Brothers, do any of you feel 'wrong' when you're dating two or more women and you're also sleeping with them? I have no issue actually going out on dates with multiple girls but I do not like the idea of splitting my sexual energy. I generally date monogamously until a girl wants to be serious/sexual and I stop being sexual with others (usually I break it off with others). I don't know if I feel this way because I've always done it this way but it's the first time I'm single since taking the RP.
I understand the lesson. It's training to avoid oneitis. It's smart for those that are susceptible to it. Maybe this is the hardest lesson to swallow because I need it the most.
Is this a learned behavior or something intrinsic? Is it something that feels more natural as I do it? Are some people just more wired for monogamy this way? It personally feels dishonest.
Thank you.
J
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