Been vetting my first plate for ltr, strong familh and friends, good relationship with father, same age and i’m her first and we get along really well. Dating for almost two months and treats me like a god, pays for all the meals, the whole deal.

Lately she has been texting me telling me she feels disposable because I dont engage with her over text. And she feels our text conversations are “mudane”.

I try to keep texting to logistics and small talk only but yesterday she exploded on me because I didnt react that much to a picture she put a lot of effort in.

I care about her but not in a oneitis sort of way so i feel bad. I have a feeling that my lack of oneitis for this girl is making me not put a huge effort in texts.

Double edged sword. Any advice?