For example I am on vacation right now and I found some matches close by on some dating apps. I had a forward opener “We should hang soon I’m at the Dells till Sunday” most of em got a response but one chick says “should we huh?” My instincts just say to say yes..... but I thought you know what you should agree and amplify and thinking back at this point that has never fucking worked for me over text idk why I keep doing it.

I went in Between and instead of saying “yeah” I said “yeah we should” which I think honestly makes a difference. I waited a while and hit her with “if your smart 😬” she said “if I’m smart?” My reply was “Yeah if your smart enough to recognize this extremely rare opportunity” ok this felt kinda cringe reading it back but my thought was ok I’m kinda lost where to take this just agree and amplify. What should I have done instead?

She replies with “Looks like im dumb than 🤷🏻‍♀️” again my first thought was ok damn this is going no where. But I thought shes still replying and that she wouldn’t of matched with me if she wasn’t considering it.

Again kinda a cringe response but I wanted this to formulate so I A&Aed again. I said “Ur the dumbest girl in the USA” what should I have done instead please explain my fuck ups here.

She says “Clearly” and at this point im honestly just fucking pissed idk I how manage to fuck up texting on dating apps this BAD EEVERY FUCKING TIME OR 95% OF THE TIME. THE WORST PART IS IDFK IF ITS ME OR NOT I CSNT EVEN GET FEEDBACK OR TELL IF SHE WAS EVER EVEN DOWN THE CHILL IN THE FIRST PLACE.

My last reply didn’t even ducking make sense but I said “No CLEARLY I mean come on it’s not even close” again I tried to fucking AGREE AND AMPLIF...

So frustrating to get such low success rate. I get cute matches but ducking nothing.

My first instinct tells me hey buddy your just doing too much. They like to play games over text don’t even feed into it and just be straight to the point like most of you reccomend aka logistics.

My second instinct is that ok if use just logistics just as many fall through. I guess I get worried that the “yes we should hang” won’t stand out enough? So I shoot myself in the foot by after not getting a reply after 20 minutes I thought oh the ship is sinking maybe agreeing and amplifying would work!! I’ll tease her but nope just made it fucking worse.

Soooo I’m either fucking doing too much or too little.

Maybe I just gotta go logistic sonly but I feel like a lot of the time I don’t get a response. After I go logistics after a short period of time I get spooked and try to save the convo. So idk if I would’ve even gotten a reply if I didn’t msg twice.

So I diet her go Logisitics only or get better text game.

TLDR text game sucks fat cock please give me advice and guidance on this. Is this my fault? Do I need to do logisitics? Do I need to approach it differently?? Or do I just need to up my SMV?? Idk if it’s the last one because if we matched that tells me it’s enough to them.