So, I have a close "friend" that is constantly around me. Her mother and my mother are BFFS so she is always over at my place. Also she is good friends with my sister and constantly visits her.

Last year she put me on an emotional rollercoaster. She led me on and flirted with me, and I asked her out... She destroyed me. She simply humiliated me to the point were I was at tears, and I'm even ashamed to admit that I even cried in front of her because I was just so mind fucked. Back then I was also dealing with depression so just all my emotions came out and I just cried myself to sleep and was a mess for over a week. 2016 was a shitty year for me.

Fast forward to 2017, I have intensely focused on myself and I've joined reddit and soaked up all of the TRP posts that I could. I started dieting and I've lost 35 pounds since January alone. Recently the girl has been noticing as well and she always compliments me each time we meet since she is almost always over visiting my mother's house. She has a boyfriend in a long distance relationship now but she still flirts with me. Then once she realizes that she has been flirting with me and we get close, she brings him up. She even invited him over to my house and I shook the fucker's hand. That was probably one of the most emasculating events I have ever had in my entire life. Now today she says that she is inviting him over for the summer and that him and I should "hangout."

I don't know if this is blatant disrespect towards me, or if she has a short term memory. When she brings up her boyfriend after flirting with me is she doing this on purpose to test me? How should I respond to this? I tend to just remember that night after I took her on a date and she friend zoned me into oblivion... I just get mad and then end the conversation abruptly, and go to the gym or just get away from her in general. But when I do this I feel even more beta than before because I feel like she won, she made me pissed and I feel like she enjoys doing this to me.

And I'd like some advice. How do I get over her and her flirtatious ways. I'm not going to lie I still find her very attractive and the fact that she is a close family friend makes it hard for me to distance myself away from her. PLZ TRP LET ME KNOW WHAT TO DO.