I am currently spinning two plates. our relationships have been strictly sexual and i have never" hung out" with my plates before. I only meet up with them for sex and they go home. I enjoy the company of them, and am wondering if asking a plate to hangout and go do stuff with them would put me in the chasing category and ultimately have them lose interest? Honestly I am tired of hanging out with my bros all the time and would like to go and do fun stuff with a plate for a change, as well as fuck them afterwards.

could i benefit from doing activities with a plate or would it backfire on me asking them to hangout? I thought it was common knowledge that plates eventually break faster if the relationship is strictly sexual (booty calls) as they can get bored of only sexually based relationships?

would it be ok if i am the one to steer the relationship in that direction? or wait for a plate to ask me to do stuff together besides just only fuck?