So I managed to pull off a great first date, any personal tips for the bedroom?

itiswr1tten · 2019-12-19T13:49:02+00:00

This is going to sound funny, but the best advice is to delete the thread.

Why?

You'll only get in your head. You know how to fuck, it's innate. Reading words on the internet just makes you more likely to react like a robot following a script and fuck it up. Worse, you could get so focused on some piece of bad advice that the anxiety overtakes you and you can't perform.

How do you initiate sex (in detail),

This is a terrible question.

Improv > script. Nothing you read here is going to be better than winging it and enjoying the moment.

trhwawysrp755 · 2019-12-19T19:11:41+00:00

There is no "right moment", you need to watch her body language and reactions in order to determine when to press ahead.

Here's what I do:
1. Start kissing/making out, put on some nice sex music in the background
2. While we're making out I am caressing/rubbing her body. Ill start with her neck and shoulders, move down to her sides and her arms, her hips, if she is receptive here ill rub her thighs and then start rubbing her tits.
3. If things are going well at this point and little resistance, i'll take my shirt off and continue with step 2
4. After some minutes with my shirt off I lift her up and take her shirt off, then resume making out/ being handsy
5. At this point if she is in heat you can take her bra off too, or you can leave it on to keep up the tension
6. When i've had enough of making out and want to start moving towards sex, I'll unbutton her jeans if shes wearing them or slip my hands into her pants. I don't touch her pussy right away ever. I start by rubbing her thighs back and forth, going up and down the insides of her thighs and skipping over her pussy. I might pull her panties up a bit so they rub into her pussy. Tickle around the lips of her pussy. The whole point here is to tease her, get close but not all the way, keep her guessing as to when you are actually going to do it.
7. After a couple minutes max of teasing, I dip my index finger into her pussy. At this point more often than not she is soaking wet. Using the wetness I start rubbing her clit. I always make the girl cum once by playing with her clit before doing anything. This is important.
8. After you've made her cum by her clit, you sink one or two fingers into her pussy (depending on how tight) and rub her g spot, making her cum a second time.
9. Now that youve made her cum twice during foreplay, you can fuck her face (or get a bj if shes not into roughness (yeah right)) or go right into beating the pussy up. She should be beyond soaking wet at this point.
10. ????
11. Profit

Using this methodology the women I sleep with cum at least 3 times and say im the best sex theyve ever had. It allows you to fuck them for a long time, and ive had multiple girls fall in love with me and say im the best after just one night of this. Use at your own risk.

The1ndex · 2019-12-19T15:33:08+00:00

Watch a movie so you’re both on the couch. Touch her, tickle her, etc. Reach all the way over to her far hip, and roll her over onto your lap, she will be straddling you, you can kiss, and if she starts grinding on you, it’s game over. Pick her up in the same position, and take her to the bedroom. Works every time for me.

Domebeers · 2019-12-19T20:45:01+00:00

If the date went perfect you would have fucked. Always try to fuck close, don't settle for kisses if you don't have to.

I have a routine where after a date or hang out or whatever I walk them to my bedroom talking about something benign, idk like watermelon. It can be anything. And when we are sitting on my bed I'll get the girl talking and as she is talking I'll just start either kissing her neck and working my way down or just undressing her. Like I set up 'boring' and then 'break rapport' by going hot. Most chicks, like 95%, like it.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-12-19T16:53:17+00:00

Read "Sex God Method" asap.

Escalating to sex should feel natural and very much "in the moment".

The best thing you can do is have logistics set up at all times and look out for IOD's.

Basically if she forces you off or rejects your physical advances more than once you should end the date then and there and kindly invite her to leave. If you decide to "tone it down" physically you're entering her frame thus displaying low value. Also, if you continue to try to escalate after she's said NO you begin to reach dangerous waters for sexual assault accusations.

Understand what LMR means and how to handle it.

A lot of these things get better with practice so don't feel bad if you bomb on your first few tries. Just keep practicing, studying, and having a good time.

E9er · 2019-12-20T01:42:02+00:00

missionary is boring unless you really connect. most girls want a lil freak in there. so 2 go to positions for me are cowgirl plus any other variation is a bonus. that way she also gets a workout and isn’t just laying there bored waiting for you to finish! let her get her fix and energy out in this position!!! then second is good old pounding doggy style... bitches love this shit!!! madly!!!!!!! eat it lil from the back then slide right in. start slow then work a rhythm till you’re full pounding that shit good! slap her ass a few times. make sure also grab her tits from time to time! put your finger in her mouth and when she can’t finally take anymore you grab her hair like a saddle and you pull her head back firmly and tell her come here bitch!!! she’ll moan like a goddess and she’s all yours!!!! you can finish off with some spooning sex if you haven’t busted your nut by then. you should both be exhausted were you both doze off... good luck bro! remember those 2 positions and you good!

StephenHawkingsEars · 2019-12-19T15:30:36+00:00

I like to nut as fast as possible to let them know I don’t care about them and that I have other shit to do.

DerpJungler · 2019-12-19T14:58:54+00:00

Do whatever the fuck you wanna do, but do it with confidence.

Best way to initiate sex is with KINO. Playful, chill, even aggressive KINO works. Find excuses to touch her and play with her.

Watching a movie should be easy mode unless shes 100% absorbed, so pick a boring one.

Tldr; chill, touch/physical contact, confidence, close.

Sad_Sleeper · 2019-12-19T15:01:35+00:00

It is like riding a bike... You just sit on it and start pedalling. You just escalate and things will happen.

Rodent9 · 2019-12-19T15:37:22+00:00

Deep dicker

FereallyRed · 2019-12-19T15:37:51+00:00

Escalation is a basic concept you'll find over in the sidebar under the newbie guides.

leftajar · 2019-12-19T18:22:03+00:00

Nothing should feel abrupt. Take your time, but in a self-assured sort of way. It's a balancing act, to be both dominant and sensitive. But that is the way.

muricanwerewolf1 · 2019-12-19T16:23:05+00:00

great first date

didn’t fuck

Hmm...

Infernir · 2019-12-19T23:21:34+00:00

lol stop being stupid, all things sex and leading up to sex has to do with escalation.

In simple kindergarten terms you have to hit the bases.

kissing, touching etc
taking clothes off, touching with more skin
foreplay & escalating sexually

If its with a girl that isn't your girlfriend or in some meaningful relationship with you, then you might need some plausible deniability for her to have sex with you or even do foreplay, handjobs, or blowjobs... plausible denaiblity == alcohol, the most basic one, or an even bigger plausible deniability since it makes women see you as super "cool" and gets their panties wet == drugs.

But yeah you don't need alcohol or drugs plausible deniability to fuck, just give them the tingles and make all the escalation seem unintentional ... like it just naturally happened and before you guys know it the escalation kept going and she slipped on your dick.

But in all honesty you don't need any of this, sex is as basic a human function as eating and trying to make it into some unnatural thing you have to know how to do makes it unnatural, more difficult to do. You might get nervous or you might do something stupid and ruin her mood, or anything. The only thing you should be on the internet looking how to do is put on a condom if you don't know how, because you 100% don't want to get some random thot you don't know really well pregnant if you haven't been in a serious LTR with her for 5+ years. Even then get a prenup and maintain frame 100% of the time, always ensure she sees you as the irreplaceable alpha in her life.

Title	So I managed to pull off a great first date, any personal tips for the bedroom?
Author	LSDparade
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Date	December 19, 2019 1:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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