Pregnant

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-01-20T17:03:36+00:00

How do you know it's your kid? Also, it won't destroy your life, but it will fuck up hers. You can try what Tom Leykis would call the "Hail Mary Pass" but if she wants to keep the kid, well, that's how the law works.

Get a DNA test. If it's not yours, you're in the clear. If it is, well, Happy Fathers Day, then.

Vitamin_ABCDE · 2020-01-20T16:19:06+00:00

You're a fucking dumbass.

Before you do anything else, make sure it's actually yours.

Next time wrap it up, idiot

navydad74 · 2020-01-20T16:19:51+00:00

Kids are expensive. You want to play you gotta pay

moresmarterthanyou · 2020-01-20T18:22:08+00:00

Jesus what’s with all the hate on this thread? OP just walk her through how much kids cost and all of the responsibility ect.

ApdoSenpai · 2020-01-20T17:15:46+00:00

Sidebar covers this. Make sure it’s yours and then go from there.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-01-24T13:26:17+00:00

Accept that you took ownership of this risk by not wrapping it up.

The next month or two or three are going to be a real fucking rough ride, and you need to also accept that your relationship may be a write-off at this point.

You need to keep your cool and play with a poker face.

Get her to take several pregnancy tests while you watch. do this over the course of two weeks. Play nice at this point. Educate yourself about at what point after conception do the tests become reliable.

Once you've established positive pregnancy, you need to nuke this from orbit.

You're absolutely going to have to be a stone-cold heartless badguy at this point. You're going to feel guilty, you're going to feel disgusted with yourself. Yo're going to want badly to run back to her and try to work things out. You need to go bad news bears on your GF. Your GF and her family may hate you afterwards. Accept this as a cost associated with doing a tough business deal.

tell her you want to show her something. Show her some video with a woman who was fired over her pregnancy and became homeless because of it. Then show her a video of a woman who too the abortion pill and was perfectly ok with it.

Tell her she needs to have an abortion, for the sake of both of you. You're not necessarily against children after you graduate and get married, but now is the wrong time. Tell her you accept responsibility for not using protection, and you understand that she's afraid about the future, but now is not a time to be sentimental, you need her to do the right thing for the future, and this doesn't need to be the end .She can cry after you've both done the right thing.

Then tell her that how the relationship with you proceeds from this point onward depends on how she chooses to respond right now. Get her to call her GP or her OB/GYN and set up an appointment to get a prescription for the abortion pill. Make sure she does this while you're sitting there. If she doesn't currently have a GP or OBGYN, find one. Tell her you'll pay any costs associated with the doctor visit and script and she doesn't need to worry about that.

Hopefully she'll break down by now and go along with it. Make sure you go with her to the appointment.

If she doesn't reluctantly agree, tell her that you have no intention of being a father to this child, and you don't care if it's yours or not. tell her that she shouldn't expect to hear a word from you or see any money in child support regardless of paternity. Tell her you're prepared to leave the country if necessary, and you know a number of countries that have universities with your degree. You've always thought about living abroad and you don't like where your home country is headed.

Then hit the road. Tell her to call you when she has a prescription in hand for the aborton pill. Do not argue. Call her every day for a week and ask her if

If she still wants to keep the child. Set up an appointment for a paternity test. If she balks or changes her mind last minute, then you need to take steps to assure that you are not on the birth certificate. Up to and including playing nice for 9 months until the birth.

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-20T17:45:39+00:00

Killing your own child.

Yes, kill your own child so superior men can propagate their genes instead of you. Do it OP. 👍🏻

Title	Pregnant
Author	ricardomhv
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	January 20, 2020 4:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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