I recently made a post about birth control with a plate I'm trying to spin. However after a few interactions I've realized I've got a bigger problem.

I've been our of the game for a while, but I didn't realize it'd turn out this bad. I've done and do kegels, I know how to breathe and relax, yet even with a condom I can't last longer than a minute or 2.

I play it off well enough, but I know each time its unsatisfactory asexual attraction will go down.

Is there really anything I can do? Will focusing on the moment more and practice actually help? I try my best to be present and aware of other sensations I'm feeling, so I'm out of ideas.

Thanks in advance.