Okay so I am 25 years old and I'm on the spectrum if that info is relevant at all. Anyway I have TERRIBLE anxiety around women. There's been times when my anxiety is so bad that I have passed/blacked out or not been able to get out a word because my vocal chords are literally paralyzed from the anxiety. The funny thing is that I am not an ugly guy apparently. In college I had a good amount of women approaching me and flirting with me and some even went as far as making overtly sexual comment and jokes towards me. For example one day I was outside and these three girls asked me to walk with them to the store because they were scared to walk by themselves. When I walked with them the girl began coming on to me very strongly she said " why do you always stay to yourself, you dont have to be so lonely, you have me to keep you company", then later as we keep walking her friend made a joke with her about her being gay and the girl responds " I'm not gay I love dick too much to be gay" the girl seemed pretty surprised that I had no response to a comment like that so she repeats it even louder "IM NOT GAY I LOVE DICK TOO MUCH TO BE GAY" however I simply didn't respond because I don't even know how to. What could I say back to something like that?? It pisses me off so much because I know in a situation like that any " normal" guy would know exactly what to say back and would've gotten the easiest pussy of his life. But for me even when girls pretty much make it easy for me I don't have the slightest idea what to do and I get way too anxious. What can I do to overcome this. Is it even possible too overcome this. Should I even be bother with women and just forget about it?
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