So I took this girl out for drinks and played my cool, let her do most of the talking and ended up destroying her at mine. This was last Wednesday (the night before valentines). I messaged her the next day when she said she got home safe and bantered a bit, and mentioned a 'next time'. I finished the conversation that night and havn't contacted her since.

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Since transitioning into an alpha male (I still have a LONG way to go), I have learned that you shouldn't persue after sex. It's another notch in my belt, which is good enough. Unfortuntely, I've recently come out of a ltr so I don't have many options as I live in a small town.

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I want to invite this girl over for round 2 of the indoor olympics but I don't want to be the one doing the persuing. I want her to submit to me and chase me, but it's been a week so I'm starting to think should I just message her this weekend and invite her over? Or go complete ghost mode and never contact her unless she initiates?

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If she doesn't want to see me again, me messaging will only make me seem needy. On the other hand, she might want to see me but might not want to message first as the culture here is the guy to do allllll the persuing at the beginning. Or she may just be waiting until she needs another filling.

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I'm not really fussed either way, but she was super hot and really kinky.

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Another note, she is persuing one of my friends, snapping him, texting him, but he isn't interested, maybe she has gotten all she wants from me, which is cool with me.

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What's the best course of action?