them just think it’s normal. I have run into a few of these ladies. One of them even asked me if all girls smell like that. One of them I could smell the stink with her pants on. Where I live, it’s inexcusable for a woman’s vag to stink.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:17 AM
42

Dread. Having normalized prostitution at the drop of a coin can be used for dread. It would get her hamster spinning just a little bit more. If prostitution ever made it to the point where it was cheap, safe, and abundant, I believe it would have a massive impact on the dating market. There would be some percentage of top males who would use prostitution while they build their empire. These males wouldn’t be available in the dating market until they want a family. This would make a HVM even more…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:07 AM
3

What is the point of this post? Rhetorical question? This is TRP 101, the basics; women ARE children.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:58 PM
2

Sounds like a normalish girl to me. You sir, are flip flopping between cheating, emotionally abusing, physically abusing, and topping it off by asking her to marry you. Your words and actions are all over the place. You say one thing and then do another - you have no integrity. This isn’t even normal oneitis. This is stage 4 psycho oneitis. You sound like the type of guy that chops women up after you’re done with them.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:37 PM
3

Your little girl is misbehaving. Tell her that she is on timeout, and that she needs to get her behaviour in line.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:38 PM
5

This post reeks of feminine. You’re complaining about not getting attention and validation from others, where you deserve it, based on your self proclaimed worth. You’re doing things FOR a set external expectation, and then feeling disconnected, sad, and let down when your expectation isn’t met. You do a few things and smoke weed all day, hamstering up your self worth beyond what it actually is. You’re feeling disconnected because your “reality” isn’t the same as reality. Here are some pro tips.…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:15 PM
30

Women like men with options. You have fucked up in this regard to the point where your girl is overtly communicating it. You need to stfu and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:56 AM
-2

Watch was she does, not what she says. This is fucking RP 101....
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:51 PM
1

She is negotiating sex with you. I consider this a red flag. She is trying to turn you into her betabux where she gets to withhold sex and you get to be her friend. Run for the fucking hills.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:46 PM
3

Your perspective is wrong. You’re worried about getting cheated on because in your mind you have made that a likely possibility. I.e. you believe you’re not her top option. Instead, believe that you are her top option, the king. If you’re having trouble with this belief, keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:00 PM
1

Read Unshakable by Tony Robins. This is one of the best books out there for someone who knows nothing about investing. It will get you up to speed real quick.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:54 AM
5

Your girlfriend doesn’t want to see you? Do you live on the street? Coronavirus is the perfect excuse to stay in and fuck. Drive her to your place. If she won’t come out to keep you happy, she isn’t gf material, and she gives up her gf status by default. Meaning, you can do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:14 AM
1

It’s the angle of the dangle
/r/askTRP15/03/20 10:48 PM
0

I have never seen a high smv guy date a low smv girl where the gap is huge. Generally a guy wants a girl that treats him well, and a woman wants a guy who is powerful. Guys date down, women date up. Fill in the blanks.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:25 PM
1

Holy shit, the beta cucks got me on this one.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:37 PM
-21

Staying home with her for one evening isn’t going to fix anything regarding her grief. You’re not helping her get over anything by staying home. Grieving takes weeks/months/years. She can call/visit other family while you’re out. In fact, she should be comforting her parent. She wasn’t close with her grandfather, and I assume you have never met him. This is a massive shit test.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:45 PM
1

Important for what? Getting laid and having plates want to return to hang out? Yeah it matters. There are some things that can help you. Keep your bed clean and clear of random crap. Keep a condom and lube in reach of the bed. Keep you apartment clean and simple.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:06 AM
3

The definition of flaked is a bit subjective. If you want to go, go ahead. Whatever you do, don’t say you’re busy as a form of manipulation. Either meet her, or hard next her.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:22 AM
7

It can be a commitment test. If you go to meet her parents she will assume that you are committed.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:44 PM
2

Why would you go meet her parents if You don’t want to You’re thinking of dumping her Out of respect for her father, do not go - this is a man to man respect thing. Taking advantage of a father before dumping his daughter says a lot about one’s character.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:38 AM
9

You’re mistake was flip flopping between saying you’ll go and saying you won’t go. You DEER at the end trying to explain things to her. Minor slip up. Pretend nothing happened and move on. Next time do not say anything until you know exactly what you want, and precisely how to execute it. She will probably shit test you on this - refer to previous statement.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:29 AM
2

You’re not her top option - read it
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:00 PM
1

Tell her you took your mom out for brunch.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:58 PM
2

You’re the leader, the boss, and first in command. Your job is to lead your subordinates. I.e. the girl. Girls don’t usually ask you out on a date. What they will do though, is ask you when they can see you again; when a girl does this, she is being submissive, showing interest, and is giving you an opportunity to lead her - perfect!
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:04 AM
55

If you’re getting married, you might as well get on one knee, since you know, you’re submitting your commitment to the government.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:25 AM
1

Arcade. There is a big arcade in my city that also has a bar/food area. I don’t drink so I take them straight to games. I show them my favourite games, and start messing with them a bit, like gently tickling or pushing them to keep their score lower than mine. I will even throw them on my shoulders and have them shoot baskets from up high. At this point, physical touch is good to go. Even if things don’t go well between us, I always have fun. Mall. The mall is a creative playground. Make up your…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:09 AM
6

Right, and that makes it even more ridiculous when the feminists push for female superhero movies.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:34 AM
2

Here is what I’ve learned over many years of growth in different areas of life: there is an ebb and flow to everything. Get comfortable with the ebb. No, master the ebb, like fucking thrive in it. This is when life is boring, or sucks, and you have no motivation or desire for anything. Love it, knowing that the flow will always return, because it always has, and always will. This is true abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:52 PM
2

I don’t have much to add here. If you have one partner, a copper iud works well. I’m shocked at the amount of people saying “if you don’t have kids, you fail at life” - I thought this was TRP.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:20 PM
13

Why even deal with this one? Don’t fuck around with women who have sexual assault, harassment, rape, etc. on their mind. Protect yourself.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:50 PM
7

Ask the doctor, you dingus.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:47 PM
76

She couldn’t believe what? That you would have sex with her when she’s drunk? Normally I suggest not listening to what a woman says, but this is getting into dangerous territory involving rape, etc. If a girl ever told me she felt weird about me fucking her when she was drunk, I would tactfully remove her from my life. Her feeling weird turns into her feeling raped.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:46 PM
6

No. Do yourself a huge fucking favour by using your brain for a few minutes here. You seem to be uneducated in your own anatomy. Solution: go read Foregen, and other activist websites to educate yourself on the purpose of the foreskin, how it works, and the different parts. Even if you had an issue, you have many options to resolve the problem that do not include completely removing half of the skin on your penis. Solution: Go talk to the folks on the foreskin restoration forums. There you can g…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:39 PM
2

There is this one girl...
/r/askTRP21/02/20 04:20 AM
3

What you will find is that most women are like this. They live in their own little reality where the only character is themselves. Women are not deep thinkers, they are not leaders, and they definitely don’t want to hear about your feelings. You will always have to, and need/want to lead the conversation, among other things. You are correct. She does not like you as a person. You are a tool, the prize. She can never appreciate you as a person because she cannot comprehend what it is to be a man.…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:51 AM
2

That is not real power. You’re not choosing her. She has already chosen you, opened herself to you, and committed herself to you. Your perspective of choice is a fallacy. What you are choosing is to cut ties with all other women. For the one woman left over, there is no action, there is no decision, things just are. Obviously spinning plates and LTRs have their purposes, albeit different. I don’t see much wrong with a LTR, but ensure that if you are pursuing it, that you are pursuing it for the …
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:37 AM
3

Your hamster is spinning hard. You have oneitis, and it has completely blinded you. Your GF is having lengthy conversations with an old fwb. I mean, this guy isn’t even some dude who she dated for 10 years and received a donor kidney from. This is just some dude that she whores herself to. And here you are, asking TRP what to do. This is as black and white of a situation that could ever be. If you invested in yourself by taking a few minutes each day to read TRP sidebar, recommended books, you w…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:12 AM
2

You do not forgive a woman, because they do no wrong. There is nothing to forgive. You are the king that is so far above her that forgiving her for something is beneath you. This is like contemplating whether or not to forgive a three year old girl for throwing her food on the floor. You reward her for good behaviour, and you punish her for poor behaviour. You decide the consequences. Do you think the king of the whole fucking world forgives the peasant for shitting in his palace? No, the king o…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:30 PM
2

Don’t overthink it. Texting back at the end of the night saying you had a great time is not the end of the world. Generally though, keep your intentions covert. Meaning, don’t tell her you enjoyed it, send her something else. The fact that you send her something covertly suggests that you like her.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:10 PM
10

Take this as a frame learning experience. The appropriate response to disrespect, and most other things in life is a smirk, slight amused look, straight face, or some combination of these. Imagine if a 5 year old said something that bothered you — everyone’s words should penetrate your frame the same way a 5 year old girl’s does. It does not even scratch your frame. It does not even register.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:02 PM
8

Why not take advantage of the current market? This is like when you buy shares as the stock market crashes - stocks are on sale. Right now women are crashing — time to get in on it.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 07:56 PM
11

Like every other girl out there, she’s just trying to get attention and validation on Valentine’s Day. She may not even meet up after you text her back. It’s an iron rule for a reason ( not to dig up past relationships ). If you’re monk mode, this can only hurt you. There are better options out there.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 07:53 PM
1

Holy shot this is wrong
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:31 PM
11

Assume attraction. Escalate you dingus.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:57 PM
0

Go in with a plan. A different plan. If your dick is going soft, pull it out, take the condom off, and either tell her to jerk you, or jerk yourself. Cum on her. If she asks what’s going on, tell her you can’t hold it in anymore. Knowing that you have a safe finisher will help with the anxiety.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:27 AM
2

Treat yourself. Ask her to tag along. She will put the pieces together - every girl knows when Valentine’s Day is. Contrary to several other comments. Do not expect her to buy you gifts, or do anything else for you. Doing so is a covert contract that sets you up for resentment, etc. Apply outcome independence - as I already said, treat yourself.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:34 PM
6

Aim to be high value when you graduate. High value generally means: money, status, looks. This will net you high quality male relationships, and a pool of high quality wet holes at your disposal. In the mean time, wrap it up and bang sluts for practice.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:38 PM
1

Read. Law 5: So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:49 PM
7

Over saturating her with your attention will make her complacent. If she is not interested, withdrawing will have no affect. Read law 16: Use absence to increase strength and honour. create value through scarcity.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:48 PM
1

This is literally iron rule #2. Read, newbie.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:44 PM
4

Do something that you want to do.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:56 PM
2

“His fair share” - these three words tell an incredible perspective of the female mind.
/r/MGTOW05/02/20 01:48 PM
1

If you can create your own closure without involving her it would be ideal. Creating your own closure is a valuable skill that you can use more than once in your life - people will come and go throughout your life. It’s important to realize that you will always have feelings for them, and logically you may have been a fantastic match, but that you must keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:47 AM
3

This is like doing coke to the point where you’re so fucking high that you do some terrible shit, and think that this bad experience from doing coke is going to help you rid your coke addiction. Stop pressuring yourself into thinking that there is some magical timeframe for healing. Look, if you made some great memories with someone, whether it’s a guy friend, or a girl, and then they’re no longer around, being sad that you can’t create more with that person is logical. You will never get over t…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 03:53 AM
2

Your perspective of doing nice guy beta things for your lady is wrong. Cooking for your lady is not beta, unless you have the perspective that you’re doing it as a slave. Cook for your lady, because you are taking control of the situation. Clean and keep things organized, because you are taking control of the situation. This is not even about your lady. This is about how you take control, and lead in tough times.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:40 PM
9

That’s not what I’m saying at all - almost the opposite. I’m saying, as a man, a leader, a champion, you must keep working on yourself, and leading those around you for your entire life. This is the way of the elite male. Most people after 30 have hit their main goals and turn into a blob. How are you supposed to lead, and stimulate those around you as a blob?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:20 PM
43

Yes it’s possible. Most people stop evolving and growing around 30. It’s your responsibility as a man to continuously develop yourself throughout your life. It’s your responsibility to lead the relationship for the entire relationship. If your woman is out of line, it’s a reflection of yourself. You’ve either selected a bad one, or failed to lead her. Either way, you failed. Stop blaming woman for doing their natural woman things. Improve yourself.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:07 PM
1

Look son, it’s great that you found TRP at a young age. You have a lot of work to do. You have oneitis. You care too much. You need to embrace a subtle way of not giving a fuck. Figure out where you want to be when you’re 25, and then drive your life in that direction. Enjoy the journey.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:39 PM
2

She’s nervous. She’s basically clentching. She needs to relax and get more comfortable. Try a few times with her. Once you break her in, she will be yours.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:47 PM
6

You still have reading to do. Saying “Hi, I want to have sex with you.” is too direct for most situations. Engage with her and show her that you want to have sex with her by escalating physically. Invite her over for “ice cream ;)”
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:44 PM
5

Like others have said over and over. Do not send pics of your junk. In what clown world are you obligated to fulfill some random chicks requests? Tell her no. If you want to be funny and cocky, which is the correct response for most situations, respond with “it’s too big to fit on camera.”
/r/askTRP29/01/20 02:23 PM
9

Yes. You guys will get along great since you’ve gone full retard. You never go full retard man.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:04 PM
1

It’s a plate... respond with no worries. Then invite her over a few days later...
/r/askTRP28/01/20 09:17 PM
7

Women don’t know what they want, or what they like, until a man shows them. Basically every crazy kinky slut learned it from some guy’s instruction. With an LTR, treat her like your student. She says she’s not into science, but has she seen the stars? It doesn’t matter really, because she’s in your class, and you’re either passing, or failing her.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 09:14 PM
10

She wants validation, and to keep you in her back pocket as a potential backup. I.e. an orbiter. You’re not her top option.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 03:08 PM
4

Having a “good” diet doesn’t mean anything. Try cutting out dairy, and gluten — it’s pretty easy. Get a chlorine filter for your shower and drinking water. Clean your bedsheets every day with non fragrant mild detergent. Take a curcumin supliment to reduce inflammation. Don’t go crazy with ointments and random harsh creams. Just filtered water and vitamin c should be good enough. Lastly, give whatever you’re trying time. It will take weeks/months to start seeing improvements. Don’t get deterred …
/r/askTRP28/01/20 03:03 PM
4

Depends what you want for your life. Build your empire. It will attract high quality men and women. Your empire will fund infinite travel, and more.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:55 AM
3

You just got invited into a FWB situation. Congrats.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:04 PM
1

You have a lot of weight spread out on a large frame. Your lifts aren’t bad, so continue to keep scaling up on food and lifting. Depending on genetics, and body fat, you’ll start looking big around the 175-185 range.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:54 PM
3

Cuts clothing
/r/askTRP26/01/20 09:04 PM
2

Did you not do everyday things with her before moving in together? Ideally you would spend full days/weekends together for vetting purposes. You need to taker her out and game her. Also, you need to go out and leave her on her own for periods of time where she doesn’t really know what you’re up to.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:03 PM
2

I’m walking and holding her hand, ask her a question, she responds and I say good answer/laugh, stop and swing her around to face me, softly touch under her chin and make eye contact as I lean in. As soon as you have made some physical contact and she reciprocates it’s on. If she takes my hand and let’s me lead her, game over.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:05 PM
6

What helped me a lot in developing my social skill was to observe and mimic people with elite communications skills. These people are rarer than your average joe. They know how to listen well, and dig into your soul through their body language and depth of interest and thought about what is being communicated. Find someone like this, and talk and observe their communication techniques. On another note, while you may have a notation about women who are below you, or unworthy, these women can prov…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:52 PM
0

Why are you asking this in asktrp...
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:33 PM
1

Don’t make fun of other men, and don’t defend yourself when someone makes fun of you. This is childish behaviour. The guy making fun of you is equivalent to a three year old girl — when a three year old girl makes fun of you, lean back and smirk, that’s it.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:11 PM
1

“He made fun of me, and now I’m mad” Did this happen in grade 1? I’m confused.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:53 PM
2

women oneitis — go fuck a bunch of women. guy friend oneitis — go fuck a bunch of guys. It’s not sexist. It’s simple, and gay.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:51 PM
7

No they won’t. They’ll pressure you into it. Get new friends, or don’t have any friends at all.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:38 PM
2

Come up with a story, and stop being so insecure. I would be showing that off like a badass. “I lost it while roughing it up on the ice defending one of the smaller guys on my hockey team” wammo, you’re a legend.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:25 PM
1

Stop overthinking it... If your buddy asked this, you would respond with a “good, I just went hiking, and now I’m eating chili watching the hockey game, you?” The fact that you have to ask this question means you’re buried at the bottom of the ocean in her frame, because a) you’re pedestalizing her, or b) you’re boring as fuck, and have zero social skill. Either way, sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:22 PM
1

She’s a plate. Why do you care if it’s her ex, or some random dude? It makes no fucking difference.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:52 PM
3

Take your ribs out bro
/r/askTRP18/01/20 02:37 AM
2

If your girl isn’t kinky, it’s your fault, since you as the man need to dominate the sexuality. Go out to dinner, and tell her to take off her panties and slide them to you under the table. Go buy remote control vibrating balls, put them in her, and then take her to the mall. Go to Victoria Secret to look at underwear with her. Turn the vibrator on with the remote, and whisper dirty things to her. Lead her to the family bathroom and fuck her. Tell her to be waiting wet and naked in bed when you …
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:34 AM
2

You want to have internal motivation. If you were the last person on earth, would you still try to improve yourself? Answering yes reflects a steadfast motivation, high level personal character, and outcome independence.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:30 PM
110

Don’t ever listen to what a woman says. Watch what they do. When a woman says she wants a normal guy. She’s saying she wants a beta bux to enslave. Her tingles, and irrigation system between her legs will respond to the jacked guy. To answer your question. Most of the smv increase happens early on when you have developed shoulders, arms, and chest. After that, diminishing returns kicks in, and the next big jump in smv is when you actually get big.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:18 PM
10

Wait, how is this even a conversation. Your exclusive LTR is sending nudes to some other guy. You found the proof. You shouldn’t be so introspective, wondering if you’re insecure, or talking about jealousy. Your LTR’s behaviour is nuclear worthy. Have some self respect, and hard next this girl immediately, without an explanation.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:02 PM
1

They have side effects, and can be challenging to get off of. They will take your edge off, and suppress your drive in life to some degree. I have seen them improve the quality of life for people with anxiety. Anxiety is no joke, and sometimes no amount of meditation, mindfulness, or lifting is going to solve the problem. Sometimes a life can be too much for a given person. If you’re going to start, I suggest you start with half of the lowest dose, and try to keep the dose as low as possible, wh…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:06 PM
1

Why does her period matter? Just fuck her on her period. It’s a shit test. “But I still want to keep her in her place” This ship has long sailed.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 10:56 PM
1

Answer this: what are your goals? If you answered anything other than: to be an elite and competitive power lifter, deadlifts are not necessary. Deadlifts can completely fuck your back for the rest of your life, and that itself can completely ruin your life. Is the risk worth it for the average lifter: nah Do bent over rows, squats, back extensions, and farmer walks. Your back will thank you.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:36 PM
20

Pro tip: buy a fucking condom.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:14 PM
1

“Sticky situation with a girl and her sister” Nice job my man, nice job.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:03 PM
8

If you’re in a LTR, she is going to ask you to do things. Your mentality can either be defensive where you think she is trying to control you, or it can be offensive where you think you’re providing for her. Why not just reply with a: I got it baby, wink, slap ass, and tell her to put on her pretty panties for later.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:02 PM
10

It’s evolution. Women were completely dependent on men. If their main guy died, they would need to forget and move onto the next provider immediately. To top it off, women live in their feelings, not logic, reasoning, or honour. So as soon as they can get feelings from a new guy, that’s all that matters. Men live in logic and honour. These things do not ebb and flow like feelings do. So when a man loses something, or is betrayed, it is forever.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:22 PM
12

You don’t explain reasoning to a woman. You set your boundary early on, and now she is disrespectfully calling your bluff. Nothing more to say is needed. She didn’t invite you, because she and her friends want to do things that you wouldn’t approve of. She has options to work within your boundary, but she either thinks you won’t leave her, or she doesn’t care.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:21 PM
1

Props for trying this
/r/askTRP11/01/20 04:17 AM
1

Her resolve to leave you unattended for four months says everything. Who cares what she does. The fact that she’s comfortable with what she’s doing means you either told her it’s ok, or she doesn’t prioritize her relations with you.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 04:02 AM
4

Look out for yourself. If the roles were reversed, she would be gone. So don’t think that you’re getting any points in the long run by supporting her.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:20 AM
1

Comfort test and validation. Don’t over think it. Your answer doesn’t matter if you’re gaming and dreading your LTR properly. The next time she asks, pause, ignore the question, command her to go prepare lunch for the two of you. After eating, tell her you love her.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:40 PM
1

Dude this is only going to get worse. Why are you engaged to this girl? Are you gaming her, and applying dread? Have you studied the sidebar? Are you ready to hand her your balls, and sign a contract that says she can fuck you financially for the rest of your life? To answer your question, yes, most girls will have on and off days, and it majorly corresponds with your relationship dynamics(game, dread, respect, etc), from my experience.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:28 PM
2

Sidebar
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:40 AM
1

Do both. Don’t feel that you need to be at the gym every day to make gains. I play hockey 3-5 days a week and hit the gym 2-3 days a week. When I don’t play as much, I go to the gym more - it’s a cycle. For me, it’s all about diet. I need to eat a lot of protein to keep my size and conditioning.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:52 AM
31

What do you think we think... Obviously you chose a less than optimal sexual strategy by getting married. Your wife owns your balls, and has you on the hook legally. TRP isn’t anti-LTR. It just states that cohabitating and monogamy is hard mode. You need to start gaming your wife, and applying dread.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:03 AM
4

It’s a form of commitment, and provides constant comfort and validation to the woman — exactly what you do not want.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:48 PM
0

“Can’t get bigger” you’re wrong. If you’re working hard and not getting results, you need to work smarter. Are you tracking macros and weighing yourself every day? Have you been working with a body building coach to reach your goals? You sound like one of those kids always seeking a quick fix, and flip flopping from one to another with absolutely no direction.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:48 PM
2

Dude you don’t need plastic surgery.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:35 PM
3

Give it more time. Don’t set the expectation that you need to be back to normal by x date. Think of this as an evolution of yourself. You need to define what moving forward is. For some, it’s a new hobby, new career, running a marathon. Find something that is positive and can fill your mental space.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:42 PM
1

Spend a few hours watching documentaries on fmtv. Your nutrition matters more than you could imagine. This isn’t just about being manly, and gainz, this is about cancer prevention, and longevity. The best prevention for cancer/other is your diet.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 07:10 PM
4

Dude, it sounds like she already hard nexted you.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 01:56 AM
6

I agree, this is most likely a love bomb due to guilt. If it’s not, it’s because of the reason I stated. Either way, red flag.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:28 PM
1

There is always a risk that she gets pregnant, never goes back to work, and then divorce rapes him. Regardless of marriage, their relationship dynamic is about SMV. Just because she makes more than him, it doesn’t mean she has a higher SMV. This is just basic RP sexual strategy - improve yourself, raise your SMV, apply dread. If he’s vetted her for a long time, he’s high SMV, wants a family, and understands the risks of the game he’s playing... it could work.
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 04:22 PM
2

You shouldn’t have screenshot and sent it to her. You should have soft next her, and keep her as a plate where she belongs. Remember, saying less/nothing will give you power. Also, this attention slut is using tinder to increase her random thirsty validation providers on IG. She could delete tinder, but it doesn’t even matter, because half of the database is following her on IG.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:08 PM
9

Women will get all affectionate for different reasons. For example, doing really well on a test at school will put her in a good mood. Good mood also makes her affectionate. Alternatively, she gets a shit ton of validation from an ex who dumped her. This makes her feel good, and those feelings make her more affectionate in general. The fact that she said Merry Christmas means they are open for business(she should have just ignored him). If you did not catch it, she would be responding to his “I …
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:51 PM
1

Dude you’re DEERing, not only that, but you’re doing it over text.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:06 AM
1

You’re just validating things by agreeing with her. I would have just responded with “drinks at x at x”, or sent her something witty completely ignoring her “intentions” seeking.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:04 AM
1

Watch what she does, not what she says. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:46 PM
3

I watched my mom get destroyed by cancer at a young age. My family, including my ltr took care of her, and she passed in my arms, with my ltr next to me. When she passed, my ltr of 3.5 years complained about not having enough time to get ready for her trip to Italy because we were planning funeral arrangements. She left a couple days later for her trip. She would FaceTime me as she happily went about exploring Italy, and then would get upset because I was emotionally unavailable and didn’t seem …
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 05:15 AM
13

I believe what you’re looking for is not the nature of women. You’re not going to have those challenging philosophical conversations, planning, and mission with a woman. A woman isn’t there to challenge you, give you validation about your life, or to make you better — this is all on you, and should be.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:12 PM
9

I think it’s a balance of keeping your effort low on average compared to the other things you have going in in your life. Also, if a girl goes low effort, she misses out on the prize, which is you, not her.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 04:54 PM
5

It’s advice. You can take it or leave it. Also, I think the best slap in the face to a cheating ex is to up your smv a couple points and replace her with a hotter, higher smv version. This isn’t a - who can have the most sex competition. Lastly, I think the point is to focus on improving yourself. Monk mode works well for this, and there’s nothing wrong with taking a month or two away from women.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 07:03 PM
8

Hey man. I assume you had feelings for her, since you were going to marry her. Just know that this betrayal is going to sting and you may go through a rollercoaster of emotions for the next few months. It will get better. Spinning plates, and hitting the gym hard will help.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:51 PM
1

Asian.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 11:53 AM
3

This is not my experience. I find most girls end up making me feel like I’m in a porno.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:06 AM
8

Dude I just exploded laughing reading this
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:33 AM
4

You’re not her top option.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:51 PM
0

Develop your style. Style is important. It will change as you change. Don’t be afraid to change.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:48 PM
9

Watch a movie so you’re both on the couch. Touch her, tickle her, etc. Reach all the way over to her far hip, and roll her over onto your lap, she will be straddling you, you can kiss, and if she starts grinding on you, it’s game over. Pick her up in the same position, and take her to the bedroom. Works every time for me.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:33 PM
1

The craziest thing is that there are quite a few women out there like this. I dated one, while wasn’t this extreme, had the same tendencies.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:59 PM
1

Because women want to feel things instead of build them. Every travel is an opportunity to take photos and get more attention and validation back home. Remember, most women don’t have any mission or hobbies back home.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:25 AM
2

Tall is subjective. It’s not “women like men above 6’”. It’s women like men taller than them. Go to China at 5’8, jacked around 175, and the girls will be shaking with each step you take, calling you the beast, and the hulk, in their foreign language. They will think you’re the biggest animal they have ever seen. White girls tend to be a bit taller, and heavier(USA), so I can see why you may be concerned. What you need to realize is why women like tall men. They like tall men because tallness re…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:30 AM
0

Abortion?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:39 PM
1

Wtf part of the world do you live in where being 5’8 is shorter than most women? Most women are like 5’ - 5’7 You can’t change your height, but you can put on a lot of muscle. Focus on lifting.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:37 PM
1

She will never see you the same. Your power will be less, and she will trust you less.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:52 PM
1

Why does your race and name matter? If she’s into you, she’s into you... Tell her you were joking, and then change the subject... easy.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:21 AM
1

Lifting isn’t just about getting jacked so that you can attract females. Lifting is about mission, focus, and conquering objectives. People have told you to lift, not so you have a more attractive body, but to fix your negative beta mentality, which is where you need to start.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:15 AM
2

Dude.. read the sidebar — all of your answers are there. Sounds like your SMV is low. Raise your SMV to the point where you’re her top option. At this point, she likely won’t cheat, or rather, you will be able to vet one that will likely not cheat. If she does, other options will be lined up waiting for you. At the end of the day, stfu, lift, sidebar, awalt.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:38 AM
2

You’re assuming all pussy is the same size. That 4 inch dick is going to fit great with the 4’5” Asian chick. Meanwhile, that 4 inch dick isn’t even going to be hitting the walls on the 6’5” land whale.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:11 AM
3

No. It’s like showing them how fast your APR stage 3 golf R is. They simply do not understand.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:05 AM
3

Why is your main concern not losing her? (Epic fail) Your main concern should be reading the sidebar, and then improving yourself. You need to stfu.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:38 PM
1

I don’t know what’s confusing about the matter. Your girlfriend has a concussion. You’re taking care of her. You’re not having sex, or at least not in the past five weeks. Considering that she can dump your ass as soon as she has been nursed back to health, this is an investment that you may want to get out of sooner than later. Ensure that you have diversified your investments. I.e. pursue other women.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:06 AM
2

DEER via text. How are you not embarrassed to post this...
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:13 PM
3

The process is the same for everyone. Groom well, dress well, lift, stfu.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:04 PM
2

Would an alpha male, the prize, say “my shoulders hurt” then build resentment when he doesn’t get what he wants... no, he would not. He would directly state what his first officer needs to do to please him.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:21 PM
2

If the job is just a random temporary thing, go for the girl if you like. Kino while you walk. If she is receptive, tell her to jump on your back, then piggy back her to the pub. The next piggy back should be you taking her to the bedroom. I read a post a while back about picking girls up physically. I do this in a playful manor, after there is already some basic physicality between us. Going to mini golf? Throw her on your back and tell her to hit the ball.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:09 PM
7

Yeah they can find you on IG if you have your number on your IG profile, which most people probably will have for two factor authentication. You don’t want plates/fwb following your social media. One of them will comment on something, and the others will see. It just gets messy. Simpler to keep plates and fwb out of your social media.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:42 AM
1

This is fine. Women love to talk. Talking makes them feel good. Let her talk for a while and then move things into physical action where you are leading her. If she won’t stop talking, go give her a piggy back.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:37 PM
1

You should be laughing at her. She is a little girl brat. You entered her frame, and it ruined the date night. Next time just laugh at her, or get up and leave her forever.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:37 PM
2

I had a girl like this once. It wasn’t that she was in pain, it was that she was too sensitive. I kid you not, she would cum from me just inserting my dick. Like just put it in, once it’s in, she had a massive shaking orgasm, squirting, the whole deal. And I didn’t even have to move. This was the worst sex that I ever had.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:08 PM
6

Just wait until she goes out dancing without you. Dancing is a branch swinging fantasy. Next her before she nexts you.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 12:53 PM
7

Read 48 laws of power if you haven’t.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:43 PM
4

I like this. Emphasis on stop explaining/reasoning yourself to the girl.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:49 PM
1

When you leave her on the fist meeting, you’re making yourself scarce. You have more important shit to do. Things that are scarce have power. Women are attracted to power. Dressing nice for work once and a while, if not every day will help your professional situation. Put on the cologne after work. Bring a gym bag, change, you figure it out. Women pissed that you didn’t bang them on the first meeting? What the? It’s a coffee, not even a date. You need to read more books, like 48 laws of power, r…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:30 PM
2

I run a tight schedule too, and don’t like to get off my routine. I can relate to this. I work in a big city, and I will meet girls for a coffee after work. This is a 1 hour event at the longest. I go in, build attraction, and then leave. Later on, I evaluate my options and invite one of them to a spot near my place, where you know, the standard escalation applies. I have even met girls at noon for coffee and a bite to eat during the work day. It’s all about efficiency.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:05 PM
1

I think of it like seasons. Spring always comes after winter. After you have been around for a few years, you learn that spring will always come back, and that you don’t have to panic when winter sets in
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:01 PM
7

This isn’t a fallacy. I’m 30, and if I was a woman, I would rather be with the 30yo version of myself rather than the 25yo version. Like, it’s not even close. The one thing to note is that as your physical appearance deteriorates, you will need to have more power, more resources, and generally be able to provide more. It’s not that they love you because you’re old, they love you because you are powerful.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:24 AM
5

You’re overthinking things. She knows you’re coming back. You’re only seeing each other once every two weeks, so really you’re only missing two visits. And, this isn’t your girlfriend or wife, it’s a plate/fwb. Just fuck her good, cuddle her, kiss her on the cheek and say see you when I get back, then slap her ass and leave. This isn’t rocket science.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:17 AM
1

Depends on what physical activity you’re performing. I take creatine for hockey and it made a huge difference in my hydration and endurance.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:12 AM
23

A woman is likely not going to articulate her reasoning, because most likely, she took action on her feelings. Do you want to listen to your ex plate talk about her feelings from a year ago?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:05 AM
3

Is this a troll..
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:59 PM
1

I’m confused. Why would one not have sex for a long time. And, what exactly is the definition of a long time?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:02 AM
6

Long term exclusive girls that have been around for a while. Plates and other randoms, not a chance.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 04:39 PM
4

I remember when my girlfriend made me wait like 6 months. I was 14 years old.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 03:03 AM
2

I would roll with it. No need to feel bad about it, because you guys never spoke about it. If she wants to call you bf, honeybuns, rain maker, chad, or whatever else, that’s on her. For all you know she is perfectly fine with you seeing other women.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 12:15 AM
5

Troll
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:27 AM
1

Dress well, groom well, be ripped, be intelligent and interesting. Blow her mind in and outside of the bedroom.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:05 PM
1

I guess the question I ask myself is, why would she not be really into me? As long as she is not super needy and demanding things, we good.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:02 PM
5

This. I do this even after a quick coffee date. This is especially effective when the girl is a bit shy or is assuming you’re way out of her league.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:16 PM
7

Wait, the question should be: what is the point of marriage?
/r/askTRP26/10/19 10:08 AM
2

Animals can be dangerous.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 10:04 AM
3

Honestly, I think if you use these exact words, and put a smile on your face, she will laugh and get her shit fixed ASAP.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:24 AM
3

I think it’s about not over investing into the girl. You can be really into anything in life, but it’s good to have diversified interests so if one thing fails, you still have other valuable assets.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 11:35 PM
1

Delete all references to her. Get some plates/fwb. Give it time.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 11:25 PM
3

Getting laid is not a team sport. Neither is making money, in my opinion. Stop blaming introversion for lack of confidence and social skills. Being introverted doesn’t mean that you aren’t supremely confident and elite with social skills. Practice social skills, and build yourself so that you have confidence.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 07:17 PM
13

It makes sense. Women have so many options. If you hesitate, show weakness, or fuck up in any way, she is onto the next fantasy.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:18 PM
5

It’s subjective as we’re talking about women, but crying over a death, or grieving will destroy attraction. Do not ever show it to a women. I know this from experience. A man crying brings out the same emotion in a woman as when a puppy is struggling to climb up stairs.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 02:51 AM
3

Men and women approach decision making completely different. A man will never say he accidentally kissed/slept with a woman. A woman will definitely say that she accidentally kissed/slept with a man. It’s the famous saying: she accidentally tripped and fell on a dick. Women go out to receive sexual validation. Men do not. Woman act without regard to logic and consequences as soon as they become emotional.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:58 PM
1

Hey what’s new? You :) I’m not new, more like wine, and less like grape juice. Haha I guess you are old Ok there grape juice. You should join me for xyz... blah blah
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:27 PM
4

I agree to disagree. Dressing better than normal and practical can either provide congruence with your status, or be a basis for peacocking (showing off). Both can be sexual strategies. I don’t see where insecurity is involved here.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:55 PM
2

“RP is not supposed to be moral” Wrong. Morals are your own business. To add the the conversation, evaluate yourself, and your morals. If you break your morals, you will feel guilty. Personally, my word is my honour and pride. My word has nothing to do with anyone, their morals, or anything but the commitment that I hold myself to. In my opinion, what separates a man from a woman, is integrity. That is, your word matches your action — congruence.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:40 PM
4

Wait what? If you have a fantastic physique, why would you not want your clothes to highlight your physique. Perhaps we live in different worlds, but where I’m from, having a nice physique and wearing clothes that show off your excellent physique as a man puts you in the top percentile of men. Women show off their body for validation. Men show off their body to be a “sick cunt” — zyzz
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:07 PM
1

Nope she’s a plate. Joke with her or next
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:06 AM
3

Outcome independence, friend. It doesn’t matter if she comes back. Work on your mission in life — other women will want to fuck you good. Remember, abundance, and you are the prize.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:17 PM
11

Wait, we’re talking about the LTR that dumped you right? You’re the alpha— you don’t lock down females. It’s the females job to lock you down since you’re the provider.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:02 PM
6

You can either plate her, or ghost her. Either way, you don’t explain shit to her. She knows exactly why you’re on tinder, and is just trying to stir up drama in your life.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 06:07 PM
1

This is highly situational. Maybe even seasonal. If it helps your position in life, do it. This is a tricky balance, and a tool to be used carefully. The risk is that banging the low end chick can pacify your drive to seek out higher end chicks.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:14 PM
1

If you text your plates other than for logistics, they either break, or they think they’re your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:44 PM
-2

This is a forum for male sexual strategy, not granular nutrition specifics.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:38 PM
1

This 100%
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:38 AM
1

It’s fair to say that you like her a lot, and she’s better than most, but what experience will show you is that what makes her special isn’t the same thing that makes every woman special. That is, an unknown character may give you the feels even though the character is different. I wouldn’t say there are any quality women by the beta definition. Women can be different in how they attract you, but in the end all women are the same. I don’t think you should have problems finding stimulating women …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:24 AM
1

I apply the same strategy as I would talking to a girl on the street. I joke and tease her, and generally just guide the conversation toward her meeting me somewhere for coffee.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:59 PM
2

Several new likes every day. Learn how to build a profile that projects a high value man(yourself). The profile will include tactfully selected photos, and tactfully crafted wording to succinctly project as much value and mystery as possible. Essentially, you want every woman that visits your profile to like it. She will do this because you have compelled her to do so through either your photos, or your writing, or a combo of both. Personally, I don’t use Tinder, because I find tactful and craft…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:09 PM
2

I use the upgrade on any app so that I can see who liked me. I don’t have time to browse through women’s profiles. I get a like. I evaluate. I either engage, or ignore. Either way, I’m spending as little time browsing as possible.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:41 PM
7

You probably don’t want to do your primary research on this topic using this forum. I suggest you do some research elsewhere. Getting sick doesn’t indicate that you have a weak immune system. The problem is when you don’t have a quick turn around. Everyone’s environment is different. Things like taking crowded public transit, your workplace, the people you come into contact with have a big influence on what is thrown at your body. The basis for a healthy immune system is sleep nutrition stress r…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:48 PM
1

Do not ever attempt to rationalize a woman’s actions with logic.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:01 PM
1

I usually only engage if there has been some form of ioi. If I get a slight smile it’s 100% go time. This isn’t to say that you cannot just walk up to anyone and start a conversation.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:39 AM
1

Learn how to groom your beard. Keep it in mint condition. Your face/ head look fine. We all have shit we would change if we could. Just accept it and go full send like the rest of the alphas.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:13 PM
1

There are a few different scenarios here. But generally if this is your exclusive LTR girlfriend/wife, go out once and a while and dominate the social experience. Also, flirt with her friends directly. If you’re high smv her friends will all be wet for you. This is anxiety dread, and social proof right in front of your LTR’s eyes. Expect her to bang you hard, and reduce the shit tests for a while. For me, this is the easiest and most effective way I apply dread.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:36 PM
1

Women do not think or behave logically. Stop trying to logically correlate what her dumping you means in regards to your smv.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:54 PM
9

Showing you pics of other guys she’s banging and bragging about all of the dick she’s had or could have doesn’t seem like LTR material at all.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:02 PM
9

We all pay in some form or another. “I don’t pay women for sex, I pay them to leave” - Charlie Sheen
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:19 AM
7

Posture/physical ethos is number one -- this can be done for free. Have you ever seen how a dominant male gorilla presents himself? If not, look it up — you want to mimic this ethos, but in a human form. It’s a holy fuck look at that alpha kind of ethos. Nothing is more impressive. Stand in front of a full body mirror. Work on your posture. Your shoulders need to be back, and down, chest out. Chin up, do not look down, ever. It’s better to trip and fall than to ever look down. Do not fiddle with…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:27 PM
13

Not just for asians, this is gold for everyone. Thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 02:35 AM
2

This 100x
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:42 PM
2

I’m trying to understand these words: “found LTR material — met a week ago.” These words should not go together. Slap yourself in the face and wake up my dude.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:01 AM
2

The problem isn’t whether or not you’re a cheater. The problem is that your word is unreliable. You say one thing, and then do another. You have no integrity. Moreover, this isn’t even about your relations with others. You are not even honest with yourself in the first place.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:55 AM
3

What do you mean by date? Don’t catch feelings, don’t commit. Plate or fwb might be ok. Keep your guard up. Play defence. When in doubt, run.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:36 AM
2

Dude, start working on your 1 year plan, and break that down into even shorter term objectives. Get your month by month or week by week goals that you need to be hitting, put your head down, don’t think, just grind. Having the 15-20 year plan is fine, but is way too easy to talk about, and will likely evolve into something different anyways. Don’t focus much on step a,b,c,d,e,f... focus on step a, and only a.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:31 AM
324

My jaw drops every time. You and I have to remind ourselves of the “right now” concept. She loves me... right now. Love for a woman is solely emotional and not based on any form of logic. There is a reason they call the volatile weather Mother Nature, and not Father Nature. Mother Nature will shower you with sunshine, and then one minute later, completely destroy you and everything on the planet.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:23 AM
6

Ok this actually made me lol
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:13 AM
2

Firstly, is this person an investment that is 5x more likely to return value than to become a burden? Secondly, you can’t fix a relationship with a female, you can only fix yourself. Females and relationships don’t operate on nuts and bolts, logic, or reasoning, but you do. Therefore, it’s time to end the relationship when it’s preventing you from fixing yourself, or rather growing in value, SMV as the red pill would say.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:43 AM
1

Oh this actually made me lol
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 12:43 AM
1

That s2k though 😍
/r/MGTOW23/08/19 03:01 AM
9

You’re not the only one with an awesome relationship with her.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:26 AM
13

What in the fucking shit did I just read. After months of escalating with this 53 y/o chick, she put her as on my dick, but nothing happened, she stayed the night and we cuddled. Lmao. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:47 AM
4

Height is somewhat relevant to where you live, or rather which races you’re comparing yourself to. One of the comments said 5’9 is short, but relevantly speaking, this height would TOWER over many females. Regardless, this is just more female double standards lmao.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 01:40 PM
3

We want equal pay - look, we can both drive!
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 01:33 PM
1

That sucks. They are probably just jealous and insecure. Keep focused on the mission.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:58 PM
3

In school? Majority will be quiet nerdy socially awkward males. Just be friendly, use them as resources as you would anyone else in the real world. Remember school isn’t about ego, or pride. School is about setting yourself up for success in the future. If that means working with betas, so be it. Outside of school, regardless of profession, you work with all types of people. Learn to hold frame in your profession, and learn to bring others into your frame. Respect others, be a leader, and have a…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:18 AM
3

I’m a software engineer. Here is what you need to do. Focus on getting the best grades, and getting work in the field. Network, and make connections. Stay healthy, and learn to communicate technical solutions/implementations to non-technical folks. This will basically guarantee that you graduate with a job lined up. Ignore anything and everything that gets in the way of this. You will then have graduated, obtained a decent paying job, and have set yourself up for success in the near future. You …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:36 PM
1

Don’t tell a woman “we can do x if you want.” It’s asking her to lead. It’s asking her to make decisions. Do these things for her. Read the sidebar. Read The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:59 PM
2

Maybe talking too much before the date, as others have pointed out. Regardless, if you’re finding success with other women, and you’re working on yourself, I wouldn’t worry about what you did wrong. Remember women are like Mother Nature - clear skies and then, bam, tornado. Who knows what this chick was thinking.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:50 AM
2

Maybe, but doesn’t it say in the rational male to never overtly tell a woman you’re seeing other women — maybe this is different since they were already exclusive.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:45 PM
8

This is a shit test. She’s trying to see if you will invalidate yourself. Stay the course. If she disrespects you, next.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:50 PM
2

She’s seeing other guys, and doesn’t communicate with you for two weeks or more unless you initiate, and you’re saying she’s becoming more than a plate? Your scenario seems fine. Your perception about her becoming more than a plate seems a bit off.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:48 PM
3

Try it and see how if affects you. I do it off and on depending on what I’m trying to accomplish in life.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:53 PM
1

In before OP gets steamrolled. Read the sidebar OP....
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:32 PM
4

She’s begging you to take control and tell her what to do. Bring her over for a lesson, or two.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:05 PM
8

If a girl decided she needed to get in better shape, dress better, and overall look hotter to keep up with me, this is a major green flag. She is now following my lead.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:36 PM
20

I would go straight to school, work hard, graduate at 22 with a good job lined up. Spend the next 6 years with plates, and focusing on building career and having experiences.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:51 PM
5

Probably because they get a lot of attention with no follow through. They block the guys that don’t escalate.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:43 PM
1

The problem is that your woman is only thinking about herself. If she’s not horny, she doesn’t want sex — the main point here is that it’s all about her, how she’s feeling, and what she wants. This mentality is likely proliferated in other aspects of your relationship — it’s fundamentally how she views the relationship dynamics. She does not care about you, or see you as a high smv. If her priority was to keep you around, she would be draining your balls whether or not she was feeling horny. She…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:47 AM
1

IT is changing. Companies want more and more women at the top to please the equality seekers. Leadership now needs to be 50% women. The most unorganized, political, dramatic, and painful projects I have participated in have all been lead by women. It’s not to say there no inadequate male leaders, but in my experience, being lead to failure by a male is a lot less painful compared to being lead to failure by a woman.
/r/MGTOW06/08/19 09:39 PM
11

Have you ever had your lady blow up one of your vacations, especially around her time of month? They know it’s something you really want, and therefore have leverage over you. This is why I only do vacations alone, or with bros.
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 10:32 AM
24

I too have never met a happy married man. In my younger years, I heard them all complaining about no sex and constant nagging from their wives. They would literally joke about constantly. This is what lead me to mgtow. There is no fucking way I’m living my life as a tortured married man.
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 03:37 PM
3

Even her own father has had enough. Run, run very fast.
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 02:19 AM
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