Alright, ever since my break up last November I've been experiencing this with some girls. Its only with girls I care about to a point. Basically, I just live in my head during sex and I feel so fake. Sometimes I can trick myself into a good performance. With girls I dont care about, im fine. Literally its great and no issue. If you havent experienced this dont give me some typical "stop thinking about it" or "stop putting them on a pedestal" comment. Im trying. Im looking for actual advice as i dont really want to see a damn therapist and talk to them about this.

Tonight mid session with a current plate of mine who is very attractive, I just went soft and gave up. She left but took it very well thankfully.

Side note: my test levels are fine, im athletic, i dont drink all that often, ive cut back on wacking it too.

Edit: Mods, could you take the extra P out of the title?