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(bored) (randomly browsing PPD) (sees interesting post in 'template' form) (makes a reply to the post in template form)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:30 AM
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You should be worried about ensuring redundancy, not observing hypergamy. One or more additional plates, depending on your level of aptitude.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:29 PM
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This. I think ppl are hoping to troll discussion in other directions... but this is good 'brutal honesty'.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:27 PM
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Most probably 'coincidence'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:53 PM
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DT is my 'belief system'. It's not a 'medical condition'. No one can 'diagnose' me as DT, and as a general rule, I never self-diagnose any psychological disorders or medical conditions. Not sure what the 'narcissism vs. confident' tangent came from? From trying to piece together these various comments, I believe that you may be under the impression that Dark Triad is 'evil', 'pathological', 'undesirable', 'counter-productive', and 'socially condemned'... Actually it is NOT those things. It's sim…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:16 PM
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what does 'competence' have to do with what you said? and why are you referencing 'studies'? I AM DT. I am also positive AF. I love this life. Happy as shit when it's happy time. positivity has nothing to do with morality. 'positivity' is simply a mindset and a frame/perspective of how to view things. It's also a proactive, present&future oriented perspective... 'Negativity' is a perspective geared toward the past. Anger and fear about things that have already happened.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:37 PM
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Can you tell us more about homoeroticism? Sounds interesting, and something to avoid. You seem to know a lot about these things.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:25 PM
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Having a positive attitude is a great thing, and it has nothing to do with a Dark Triad type. It's not mutually exclusive. Nothing to do with each other. you come across as a 'dunning-kruger' example... maybe you are just 'thinking out loud', but you are speaking in tones of confidence on things that you don't have competence in.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:24 PM
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Earth... If you agree to fully compensate 8/9 babes as 'scarce', you can pick one from a catalogue … Otherwise, spin 'your' plates, regardless of where on the numbers spectrum your plates are
/r/askTRP02/05/19 07:38 PM
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high turnover isn't necessarily bad depends on context
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:52 PM
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winner
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:51 PM
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great post
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:09 AM
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if you are the amog … BE the amog i'm just spewing some general wisdom while I take a brief break from work I like your willpower. You sound like a winner. remember that execution trumps ideas the best thing I can add to a discussion of 'alpha' is that it's not only a physical or social characteristic, but that it's also a 'market position'.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:08 AM
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That's true, but playing a 'win-win' game with a superior Alpha doesn't make you a beta in the market. The 'ugly side' of win-win games is that there ARE a bunch of others who lose maybe the alpha gets the blonde with the tits, but at least you get her post-wall friend this time The betas are the dudes who aren't getting pussy and yet are contributing resources in vain. Those dudes are losing aside from some minor social inclusion. this is situational stuff
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:49 AM
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good point
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:44 AM
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Plenty of women for BOTH AMOG + u. If the above statement isn't true, then you're in the wrong setting anyway. Think in terms of 'win-win' strategy. He only has 1 dick. He's basically your unofficial teammate/wing-man. Plenty of pussy for amog n u
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:39 AM
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This isn't a comedy bit. AgreeAmp is a 'frame' not a 'one-liner'... "I am the same way. If I'm not into a girl I'm not fucking with them" (or whatever variation) then if that shit is boring, soft next you should be plating one or two others, regardless of whether she holds out or starts blowing you, the second you hit the freeway... soft next if she's hot and you have value, she'll go on date 1 or 2 and show her a fun(affordable) time if you want... if she doesn't, keep moving forward
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:31 AM
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Some are liars, and some are biased, and some have better social-empathy than you. ​ 80% of the slut-radar social empathy skills are flexed accurately by just 20% of the people who claim to possess those skills. ​ Unfortunately much of their skill and wisdom is 'esoteric', because the topic itself holds politically incorrect associations. I'm sorry, but I don't feel comfortable expounding any deeper at this time. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:43 AM
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hot & cold If a guy doesn't have actual value, pua stuff is just cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:10 AM
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it was a sperg question... i'm sorry if I am too direct... yes (success breeds success) is a circular reference … some things in our universe do build upon themselves , momentum , autocatalysis, etc... Live Well. The other stuff is just a healthy T/etc... level and your refractory period (if you JUST fucked you may need 6 hours...), otherwise keeping track of fapping is only neurotic
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:06 AM
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read the sidebar focus on your passion/career and your fitness
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:01 AM
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lol @ the pro athlete stats If true, why are you only a '6'? Disfigured face? You should be an 8 w/ those stats if you have a normal face, groom, and don't say anything stupid... If all is true, and you really want advice - read the sidebar, don't get wasted, and keep eyes and ears for an opportunity. You should have several, and you don't need to put it on a pedestal. Run game and have fun.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:59 PM
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Exactly like my experience, except I bought a sports car and a mansion that I never should have bought, and although the money is meaningless, I lost some investment the moment I purchased them, hosting music videos and porn shoots, but I want to meet a regular unicorn.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:54 PM
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I don't think like that, so it sounds weird to me. However, I guess some people keep track... As a nerd, it's also funny that someone could think they could possibly be "more successful" at doing something following a long streak of nonsuccess... "Is Shack a better free throw shooter after he has missed 3-30 consecutive free throws?" etc... I'm more successful (AND more horny) when I'm more successful... Most of that is health, work , socializing, abundance, and a small part of it is luck. I can…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:00 PM
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I hear u
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:57 AM
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why the downvote, wasn't mutually exclusive
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 01:53 AM
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Or just run Dick Brohammer's Fast-Under-Control-Kettlebell if you want to stop being beta
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 01:52 AM
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Unfortunately cognitive bias causes most people believe that you can, which is why outliers are used in marketing.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 01:47 AM
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So, your perspective is that the OP's question is technically impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:32 AM
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i'm of a dated understanding when I hear 'transwoman' I still think 'woman dressed like a man', and when I see a man dressed like a woman I still think 'he'... my pronoun-game is terrible there's always been hetero-identifying guys who would have varying degrees of sex with a tranny, but closeted... Hetero - trans relationships already do occur, and in most forward-thinking places they aren't shamed or anything, but they are usually considered to be/identify-as in the 'gay' community. I was actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:27 AM
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HS is a terrible place to focus on social status. Yes, by all means, enjoy the opportunities and have a lot of fun now. But the SMV of most of your adult life will depend on things like the network you build now, and the education you achieve now. Your social status from HS will drastically reshuffle very soon (unless you are horribly unsuccessful and live out your life with other local losers). Fuck 5's now if you have to. Chill with a few friends if you have to. Lift and learn the game so you'…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:27 PM
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> "because that’s what I’m used to" Map out your path to success. Figure out the actual insight and understanding involved with the major models that will advance you along that path. Then change the quoted phrase above to "because that's what I need to advance along my path".
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:47 PM
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I can't like this post enough.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:20 PM
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Best bet would be having "jimbo" or whatever your pal's name is have his girlfriend from that group text her and say, "Hey kim, this is jenny, my friend mikey wants to hook up with you"...
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:17 PM
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Successful people orchestrate/choose their circle of friends. ​ Scrubs settle for whatever circle of friends that chance and/or the venn-diagram of similar problems/circumstance lands you in.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:11 PM
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Choose one of her slutty, non-married, non-childhood, friends to come over. Show them a good time. Escalate. ​ If you already know your girl is openly bisexual, do the same, but she also escalates/wing-mans
/r/askTRP14/04/19 01:42 AM
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Yea You guys had a fwb going, then she took action to try to start an LTR, gave you tears and everything, etc... you had something going and she tried to get you to change
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:44 PM
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I get that. And I see your dilemma... Most probable positive outcome = Get 2 more plates, soft-next her if she tries to manipulate you again. But do what you think is best.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:23 PM
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>how she doesn't want to waste her time >I don't want to waste her time ​ You are 'on the clock' 3 - 2 - 1 'Go'!
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:15 PM
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yup. Sounds like he's riding through life, and about to marry prematurely.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:46 PM
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Do squats and deadlifts. And if you are a beginner learn how your butt plays a role in your posture. When you are using posture, your glutes shouldn't be lazy, you should have some contraction along with your core and abs. There's some muscle-memory to be had. Also sounds like you are out-of-shape in general and have a ways to go before worrying about one muscle-group. Lift.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:41 PM
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Just don't keep going back to the corpse for gratification. Definitely hard next.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:33 PM
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You don't have a time machine. ​ The best you can possibly do, is RE-FRAME your perspective from NOW.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:32 PM
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It means she's fucking her ex or other options or just flat out not interested in you. Next her, withdraw your time/convo/resources etc... If there's any interest from her, the withdraw will pull her back as a side-plate for you, otherwise forget about her
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:31 PM
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If a high n-count woman is discreet, and healthy emotionally and physically, (and hasn't slept around in the high-value man's network), then it doesn't play a role in his decision making. Can't factor in something that you aren't aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:19 PM
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If I were a car, it would be better to be owned by someone who picked me after renting various different cars. They would have chosen me because I have features they like and lack features they already know they don't like. True. However, High-value men are the driver, and the women are the cars not vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:16 PM
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Very true. But the same is true for the General Population. The question is whether TRP has a better percentage of high-quality dudes than the general pop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:13 PM
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Sluts will find a man. And they can even marry a naïve man, or have a short-term run with a large pool of high-value men. ​ If a 'woke' or 'red pilled' or rational thinking high-value man wants to actually settle down in an LTR, they will look for someone who is best suited. Could even be a 'reformed' slut, if she is somehow emotionally and physically healthy, but there are some tradeoffs that lower her odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:10 PM
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these are good ideas ​ Abundance is in part important because of the psychological frame. You're in a process oriented state, and you are making rational decisions, rather than emotional, desperate, results-oriented decisions... If we want to go full-nerd. ​ but yea, saturation point is interesting
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:28 PM
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he orders up a bud light, and asks her if she wants a beer. She should have walked out at this moment...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:26 PM
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Exactly. But she doesn't seem to get that. She's not playing along, or she's insecure about it and wants to clash chemistry with him. Maybe she needs a beta who is going to memorize her dating profile, and suggest a bunch of cocktails for her to sip while he empathizes with her conversation...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:20 PM
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We're all individuals. This type of guy 'can' have a few 20something relatively attractive plates in rotation at any time, and they 'can' have an unlimited supply of post-wall plates at any time. Doesn't mean they have to use their value, just that they have that value if they choose to wield it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:06 PM
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Exactly. She doesn't 'disprove' his value, she simply makes it clear that she's not playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:02 PM
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social anxiety boils down to process-oriented vs. outcome-oriented for me... gotta be doing the right things to progress on your path. once you are in that habit, you tend to love yourself at that point you have to remain 'process oriented'. Doesn't matter if this specific act is a 'win'. You are on a hell of a ride along your path and this outcome is meaningless. This doesn't mean "be out of control" and/or "never do post-mortems", it just means that if you are really doing the right stuff you …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:14 PM
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She is a 'dud'. Fortunately he's able to likely have one of his 20 post-wall plates to Netflix and chill w/ tonight, after he cuts her loose. /fallbackplan
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:13 PM
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lol don't do it at work
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 05:14 PM
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social anxiety boils down to process-oriented vs. outcome-oriented for me... gotta be doing the right things to progress on your path. once you are in that habit, you tend to love yourself at that point you have to remain 'process oriented'. Doesn't matter if this specific act is a 'win'. You are on a hell of a ride along your path and this outcome is meaningless. This doesn't mean "be out of control" and/or "never do post-mortems", it just means that if you are really doing the right stuff you …
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:07 PM
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YES. However, most groups who have enough influence and market position to haphazardly use the MSM for social/psychological experiments prefer to simply thrive within the framework of the existing ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:58 PM
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It's the natural laws of the universe being leveraged by the economy. ​ Men and women aren't contributing, they are just herds of humans under an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:52 PM
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I doubt anyone ever validates someone/something thinking 'I'm going to validate that person/thing'. Watch a woman manipulate a beta male. You'll see it often. See what effect validation has on men? You are struggling with the semantics of empowerment vs. validation.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:47 PM
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terribly rare
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:43 PM
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It's like trying to talk business with a broke dude.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:42 PM
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hey Is it just me or are luxurious cars so much more pleasant to drive?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:39 PM
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I recommend learning to enjoy some of the power dynamics. We can get into a routine where pussy is simply food for the sexual appetite. A scoop of whey and some milk can address the appetite, but sometimes you want to really indulge.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:21 PM
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Good question. she's compliant and the sex is enthusiastic If that's not 'enough', than it seems like either she's below the quality that really energizes the quoted poster, or that the poster has expectations that are not aligned with the source.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:07 PM
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If I see a pretty ginger with a nice ass, I will get lustful. Focus on this statement for a second. You have a strong desire for that hot piece of ass. In this case, the 'lust' is coming from you(as opposed to her lusting for you). You aren't feeling a need to 'validate' her, are you? You desire. You have a passion for her. That could be 100% nature. Or maybe she got her hair done, dresses sexy and does lunges... -The point is that she's wielding power(, and you desire her value. (and she has he…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 11:03 PM
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validation = scarcity (please validate me!) lust = abundance (fk or walk)
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 10:08 PM
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can someone explain this to me? I just be missing the nuances here Lust = result of properly wielding power.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 08:26 PM
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Not sure I agree with the OP's premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:19 PM
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Good question. Also have to consider that a "top tier man" is leveraging a market-position over society in the first place to achieve his (their cartel of) "top tier-ness" in the first place... So now, a "top tier man" can basically opt to be 'charitable'?? by not having a Wife AND a Harem? … Society has humor if you deconstruct it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:23 PM
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"the kind of nonconformist girl who’s demonstrating real depth of character and a willingness to be vulnerable in an age when vulnerability before men is a capital crime." "The bar girl is the new church girl." I love it.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 06:15 PM
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"I don't think the "credentials" for a guy should be what he's written or who likes him or how often he posts stuff on social media. It should be whether he has a real life job and lots of income." Or how about instead using heuristics, you simply become competent with a red pilled ideology. Then you can form your own opinion. "The biggest names in the manosphere are guys looking to monetize kids and incels. " That's the next hurdle... If you become competent at ANYTHING, including a red pilled …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 10:40 PM
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is male sexlessness really the big recent trend that this post lays out?? Maybe it is. I don't know. It's outside my circle of competence. I do see that general incidence of 'sexlessness' has become monetized. I do see a concentration where economy(female workers) and technology(dating apps/phones) have magnified the power law effect of the most desirable men getting the most sex (including sexxness from some of the women who would have formerly settled for average/belowavg dudes)… If it's somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:11 PM
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these horoscopes are so 'alpha' tho… There's some general wisdom in personality types, but it can get silly, and it's the same racket as the horoscope racket.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:02 PM
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Yea, Alpha is actually a 'market position'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:00 PM
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Start with the basics -lift, and really learn posture Mix in some common sense: Be aware of your surroundings. Travel in groups (this can mean friends, or a just staying in touch with the herd). Walk with a purpose. Have your phone handy. Stay out of grey-area crime/drug situations.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:32 PM
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another ideology, and be able to see things separate from the herd, and separate from authority. Especially in your circle of competence, but also in general. Do you have any good books or media suggestions which make a good argument against egalitarianism?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 03:38 AM
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'daddy issues' I was blue-pilled at the time, but probably why they asked me to provide security...
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 06:26 PM
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co-sign the drug habits & trashy environment (not that there aren't strippers who live in Four Seasons, just cosigning experience w/ lower level) ... Met them bc they had just been robbed and wanted me to stay at their apartment until the cops came back. Soon some shady dude arrives and is traded a bathroom blowjob for some ketamine.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 11:22 AM
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Not worth the time/effort unless it "falls in your lap" lol
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 02:06 AM
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Good point. Be valuable. Form strong alliances. These men are the most powerful of all the players in the dating game/market.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 09:52 PM
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We have weird world. Actually we have a 'normal' world. All the good market positions are held in force. The working class (including up to face 'CEO' stuff) is all systematic. Normalized. In general, 'competence' is adequate to sustain a market position. Can a 'WOMAN' be competent? Duh yes. So can most of the bums reading this. If you are taught the models and the method and stay on that path diligently, yes. Someone posted $47k for webcam receptionist/porn... and many were triggered... $47k is…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 05:29 PM
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supply the winners and supply the losers. I was going to answer your post in detail, but I came up with too many really good ideas to share publicly. good luck
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 07:46 PM
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Nofap cult preys upon some of the same fears that most of these cults prey upon. It's certainly relative. Yes it's bullshit for weak marks, but it's relative and similar.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:07 AM
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take responsibility. Nothing ruined your life. You don't need a thing or a path to 'save' it... you just suck and are weak... Porn didn't ruin your life. Nofap is not going to save you. If you were the world's most valuable thinker or coder or pharmaceutical developer, or weapons of mass destruction creator... and you had billions of dollars, you'd have this EXACT SAME problem, only it would be via fetishized prostitutes rather than your weird porn searches... And you'd be just as weak of a pers…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:05 AM
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Unless you are profiting off them in such a fashion.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 09:06 PM
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You don't have a time machine. No feelings of embarrassment or regret are allowed to keep your focus. Welcome to the 'acted-a-fool' club. Over a billion members since humans evolved. Learn how to properly use alcohol. It's a drug. Just because it's accessible and socially accepted does not mean that there isn't a learning curve.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:45 PM
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To be fair, I am biased on the subject. I've cringed SO MANY TIMES at mediocre dudes writing a case against why dating aps etc... have 'rigged' the game against them. These guys aren't out banging several 4's and 5's and climbing their way up the plate ladder while simultaneously lifting, networking, and earning... They are jerking off and then writing caffeine-fueled DISSERTATIONS on why life is unfair... I mean, yea, no, the dating aps ARE rigged, as is a lot of consumerism based stuff in our …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 04:57 PM
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The world should be your personal playground. Not sure why the politics of dating aps is triggering you whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 03:17 AM
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Political correctness asks that we pretend that the correlation doesn't exist, and act as if it is a fashion choice, or a 'random' occurrence. "She's not a slut, 'it doesn't mean anything', she just happened to want to wear a choker today and a crop-top blouse that reveals her tramp stamp... Does that political-correctness mean you should be reactionary, keep it real, and harass and/or bully the woman? No. Of course not. Treat her with respect. Don't 'call it out'. Go with the flow and play the …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 11:47 PM
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Be aware of your value and your market position.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 11:07 PM
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sticks and stones..
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:37 PM
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you implied that we live in a new society with a world not built on the backs of slaves
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 09:09 PM
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like you suggested the overton window is shrinking
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 08:46 PM
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a camry and a predatory home loan =/= freedom
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 08:45 PM
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The Pittsburgh bomber was an avid lover of pizza.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 08:40 PM
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something that you both love to do and have a possibility of achieving mastery in. ideally; what would you do if money were no object?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:21 PM
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develop some competence and understand your circle of competence
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:00 PM
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No. Not at all. I don't think I've ever considered partisan politics when reading this sub.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:59 PM
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looks like a pretty accurate basic recap
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:31 PM
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learn the trade.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:11 AM
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"Google for dummies" by Brad Hill.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:11 PM
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SMV is not only a given value, it is also a relative, contextual value. It is a market position. Your beta ass could hit the gym right now, step out, walk into a bar where there only happens to be 3 bored women and an middle-aged bartender and you'd be the alpha of that moment. Of course you could slink away and not accept the role, or simply be naïve and not understand. Change your mind, and then go about forming social circles with purpose. Is this circle for your employment? Is this circle fo…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:27 PM
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the vast user base of the world n general, is unhinged. reddit is not immune. TRP is not immune. You can't channel-surf without going through tons of garbage content and commercials. this subreddit has some interesting red-pilled stuff, and some interesting discussions on morality, but you have to remember that the 'target audience' for content generators is scrubs who want to get laid. Thus you will see 1,000 "don't porn" posts for every 1 "don't have tons of increasingly fetishized sex with wi…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:09 PM
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avoid and monitor results-oriented dopamine highs learn to love to be wildly addicted to the high of the process-oriented dopamine highs did she/will-she "say yes"???? - this is TRIVIAL. stop enjoying this and stop treating this like an exciting gamble/rush did you have your shit together and approached a woman during a quality process that will result in long-term benefit?? - This is SIGNIFICANT. do love this life is like a softball homerun distance-hitting contest and you get relatively unlimi…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:21 PM
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The grown-man version of 'positivity' = fortitude. Valour. Always be bigger than your task. Always be bigger than your task = Valour = the choice and willingness to confront agony, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation = Never be Overwhelmed whatsoever, much less to the point that your Insight and your Virtues are affected. You also have a spectrum of world-views; (<-my life sucks --- I'm great and everyone else sucks -- we're a great team operating in successful synergy -- I'm GOD and fail…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 03:47 AM
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Pedestalize the 'market position', not the women, toys, or the money(per se).
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:16 AM
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Sometimes you'd be surprised with foreplay. If you get head first, you may notice that you last longer.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:33 AM
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long term = Have sex more often. Practice on some lesser plates until sex is more of a nice routine. Find a routine that works for you. Foreplay can often help. Focus on the enjoyment of the situation and save a crescendo ending for the finale. short term = jerk off several hours earlier, use a cream or gel designed for the purpose, do math in your head Most people took some practice to last longer. Humans aren't evolved to have 30 minute porn exhibitions of continuous pussy-pounding. It's suppo…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:50 PM
2

Jaw development is a trivial thing that you should not focus on. The exception would be if you use your body as your profession (actor, model etc...). If that is the case, you are likely already on a doctor advised regimen that includes hgh and steroids and various precautionary measures, medications and testing. Your jaw, neck, etc... will grow above average while on that regimen. If you aren't an actor, model, etc... Instead, work very hard on things that matter more in your path to success. T…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:43 PM
1

You need to have better discipline. You should not lose frame while fapping. Fapping is a trivial minor/non-factor in relation to frame. You shouldn't be losing frame when fapping, and it should be a red-flag that any number of visceral drives may cause you to fall apart. You don't want to fold under pressure, so it's worth examining and thinking of where these thoughts are coming from.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:35 PM
1

This is one of those topics that falls under the 'cold state vs. hot state' mental models... "A hot-cold empathy gap is a cognitive bias in which people underestimate the influences of visceral drives on their own attitudes, preferences, and behaviors." When those 'visceral' drives are hitting us we behave different than how we claim to behave while reasonably answer a logical question while sipping a coffee and chilling. There's also some social pressure against being a golddigger or a groupie …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:30 PM
0

Stop whining and start using a value. You said you went to school and worked (that's nice, I guess?) but the important part of that equation is your money and your leverage. 'Accomplishments' and 'hard work' and 'ethics' don't mean shit in the market. You have to cultivate and use the spoils. Don't give it away, but exploit it's value. The ONLY reason the female is getting a better deal is because she is offering a value (her pussy/ass/mouth). Guys are lined up to date her. Just like women would…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 04:37 PM
9

if someone uses their body for a living (e.g. bodybuilder, athlete, actor, etc...) ASSUME they are on a scientific, doctor-designed regimen of performance/body enhancing products (steroids, hgh, supplements, plastic surgery, fake hair/dye/toupee/weave, contacts, makeup etc...) You can't watch some generic Netflix series without a couple male actors on the juice, and obviously not without enhancement across the board. Shit, you are lucky if you can watch the 'News' without seeing enhanced people.…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 10:49 PM
1

nice rant
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:43 PM
5

those types of things are going to be trivial.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:40 PM
4

well said. forget the "rely on" shit the misunderstanding that the Starter seems to portray is the "rely on" "doing it for love" "because we love each other" thing... Those may be great feelings, but: "You MUST remain the BEST male she feels she can get" - If you do that you will get love and loyalty just like you feel. If you don't do that, or even if you get comfortable and give up the initiative, she may at any time take the initiative and change the narrative. When that happens you aren't ge…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:27 PM
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"red flag" is nonsense You either have value she wants, or you don't.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:18 PM
2

SMV comes from having value and having game. Value comes from 1 of 2 places Looks or Status. To have 'high SMV' you need to be exceptional at one of those 2. Game comes in with market positioning and leverage and proper strategy. Not talking about game in the sense of pickup artist talk. Game is basically applied strategy. I can tell you that even though I have superior insight into SMV, that I have low SMV. It's a market place out there, not a classroom or a debate club. You have to actually ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:52 AM
1

I loved sports (both playing and watching) when I was an athlete. I knew every player and every coach, and their varying styles and abilities. Now, try as I might, it's just not that interesting. If I had an opportunity to manage a franchise, or assist a coaching staff, I'd certainly take the money and do an excellent job. If I was given some court-side or luxury box tickets to take a client, I'd certainly go and have a great time. Every couple/few years I go to a Super Bowl party at a friend's …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 08:35 PM
2

Hard work uncomfortable hard work away from homeostasis all while advancing on the learning curve. Sorry, but there aren't "some ways" that I can make a top-3 list of easy answers. Changing shit takes effort and understanding.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:37 AM
2

'Gina' from Bon Jovi - Livin' On a Prayer lyrics isn't typical??
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:03 PM
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literal answer = alter the stimulation to delay orgasm (usually as simple as direct vs. indirect). Unless she's extremely unusually 'premature', it's pretty much common sense. As far as porn, or mutual orgasms in general, a good portion of them are faked. beyond that, you can go in any direction is this her idea to shit-test/annoy/control frame of sex? is this your own compulsive fantasy are sexual hypnotists really a thing have fun, good luck
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:05 PM
3

I think it's worth contemplating what it is that disgusts you. I'm not an endorsed contributor, I'm not an authority on Red Pill, but the biggest part for me is seeing the reality of how things work. Reality can be harsh. However, whether you embrace reality, or whether you avoid reality on 'autopilot', it remains ever present.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:58 PM
5

so cringe What specifically do you disagree with? Let's spare the name-calling/negative-association for a minute, and have a rational discussion. Are you game?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:29 PM
14

not necessarily here are 3 main reasons they do not declare a like for gym approach Peer-pressure / Social Proof of admitting to their social group that they would like to be approached at the gym. (anti slut defense, plausible deniability) Being approached by low-SMV guys. (has to at least be a guy they'd normally date) An atmosphere of overt sexually objectification (they only want to receive approaches when they are open to approaches, by only those whom they are open to approaching. Otherwis…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 02:45 PM
4

What's up with the massive down-votes in the comments? You made a solid post on a relevant topic. I thought it was just bots, but the white knighting is real in the comment section. These posters want to be 'red pilled', but they want it to mean 'whatever they happen to believe'. It doesn't work that way. Red pilled is red pilled. It's not a free-for-all. This isn't reddit front page where you click a topic and just spew superficial mindless train of thought and/or preconceived ideas as fact. No…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 02:29 PM
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Sir Lancelot, your chivalry is in royal status
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 02:08 PM
2

the thread starter IS his own problem. Instead of putting his dick inside some pussy meat, he's obsessing about it, and shit like nofap and TRP. In his head, pussy is the most amazing thing in the world. He'll probably fall in love with the first land-whale to give him a turn. You can't do anything (doctor, lawyer, pickup artist) on paper. Start. Go get your feet(dick) wet. Learn and improve in a continuous cycle. If you happen to be a healthy athlete with a big bank account - by all means, star…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:20 PM
2

2 WORDS "AIM LOW". Women are not scarce. Hot women are scarce. You should be able to plate a '3' within two weeks time, even if you are as bad as you say. Don't stop there. Get a couple more plates, and then work on upgrading.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:08 AM
1

Listen to this guy. Reading your thread-starting post, you're close to one of two bad territories: A. You come off as too needy and insecure and she loses tingles/interest. or B. You come off as too needy and insecure, so she takes up the slack and exploits it requiring a greater commitment. Get a couple more plates. Make sure you are in control of birth control.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:54 PM
2

you are supposed to 'upvote' this, you dick
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:14 AM
2

are there others in your culture at this big university? are you able to assimilate into the mainstream sexual market place? Without denying your culture, is there a mainstrem style that is true to your personality that you bring to the table? (e.g. businessman/accounting). If you can manage, play up to the stereotypes, and drive a decent car and dress well.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:58 AM
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Also - I do not lift YET, I think I should gain some weight before I start lifting, is this correct? NO. That is not correct. Doctor clearance 2. Learn the basics of diet and lifting. You are too much of a beginner for me to give specific advice. You need to advance on the learning curve, and work very hard.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:30 PM
3

men are also about 3 times more likely to kill themselves than a woman in the US/west
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:11 PM
2

It IS fucking cosmo There's no money in the basics. Insight requires rational critical thinking. Most of these fucks are incompetent when it comes to rational critical thinking. Discipline requires insight into the system, and into human psychology..., awareness of our own mind state, and suppression of base desires/irrational behavior while maintaining our path to success. It's uncomfortable and difficult. HARD WORK requires expenditure of resources and a pain discomfort exerted against homeost…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:14 PM
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wow, if true get with some media types and he will be able to fund college off of that story, possibly get into a select university if he's competent and reaches out. he's lucky as fuck
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 04:54 PM
1

it may be cringe-worthy now, but if you keep working hard things will get better.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 08:45 PM
2

make sure you are also dating at least 1-2 other women at this time. You typed a lot about her in your question. Examine yourself, and question your own need for constant communication outside of dates. That's some bluepilled shit, bro. Be clear what you will tolerate, communicate effectively and show her that you are willing to next her if she doesn't hold up her end of the bargain. Plenty of other women out there if her issues do become an actual problem.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:03 PM
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get with some 3's or 4's now. NOW! women are not scarce. There's no reason you should go another week without a plate. Start with a 3or4, don't catch oneitis, get two more 3 or 4's, then once you have three plates, upgrade whenever you have the opportunity. You need to work your way through the minor leagues. no more excuses no more exaggerating the problem to yourself in a negative feedback loop there is a 3 or 4 out there for you to fuck within the next 10 business days. Get to work. Report ba…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:58 PM
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Have fun. Help by bringing your normal friendship state (your mindstate/behavior) with you to the club. Don't go there and act different. Adopt a co-alpha posture with your friend. You two are an alpha team. Demonstrate value, and give social proof by giving positive feedback to your friend. Don't compete with him. When interacting with one woman let your friend take the lead, and reinforce what he says/does. When interacting with a group of women, let your friend take the lead and hit on the sl…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:52 PM
1

pros: faced some horrible shit, and held frame and stayed positive, patient and proactive. cons: none
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:50 PM
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If you are doing it correctly, there should be 'sexual tension' (you are legit getting horny, and she is also getting horny and/or at the very least there's a MUTUAL feeling of 'respect' towards the escalating energy/situation). That mutual feeling of respect towards the escalating energy/situation basically means that she expresses an interest in dating you ('IOI' in TRP terminology), and acknowledges the sexual tension with escalating Kino. If she's ignoring/avoiding/rejecting the reality of t…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:26 AM
1

life sucks for all kids unless their family has a niche, or they have exceptional guidance. conversely, life is good for all kids whose family has a niche or have exceptional guidance.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:47 PM
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Women have this great natural Machiavellian instinct to improve position either when a better opportunity arises or when a 'power vacuum' exists. The better opportunity part is pretty well known/described in these parts. The 'power vacuum' part is also important. Sometimes the result is worse than simply being discarded. It starts when you first date. You tolerate multiple dates without sex? She just may exploit that. You tolerate vanilla sex? She just may exploit that. You relax and trust her a…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 03:51 PM
1

you fumbled pretty much your whole post when you picked a horrible example However, I do think that a cold-turkey approach is often better than an incremental approach. You still need a process involving mindfulness/awareness... you still need a process involving post-mortem analysis... More difficult problems will not be instantaneous light-switch off problems, but some are better eliminated by stopping now.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 02:01 PM
1

he laughs all the way to the bank?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 01:54 PM
1

yup. Have to give him credit for capitalizing. wait, is this supposed to be criticism? Yes, I cringe inside whenever Peterson is mentioned, but the fucking point of the game is to sell to a dedicated fanbase, and he does do a nice job of it. His content is cringeworthy, but his method is imitation-worthy.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 01:52 PM
1

I think the thread starter made a nice post. Step1 = insight. 100% agree Step2= break the loop. Yes. Step3= mindfulness, and safeguards in place to remain rational in 'hot states'. OK that works. Step4= proactive construction of positive feedback loops that advance you along your path.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 01:47 PM
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on deal-breakers: 2 types of women have the traits you describe; true trash, and the bored/fashionable-angst. Know what you're dealing with. on deal-breakers part two: Separate actual deal-breakers from annoying shit you don't tolerate. A raging STD or perhaps a drug problem that leads to stealing and prostitution during binges should be categorized differently from things like political viewpoints and debt. That doesn't mean tolerate annoying shit, but pussy is pussy whether it owes 20k in stud…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:05 AM
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good: literally got my shit together this week (psyllium husk). hit the gym 3 days. approached an HB4. starting a new NoPhone streak (after I post this and browse for a bit) bad: broke my NoCaf streak this morning with a coffee. broke my NoFap streak last night. dealing with a hernia, and will need a minor surgery. can't think of anything else bad.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 04:56 PM
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a word about 'empathy' Empathy is an intimate, and important, source of information. People are generally state-dependant animals. Knowing how someone feels is very important. Empathy, should not however, trigger irrational decision making on your part.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:04 PM
1

men are kind of damned to naturally be wired for reciprocity. In general, it's a blessing, a beneficial heuristic, but not when it comes to postmodern dating. women are blessed to be naturally able to improve position and simultaneously fully believe an emotional justification for that improvement even if the action happened to be exploitative, disloyal, or hypocritical. Neither is great, and both are heuristics, rather than rational behavior based on insight and critical thinking. As men, once …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:00 PM
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Nice guys generally aren't secretly the worst. They are generally sheep. Naive sheep. And I say that without any malice, or intent to be condescending. It's the same theme as with blue pilled men. They haven't swallowed the red pill. They don't see the system. They flow within the system. Not that there aren't blue pilled assholes. There certainly are, but we're talking about 'nice guys'. For some people the 'nice guy' herd thing actually works. I know people who've been lucky enough to be born …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:45 PM
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it's not personal You were willing to plate her before if she would have met your standards. She wasn't willing to meet your standards. You nexted her. She decided to change her willingness to meet your standards if that's what it takes to date you. There's no betrayal involved (because you never entered a reactive state of trust with her, you just gave her a chance, she failed, and then you dismissed her), but yes, your boundaries are naturally going to be a little higher than your dealbreakers…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 03:37 PM
1

all I can really suggest is to understand the enjoyment you get from the power dynamic of escorts and apply that to dating. Aim low (you should be able to get a 3 or 4 willing to date/have sex) think abundance (go after 2 or 3 girls to start, don't focus on one, don't make a big deal about any 1 specific girl. Fail? Next!) be persistent (fail, fail, fail, fail, fail, score, fail, fail, fail score, fail score fail fail = perfect) escorts are OK on occasion, and to get to the mind-state where you …
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:23 PM
4

the looks scale is pretty much objective reality. It can vary as much as about a point, but the whole purpose of it is as an objective reference. A 6 on looks can't be mistaken for an 8 on looks. However, looks is just one aspect of what you value stuff like subjective 'attraction' = looks + preferences. = If you have a thing for full lips, a '6' may be a 7.5 to your dick if she has nice lip injections and makeup of course you have personality as well and other shit in rare cases '5' could be an…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 03:03 PM
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the point of an average guy starting with as low as a '3' is that any average guy can plate a 3 within a week, and should have all three plates within a week or two. in public or online. In the US we have a shitty store called Walmart, and 3's seemingly drip from larvae on the ceiling. You also tend to run into 3,4,5s once in a while anywhere you see people while living your life. For nabbing a 3 online, facebook is as easy or easier than tinder for online game(tinder is kind of overkill for a 3…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:39 PM
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6-7's who know how to apply makeup and act sexy and look like unicorn oneitis = 8-9 online
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:10 PM
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maybe he's got 40lbs of extra muscle, maybe he's wealthy most likely he has no fucking clue of the looks scale, dated some trashy 3-4 pig who acted like a trashy pig, dated some 6-7 (who looks like 8-9 to him) who didn't act like trash so he made this post
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:00 PM
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NEVER IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE???WTF??? 1-ARE YOU 12?? 2-DO YOU LIVE IN BANGALESS?? 3-AND DON'T TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY ARE YOU A FUCKING IDIOT/PUSSY? almost everyone in TRP 'should' be spinning 2-3 plates in order to pull that off, most of us need to start the process with one or two '3' or '4' or '5', and maybe one 5 or 6. From that starting point (should take you less than two weeks to get those plates started - and you should NEVER be talking about some long multi month dry spell, pussy is plentif…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:53 PM
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yea he's got to have a hulk hogan body or something. I was thinking 'tall aging ex-jock' or 'tall distinguished businessman' look, but he's only 31. He must be otherwise grrreat looking or strong as hell. Or exaggerating. something like 99% of online looks scales refferences overrate themselves and their women by 2-3 points
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:32 PM
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yup, raises your perceived value and is sort of like a negotiation/power-play
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 08:11 PM
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upvote I agree, and I've observed about 1-2 weeks for the time period. If we've gone on a couple dates and/or chilled in my apartment, and I nexted them after they shit-tested me (often about willingness for sex escalation), = if they were in fact interested in me, they usually show up in about a week ready to roll. If they weren't, I don't hear from them again. One or two months for me would be something that didn't reach the date stage yet. -We talked exchanged numbers or were part of the same…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 05:00 PM
1

social anxiety boils down to process-oriented vs. outcome-oriented for me... gotta be doing the right things to progress on your path once you are in that habit, you tend to love yourself at that point you have to remain 'process oriented'. Doesn't matter if this specific act is a 'win'. You are on a hell of a ride along your path and this outcome is meaningless. This doesn't mean "be out of control" and/or "never do post-mortems", it just means that if you are really doing the right stuff you s…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 10:26 PM
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I gave an upvote for the thread-starter(and you), but this would have been better as a 'theory' than as a 'FR'. Good general topic! I just wasn't up for reading a long personal account. lot of guys don't connect the DT personality to types to women at all, much less the workplace
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 01:56 AM
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Great post. I like how you define the different levels. Seems accurate, and also gives the reader a chance to know exactly what you are talking about. Funny to see all the bloopers down-voting, but not offering any rebuttal or argument. Must be 'triggering'. After being here for about 6 months, my favorite kind of content is Red Pilled insight, and my second-favorite kind of content is that which shatters the "I want Red Pill to mean whatever I feel" blooper dynamic. This is both.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 11:36 PM
1

True. AWALT is needed because TRP is from a man's perspective, and men tend to be susceptible to believing that the woman they've bonded to is "the one".
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:44 AM
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You lost steam as your post went on, and got a bit too spergle into details, and thinking out loud, but you make some generally good points. Wall is a real thing = but yea, there is still 'relative' SMV to be had. This doesn't make it a worthless concept. Some of the point is that these women may be viewing you as a step down in quality, or that they may be in desperation mode to lock down a provider. Alpha fucks/ Beta Bucks is in fact pretty dumb given the way many use it. The point is to avoid…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 10:34 PM
1

pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:33 PM
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TLDR= anyone who proudly self-diagnoses themselves themselves with a disorder is a fool, but I find some aspects of the so-called 'dark triad' to be powerful within a rational strategic frame... I've been wanting for some time to contribute my own version, of yet another post that attempts to discuss a Purple Pilled understanding of the so-called DARK TRIAD. I've had this desire because some of these concepts, although demonized, are key 'building blocks' in my own Purple Pilled belief system. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:37 AM
2

STAND ON THE SHOULDERS OF GIANTS (power lifting + total body fine-tuning+ sports/cardio + low calories + clean calories = natural potential). The basic general strategy is already known. Put down the bubbling beaker and the test tubes for a minute, you mad scientists you... and come to learn and understand the basic models that drive the system. WORK VERY HARD at your fitness and diet. There is no trick or secret. It takes effort and discipline and sacrifice. It's going to be uncomfortable to ch…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:40 PM
2

And the first idiot who aggressively confronts you in public, (or cuts you off in traffic) is going to be someone you want to murder. Our species has advanced to the point where primal urges have to frequently be denied. There are major ones like murder and rape that pretty much have to be denied full stop. Then there are smaller ones that can become insidious. Some are as simple as the primal urge to overindulge when eating. Others are heuristics like 'social proof'. A part of Red Pill is being…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:46 PM
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So true. Between white knights, beta-orbiters, and the political incorrectness of holding a female accountable, women have free reign on hypocrisy. Women act in their future best interests. Doesn't matter if that act is disloyal or dishonest or hypocritical or exploitative. They will receive positive social proof. It's not that men can't do this as well, it's that men are naive that women are like this, and that women have social advantages.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 09:10 PM
1

If you didn't deny your primal urges you'd be in prison or dead within a week.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:35 PM
4

The misconception that by impregnating our oneitis, we are continuing some great pedigree line dynasty is strong. Our genes are 99.99% certain to be worthless in the grand scheme of human future. We are consumer class and/or worker class. We aren't owner class. Even if we and our children are all beautiful genius athletes there is near zero chance that our genetics will ever rise to the top. Even for the owner class, avoiding eventual extinction is no certainty. Having children can be a wonderfu…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:22 PM
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Your argument is triggering (to men who have already married and had children, and are committed to that decision, and to men who haven't yet married but have been told since childhood that marriage is the fairytale destiny that they are entitled to), but it's true. AMOG marriage is basically saying "I am talented, so I'm willing to gamble in this power-law curved game". In isolation that's not always a horrible thing, but it becomes a horrible decision in contrast to your options. This is becau…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 07:35 PM
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Same major model that drives browsing reddit, and making posts. Same with gaming, websurfing, social media, Netflix/tv, coffee/caffeine, drugs/alcohol, porn, a good teacher, music, the gym, a night club/bar, sporting event, festival, carnival, and pretty much everything that mental_models types. It's nice that you notice a specific example, but be sure to zoom-out in perspective and acknowledge that it's ALL designed like this. Now step back to focus on your self, and your path. You love yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:44 PM
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I think the point is more about the strip club experience for a few hours than for establishing a 'relationship'. OP said something like 1 drink ($10?) 1 lapdance ($20) and lots of tips ($50? generous estimate).... So basically $80 on an entertaining lesson on frame and power. Once or twice would seem OK to check off as an experience without ruining your TRP brotherhood membership
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 01:24 AM
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I fourth this. Holding frame has allowed me to be the superior man I am today, and I'm always interested in hearing more examples.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 05:21 PM
1

ONS some non-student HB3's who live in the next town over. Don't get drunk/high for your anxiety. Get the hang of it , and then aim higher.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:05 AM
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strong silent = strong confident posture and involved socially shy beta = weak shy/scared body language and avoidant socially
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:49 AM
2

Only really works for me if I enjoy the scene on it's own merit (music, women, friends, social, food/drinks). Nightgame for me = enjoy yourself, if you happen to click with a woman get her number, once in a blue moon that even leads back to your place(when it does happen, it tends to happen effortlessly). Trying to impress and guard some attention-whore is neither something I'm great at, nor something that I enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:14 PM
0

don't 'describe' other people's use of effective game
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 07:03 PM
4

"abundant sex" is supposed to be the goal why is your goal "pleasing women"?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 07:01 PM
1

Is she not making an effort to be sexy for you? Your post seems to claim to be concerned about the (lack of) social proof she projects for you in outings. That seems like a minor concern. However, if she's not being sexy for you, that is a major concern.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:05 PM
1

You're doing something wrong. I can't see the whole picture from your post, and to be honest I read it once (not getting paid for this help). Getting laid is not the huge obstacle that you are describing. Should be able to easily fuck someone in the next 7 days if you simply set your sights low and are persistent. There's something else that is the real problem in your life, but like I said, I can't see everything.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:35 PM
7

prostitutes can be fun once in a while, but rationalizing it as 'bootstrapping' is goofy
/r/askTRP24/02/18 03:12 AM
15

Just means she likes you. her: (.)(.) me: damnnnn that's hot her: they're real me: I like her: so what are you doing this weekend? me: gym, looksmaxing, nofap, and trying not to drink alcohol her: * door closing sound effect *
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 09:14 PM
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There's 'cold' state discipline, and there's 'hot' state discipline. Cold = I'm clean. I'm bored. I'm stressed. Man it would be nice to be high. ...No, I know it's a bad cycle for me. I always end up in a hole from this. I'll pass. Hot = HOLY SHIT! I got high, and for the first time in months I feel normal!!! I have energy again. This is me! Getting so much shit done and I feel fucking Amazing! I have to get some MMMOARRRR of this. I'll keep it under control this time... A hot state is fucking n…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:09 PM
3

I want to mention about how not fapping has made me superhuman. Yes, I spend the equivalent of a 2nd job each week chasing dopamine on reddit/web-surfing/Netflix, and I drink a pot of coffee or the equivalent in energy drinks/pills just to get going each day, but I wanted to come on a sexual strategy forum and tell you all about the wonders of my personal struggle with touching my dick, and the shame I felt when I 'caved' Wednesday after finally breaking my 17 day personal record. My T has soare…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 06:56 PM
1

As an initiation into the power of leverage? Sure. A few times a year after a big score? Sure. Instead of sex with plates? No. Because you need xyz to get hard now? No. If you aren't a street dude, pay a premium for safety. Do not deal with street-level operations.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 11:01 PM
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Agreed. I want to congratulate the thread Starter. He has a true understanding of the 80/20 rule, and he did some nice examples. That's too often not the case, when 80/20 is referenced. 80/20 is represented by a power law curve. You have most of the population on what is basically a low-level plateau(often referred to as the 'tail'), ever so slightly inching insignificantly upward. Then the fun starts and the winners climb the hill. The rulers/experts/geniuses are way up near an unseen peak, as …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:37 PM
6

bitches don't want some incel that chews a mouthful of gum in hopes of having muscular cheeks... Looks to them means; seems to have good genes, seems to be good at fucking(built and can move), has style(if not well-groomed at least a 'rugged' style), 'bad' enough to seem to be willing to dominate men and women If they see those things - it's exciting to have sex with you, and it's a proud thing to show you off to other women. It proves to the social group that the woman is hot shit. They DO NOT …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 06:12 PM
3

Trolls, trash = easy decision to ban/delete popular, social content = tough decision. It's not really about Red Pilled Truth, but it drives the sub.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 05:54 PM
1

If it's the OP that down-voted our contributions to this thread, I'd have to guess that they are not new, but rather an old tomato-can boxer. I'm surprised they can still navigate an internet post. Dumb motherfuckers.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:43 PM
0

All heavyweight boxers lift weights. Lifting helps their condition, the combination doesn't turn them into extremely tall middleweights or something... It also sounds like the boxing is more of a hobby for you. You will be fine. Have some discipline with your diet (just like ANY bodybuilder has to do anyway), and your sleep (just like ANY bb)... If after a couple weeks your body hasn't adapted, then quit boxing.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:46 AM
2

Having significant Game along with one of the values (Looks or Status) are not mutually exclusive. There's no reason to think of them as competing for your resources. Everybody has to have game. It's not optional. It's not 'better' or 'worse' than one of the values, it's simply a complimentary skill. Then, you are supposed to max whatever your highest value is (either Looks or Status).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:13 AM
1

Growing a site like this in scale, while maintaining quality is an unenviable task. This is an esoteric ideology. If only people who actually swallowed the pill were allowed to participate, and only speak authoritatively in respect to their actual red pilled wisdom, -we'd have like 50 active members, and occasionally some of the most well liked members would need to be censored. So instead, anyone to whom the red pill appeals to can spout their opinions (often as facts), with a voting system tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 05:17 PM
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School shootings are suicides. Suicide for those who are powerless, and hate their social exclusion. They allow the shooter some control in planning their last day, and to experience ultimate power in their social setting for that final day/hours, and inflict fear and pain upon the general group whom they blame their suicide upon. Doing so legitimatizes and elevates their status from invisible to celebrity (although they don't get to live out that status). Most shocking thing I read skimming hea…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:34 PM
0

Why make a steep investment? Pussy is abundant. If you eventually want a family as part of a life decision, then by all means have a family. But, if your answer to the fact that women are manic-depressive needy emotional junkies, - is to load them up with kids - that's fucking unbearably stupid. The real answer to that is to be valuable, and to make yourself scarce. Then YOU have the power to play or pass any opportunity. Once you commit, you've handed them that power.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 08:08 PM
1

Learn how to use money and status to influence people (including, but not limited to women). Your paragraph is almost entirely focused on the trivial. You probably should never use or read the terms 'alpha', 'beta', 'iq', 'rapport'... again. Focus on using money and status to influence other humans. Become competent at that, and learn to get high off of that. Continue a basic routine of maintaining your health and your wealth.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:16 PM
3

Yikes! That’s a steep price to pay for a hunch. Next: You realize you’re wrong and fake your own death? What in fucks name????
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:12 PM
6

For some reason seen a lot of posters have both a porn-based understanding of sex, and (ironically) also have this insecurity issue with the 'alpha' shit, where they believe that if something isn't making the pussy wet, it means they are as weak as they fear. Your unwanted dose of reality isn't pleasant to that fuckery. Women do like to be dominated, but yes, a lot of sex is simply about mate retention. She's often doing it to please you and to be with you.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 07:22 PM
11

This guy is a cornball blogger/content-producer. It's likely that any given piece that he writes is fiction having nothing to do with his life. Not that he(or anyone) couldn't easily apply any of these things if he wanted to. He pumps out generic, general, feel-good 'advice' content. There's a market for it, and the successful content-producers benefit from cross-posting to this sub because the environment generates some followers. The 'lesson' here is that even inside the 'red pilled' club, you…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:01 PM
2

They already control the resources. They hold all the great, and most of the good market positions. As far as population control, they can and will do whatever they want. 'Playing and living like god to 7B, or whatever we are up to, is working GREAT for them at the moment, but it's obvious that limited space and pollution becomes an issue with a growing/aging population. I don't claim to know our rulers' population control plan, but I do know it's entirely up to what they decide. There's no 'doo…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 01:14 AM
2

Those families and bankers already have control of the system. There's no applicable doomsday theme. There's no doomsday. They owned us yesterday. It's been over.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 12:41 AM
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If you are doing it correctly, there should be sexual tension (you are legit getting horny, and she is also getting horny, and/or at the very least there's a MUTUAL feeling of 'respect' towards the escalating energy/situation). If she's ignoring/avoiding/rejecting the reality of the sexual tension, it's probably wise to 'next' as the OP advises. If she was simply 'shit-testing', she'll likely be back on her own accord, within a week's time, ready to fully participate.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 05:56 PM
2

His "percentage of people of the opposite sex who are willing to have sex with you right now" definition is fine, but he softly implies that SMV is completely looks-based, especially without any description and the ode/cliché to lifting conclusion. Generally, having a significant amount of one of the 'values' (Looks, or Status) and combining that value with wisdom or 'Game' (true game, not PUA fuckery) is sufficient to have high SMV. High levels in all three are very rare, and generally superflu…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 05:23 PM
1

We live in a world that 'genius' isn't directly rewarded, while 'market position' is.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:04 AM
2

Think of this analogy to a champion boxer (bonus!: an entity that also happens to be at odds with brain health lol). Learning a new language is to the brain like roadwork, lifting, rope-skipping, bag/pad work and sparring is to a champion boxer; It 'sharpens' your (brain) 'fitness'. You still need esoteric boxing wisdom. I could take a star football player in peak fitness and genetic talent, loaded with performance enhancing drugs, and he wouldn't know shit about angles, glove placement, etc.., …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 06:51 PM
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I was going to disagree with your pretense, but I wasn’t willing to read that entire post.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:23 AM
1

These psychological truths are part of the reason that actually red-pilling somebody is a movement for a minority of the whole. It's how humans have evolved. Heuristics. Cognitive bias such as that appeal to authority are huge. These heuristics influence the way even most of TRP is authored (towards the masses). It's part of the reason we have things like tags. People can actually take the red pill and become aware, but it's a case by case situation for those who are ready. They'll always be out…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 11:03 PM
2

Sadly, there is truth to this. Truth is few and rare, and the masses of idiots both increase the noise/signal ratio, and create a market for being the target of posting. There are perhaps a handful of posters with elite wisdom and content.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:47 PM
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Hilarious that your understanding is being questioned, while these guys have zero-to-slim understanding of what you are actually even saying, but your threat to their hero-worship is enough that you are getting 50 downvotes. Have to give Peterson credit. He is capitalizing. He does have these sheeple 'white-knighting' anyone who questions their leader. Potentially something to learn from Peterson. I think it is in fact the 'older man', 'authority' thing to some extent. He has a 'pimp-like' effec…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:30 PM
1

You consider yourself an 8/10. You are either terrible at judging the looks scale, or you have opportunity for modeling. If it’s accurate, simply being employed and knowing sidebar basics should be enough for high SMV.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 01:05 AM
0

Thanks. It’s actually really easy once you’ve seen enough posts.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 11:16 PM
3

probably a guy who was told he has 'depression' or a self-diagnoser who wants to be a part of something, anything, and imagines himself depressed. And it's probably the story that he imagines is stopping him from getting any pussy (much less being good at sexual strategy).
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:00 PM
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Depression is used to cover a lot of shit. 1.) True chemical imbalance = body doesn't make enough of the right balance of chemicals and feels 'sad'. = This is bad, and it is rare. a=genetic. , b=drug abuse/diet induced. These require very accurate/precise/careful medication, or simply quitting the drug abuse. 2.) Weak mental state = bad at the mental game of life and feels 'sad' and negative. This requires learning and hard work to cure, not drugs. 3.) Life just happens to actually suck = You we…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 06:57 PM
3

Good= Consistent in the Gym and diet. Noticed an exciting extra income opportunity related to my hobby. Added a promising new plate. Good sex with two regular plates and the new ONS/plate. Found some porn I really liked and busted 3 good nuts. Bad = Drank wayyy too much Friday(last night) with friends. Lucked out and not really a bad hangover, but more of something that I want to keep in moderation. Have to continue to work on my mindfulness and patience in general. Eager to advance toward my go…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 05:55 PM
1

I'm not a fan of the medicating-for-profit within the mental health industry either.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:56 PM
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I don't know his followers well enough to comment on them. I've seen a small sample of idiots in Youtube comments (but it's youtube... what do you expect?). I've seen his fans here praise him highly, and defend him vigorously. Peterson apparently does a great job of connecting with his audience and winning them over.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:19 PM
1

Unfair to argue that one mainstream notion discredits all of the guy's wisdom. He may not be the 'genius' that these sheeple angrily white knighted with their downvotes, but overall he has a good deal of wisdom and provides value with much of his content. Critical thinking still applies.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:07 PM
2

Or at least self-centered and solipsistic, upvoted
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:04 PM
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I can empathize with that. , upvoted
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:03 PM
1

True, but pedestalizing Quantum Physics and pedestalizing Peterson have some similarities. (Unless you are arguing that you find Peterson's content to be brilliant regardless of his appeal to authority, and use of media.) I guess I look at 'genius' as superior intellectual talent. Application isn't necessarily required but you'd expect creativity and capitalizing. It's a continuum that is on power law curve. Geniuses are on the 'steep' highly elevated side. Peterson appears clearly above the ave…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:40 PM
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I think you would be disappointed with quantum physics. No, change that - YOU would be highly impressed and proclaim them geniuses. I think that someone capable of critical thinking who has a balanced perspective of human intelligence would be disappointed with quantum physics. We're talking an exclusive field with high barriers to entry and a small pool of competitors. Peterson does well with the cards he's dealt. He has a high level of insight and he applies it well. He does a great job of pre…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:32 PM
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The man is clearly a genius and one of the great thinkers of our time. LOL! This guy is above average vs. the general population, but he's very mediocre compared to actual geniuses and great thinkers. I do agree with you about him not being 'beta'. We can't make a post without leveraging an attack on a straw man like beta,cuck,sperg, etc... add 'anti-alpha' to that mix... I agree with others here that he has a good frame. He does a great job presenting himself as an authority. He does a great jo…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 04:41 PM
6

left hand on scrotum to differentiate
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 04:03 PM
4

There is a lot of trivial PUA stuff reposted here. That stuff goes in the same category as black pill testimonials #trash. 'Game' actually encompasses insight and social skills. The actual big ideas from PUA apply, but real game is not limited to PUA, especially not the minutiae.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 05:14 PM
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end in mind = knowing your goal and being able to plot a path backwards or forwards. It's a trendy way of saying 'set goals'. outcome dependence = is about emotional instability regarding each attempted step along your path toward your goal. You do want to care about the end (your goal). That is process oriented (rather than outcome oriented). What you don't want to do is live and die with each step. If your process is sound, each rational step is a win, regardless of that step's specific outcom…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:47 PM
1

Generally, having a significant amount of one of the values (looks or status) and combining that value with game(true game, not PUA fuckery) is sufficient to have high SMV. High levels in all three are very rare, and generally superfluous.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:17 PM
1

Money is basically a subtype of status. Game is a separate integral element. However, you will read dumb shit like “looks, status, money” all the time.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:11 PM
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That's definitely an issue. Instead of thinking critically, and working hard, and learning what actually drives the system, there is often focus on imitating minutiae. Insight can be scary; It's a skill that most people suck at. It can cause cognitive dissonance that the theories you had committed to are wrong. It can reveal how weak and ignorant you actually are. 85% of the people online are just seeking dopamine rewards. They don't really want to work and learn. They want to re-live a 'trope' …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 03:31 AM
1

Sounds good. If she becomes too much hassle, ghost her.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:11 PM
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be patient, be sure to keep dating other women, and continue to occasionally initiate with this specific woman. Sometimes you have to initiate.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:07 PM
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This, and don't give her any free value for this shit. Make her earn her value at work by actually working well.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:00 PM
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Unless you are grotesque, you don't have 'poor facial genetics'. Game is always helpful in general. For game to be fully utilized, you really need to combine it with a value (either you are hot, or you have high status). When combined with a value, you offset limiting factors and do previously unattainable stuff. Game by itself is just a nice quality.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 08:57 PM
1

great point a lot of posts seem to think that getting laid is the end-all goal, or in this case that an LTR is the end-all goal...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 08:48 PM
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go to a trailer park and find the same with White ones.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 08:44 PM
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premise = The problem is women will only talk to t those they considers friends I'd reexamine this. Women talk to men whom they perceive as valuable all the time. Friendship can actually become a barrier to sex and general respect. How does one maintain frame when there are rumours about you failing ? That's kind of the crux of maintaining frame. Studying general theory about frame and maintaining frame should do the trick. 2. ... You stepped on the gas here a little abruptly. :) Look at the the…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 06:55 PM
1

No. After you adjust for the Survivorship bias, you will find that number of kids is not the major model.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 06:52 PM
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Push yourself to see clearly and think critically. Let go of your anger. Learn as much as you can. Be wary of committing to predisposed theories/thesis at this stage in your learning. Committing to such ideas is an obstacle to your acquiring wisdom. Keep an open mind and put in the work to advance on the learning curve. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 06:48 PM
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SMV seems to 'blow up' when you offer value(could be looks, could be status, etc...) and have some understanding and game. Focusing on yourself and things you can control (healthy choices, mental fitness, physical fitness, sleep) comes first. Then the things you can influence (your network). Then high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:27 PM
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I agree. And SMV is not some abstract, theoretical, tough-to-grasp concept... Yet, people still insist on shaping the meaning to whatever they fucking feel like.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:18 PM
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You'd also have a completely different example. The fact is that the guy has "acting and money" (aka 'status'). His high status makes his SMV high AF.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:08 PM
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I do not know enough about him to really agree or disagree with what you are saying. I was replying to the outrageous implication that he wasn't high SMV that was posted above.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:38 PM
3

weight training ≠ bulking bulking is just a single bodybuilding strategy Weight training does not make you eat a LOT more calories in hopes of maximizing mass. Fucking eat appropriately. Pointing to one popular bodybuilding strategy does nothing for the comparison of training between calisthenics and free-weights...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:34 PM
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Anyone is fair game if they let their guard down. If you have significant social status, - you have to be a vigilant douche at all times. NDAs, screening, leverage/blackmail, video when appropriate, etc... Think of it as being a regular AFC in an LTR. You let your guard down thinking there is loyalty, and she will step in and fill that power-vacuum to shit test your beta posture. Same general concept, only with accusations of 'misconduct'.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:47 PM
2

You don't think Aziz has high SMV?????????
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:42 PM
6

Short girls are well-versed with the roleplay of making a man feel dominant. That's one of their go-to roles. Tall women who are actively dating, are more used to being seen (and seeing themselves) as powerful, or a model/trophy wife type of thing. (part of that is social pressure from other women, and part is from how guys react to them). That doesn't mean they don't want to be manhandled, but if she has an ingrained identity/priority on being the model queen she-ra in her social group, it's go…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 07:37 PM
3

It's about wisdom, not an avatar/mascot. The guy who trained Tyson was an elderly man with a few years to live. He couldn't have beat the worst active boxer in the world. You (or the people you are attempting to troll here) are the type of people who watch porn for the big dicks, and subscribe to PUA actors who stage everything from rental cars to escorts/actresses. You don't want to put in the work. You want an avatar/mascot to imagine through. P.S. I don't give a single fuck about Rollo or any…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:23 PM
5

Oneitis = obsession, sacrifice(not the good rewarding kind) Cured = may still 'like' some of the things about the person(hopefully something attracted you in the first place beyond just randomly hooking up and falling in luv), but you would never place her ahead of yourself again.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:38 PM
2

fantasy field-report Fridays are a close second. I was tempted to post an HB3 field report just for the shock value. I agree that unplugging newbies is one of the best things about TRP. Also agree that the mods job is challenging.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:31 PM
3

"Does he care about me or my vajayjay? Will he show up if there's no promise of the sex?" Not sure that passing those tests is as great as it sounds.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:36 AM
1

I agree. The 'just go & win her over' stuff is not my favorite advice. Kind of puts him in a beta/scarce frame where he's showing her that she's more valuable. If she's already playing games it's a red flag. If she's being honest, they should just reschedule for a night that she's free. If she gives him shit about rescheduling, ghost her and quickly schedule a date with someone else. If he ever had a chance in the first place, she'll be back.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:30 AM
2

Quickest way is to get a new oneitis. Best way is to put in the work to improve.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:24 AM
3

I agree. law 38 is basically about your outward appearances showing respect to, and going with the flow of, whatever culture you happen to be immersed in.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:21 AM
3

while I don't agree with you word-for-word, your general attitude is superior to those who act 'victimized'. Truth is truth, so you may as well understand it and thrive with it. You don't have to love everything about a specific truth, but you have to love truth itself. You have to love the act of capitalizing on truth.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 09:18 PM
0

Some men struggle to wield tools of power, resulting in a mix of both alpha and beta traits... Other men struggle even to wield cliches, and manage to miss the mark even with a few cliches in a short sentence...
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:26 PM
2

This reads like a lazy/sloppy adoption of 'eugenics'. this isn't even 'cola' to eugenics' 'Coke'... this is Aunt Jemima mixed in seltzer water
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:21 PM
1

Morality is an abstract concept that happens to often be a part of a concrete feedback loop. The concrete repercussions of 'Immorality' are enforced socially and/or legally(in the case of overlapping morals/laws, e.g. murder). If you have actual systemic insight (not heuristics, not Blue-Pilled naiveté), then you will at times see that the best move happens to be actions that, although they conflict with social morals, are superior to so-called 'moral' actions, and come with no (or trivial) adde…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 05:06 PM
1

EVERY cult has some bullshitters among their leaders, and some pathetic souls among their followers. However, wisdom is wisdom. If you aren't willing to put in the work to advance on the learning curve of a subject matter, and patiently sift through noise for occasional signal, then competence in that subject is not for you. I prefer Robert Cialdini all day over Robert Greene, but I can skim through '48' and find several nuggets of wisdom and some thought-provoking, imagination-spurring concepts…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:49 PM
4

You are scared, and you have pedestalized fucking. Get yourself 3 plates this week. Date ugly if you have to. Fuck. Learn what it feels like. Create some momentum.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 02:05 PM
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yet, BOTH women AND men are so dysfunctional, that I can't really compare the two sexes in terms of relative dysfunction. It's a dumpster fire. YES, the mainstream paints women in a false light, and they are a protected class, but they generally 'function' as what they are. Women aren't some kind of plague on society. They are just female humans. Red pill is about seeing the truth and rejecting the mainstream falsehoods, not dehumanizing women.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:58 PM
2

the sperg stuff makes for great us-vs-them rejection.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:51 PM
1

read more like a badge thing
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:50 PM
2

Your thought process in the post is fucked. Admit to yourself that you don't know about sexual strategy. Drop the dumb shit in your head. Open your mind. Read the sidebar. Put in the work to advance on the learning curve.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:02 PM
2

The same shit any man would do. Go get yourself a few plates even if they are 3s. Work your way up. IDGAF if you are a virgin. You don't get extra credit for shit like that.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 12:59 PM
3

stop drinking for courage/anxiety-relief if that's the case. If you choose to drink socially, order a 'call' drink with some top-shelf liquor. (do your homework. Google a nice drink that interests you, along with the quality brand. Check your price, some dives gouge top-shelf.) Sip it. It actually tastes good(provided your bartender isn't ass), and the price (~$10-$20) should keep you more budget minded (vs. guzzling nasty $3 wells drinks).
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:09 PM
13

Part of self improvement is learning the virtue 'Temperance' https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temperance_(virtue). For some it's alcohol, for some it's heroin, for some it's meth, for some it's fapping, for some it's surfing the internet, for some it's... Any time a habit takes you off of your path to success, then the more you partake of that habit, the more your life moves further away from a 'paradise' and closer to a 'prison'. With most of life's pleasures: Taste>>>Indulge
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 04:10 PM
0

People get caught up in the details. I empathize with the elite Jews, and their alliance. I feel they are simply a natural result of our species in the context of our world. If they did not hold this market position, other alliances would. If I went back in time and erased Tom Brady, the Patriots would be damn near as good as they have been over their dynasty period. Another 'Tom Brady' would have risen to that position by the system in place(elite coaching/ownership, and financial incentive for…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 05:32 PM
3

Love yourself. Focus on yourself. Know your circle of competence(know yourself). Operate within a rational frame. The same exact guy can be labeled 'confident' or an 'egomaniac' depending on the perspective of the person judging him.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 03:58 PM
2

Yea. In addition to sexual strategy, I've seen Red Pill described as the 'emphatic rejection' of the Blue Pill. The 'text game' and 'clean your room' advice found in Seduction doesn't have the same force.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 12:13 PM
1

While both subs have some useful baseline wisdom, I find TRP to be more interesting. I'm more of a macro-thinker, and a lot of r/Seduction seems to get lost in trivial minutiae. I want (understanding of) the major models that drive the system. Both subs have a good deal of 'noise'. Both have their share of salesman, and virgins. To it's credit r/TheRedPill seems to have a handful of active posters who post hard-hitting content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 11:42 AM
2

Have your shit together and schedule a date. You'd be surprised. Many non-whites at least have a sexual stereotype that they can play to when dating average thinking women. and, Yes, if you are a 5'4" Indian dude , and you aren't starring in and filming a Netflix series(Aziz A. is a TRP reader on the low), you could be up against the odds in the States, while having a huge pool of quality from back home.... But, if you have your shit together, and you have game, and get to the date stage, you ar…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 10:46 PM
7

If you just go with the flow, fit in, do what is required, - you get to live a relatively safe life of mediocrity. You get to bell-curve your way through life. Repetition and conformity. Easy on the brain except for occasionally quelling your ambition. Maybe you are lucky and have some open doors, and looks/talents, and maybe you are unlucky and you don't. But, if you leave the safety of the herd, and do your own things, finding and building your circle of competence in area that average men are…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:56 PM
20

While it's a natural stage (to hate women and hate the game), it's not healthy to stay in that stage, much less repress feelings toward that end for years. The system works how it works. You aren't important enough in the grand scheme of things for your feelings toward the system to matter. Train yourself to understand the system, and then train yourself to love the system. You're supposed to be thriving in your environment. Your adaptability is what matters, not your fucking valueless emotional…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:32 PM
2

yea, if you are of an incel mindset. there's more to sexual strategy than 'getting pussy' how about a rewarding sex life that empowers you rather than one that is essentially an expense? Many people are so hard up for not having their basic needs met, that they see meeting those needs as an 'end'...
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 08:12 PM
16

You need to learn how to think with the few, and speak with the many. Learn this law. You aren't earning any TRP lodge points for being frustrated over a family gathering. Maybe 15% of the population is some semblance of red pill aware on some level. If you are almost 1 year in, your family is not in that minority of thinkers. Learn how to think with the few, and speak with the many. Your normtard family doesn't want to hear you lecture them like a born-again know-it-all. Family holidays is for …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 08:01 PM
1

Have to consider 'Survivorship bias', but I'm willing to accept that some women do become devoted advocates. While we may quibble about the odds, we both agree with your last line; too many men make stupid choices in life partners.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 01:44 AM
1

to access a certain lifestyle like the junky, bio or underground lifestyle if they considered that access a value (which they did) , that kind of wipes out the whole altruistic argument. Women individually want what they see as value, and women collectively tend to value certain things (looks, status,..) Now, that doesn't make them evil subhumans. Women are simply female humans... , and although their behavior may not match the loyal true love tropes seen in movies, and pushed as truth in our so…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:22 PM
8

There are plenty of winning lottery tickets too. Unfortunately, the odds suck, and we don't know the winning number until after the fact. Has nothing to do with purchasing junk lottery tickets, or dating junk bitches. It has everything to do with the nature of the game.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:14 PM
20

neither is better Aesthetics = Consistent pussy, with inconsistent overall strategy. Game = Inconsistent pussy, with consistent overall strategy. BOTH have limiting factors. When combined properly, the limiting factors offset, and then you are high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:05 PM
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This. It's a movie (never trust a movie to be factual down to the details, especially true-love/devotion tropes). (think Bon Jovi Livin' on a Prayer) Do real women ever stay with a man after his life has been shattered?? Yes, but they are rare. Rarer still if the life shattering event hasn't secured their finances(insurance/income/settlement) and social status(fame, or her social group of other financially successful wives that is now dependent on the image of her as an angelic caretaker that is…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:09 AM
1

You paint yourself as an idealogue with this superficial pep-talk. If you value children and family-life and are willing to shoulder the responsibilities and expenses = I have no ill feelings toward you. You are free to do so, and also to imagine the experience as evolutionary success if you so wish.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 12:10 AM
2

Not sure why your post is getting downvoted. Solid advice.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:03 PM
1

A year-and-a-day is a good rule of thumb if you are truly devoted. You master the theory, get a lot stronger mentally, get a lot stronger physically, thrive as much as possible in your career, and learn how to play the game at some level. After a year-and-a-day, your plates may be 3's and 4's if you are really starting out low SMV. That's perfectly fine. Master that level, be the Alpha Chad of that market position. 'Alpha Chad' is a relative term (to both yourself, and your contextual position).…
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:45 PM
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Answering your title here (did not read post) Only if you devote hours with very low standards, become famous, or have a pimp on speed dial. This is assuming that by 'going out' you mean approach for ONS. However, if you have several plates you should be able to reliably hook up for the most part.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:28 PM
2

The best thing you can do with the Dark Triad is to see the reality of it. Lesson 1; Red Pilled DT = 'amoral', Blue Pilled Wannabe DT = 'immoral' Learn the difference. Then contemplate/meditate over the 'why?' Why is DT 'demonized', when Rational, Amoral applications of DT are sometimes the best strategy that you can employ?... Once you have developed that insight/understanding, then you can apply rational, amoral DT attitudes to all self improvement.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:14 PM
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1 - the insight is because it goes against typical societal values that investment in a relationship has value. This is HUGE. While the other stuff is basically common sense in a society that places a value on 'consent' and the power of consent w/ female, the investment part is what goes beyond common sense. Most men vaguely realize that power is at play, or that the power play takes place in the time period between the woman gaming for a reward and the time that she receives the reward. There's…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 09:38 PM
1

Early to bed and early to rise, without sleeping pills or stimulants. It's not easy. If you are in a bad sleep pattern it can be like any bad habit and take 3-7 days to adjust. You can't initially make yourself sleep (without a pill), but you can make yourself wake early. This means being exhausted the next day. A few of these days in a row, and your body will adapt to sleep earlier.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:46 PM
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Whether I get 7 or 8 hours isn't huge, per se. However, sleep is like a litmus test for your health, and your habits and your discipline. Sleeping 10pm without sleeping pills, alchohol etc... and then waking up at 5am without caffeine nicotine etc... isn't the most comfortable thing in the world to initiate, but it's doable. I can still thrive. Sleeping 1am-8am after drinking or taking a sleeping pill and then blasting espressos upon waking so I can stumble through a cold shower and half ass my …
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:43 PM
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Take your post-hernia recovery schedule(from your doctor/surgeons) seriously. I've had a couple (groin, abdomen), and I need to have my abdominal hernia re-done. Either that, or I could draw a nipple and really embrace the freaky look during 'planks' and pushups. ew EC MentORPHEUS has great advice about swimming in the comment below. Also may be able to continue a walking routine (treadmill, hills, moderate hiking) relatively soon after surgery. Not great for mass, but there's a sweet spot that …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 06:56 PM
1

You display a fairly capable thought process of thinking through different ideas, but it's misplaced as an application with this IG dilemma. If your social group uses IG, spend an hour and build a solid, low-maintenance IG. Then apply social skills from that point on. It's going to be a numbers game, and your instagram is a passive-income type of thing. It doesn't have to be ultra-impressive. Take a minimalist approach if you don't have a lot of chad-lifestyle pics. Quality over quantity, so tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 06:37 PM
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Because I can't afford to hire professionals full-time, and it would bruise my huge ego. That said, I doubt your question was sincere.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 10:13 PM
0

The lines between F&C become blurred as power concentrates and occupies all of the key market positions. When this happens you can make a solid argument for F being a 'type'(or 'form') of C. So, in that (purely hypothetical) case it would be both.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 06:23 PM
1

I'm going to take a break from this sub, and focus on the few quality ECs/Posters, and the search-engine/older posts if I hunger for TRP wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:58 PM
1

it's evil egg-man, and his humpty dumpty references!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:24 PM
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We always scour posts for weaknesses, but if he had posted about something like 'masturbating' or 'AWALTunfair', instead of posting an example of success, he would have also received social proof from several hundred morons.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:22 PM
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Great job. It's amazing to see the downvotes and the negativity here when someone posts a rational post about success, as opposed to posting 'with the flow' of whatever is trending or common. I'm jealous. Sounds like a nice social circle for meeting plates.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:13 PM
1

Start believing your total package is attractive. No reason that you can't have muscles. No reason that you can't have posture. No reason that you can't have game. No reason that you can't have a decent job and be well groomed/dressed. You only get one life. Stop living this one on miserable mode.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 05:38 PM
1

Use your acquired wisdom, and learn how to wield the LTR card(w/out actually committing). You are supposed to be better at life now than you were in your late 20s.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 05:30 PM
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what the fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 01:43 AM
1

Empathy is an intimate and important source of information. People are generally state-dependant animals. Knowing how someone feels is very important. Empathy, should not however, trigger irrational decision making on your part.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 07:41 PM
1

No, it's very easy for them. Once you've ordered the drink for her, your 15 seconds of role play from her is over. That's all you get from the interaction. You get the time starting when she notices you approaching up to the time when you order the drink. That is your time with the market position. After those few seconds of role play, she has ALL the market position. If she feels like escalating, she can. If she wants to reject you, she can (and you are a 'creep' if you continue to press). Ther…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:28 PM
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Yes. She is fully aware that you want to fuck when you offer the drink. However, she is completely capable of playing with her hair and giving you IOIs, and then giving you the "I have a boyfriend" line once drink is in hand and you try to escalate. Her implication is then, that if you continue to press, you are a creep. And yes, it definitely extends into much support networks and resource acquisition strategy.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:10 PM
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Even with the great base of wisdom that this sub has, there are still a shocking amount of sheep in here who don't understand TRP and are also not generally capable of critical thinking. Look at the new Progress Thread... 3 of the reports feature their masturbating habits! Many of these bloopers not only lack the TRP understanding, but also seem to lack even trial and error experiences in any form. When you say "Hey, I am employed and I don't mind buying a date coffee or drinks without playing m…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 05:43 PM
1

This is a solid post if you are directing it at the blue pilled masses. This is a shitty post if you are projecting your own victimhood.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 10:04 PM
2

So true. Have to be able to see the systemic dynamics, and at the very least 'accept' them as systemic. Many successful people love the system. They love it because they understand how it works and they have then adapted to capitalize.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 09:13 PM
1

that's actually a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:35 PM
2

most of these sheep don't know Tartus, and don't know Sevastopal, and don't know the significance of the oil transport between these two ports in relation to pipeline competition. they get their news from the media, and can't bother with thinking about the basic incentives involved
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:13 PM
1

Signal-to-noise ratio fucking sucks, much like all of the world. TRP's strength is that it's 'signals' actually do contain wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:37 PM
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This is exactly the reason that while something like NoFap, NoPorn, Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, quitting smoking or caffeine, etc, etc... is a really nice personal self-improvement, but not Red Pilled, per se. NoFap happens to be trending, and I guess the mods are willing to sacrifice quality of TRP, in favor of traffic. Two of the ‘top’ threads today are NoFap... If NoFap or Alcoholics Anonymous or finding God (or whatever club or movement) helped you on your path - great, congra…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:05 AM
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and thanks for the free psychic reading ^
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:21 AM
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your post is bullshit nofap testimonial
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:51 AM
-23

You realize this is TRP, not NOFAP, right?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:28 AM
1

You are correct, sir (that I am not familiar with such arts).
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:18 AM
1

The sex is >>>. There's a physical dynamic, and a social dynamic and a power dynamic that is wayyy more fun than watching freaky shit on a screen.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:03 AM
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I 'get' the amount of convo this thread generated. I don't get the ~700 likes/86%... that's fucking sad commentary I also get that generating traffic is good for TRP, but there is a question about quality. /keepingitreal
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:56 PM
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At your height, you will definitely look better leaner. That doesn't mean slack off the lifting, it just means learn your macros and cut portions/calories. If your body fat% are even in the ballpark of accuracy, losing 5% or so body fat will make it more obvious that you lift.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:31 PM
1

Nofap is an adjunct for incels. weak souls who can't stop obsessing over porn, and then become addicted to their fetishized guilt lol. After draining their balls and brains to porn fetish, they can only recharge by obsessing over guilt and shame in a figurative circle-jerk where they talk about(and fantasize about) the porn fetish in a group dynamic. Then, feeling better, they keep the cycle going by watching more weird porn. don't break the circle brah
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 06:43 PM
2

alcohol is a good analogy. Pleasure can be a paradise or a prison. A taste or moderation is usually better than overindulging when it comes to pleasure. add porn, alcohol, drugs, food, internet, gaming, and zillion other things to the list... If I could keep a bag of heroin in the medicine cabinet, and only sniff a tiny line once a year when I had a bad migraine, I would. But I can't, so I don't. There's a great market for all these things to be used and encouraged to be used habitually. I don't…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 06:23 PM
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Stuff like Alpha is not just a characteristic, but it's also a 'market position'. I could be drinking with some jacked athletes and not be the AMOG, and then later that day be at a party in a room with some people and be the AMOG (as long as I am mindful/aware and willing to fill that role).
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:57 PM
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No. I can't say that I've ever felt like this, and I have watched plenty of porn. I don't understand the mindset. I can't relate. I guess people like the OP and comments are why there is a market for porn stars with xxxlarge or surgically enhanced cocks, and for fake cum shots. When I see shit like that, I think "eh, this fake shit is annoying". I guess I should read through the comments to understand you guys' cuck fetish perspective, but it's not that interesting to me at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:48 PM
3

Higher SMV group, provided you aren't the butt-of-the-jokes beta tag-along of the group. Perhaps you are not as attractive, but just as social and witty, or perhaps you are not as social and witty, but you are the most attractive.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:36 PM
1

Modeled=probably, measured in any kind of precise ways?=no. Probably not. I'm interested in the general idea of synergy, so it's kind of a side project for me. There are some cool infographics that show things like a network web. They can show connections, nodes, and hubs in things like a social network, or web traffic, or something 'fun' like movie character interactions. These are interesting, and useful, and they can show scale. With bringing synergy into this, I want to see if the synergy ca…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:58 PM
1

Thanks, I 'saved' this post.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:25 PM
7

Reminds me of a friend of a fwb that I know... She's got her ex-husband's house, and has guys up in there on rotation. Still has her ex coming through there too on occasion... SMH
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:15 PM
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A lot of it is hygiene and common sense. If they have good hygiene and still smell like anchovies, then a trip to the doctor is in order. Some natural pussy smell is fine in moderation. Some guys even like it. But a wave of odor shouldn't engulf the room after she peels off her jeans.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 06:10 PM
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When you are basically ONS her and you smell the pussy from afar... Not a chance of going down on her. Side note, how can these hoes have such bad hygiene on a known hookup?? It's not like you picked her up at a dive bar or the third day of a festival... I once picked up a girl from her house and I could smell her from the passenger seat...wtf
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:53 PM
-2

Yea, if you are 40 and planning your decline. If you aren't at that stage, why the hell are you committing to anyone?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:33 PM
21

Do not commit to an 18-23 either!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:06 PM
46

A milf can make a great plate, provided: A) She turns you on B) You are pushing 30 or over yourself (disregard if you are HS/College aged, FFS) C) She's strictly one of several plates, and you are getting her at her best (no 'off-days', no 'family outings' w/ her kids... makeup/hair/ready to fuck and putting in an effort)
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:04 PM
1

It's a sexual marketplace. What is it that is making you valuable? What gives you SMV?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:22 PM
2

At the end of the day does it really matter when one finds their niche Strategy requires at least some basic understanding and thinking. Nothing wrong with using google and waze to find your niche.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:15 PM
3

layered question/comment: So as a response and thought process to the "Looks Matter" or "Just be Rich, brah" or the always potent "I know a really grotesque SOB who pulls HB8s because Game" posts, I've kind of tentatively settled on the following idea; 'LOOKS', 'STATUS', 'GAME' (picture a Venn Diagram type of visualization), and if a man excels in 2 or more of these 'sets' (would be 'overlapping'), then he generally has high SMV. So what does the TRP community (you) think about the LOOKS/STATUS/…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:43 PM
0

What really stood out to me the most was Self-Reliance. What is wrong with self-reliance? Great observation. non-conformity, and/or success/talent/power/confidence/etc..... are viewed relative to whether or not they are 'warm'(helping the person who happens to be judging you) or 'cold'(otherwise). If you aren't 'warm', you are a threat, a disorder, bad.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 09:32 PM
1

The most noble thing to do is blend right in with the crowd and not set yourself apart in any way. "Tall poppy syndrome" (sorry, my asperger need to relate mental models)
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 09:25 PM
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No one wants to hear other people complain. If you have a real emergency then complain. Everybody is playing hurt, everybody is experiencing pain, but some people feel the need to 'cry wolf' 900 times a day until everyone tunes them out for being needy and annoying.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 09:10 PM
3

Picture a venn diagram with 3 sets 'A' and 'B' and 'C' Set A represents all men with good 'Looks'. Set B represents all men with expert 'Game'. Set C represents all men with high 'Status'. When a man can objectively belong to at least two of these sets, he generally has high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 09:04 PM
2

the majority of the mental clarity is from not drinking alcohol, and exercise. Added the following supplements specifically for the alcohol issue support/detox: NAC - aids the liver. Also modulates glutamate(something that can get out of whack with alcohol use). I used this in a full dose for a few days and then put it away for sporadic light use. Sulbutiamine - a highly-absorbed form of vitamin B1. Took this along with a b-complex for a few days. dl-phenylalanine - this kind of helps the body r…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 08:26 PM
5

Picture a venn diagram with 3 sets 'A' and 'B' and 'C' Set A represents all men with good 'Looks'. Set B represents all men with expert 'Game'. Set C represents all men with high 'Status'. When a man can objectively belong to at least two of these sets, he generally has high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 08:59 PM
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Both (5'5" average face successful, and 6'3" broke natural) guys are getting an abundance of pussy if they are red pilled. 5'5" average face guy with average social skills is NOT going to get an abundance of pussy(above HB4) if he's broke. So why the hell wouldn't the 5'5" average face guy be motivated to improve and put in work?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 08:36 PM
2

Good set of rules. ONS if you want. Continue to plate if she's beneficial for as long as you want, while following those 5 rules.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:23 PM
0

Exactly, but they will try it. Don't commit. Be ready to next when they play the ultimatum card.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:18 PM
2

If their other standards pass for you, they are definitely worth a try. Pussy varies among all women(mothers or not), and the slut single mom trying to leverage her pussy for a providing male probably had a C-section. Even if she had vaginal birth her pussy could be great. Just be extra careful that if the pussy turns out to be good, that you don't catch oneitis (or fall into a trap) and become her provider.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:13 PM
3

6'9 basketball player build here. I can confirm that there are some aesthetic differences as you get into the 'too-tall' range. A little higher bodyfat % (talking vs. being shredded, not talking fat) is probably better. Shoulders, lats, posture are very important. Core strength is very important (imagine these 5'7" russian bear ninjas angrily moving around your rib level at a club). I'm sure Durant is doing fine lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 09:24 PM
3

If you sub 20% skinnyfat guy who has never lifted, it makes sense. Eating and lifting properly is going to bring his % down, simply by ratio of muscle% increasing and his newfound energy expenditure. No need to start from Gandhi.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 09:01 PM
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20% is a pretty good number for 'skinnyfat'. 15% you can see abs and stuff. 10% = cut, olympic swimmer. <10% = extreme bodybuilding 'shredded' If you are 20% and have no muscle, that's about what the typical 'skinnyfat' guy is. 25% = let yourself go, little bit of a beer belly, can still see some semblance of muscle provided you are strong. 30% = fucking sloppy pig 40% = morbidly obese hop on a walmart scooter
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:56 PM
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bodyfat% references are one of those things that usually gets distorted online (kind of like looks-scale in field reports) If we take ~6ft 175@10% literally, then NO SHIT, we're talking about a gym rat, possibly someone who uses looks for a living (athlete, model, actor). If you are ~6ft 175@10%, you have no rational worry about bulking, or physique in general other than maintaining/improving weaknesses. You've pretty much maxed out the potential of the physical attraction of your body itself. A…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:42 PM
3

I think the OP did the whole truth-but-obvious thing. Is it better to be muscular and lean, than muscular and fat. Hell yea! But no shit, Sherlock. If you are overweight, obviously low% bodyfat is the way to go. But if you're are a skinny (not-muscular) dude, swimming in a smedium t-shirt, with absolutely no physical presence, you need to bulk. No you aren't going to do some all-you-can-eat see-food diet, but you definitely aren't going to be 'cutting'. Everyone can bulk kind of takes that for g…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:28 PM
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Nothing digital is natural. Turn on TV and you see women (and men WTF) in makeup, with fake hair(or at least colored), fake teeth(or at least whitened), and the camera angle flips every 2.5 seconds (guessing this is either a trend among the insiders who dominate the filming market or has been proven in studies to stimulate the audience, as it appears in everything from cooking shows to so-called 'reality'(LMAO) tv... Even fucking male athletes have whitened teeth, hair transplants, and painted h…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 07:02 PM
3

Close to reaching the next level. Stopped drinking habitually, after it had gotten out of hand and become MUCH too frequent w/ some adverse effects and a couple days where I skipped lifting/felt shitty/hangover. Ordered some supplements that I've been researching, and seen some promising concrete effects + some positive placebo energy. Been in the gym a lot harder this week. Head is MUCH clearer, and physically I'm back to my most recent peak/plateau. As fit as I was before the mild setback, eve…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:27 PM
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Agreed. Drinks and coffee should be viewed as 'seed money'. The beta shit comes in when either your dates are objectively 'beyond your means'(your budget doesn't allow you to typically do 'x', but you are so desperate that you do 'x' to impress your date) , or after a date or two with a new potential-plate, you aren't benefiting from the relationship(no sex!?) but your date would be happy to go on yet another date, or an established plate begins to feel entitled to financial investment beyond he…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 09:27 PM
6

When someone proudly self-diagnoses a disorder, it's almost always foolishness. Amoral strategy is not a disorder, provided that it is rationally applied. That line between 'rational strategy' and 'disorder' is super important. The former involves red-pilled application of ideas, the latter is a disease.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 07:37 PM
1

If you had to choose one of the extremes, morning. Have to do a decent warm-up. Don't go overboard with a pre-workout. Yes, caffeine will wake you up, but a heavy morning caffeine habit can catch up and start to tax your body. Headphones/music can help.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:41 PM
2

I agree. Avoid dangerous situations, and make an effort to learn game as you did when learning business.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:21 PM
4

If your orgasms aren't validated as 'genuine', you will be given a pre-paid shipping label, and be asked to send back all of the illegitimate pussy. No one wants that.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:19 PM
3

Bottom line: Money may buy you an orgasm, but money will never allow a man to purchase long-term genuine sexual attraction from a woman. While I agree (strongly) with the title of the post, and some of what the OP is saying, I feel he's out of focus/perspective when it comes to his 'bottom line'. Money/fame/carreer ≠ Game because Game is applied sexual strategy and understanding, not because of some arbitrary standard of 'genuinely' attracting/pleasing a woman. Status without game simply means t…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:05 PM
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High-quality post. There's a popular trope that Machiavellians' default behavior is that of the zero-sum-game evil-doer, rubbing their hands together like a caricature villain. 'Win-win' interactions are actually the default interaction, and the single most important interaction for alliance building. Win-win interactions allow you to form relationships with more powerful people. Win-win interactions allow for abundance, even with other powerful entities seeking the same resources. There's a hug…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:56 PM
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MARKET VALUE - Specifically Blue shit that has enough market value that both bloggers and bloopers repeatedly bring up. 'NoFap' seems like a decent example. It's blue, and there's a club for that, but it sells. It's trending well enough that you don't even see posters bothering to break down the important ideas into red-pilled applications, just pure infiltration. So you get testimonials and praise, and you don't see an emphatic rejection of those posts in the comment section. There's nearly alw…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:33 PM
2

Psychology is fucking amazing with things like cognitive biases and behavioral finance. Not really stuff we learn a lot about in school, but part of the reason for that is we are the rats. Psychology is bullshit when it becomes essentially astrology/personality-type descriptions and/or wackjob extensions of theories (think oedipus complex opinion piece).
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:13 PM
1

They are part of physical attraction or 'looks'. 'Looks' is one of the major models that drive Sexual Market Value. There are only a handful of 'major models' that drive SMV. Of 'looks' specifically, there are a handful of 'major models' that drive 'looks'. A rough guess would be: Genetics(face/height/build), Fitness (muscularity, proportions), and Style(grooming/fashion/posture). Height and build would both fall under the 'genetics' model within the category of looks. Genetics is one of the maj…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:24 PM
3

I have mixed feelings. In some sense, it feels like a 'horoscope' con. However, Narcissism is interesting to me. I argue that Narcissism is healthy and attractive, - provided it is within a rational frame. Narcissism is considered a mental disorder, especially when the person judging/perceiving considers you to be 'cold', an outsider, or a threat. If you are perceived as 'warm', an insider, or a benefit, the same frame can be perceived as 'charismatic', 'confident', and 'charming'. There is also…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:17 PM
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He just wanted to talk about himself and his demanding education. Possibly also to hamster quitting the gym. It sure doesn't seem like the purpose was asking TRP for actual input.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:31 PM
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Sexual Market Value matters. Looks is one part of SMV. Perhaps looks could be split into three categories: Genetic/face/height/build, Fitness/muscularity, and Grooming/fashion/posture. Learn to see and understand the system. If you see the system, and want to be a specialist, more power to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:03 PM
1

He came off as a very awkward/annoying troll in the video. He did have some presence, and a mic and cameraman and a wingman... all which account for something. His shtick failed here, but he was skilled enough with the media aspect to create value (200K views). I've never seen his other videos, and I don't have any desire to, but I give him some credit.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:15 PM
1

NoFuck sex addiction recovery movement/community. Awaits 'scientific' claims regarding prolactin after sex, lowering T... It's an interesting idea in theory, but a much tougher market. Fapping is taboo, sex is desired.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:27 PM
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you don't understand the dynamics that drive SMV. Aside from the fact that these petty binary polarized debates are fucking stupid (lifting or confidence)(lifting or martial arts)... You simply don't understand the dynamics well enough to support an opinion. Part of critical thinking involves knowing both sides of the argument.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:24 PM
9

Initiate sex. If she resists, ask her to leave and call an Uber (or simply leave if it is her house or a mutual location). Express confident disappointment(you are expressing a judgement, you are not looking for her feedback/mirror for approval). Ghost her (no contact). chat up former plates there is a likelihood that the girl you ghosted will return(3-7days being the most likely) bearing gifts of sex. Don't catch oneitis. Continue contact with former plates, and don't even consider an LTR with …
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:35 PM
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Don't value a woman's sexuality in the workplace. Don't give it value in the hiring process! Don't give it value in the need-a-favor/workload dynamics. Easier said than done, but the goal should to treat workplace women in a merit-based frame. We are weak when we give them extra-credit for attractiveness in landing a job or advancing or doing less work than is required for a man. It goes both ways, and it's a seduction art with some women. In the moment, it feels powerful to the man. However, it…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 07:23 PM
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Your revelation came at just 16, but I have the feeling that '16' was not decades ago. I'm guessing more like a few years ago? It's good that you've learned AWALT. You've got to be careful that your focus is on thriving in this system, and not on your parents getting divorced, and not on bitterness towards women. You are still (apparently) young. You can form sentences. You can grasp concepts such as AWALT. You have a great opportunity to build value in yourself and enjoy this world.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:57 PM
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lol why does MGTOW and NOFAP slip in a 'testimonial' seemingly every day? Proselytizing and shit...
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:38 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:20 PM
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I never understood guys that are getting amazing head but in their heads they are crying "B-But she isn't doing this cause she loves me for me!" If you get pussy for anything other than genetics/face/body, there is a vocal minority that will be very upset. You will be given a prepaid shipping label and asked to return all of the pussy to the UPS store.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:38 PM
10

either go indirect using plausible deniability, or approach her directly in front of her social group for the face-slap
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:20 PM
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LCK was a gentleman and always asked before whipping it out and stroking.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:14 PM
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Define stuff like 'LTR' for yourself. Don't accept society's definitions. If your potential LTR needs you to be monogamous and/or isolated from the sexual marketplace, next her. Plenty of women would love to be your LTR on your own terms.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 06:37 PM
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Yea, it's relative. (also to Harloss) If you ghost your plates and prospects = that's a commitment... If you 'tie up'(invest) or even 'spend'(savings) on her = that's a commitment... A kid = huge commitment... very easy to quickly put all your eggs in one basket, and not realize how fucked you are if you wanted to walk away. Realistically you try to be somewhere between "Be able to walk away, and recover.", and "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:47 PM
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1) Is possible. Just don't commit.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:31 PM
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Great rule/concept. We've all been in the naive position of trust and love with an LTR where we thought we could relax, and that our default SMV + our loyalty would have our queen continue to treat us like a king, forever and ever... What actually happens in that situation is that you relax, and you become isolated from your other plates, and you commit resources (perhaps a better apt/house, perhaps even kids), and instead of rewarding you for all of that loyalty, and using your baseline SMV as …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:26 PM
1

overthinking learn to see and understand game, and work hard at progressing along the learning-curve.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 09:29 PM
1

she's entertaining the idea of a ONS w/ you so that she can feel that her dead-bedroom relationship is the guy's fault and that she is wanted. It's not about you. But, if you try really hard, you may be able to 'win' her, and gradually become the guy she is currently looking to cheat on.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:04 PM
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IQ is somewhat ambiguous in society. Part of it is actual genetic talent. Another part of it is having learned the basic shit that middle-upper class society considers useful. Kind of a barrier-to-entry thing, where mediocre minds can then claim to have above-average IQ and feel special. These parts are often conflated. Focus instead on Wisdom. Learn the major models that drive whichever system(s) you happen to be studying. Get in the habit of 'seeing' those models when you look at a system. You…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:12 PM
2

his 2pt i-net self-reporting scale is generally accurate 9.5s don't wait tables extra credit bonus - waitresses are working when they flirt
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:54 PM
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Husband Husband Husband means: Let me have plausible deniability. She wants "it just happened", rather than "dating". and She has a man at home, don't romance her like a unicorn, she wants adventure and for you to make her feel like her needs not being met hasn't been her fault (make her feel valuable).
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:49 PM
3

The AF/BB cliche is very triggering for a lot of RP.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:23 PM
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Exactly. Redpill is about being............................................................. red pilled. There's nothing in red pill that says "don't be financially successful". If anything, it's actually the opposite (use every major source of power that you can get your hands on). You don't get extra-credit for playing the game with shitty tools. There's no merit badge awarded at the RP lodge for men who get action without having resources.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:20 PM
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3,4=fat, or ugly 5=average 6,7=attractive 8,9=model
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:32 AM
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Looks like about a ‘3’ woman on the looks scale. Obese, and not even a bbw curvy appeal. Not a cute face. From a 1min trailer on FB, looks like she was matched with about a ‘5’ guy who looked like he may have a decent job.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:28 AM
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My guess is that power concentrates as a natural systemic thing. Although some specific people may be in the catbird seat, if looked at in a macroeconomic/large-scale view, power concentrates regardless. Most people are on a 'plateau', and a few people with exponential power sources are on a steep incline slope. I'm not taking on the power elite any time soon. I'll be happy if I can be useful and profitable, in their system in my lifetime. Understanding of how the system works, + numbers of peop…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:04 PM
1

I think that an insight into the actual dynamics of the system that we live in is useful, and powerful. I don't think that understanding how things work is going to change anything. Sheeple gonna sheep. Side-effects of a system are going to manifest. It's just that we want to be able to empower ourselves and our alliances to be able to experience life closer to the 'paradise' end of the spectrum than the 'prison' end.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:40 PM
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What is your opinion? It seems like the work of the ruling class to me. Humans as a species love power. We've created predatory amoral power markets to dominate the herd. We've created alliances, and barriers-to-entry to sustain long-term advantages for the power elite. Propaganda and education are focused in the same direction.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:34 PM
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What is your opinion? It seems like the work of the ruling class to me. Humans as a species love power. We've created predatory amoral power markets to dominate the herd. We've created alliances, and barriers-to-entry to sustain long-term advantages for the power elite. Propaganda and education are focused in the same direction.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:40 PM
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also a psychological tactic of the Chinese from Cialdini's book 'Influence', fucking read it if you haven't in a section about Americans in Chinese POW camps / Korean War: " The Chinese answer was elementary: Start small and build. For instance, prisoners were frequently asked to make statements so mildly anti-American or pro-Communist as to seem inconsequential (“The United States is not perfect.” “In a Communist country, unemployment is not a problem.”). But once these minor requests were comp…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:31 PM
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So, you don't think that another man's business (the couple activities that you happen to be aware of) are befitting of an intelligent alpha??? what in fucks name? NEWS FLASH(real news): Nobody gives a fuck about your volunteer, amateur, appraisals of other men. Try demonstrating some actual insight, such as the OP has done a thousand times over. Then, other intelligent men may actually care about your opinion, and you may even self-actualize your own contribution perspective to that above the l…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:22 PM
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I like the analogy. As with tactics/strategy. PUA probably has some real value with the core concepts, and it's something that is on my long-term reading/learning list. What I've noticed from the PUA posts on this sub, are a lot of trivial details. I'm sure that If I look hard enough, there are some major pickup models that have value.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:50 AM
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are you kidding? sex addiction and overindulgence is a very real thing. Same desensitization and seeking out increasingly hardcore stimulation
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 10:01 PM
1

fighting for attention I remember back when I was experimenting with some hip-hop shit, and hanging out at some woman's house with a beta friend(loosely knew the girl as a drug connection or something) and a chad friend(my roommate), ... and the woman was into dance or house or some kind of music, and Chad and I are jamming on a keyboard synthesizer, and it kind of heated up back and forth in intensity, and I'm doing this amazing shit on the keyboard, and my roommate is doing some basic shit in …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:55 PM
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This is a good post. Unfortunately, there's a market for most (if not all) of the topics you mentioned. edit: Apparently at least four people disagree and/or don't understand the concept of market demand.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:42 PM
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or occasionally fapping to bust a nut. Or for any other reason. Just don't overindulge and become a desensitized exhausted addict.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:38 PM
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so will too much sex... caffiene is fucking amazing once a week or so, but shitty if you drink 5 cups a day ditto alcohol ditto heroin ditto surfing the web ditto almost every pleasurable activity that involves dopamine or similar dynamics master yourself
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:34 PM
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Try to see Chad as a teammate and not a rival. Some Chad's are ruthless, and will dictate the terms and treat you as a rival, but many are going to be open to playing win-win games, as long as there are multiple women, and you aren't competing for the same one(s). Especially when 'Chad' is your actual friend that you went out with. It's possible that a friend Chad may even be able to play wingman with you ("hey I like that blonde over there, be my wingman for a minute") , attracting women your w…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:13 PM
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There are two parts to Hanlon's razor. part1 = definition. part2 = IDGAF about stupid people or stupidity Our instincts (in general, and some of us more than others) can be wired in such a way, that when an idiot interrupts or threatens us, - we want to crush their skulls until their heart stops. That's not a healthy way to live. We risk injury or imprisonment, and waste time and energy. The only way I know to overcome such visceral drives is awareness. Aware that an emotional hot state of anger…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:14 PM
3

Just look at how excruciating your average TV show is.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 07:07 PM
1

This is merely a general blueprint for taking responsibility of your life at a basic level. If you've mastered yourself at this basic level, then you are moving on to more advanced steps. If you haven't mastered this basic level, you are going to have to tackle this in some shape or form. While the graphic does include a few specific examples, I'm not here to hold your hand. You either get with the concept, and google and work hard on it, or discard it for not being of value to you.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:44 AM
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Thought his comment had some truth, but was kind of 'random'. Wasn't really what I was stressing in my post (although I see how my post could apply to MGTOW as well as red pill). I agree with your post. Live well, be a valuable man, be proficient with game, and enjoy stuff like pussy.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:22 AM
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Good tip. Love using white boards.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 10:40 PM
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Skillful makeup can give a thin '6' the illusion of being an '8' to a lot of men. It hits me both ways. I wish every 5 or 6 I date is an expert or gets her's done by a friend who does makeup. It's fun to me. I can suspend disbelief, especially if she has a sexy attitude. On the other hand, it's annoying when low-value men and naive men orbit and chase, and when the woman's game is fully centered on exploiting that attention.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 10:34 PM
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Especially ugly girls who aren't actively playing the game. If they aren't making an effort = run!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 10:09 PM
10

TV adds 10 pounds / 5 kilos to your appearance. Internet posting adds 3 points to your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 10:06 PM
1

stress/discomfort adaptations.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:14 PM
1

Take a class in public speaking. (e.g. community college) Check into Toastmasters (never tried it, but it's in a bookmark folder of mine for reference).
/r/askTRP25/11/17 06:12 AM
3

Good post. Guys are susceptible to thinking the rules don't apply when dating down. You have a value advantage, but you have to actively wield it. I've made the mistake. Dating a woman who should have been THRILLED to have me, let my guard down, assumed the 'logic' of the situation would hold order. LOL no sir. Women (generally) aren't wired nor conditioned to give a fuck about 'logic'. Should you slack on wielding your SMV advantage (abundance/plates, dread, dominance), and a low-value woman wi…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 04:52 PM
2

I think 'dating down' is a great way to establish the structure of your own 'plate system', but that LTRs are almost always a bad/unnecessary decision. If a guy is a 6-SMV, and he can find three fuckable 4-SMV woman who will be plates, at least he's got his system established. As he constantly improves his fitness, game, and status (and occasionally through randomness), maybe he can upgrade to three 5-SMVs, and one occasional 7 or 8 once in a while. Sure, this realistic plate-theory doesn't gene…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 04:19 PM
1

Agreed, but when he wrote "80% of your attractiveness to women is determined by your looks, and only 20% by your personality." , he went off track.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:59 AM
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I agree w/ the thread starter that it's not exact enough to quibble over a point or two. I do think the 3 point difference is amusing, just the same. For a lot of guys in here, a 3pt difference in SMV is going to be a woman who is a '3.5'. And a woman's SMV is primarily looks-scale. Makes an LTR seem even less interesting, unless it's both open and beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:39 AM
1

Outside of maybe our career, and maybe some things like health/fitness, it's interesting how much of life can be more rewarding to taste rather than indulge. To the addict, pleasurable options can be more of a prison than a paradise. To the master of Temperance (Moderation. Rational behavior. Long-term success >>> Short-term impulses) , it's a paradise.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:29 PM
1

Map out your goals, and head down that path with tasks and a routine that advances you. Kinda like a video game ;) Unless you are a pro-gamer, or your main income is from a gaming blog or something, the simulated games (video games) are not going to be a huge part of your path. A little bit for fun and to get your energy right isn't going to hurt. But if you are spending your time and energy on video games to the detriment of your progress, then you've got to cut-back/stop.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:13 PM
2

I start playing the air violin, and tell her too-bad/so-sad .. the world's smallest violin when she asks
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:02 PM
2

I love the theory of so-called overconfidence. Technically, I use the term improperly. 'Over' implies excess. However, I stress that this confidence be applied to rational action, within your circle of competence. The intentional misuse of the word is a bit of a reaction to societal pressure to tone down confidence when it is personally empowering. There are a few exceptions (sports comes to mind) where such confidence is supported without pressure. When it comes to perceived 'confidence vs. arr…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:28 PM
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Chaos is GOOD when you are aware, and prepared, and adaptable. Chaos is BAD when you are asleep, and believe that you have perfect information and/or that failure is impossible. “No plan of operations reaches with any certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main force.” ―Helmuth von Moltke - This guy was a great general, but he understood entropy, and chaos gave him even more of an edge. a counter example; the RMS Titanic -Considered practically unsinkable, was not prepared with li…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:59 PM
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lol great response For some reason the 80:20 rule is one of the oft abused/misunderstood scientific models in these kind of posts... 80:20 refers to a power law. It doesn't mean writers like the OP can simply apply 80% to their theory and 20% to the opposition. "I've never disclosed this before, but I fucking love cheese, 80% OF CHEESEBURGERS GREAT TASTE IS DETERMINED BY THE CHEESE!, AND ONLY 20% BY THE BEEF!" It's probably fair to apply a power law to 'attraction' and say that 80% of attraction…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:52 PM
1

20% of men have 80% of the market value. Of those 20%, the greatest value is from alliance, not genetics. Think a ‘network’ of very high status people that make up a good chunk of the ruling class.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:46 AM
1

"shots on goal" is a good analogy. A good team may have possession for 65% of the game and take 15 shots to win 3-1. A sustained strategic process. If a soccer team lost confidence, and acted irrationally every time they missed a shot on goal, they'd lose every game.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:30 AM
1

good point about establishing the disciplined routine.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:37 PM
1

These are things that I find important, and that I've struggled with. It's one thing to gain the book wisdom and say "ATTEMPT=WIN", and then quite another to apply that wisdom when you cold-approach, or go to a job interview. In those moment's, our brain is hardwired to do-or-die... That's the next level. Being aware and cool enough to use it under pressure.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 06:35 PM
1

Yea lol I've had some success online (pretty sure everyone here has), and tried to defend the comment, but online dating is some B.S. It's definitely worth setting up some online dating efforts, but that should be side-effort than a main dating effort.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 06:09 PM
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Good advice. If you happen to be the boss - Don't hire hoes for non-hoe positions. You don't need a pretty assistant. If she's not on the ground floor greeting or serving customers, you don't need pretty. A lot of these traps are from crazy women who used their looks and sexuality to increase their value in the workplace. Don't give that value.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 05:38 PM
1

an average guy is a '5', so if he he gets built, he's probably gonna be about a 6 or so. Possibly 6.5 if he's aesthetic as fuck. Then he also has a '+' for any woman who has a fetish for beefy guys (yes many are fat, or post-wall, but occasionally you catch an adulteress) That's still pretty good. What's a 6.5 get you on tinder? Some 4s and 5s with a looksmatch once in a blue moon? At least it's relatively 'passive income'
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:15 AM
2

yea it's crazy that on a subreddit dedicated to sexual strategy, there would be backlash and disbelief that strategy could be effective...
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 12:11 AM
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how did you get down-voted for this comment? Then the next guy says he wants a frame of reference... SMH the guy in your story IS the frame of reference.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:14 PM
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I agree with keeping it about sex. Another simple rule is to have more than one gf. If it's all about sex, she will wield sex as a powerful value weapon. This could be in the form of mate-retention (mind blowing pleasure, yay) , or in the form of withholding (she tests you by denying sex). You never want to negotiate from a position of scarcity.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:53 PM
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I'm more impressed by the people who obtain $funding for studies like these, than by the results(obviously lol). It's like getting a bunch of money for showing that water is wet...
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:36 PM
1

You're fine. 1. shave it bald 2. Deadlifts, Shrugs (add some mass to your traps) that shit I'm 100% behind some other shit to explore = you have naturally dark/thick eyebrows and your beard is decent but less dark/thick. I'm not a huge fan of thickening/darkening a beard, but it's something that's rampant in our media and culture (for example, half the basketball players and football players, and all the actors)... You might want to learn/explore check with a good stylist/barber. Look at black/u…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:18 PM
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you've got a lot of excuses. Learn how to be a rugged shaved-head dude with an oval face. You have no other choice.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:12 AM
1

+1 for the goatee advice
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:11 AM
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Whichever source of value that you choose to wield, make sure your strategy is strong.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:11 PM
1

there is a market for 'us-vs-them' rhetoric
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:04 PM
1

We agree on some of the issue, but I just wanted to quibble with your assertion that their aren't race specific genetic differences, and/or that ideology can't influence behavior.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:02 PM
1

people have different fetishes
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:00 PM
1

Couldn't care less. To be sporting, I guess I'd wish the immigrants success, but I honestly don't care one way or the other. I get that this is loosely us-vs-them anti-immigration political stuff, it just doesn't get me riled up. May be potentially valuable in fostering a cult-like group. You get the strawman enemy to blame, and can channel betas fear/anger for your profit. Outside of something like that, I guess the next best ways to profit would be to be observant, and look for other proven im…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:29 PM
2

Why delude about any of these? I'm trying to ONS or plate, and I have a value that a woman wants. Whether it's my genes, or the thrill of being sexually dominated by a hulk, or she's seen my boy-band on TV and wants me to prove her value to her social group and on social media, or she is hoping that she will get to move into my condo and have nice things, or if she wants to purchase an 8-ball of meth... These attractions all stem from the value I have to offer and her wants/desires/needs...
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:03 PM
1

What you need are examples that expand upon this theory. The stuff you posted was basic true stuff about physical attraction. General contradictions don't exist. What you want to learn are the major models other than physical attraction that also account for sexual market value.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 11:12 PM
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nothing wrong with using money, or status = as long as you are the exploiter and not the exploited. same goes for muscles, if you are jacked and catch oneitis, you're still blue. No matter what you use for attraction, make sure your strategy is strong. as far as how you are attractive in whatever way to some ONS or plate... who cares? If a worst case scenario, you look like Danny DeVito or some shit, and the 3 groupies or gold-diggers that you hook up with each week aren't getting wet, keep a bo…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 11:10 PM
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You sure triggered a negative response from some readers of this subreddit! If your post has a weakness, it's that it's basic, obvious, and dull oft-repeated material. It's not however some horrible stuff. You omitted a huge part of sexual strategy, but you didn't claim that only looks matter. No way should this recent comment be downvoted to '-6'. It's true, basic stuff. Women and society claim that women want a great guy, with a good sense of humor, etc... A friend who happens to be a single m…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 10:53 PM
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Status itself is also going to be contextual... Hypergamy could be sexual or lifestyle, and Hypergamy is relative to the perspective of the woman's experience. If I own a house and a decent car, and I want to use that as SMV-boosting status, I have to wield it to women who view that as attractive. A gold digging working class woman will value that higher than a wealthy divorcee with her own bigger house and car.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 11:37 PM
2

Contextual SMV is HUGE. SMV, and even characteristics like Alpha, Abundance, IDGAF etc... are not only inherent 'qualities', but they are also in the dual universe of 'market position'. Hard work and understanding = the foundation of a man. to be a 'star' you have to have great luck or great understanding of the market position and the media/social-proof
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 11:10 PM
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You just have to deal with it. Come to terms with your fucked up scars and boils. This is what your body looks like. Some people think you look gross. You've got that shit on your body. Too bad so sad. Now move on and be a fucking man. If a bitch doesn't like it, on to the next one. Be a valuable man, and there will be plenty of women who don't give a fuck about your scars/boils. When you encounter one who does give a fuck, then you move on to the next one. Your confidence comes from your surviv…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:15 PM
1

Man-up and present your dick for a blowjob at the next intimate opportunity (the next time you hook up). "No"??? or "I told you I don't do that" ?? etc = LEAVE at that moment (do not stick around for sex). or "PLEASE GET DRESSED AND GO, I'LL CALL AN UBER (if she's at your house & transportation is required)". She is not worth the effort of convincing, and most definitely not worth the opportunity cost of receiving less than you want. She already knows you want a blowjob, and that you are too tim…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:33 AM
2

pretty good rundown. I've never used Tinder, but I will bookmark your post here to refer to and see if it applies.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:42 PM
6

Your example of "doing everything people say to do" ≠ red pill theory read the fucking sidebar You do not understand red pill theory right now. All the shitty advice people are going to give you in this thread that is based on allowances for your weak frame is going to be 90% worthless. As a golf analogy, you came into this thread stepping with your feet, not looking at the ball, with the wrong club, not knowing club selection or even how the hole plays. Some pats on the back and 10 handicap poi…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:28 PM
2

You've got a very negative filter distorting your vision. Take that off your eyes, and throw that shit in the trash, and enjoy your studies with the ability to capitalize when you actually do happen to get some rare opportunities. Grow your circle of influence exponentially. New friends have a friend or two each. Get through your management/law with good grades, consider an internship, and earn the trust of some wealthy friends in your field.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 07:26 PM
3

Smart/Strong gives you more matches. The bar bimbo can see you as a possible LTR provider who is definitely hot enough to have some good sex with tonight. The higher status woman can see you as a boy toy who is smart enough to talk to, go out within her social circle, and possibly be an LTR. And you can play either or both cards whenever needed...
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 06:01 PM
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I agree. As my username suggests, I'm a person who focuses on the major models within a given area. The 20% of an area's models that carry the 80% of the freight. If I'm not within my area of expertise, I'm an 80/20 guy. In regards to posture, the models that I'm most concerned with are; Physicality(bodybuilding/range-of-motion) (basic physical posture) Frame (thriving, confident) Awareness (understanding of how to best position/frame yourself in the moment) The first part (Physicality) was alre…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:49 PM
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Please go somewhere else with your blue nofap testimonials.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 04:29 PM
1

I wouldn't say we're oppressed, but if you try to be 'nice' all the time, making commitments, and letting your guard down, that power-vacuum is readily filled-then-exploited.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 09:00 PM
13

I feel that a really wise therapist is probably a great asset. Psychology ended up being one of the fields that I most studied. Whenever you as a human are doing any kind of great things, you are going to face psychological misjudgment/bias/tendency. These things aren't always apparent in a 'cold-state', but in a hot-state they surface. These are behavioral heuristics that our brain has evolved to use. Following them blindly is cool for survival in general, but can be exploited by our rivals or …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 08:48 PM
1

would I call that evil? If, (for whatever reason) you felt you HAD to murder me and one of my loved ones, - my own moral perspective would be irrelevant. It's not like you're going to risk blowing the assassination and increase the risk of both successful defensive actions, and getting caught, to discuss morality w/ me. I don't advocate a society without laws and repercussions. I don't advocate going around killing and unnecessarily hurting. Most people can go through life without having to kill…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 07:55 PM
2

Attempting to argue that these traits are a part of optimal rational strategy (as opposed to a psychological disorder).
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:50 PM
1

IM has a lot of quality material.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:49 PM
3

Great post. Throughout history, cooperation and alliances have been extremely important. When a group rewards cooperation, it's usually better to operate within the frame of 'Win-Win' interactions (as opposed to 'zero-sum' interactions). Not only are you rewarded with growth of influence, but Win-Win is a more abundant frame (e.g. PLENTY of girls at the party for both Chad and myself.). For the same reasons, Win-Win is a great way to deal with the more powerful. Understanding the dynamics of the…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:26 AM
1

From what I've seen looks is overrepresented, and social status (such as alliances) are underrepresented. To be fair, Lifting is such a universal need, a relatively low learning curve, and can be a base or a building block to game.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 11:57 PM
1

"something that benefits you but harms someone else" Do you realize how broad that definition is, and how silly it sounds? You've just demonized competition. The only thing that matters is the 'feedback loop' and whether or not your action brings YOU significant repercussions (directly or indirectly).
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:15 AM
1

A college football player who, under the advice of his agent(which is against the rules to have) does a supervised, covert(not detectable) PED cycle in order to maximize value in the combine, thus locking up a high draft pick. There's an unlimited amount of possibilities. Either you get it, or you don't.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 11:59 PM
13

Planet Fitness and other gyms have capitalized on the 'straw man' of the Gym Bully.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 05:29 PM
9

Same, although if I'm doing my warmup or something, I have no objection whatsoever to fine women setting up in my line of sight. Although my focus is devoted to my workout, I do notice a concentrated 'huddle' of guys that forms in the racks and machines in the immediately surrounding area of said fine women. I kind of SMH at the guys orbiting, but it's not really a bad thing. They are working out with posture and intensity. As long as they aren't flexing on the tricep-extension machine in place …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 05:15 PM
1

Because Morality is an abstract concept that happens to often be a part of a concrete feedback loop. The concrete repercussions of 'Immorality' are enforced socially and/or legally(in the case of overlapping morals/laws, e.g. murder). If you have actual insight (not heuristics, not bluepilled naiveté), then you will at times see that the best move happens to be actions that, although they conflict with social morals, are superior to so-called 'moral' actions, and come with no(or trivial) added r…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 04:51 PM
1

Make the best move. That is what defines "right" or "wrong", not some code based upon fantasy. Use the correct tool for the job. If someone told you that phillips-head screwdrivers are "bad", would you scrape away with the wrong tool (a flat-head screwdriver) when you need to tighten a phillips-head screw? That doesn't give you free reign without repercussions, it simply means exactly what it says "Use the correct tool for the job". If the tool happens to be labeled "immoral" or "toxic" and it's…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 05:27 PM
2

This reads like a script or something. If I tried to follow this shit, not only would I be unnatural/awkward(sorry, my acting game is weak), I'd also effectively be obsessing over trivial shit. There are major models/factors that drive dating success. Spend your time/energy on learning and implementing the major models/factors. PUA scripts = mostly trivial minutiae. e.g. I was attractive/and demonstrated my high SMV(major models)... vs... handshakes/Jazz/eye-gaze/pull-push/arm-around(trivial min…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 03:37 AM
3

'Temperence' is one of the cardinal virtues. Mastering the cardinal virtues can be a useful self-improvement tool for most men. TEMPERANCE = "Stay on your path to success" (Moderation. Rational behavior. Long-term success >>> Short-term impulses)
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 08:04 PM
4

Agree w/ you. Nofap is simply a beta cult. call it a cult, call it a market demographic/target audience whatever rough formula = actual jerkoffs/porn-addicts + those who feel morally 'guilty' about/after wanking + random naive bluepills who want to belong to something/anything and can certainly identify with jerking their dick "wow I feel motivated when i'm very horny, and wow I feel a slight decrease in T and dopamine after I bust a nut!" turns into: "wow LIFE CHANGED! etc... regurgitate+amplif…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 07:42 PM
1

because there is a market for it
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 07:17 PM
1

I love this post. There are a shit-ton of people who are ignorant of reality and/or lazy. Many of these people believe 'everyone is a winner'. These are the folks who spout opinions as if they are facts. And I'm about as 'anti-outcome' as you can be. 'Process' oriented. To me, IDGAF about a short-term result. Any time I take a step on my path towards a goal, that shit is a win. IDGAF if it's a successful step. Every step I take is a win. But I don't fucking step without a strong insight into how…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 10:11 PM
1

you missed the point. If you have veins in your abs(i'm assuming you mean vascularity and lean mass) - that's a fucking good result. Nobody gives a fuck if you could have worked 40% harder. You were smart. You took the correct drugs and you worked hard enough to get ripped. You did great in that category. The thread starter is talking about people who do NOT have results.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 09:48 PM
4

I jerk off when ever I feel like it. Probably a good 3 or 4 times a month. Once in a while jerk off to a face on skype w/ a long-distance social-media friend (which is basically the same as porn or cam whores). It's awesome. I would encourage you to do it, but it's kind of an odd topic, that I wouldn't make random general suggestions about, -plus I just read your post saying you are making a resolution to stop jerking off. I understand that there is a such thing as a 'Nofap' movement/online-comm…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 09:27 PM
1

exactly google 'empathy gap' and look at the cold-to-hot example the psychological term is "state-dependent".
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:51 AM
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You are a smart guy. This is a study about something called 'The Empathy Gap'. Specifically the 'Cold-to-Hot empathy gap'. For example, women in a 'Cold' state (the interview/questions) underestimate the influences of 'visceral drives' of a 'Hot' state (in this case a hot looking guy). It shouldn't be distorted into a proof that wealth, status, or game do not work.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:49 AM
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True. It's also probably very difficult to simulate the power of status and resources in a speed dating session. It's a bit like watching a horse race, or playing a game of black jack without having a bet down. The feels are a lot different. Attractiveness is going to win out in terms of natural preference over things like personality and earning potential, all day every day. In the real world, outside of speed dating and tinder etc... Status and resources become a big deal. If they are powerful…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:29 AM
1

I can only give you general advice here. In general, having an abundance and options is a stronger position than scarcity. You should also be making decisions based upon some rational form of strategy. Beware of oneitis with your LTR. Something is making you question your morality. Empathy is an intimate source of information, but it is not meant to trigger irrational strategy(e.g. Hurting your LTR by telling her that you've 'cheated' on her because of the empathy for her feelings, and your feel…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:00 PM
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join a better gym or something bro... Men with fitness, confidence, posture, nutrition, discipline, etc have higher SMV relative to their own SMV w/out those gym-strengthened attributes. There really is not rational debate. Perhaps you could target the 'extreme' lives-in-gym outlier whose gym commitment has long since reached diminishing returns. AKA the 'gymcel'. But to try to extrapolate those outliers to represent the entire male SMV population is asinine. Your attitude also sucks. You also h…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:26 PM
1

I love how they down-vote when they've reached the limits of their critical thinking. these guys are mentally equivalent to women
/r/askTRP30/10/17 08:02 PM
1

There is no 'maturity' involved in that act. He either Tells her straight up, Omits(doesn't say anything), Coverts(clearly implies that he's plating others but doesn't outright verbalize it), or Lies. These four responses are tools in his toolbox. A 'mature' man has all of them(and perhaps a couple more). A 'mature' man uses whatever tool best suits the job. However, your fallacy stems from the implication that maturity is inherent in one of the tools but not the others. That is like calling a f…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 06:37 PM
5

No. Datsik offered an opinion, supported by moralism. And he did so in the form of an answer/suggestion. How is that even 'a' (much less 'the') correct answer? 'maturity' has nothing to do with this. A correct answer would be something like "Be single or let her know you don’t want to be monogamous. I believe that scarcity and playing with your cards on the table is >>> abundance because of xyz." or perhaps a different direction, such as "Quit your cognitive dissonance bitching and man up and ow…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:06 PM
4

And that was a solid post. There is a subset of people who suffer from a combination of lacking the ability to critically think, and, the inability to accept reality. They also can't accept the fact that a reality which has general, objective principles in turn means that they have weaknesses, that they have a learning curve, that they've made fundamental mistakes in their path.... These folks want to claim Red Pill, but they want it to be an anything-goes freestyle. They are never wrong. (They …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:35 PM
2

No. That's not how it works.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:24 PM
5

that's fine. Just don't claim red pill.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:23 PM
4

just the same, you were the one who wrote the FR/Rant, not him. It does come off as petty overall. The fact that you apparently were white-knighted for merely making a comment about a perceived IOI is fucked up. Hanlon's Razor 1.Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity 2. IDGAF about stupid people Seems simple, but a man's instincts can be to crush an idiot's skull. But, if you give time and energy to every idiot who crosses your path, it's going to slow you down…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:13 PM
90

Welcome to the jungle.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:17 PM
3

Sounds weird and corny IMHO. However, if that works for you, more power to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:10 AM
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No. You don't get to choose any path you feel like and call it Red Pill. That is not how it works. Of course you may live any way you choose. It's a bit like driving through the highway of life without looking past the two or three immediate closest vehicles, not looking ahead as traffic forms, not knowing the directions nor using a GPS app. Just driving while looking at the car up ahead, and reading signs as you come to them. Changing lanes and following whatever route feels good to you in that…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 01:14 AM
0

You don't exactly get to 'base' your SMV on anything you like... There are some basics (initial attraction, game, sexual ability, status, social proof, etc...). You had better base your high SMV in one (or more) of those basics.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:04 PM
2

what is this garbage? Red pill is NOT an 'anything-goes' philosophy. An argument can be made that this strategy is an 'art' (vs science), but there are still general, objective principles. Video games is not going to raise your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:00 PM
1

The sexual market includes all women that fit a certain criteria. (e.g. 'all sexually active women'). Female NASA engineers are outliers in respect to the sexual marketplace. Male engineers are ALSO arguably outliers in respect to the sexual marketplace, even if there happen to be more male engineers, and professionals in general. That doesn't mean that women who are more 'representative' of the population aren't capable/worthy of earning respect. These are NOT mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 03:15 AM
0

Women can be delightful. I'm glad they are a part of our species.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 10:35 PM
1

debate keeps morphing with moving goal posts and weird logic, but yea, these women are anomalous outliers in respect to the population of women in the sexual marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 10:30 PM
1

Women are female humans. Is their psychology different from men? Yes. Is their psychology different from the propagandized politically-correct misinformation that is taught to society as a whole? Yes. Am I angry at women for their attributes? No. Am I angry at the world for misrepresenting sexual strategy? No. Can we use knowledge of this psychology and this misinformation to improve our SMV? Yes.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 10:12 PM
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Good point. Xaccus seems to be conflating respect with politeness/ social norms.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 09:41 PM
2

the gym and dressing etc... is NOT (directly) for the LTR, it's for maintaining your SMV in the market (an abundance of women). LTRs are notorious for turning blue-pill-AFCs into a scarcity situation where they fall into a situation of lowered (or not applicable) SMV and/or a position where the woman has all the leverage and no incentive for mate retention/dread/
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 09:32 PM
2

Yup. Status and social proof are the major models that drive their high SMV. Femininity is either fashion(such as rockstar archetype stereotype fashion) or less masculine guys 'transforming flaws into an ornament'. Works fine when that is the fashion of your setting such as the alpha goth male of a clique, the long-haired biker look, certain hipsters, etc.. etc.. Provided that they hold status and/or social proof. femininity w/out strong major factors just makes you look like a potential beta or…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:39 PM
2

Both the 'bodybuilders' and 'PUAs' often seem to have the same flaw. An ignorance and/or fear of the major models that drive SMV. Seeing The Matrix algorithms is harsh. There's a learning curve (hard work). You are going to see your dispositional weaknesses (tough to swallow).
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:44 PM
1

Thanks for bringing that to attention. The post/content itself hits me as 'off focus'. It seems to be geared to spin the whole lover/fighter cliche dynamic into 'content' rather than being geared to give top priority to Red Pill truth and wisdom. 'Fighter' becomes the strawman enemy. 'Lover' becomes the general-positive-qualities-ascribing, easy-to-hamster good guy. =You're not masculine??, and you can't hold frame?? - No worries!!! Those alpha guys are 'Fighters'...and You're the (morally super…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:27 PM
10

HS-Thompson made a great point, and you are defending and trying again for the micro-win. It takes a wise man to learn from their mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:29 PM
1

assisted pull-up machine use enough assistance to do about 10 reps with good form (no momentum). 6 sets of 10 reps, 3 times a week. Decrease assistance by 5lbs after each successful week (completing all sets to 10 or failure, no missed days).
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:31 PM
7

spinning three 4's like a circus acrobat
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:14 AM
1

you made a good point. Shouldn't have been down-voted.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:02 AM
9

I'll give you the phrases/short form; JUSTICE "Take your slice" (The 'sweet spot' between Greed and Fear.) FORTITUDE "Always be bigger than your task" (Never overwhelmed. Vision and Virtue not affected by adversity.) PRUDENCE "Choose wisely" (A good opportunity in the center of your circle of competence. Timing. 'Ripeness'.) TEMPERANCE "Stay on your path to success" (Moderation. Rational behavior. Long-term success >>> Short-term impulses)
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:55 PM
11

Always be bigger than your task Spent a lot of time on the cardinal virtues. I have a descriptive phrase for each virtue, and then detailed description and methods. The phrase that I use for Fortitude is "Always be bigger than your task".
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 11:44 PM
1

Yea, this post is solid advice. I was thinking this was more dumb common sense stuff (don't forget to brush your teeth! Wear deodorant, and shave your neck!1...), but he supports with some good subtleties. Other posters have chimed in with good info about specific colognes as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 05:01 PM
6

this post is ass cheeks. This would be a shaky fluff piece at best in 'Men's Health'.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 04:31 PM
1

lying isn't inherently 'good' or 'bad' It's just a tool. It's like having a Phillips head and a flat-head screwdriver. Neither is 'good' or 'bad' strategy. The proper selection depends on the screw.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 02:04 AM
1

It often helps to be a brutal chimp, but alliances>brutal chimps>beta,omega,etc.. alliances is kind of the next step to think about. In the economy and general life in this world, we are kind of batteries or slaves to the alliances that wield the major power. Alliances are very important at every level. An alliance of 5 people (perhaps 3 intelligent Men 6's(on the attractive scale) and 2 intelligent HB6 Women) working together efficiently could probably make a big impact at just about any local/…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:48 PM
1

swallowing the red pill and seeing reality for what it is... IS SCARY AF BRO! ... thus you have blue pills(who can't see), and pussys(who are afraid of seeing) OBSESS about the trivial minutiae. You also have carryover from PUA (some of which is valuable) which is a system marketed on the basis of mastering trivialities. A handful of mental models carry the heavy freight in most systems(including TRP). And a whole bunch of minor models make up mostly trivial shit like "eye gaze checklist" and "s…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:26 PM
1

6'9" and a skinnyfat 235 and that's more skinny than anything i would need to be about 250 to have a solid build at my height. I laughed when OP said 6'2 170 and then made 'being built' a rule "-Be built (not optional) (shoulders, upper chest, back)"
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 07:55 PM
1

Alpha is both an internalization and a market position. Your theory is probably correct at work, unless you have your own groups at work in which you are alpha. Then you could walk outside to one group and be alpha, or walk over to another group and be beta. It's both your internalization and your market position.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:59 PM
3

yea, I up-voted his post for the message, but yea $20k/yr is shitty. basic bare bones shelter/utilities/food/vehicle take a up like 75% of that 20.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:50 PM
1

see a lot of single white HB4's with 2 black kids. a '4' could be a '6' to someone who has a fetish for white girls. The real life version of the stereotype mentioned is not afraid to plate multiple girls, and is not afraid to date down. Part of the reason, is that he's not grabbing a lot 7,8,9's and is economically limited. 4s,5s,and 6s are his target zone. White 4's are grrrreat!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:51 AM
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use Einstein's razor keep things as simple as possible, but no simpler. Just as superfluous complexity quickly brings diminishing returns, there is also the risk of oversimplification producing a crude distortion relative to a sensible method. It's one thing to eventually categorize women into one of three categories, and quite another to actually evaluate women using only three categories.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 11:51 PM
4

You got down-voted for a good sense of humor. Another poster got 8 upvotes for claiming the 'scale' should be age based, and 18-30... This is why some people feel the need to dumb-down content
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 11:28 PM
-2

Good list. The nature of the beast is 'critical' discussion, so I will post my disagreements. That doesn't mean that I don't strongly agree with most of your list. 5 - unnecessarily complicated (see Einstein's razor) 12 - I disagree. A little 'seed money' is perfectly acceptable. 22 - Change dry spell length to multiple 'weeks'. A week or two can be randomness, but 'months' is too long.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:36 PM
0

Agree. There doesn't need to be three levels to each degree of hotness. Already some overlap (e.g. 5/6)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:30 PM
0

maybe, but LTR = (High SMV scale & High Personality scale) Fuckable = (acceptable attractiveness scale x thirst) In other words, if i did a 1-3 scale, that scale would be a result of other 1-10 scales.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:27 PM
9

You have an understanding of the models that drive the SMP. MOAR!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 08:44 PM
6

Frame/Tactics DO: Live your lifestyle. Basically the same shit you would do single. Shit you enjoy and can easily afford. DON'T: Live beyond your means/ sacrifice/ splurge/ etc... because of a woman. Don't do shit to impress or 'gift' her. If you never eat out when single, then it's a 'coffee date' or similar near-free outing. If you normally attend a nice restaurant/venue/event once a week when single, THEN it's perfectly fine to have her as your company at said venue(That's not Beta Bux in tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 05:12 PM
3

I don't know. Only input I have is about that 'moment'(more like day or two sometimes) when you feel an urge to get high/drunk/sedated or whatever. If you are progressing and self-improving, it makes that moment just a little bit easier to wait-out. You reach a point where you like the improvement and you like where you are now, and you don't want to take a step back from your goals. Life can kind of be like a treadmill. Even if you stand still, you are going to fall on your ass and get left beh…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:16 PM
0

an alpha can be nice, or they can be a complete narcissistic dickhead... those things are NOT major models that drive alphaness, they are 'minor descriptive factors'... Your point about Game is true. The part that is causing dissonance is the suggestion that Game and Self-Worth are mutually exclusive. They aren't.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 06:31 PM
4

certain, mission, proactive, prioritized, win-win, attempt=win Certain = I am CERTAIN that I will rock this. (see confidence, positive attitude, etc... in this case overconfidence(within a rational circle of competence) is actually cool Mission = I am on a mission. And I know what I want at the end. And I am intelligently progressing along The Path to those ends. Proactive = I put in the work(to progress on the path we just talked about) for things I can control. I influence what I can Influence…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 05:12 PM
6

true we're just exiting the my-first-smartphone phase of the general population. FB is a good 'one size fits all', but people have already started to gravitate to other apps for specialized needs.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:46 PM
3

You know your shit. However, perspective is important. (which is the only reason that I'm not calling BS on the whole OP post) You, Pras, and I seem to be looking at this from the perspective of quality business. Competent business where insight and logical strategy and tactics are rewarded. OP, and SamenrofringslikeLBJ seem to be looking at this from the perspective of posturing and capitalizing in a cesspool of incompetence. I'd much rather be in our group, but there is money to be made throug…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 03:11 PM
1

virtues -> attitudes ->, market position
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:26 PM
1

I seriously wish my T was high enough to click
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:44 PM
5

frame, amused mastery, and a DGAF mindset You are on to something. The base of these (and other character goals) is going to come from the basics. Virtues like self-value, self-confidence, abundance,... The child thing(from the perspective of the universe) is kind of a high-functioning delusion. The part about thinking specifically of others as children is kind of a form of dehumanization. These can be powerful thought processes for overcoming fear, stress, empathy, etc... I think it's a really …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:39 PM
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Are you insinuating that a poor student or young professional can't afford status clothes, a bad ass car, and a trendy bachelor pad?? What kind of man are you? You need to lift and read the sidebar. LOL@ you getting down-voted to the abyss.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:27 PM
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Reality is tough pill to swallow. They really want the CHEDDAR, BEEF SHOULDER, and POACHED EGG on their bagel like they saw Mental Models eating, however they were too pussy to read the menu, let alone order it, and after staring at the waitress for a few awkward submissive sperg seconds, sheepishly accept the butter packet. So unfair. What happened to my just-world hypothesis? It's 2017. Where's my meritocracy? And then later that night, the post-mortem analysis of meaningless trivialities... D…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 05:57 PM
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you seem strongly against lying. Do whatever is the best situational tactic, whether it be lies, omissions, or factual truth.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:45 AM
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Friends are GREAT! Have friends! However, do not confuse your relative path to success with a friendly walk in the park. Along your path, you will cross paths with 'predator/stalkers' like the Big Bad Wolf(little red riding hood, 3 little pigs), 'cannibals' like in Hansel and Gretal, 'chads/red-pilled-player-haters' like Gaston(beauty and beast), and 'Crazy Bitches with Eyebrows on Fleek' like Maleficent(sleeping beauty). You will also find your path blocked by metaphorical 'Moats'. Moats full o…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 05:04 PM
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When talking to hoes, forget about powerful conversations. You're trying to ONS and potentially plate. Show her power, confidence, success, and value. The glow comes from attraction and sexual potential, not content. When talking about hobbies (shooting the shit to fellow hobbyists, not hoes)(but if attraction fails w/ hoes - this is a great beta orbiter method!) you can generally get that glow if the vibe is good(mainly when the mental 'state' of the participants is positive), and you stick to …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 03:17 PM
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You hold your frame, and your SMV is high and you use power as leverage. The important thing, is that you choose the best tactic, whether it be lying or omission or a full disclosure(of factual truth). Even if an outright lie is favorable, you don't have to remember/defend/and amend. The lie is for her hamster, not yours. An omission or a lie is your permission/guidance to let her do what she WANTS to do without the burden of cognitive dissonance. She can rationalize a situation that she otherwi…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 05:33 AM
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I'm basically using the same scale as you. slight variations; 4 and under = progressively un-attractive. 5=plain/average and not really sexually attractive. Almost asexual to me. She isn't ugly or anything, just get neutral vibes between attractive and unattractive. 5 and 6 are about the same, but a 6 has something slightly attractive about her. Maybe she's a 5 who put in the effort? Maybe she tickles your fancy in some way? 7,8,9 are progressively more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 03:45 AM
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A 7 is a 7. If you have to think too much or add decimals, round down. However even from a man's perspective, Attractiveness scale is NOT the end all. She can be a 6 on the attraction scale, and have a 9 personality that makes life better(a '9' on the personality scale). She can be an 8 on the attraction scale, and be a totally unreliable drama queen who brings danger and frustration into your life (a '2' on the personality scale). There are 10point scales for every major model that makes up the…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 06:34 PM
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It's good to be able to value attractiveness. Attractiveness is part of SMV and usually a big part of women's SMV. A scale allows ease of description. Attractiveness is NOT binary. A 6 may make you horny when your in that mood. An 8 or 9 may make you rock hard throbbing horny and boost your sex drive and your dopamine/rewards/well-being. There are general objective standards (e.g. plain=5, perfect=9) There are also subjective preferences. (e.g. chubby chaser, or slut makeup chaser, or loves peti…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 06:28 PM
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Yup... There's a crowd on TRP who are either misguided, or resentful/envious of people who can wield the power of money. That crowd considers any use of status or appearance of wealth to be beta. The beta bucks shit is meant for guys who give gifts and money to be a beta-orbiter, or even for guys who overpay the market value to get occasional pussy. These are guys who are patsys or suckers, when looked at objectively. If some TRP guy is 5'6", dresses well, and says he's a lawyer, and he picks up…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 12:16 AM
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from what I've seen, working-class women are no more level headed. My impression is a little less of the spoiled/entitlement and a little more of the crazy/bitch.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 06:40 PM
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have to hold your frame the second you start catering to her elitist ego, or becoming dependent on her financial resources, you lose the only value that you have left in these situations (your manhood)
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 05:27 PM
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She may not know how, or she may be physically incapable, or there could be some mental block. Silly seeming things can sometimes help. Such as the setting (hotel for the night, or alone at your place etc..), introduce a new toy and/or even a new sex cream/gel etc... This stuff can seem stupid, but it may be the thing that gets her brain wired for pleasure-seeking experimenting. Then you can discover mechanics that work for her. If you do all that and there's no O, then don't worry about it. Ass…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:48 PM
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Looks like a decent diet. Only thing I can question is the egg whites. Uncooked egg whites contain avidin, which can bind to biotin and potentially cause a deficiency if you are having 9 of them a day. If cost isn't an issue, and you're not a serious athlete(and I notice you are an athlete), simply eating a lot of the healthy unprocessed foods you like is going to be good enough for a bulk - provided you train hard, and mind your macros, and your bioavailability/digestion. Have to listen to your…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 12:51 AM
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TRP is mostly psychology, but some of the models from chemistry do play a part. Autocatalysis, and critical mass are two oft-cited models.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 08:31 PM
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This guy can't take constructive criticism. As a defense to actually thinking, he's opted to instead "know it all" (from a crude understanding, and a limited insight, no less).
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 05:42 PM
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an alpha can be humble, or they can be a complete narcissistic dickhead those things are not major models that drive alphaness, they are minor descriptive factors...
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 05:39 PM
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Doing a tour as a medic says almost NOTHING about how alpha you are. Nor does claiming to need large condoms...... Neither you, nor your critics have shown anything more than spouting out opinions to match your confirmation bias. There is a difference between fact and opinion. TRP is not 'whatever i feelz while trying to give an example or tell a story that I think my fellow TRPbroz would approve', it's supposed to be a SCIENCE.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 05:30 PM
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we know almost nothing about this guy (unless you happen to have studied his post history).
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 05:27 PM
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Good start. Not ideal, but obviously, 'budget' implies limited resources. My bulking on a budget = Chow+Shakes Chow (BIG amount of pasta,rice,or potatoes + a meat that will last all day) Next progression is creating a new 'Chow' for dinner each night. This way you get variety for dinner, and you have next day's breakfast lunch. Shakes (milk+whey protein+peanut butter+sometimes half water/half milk if you are too fucking poor for enough milk) Creatine is relatively cheap and adds some weight. an …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 09:27 PM
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good advice 2 red flags here (#1=she mentioned it. #2=OP is 'bothered' by it.) OP must get the ship back on course immediately, of failing that, leave.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:09 PM
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A related concept is 'circle of competence'. Your COC is the area where you at least have some 'altitude' in the power law curve. Some guys have really small COCs, but they can still have a good time if they know how to use them.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 08:44 PM
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Success is relative. And, that goes BOTH ways. Neither extreme is true. Be in tune to reality, but do not measure something like TRP by the standard of absolute success. Applied strategic insight is capable of improving most men's lives. The degree of 'improvement'(vs. bluepill life) can in fact be radical, even if a man's absolute level of success (measured in billions of dollars or access to thousands of HB10s or whatever measure) is relatively low on the power-law curve of success. In other w…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 08:40 PM
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last time someone AMOG'd me in the middle of my set, I grunted each rep of a never-ending-to-zero-drop-set so loud that Planet Fitness had to call in the S.W.A.T. team.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 10:43 PM
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The lifting list is actually good general advice. Consistently bringing intensity to the gym is generally good advice, provided you mind your recovery. If his TRP-caricature persona was a comedy I'd be LMAO. I can picture some guy working out, and Will Ferrell walks up and stares dead into his eyes on some alpha-dog shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 10:21 PM
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It's worth investing some basic fundamentally-sound thought into logistics. Not for 'her', but for your entire system of plates. Spinning several good go-to logistics is similar to spinning plates. You've got your 'ONS'/variety spots, and the spots that work well become a part of your regular rotation. It's OK to make friends and establish a favorable frame with staff. You feel at home, and staff almost acts like a wingman because they value you as a regular.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 08:04 PM
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Reminds me of the 'Red Queen Hypothesis'. "Organisms must constantly adapt, evolve, and proliferate - simply to survive while pitted against ever-evolving opposing organisms in an ever-changing environment. //alice in wonderland//red queen
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:40 PM
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A facade is a 'false appearance', a deception. (The actual frame involved is "I want some good booty, I clearly see a bunch of these hoes are actively gold digging, I can easily attract them by appearing to offer what they are seeking, and they will give me good booty in the process").
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:41 PM
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play on. Show them a facade that screams "I am naive, dig my gold!".
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:13 PM
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No. There are many opportunities. I suggest that you learn the major ideas involved in social networks. Learn what a supernode is. Learn more than I know off the top of my head to suggest for you. Then make a plan. .......... /*Optional - buy a giant white board and put it in the entertainment room. Use erasable markers to draw supernodes with those people's first/last name and draw arrows/lines connecting important nodes/friends. Invite your new social media friends over, and appear to be a wei…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:56 PM
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Warn her. Give her clear guidance and a reasonable opportunity to get with the program. If she still is not on board, fire her. ....................................... If you can't do these things, then you are not really the lead. At that realization, YOU either need to get with the program, or walk.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:46 PM
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Question: Why are all these former millionaire athletes broke at 40, haunted by fat baby-mama HB5's? They had 'baseline biological value'. They had 'a big fat stack of freedom units'. What in Fuck's name went wrong?? Answer: They had your limited insight.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 05:31 PM
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Islamophobia sells. Misogyny sells. Claiming that aesthetic attractiveness is the end-all of SMV, sells. etc, etc... Actual insight into sexual strategy requires brainpower from both the thread-starter and brainpower from the audience. Those quality posts operate on a multiplicative model (small number x small number= even smaller). You have to sift through the low-quality stuff to find an occasional gem. When I happen to see a rare high-quality post, I often click on the username to see if that…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 03:17 PM
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Good post. It's a tough post to make in a thread that is a tsunami of lift-love. Lifting is certainly a valuable resource for most men, because it improves both confidence, and aesthetic attraction. Understanding the game, frame, ability to wield power, etc... are actually the most important tools. A lot of the audience isn't that 'deep'. Winners of the aesthetic game, who feel masculine and get pussy seem like Gods to that crowd. There are different 'types' of successful men, and the jacked alp…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 06:36 PM
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Yes. In some cases. And, for some people, lifting is going to be an almost negligible factor in their SMV. Just make sure you are being honest with yourself. - The "I don't care about living long/healthy" seems much weaker and much less red pill than the idea of not lifting.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 06:25 PM
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Interested in how social dynamics may influence SMV. alliances, cliques, social groups etc which have the potential to amplify favorable frame and project a high SMV
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 10:24 PM
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dread game vs. lack thereof Hot women are often well provided/treated in a relationship (and the fugly inverse). Hot women are generally successful/happy in society (and the fugly inverse). When you consider these factors and how tough/impossible it is to eliminate their influence, it makes studies like these, difficult to value.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 10:11 PM
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I drink whenever I feel like it, which for me is about once every two weeks. I prefer to drink either very lightly(sipping 1 drink) during the earlier hours, or drink to a nice buzz closer to jumping in the sack. Drinking is a reliable, albeit shitty, drug for me. If there is any social danger for me, it is talking too much shit before I pass out. Definitely a social lubricant. Occasionally can be fun to fuck buzzed. Heavy drinking is like taking an 'equity loan' on the next day. From the mob. A…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 04:59 PM
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Man's perspective: Abundance-related-issues. Individual outcomes should not be over-valued If a woman chooses a different guy = on to the next one. Maybe run a 'post-mortem analysis'(or manosphere equivalent), where you RATIONALLY(not emotionally) look at what just transpired and whether there is anything that you can improve, or use to your future benefit. In the case of the 1.5year LTR, maybe he didn't keep enough options open to shrug it off? Maybe he slipped into a oneitis frame? Or maybe th…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:38 PM
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Agreed. Crazy and/or Ignorant people do not respond to logic. Block the customer, send the driver home with a free pie at the end of the night. Frame/state/pulse/BP/etc shouldn't be phased.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 10:24 PM
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Bad - Kind of a slow week. Could have been more relentless on my 'to-do' list. Good - Lifting/Eating. Gained a good 5lbs or so (scale says '+8' but weight seems to fluctuate a little throughout the day). Obviously, if I can have those kind of fast noob gains, I didn't start out jacked, and have a long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 03:16 PM
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Good point, it's definitely not binary.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 03:07 PM
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Abundance is HUGE. Also important to be process based, and not wager all of your emotions on a single immediate 'outcome'. These two ideas kind of go hand-in-hand.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:00 PM
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Helps me to focus on my path (towards my goals). Advancement requires clear insight, and rational behavior. Emotional behavior (especially when it is a reaction to outside stimulus) creates perceptional filters that distort reality and have a much higher tendency to lead to irrational behavior. I don't have a 'setting' that turns emotions to 'off'. I have to be mindful, and go through a checklist. Common situations and shit-tests trigger emotional Affect Heuristics. I am aware of these from past…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 10:57 PM
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Successful people build their own social network. Unsuccessful people 'make due', the best that they can, with others who happen to be family, or happen to have 'overlapping problems' (in the venn diagram of hell lol). You may not have to physically walk away, or move, to build your own life. You just have to be willing to be who you want to be, and do what you want to do. Sometimes the psychological barriers are too strong without some geographic breathing-room. Just make sure you are actually …
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:49 PM
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You have No Game right now, and no momentum. Spin some HB5's if you have to. Once you have three fives and you have the system itself, and the logistics working for you, UPGRADE a couple to >5's and soft-next any of the 5's who are tapping resources or not working for you. If you can thrive as an amateur chad, you may be ready for the pros someday. Almost sounds like you are asking permission to be confident. Ditto w/ spinning some plates.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:08 PM
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Or, at least once they become fit and hot, they will blame you for the slight guilt they feel for quickly leaving you for Chad
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 05:01 PM
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Some of this is really good, some of this is faulty, but this is a very robust, high-quality post. I like that you are using mental models to support your thinking.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 04:18 PM
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Need lots of both (experience and insight) to reach a high level. KISS is good general advice, and can help a lot of people to at least get in the game, and/or improve their current SMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:04 PM
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'Game' is the part missing from the KISS philosophy. You only need decent genes and decent social experience to play at a minimal level. You have to be able to see and understand the system to really develop elite Game. It's like any other science or field of study. How do you develop true business skill? How do you develop true psychological insight? In order to learn those things, you must learn the really important models that drive those systems.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:21 PM
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not sure why you're getting down-voted. Good post. Trading money or resources for sex can be great- provided you are in control of the power-dynamic. Trading money or resources to be a beta orbiter is fucked up. Jess sounds like she has had a taste of her high SMV on things like Tinder and FB and has become absolutely corrupted by it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:13 PM
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I agree. Men who are on their success path, are going to find tools that work, regardless of any one source. No one should 'need' a subreddit. Emphasis on 'need'. However, nothing wrong with benefiting from it as a source of occasional good wisdom. Lists hit home, only when the concept is far-reaching enough that it really breaks new ground, or champions a controversial point (and even in these rare cases, a list better be a part of well developed theory). A list of 'basic theory' reads like a s…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 08:09 PM
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some of these are common knowledge and some have studies. google "Proceedings of the Royal Society B" with "testosterone" until you find a univ cal study. - that will show you one study. Sorry don't have time to present it like a term paper or scientific study at the moment. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 06:55 PM
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Her bin man (or garbage man in US) boyfriend may be TRP. Not really enough info, but at least he's spinning this HB7 and probably others who like to get high, and he's painted a 'bad boy' persona over his inadequacies. Not bad sexual strategy there. How TRP he actually is, is unknown unless we had more info (like whether he's continuing to improve toward long-term goals).
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:33 PM
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BAD Omega-ing (by being withdrawn, uninvolved,) far too often. Rationalizing it as MGTOW and/or 'situational strategy', and/or a reaction to boring low-value situations. I need to participate more when I'm 'stuck' in a situation(it's still an opportunity). I need to better structure my time with more high-value/stimulating social situations (and less bullshit). Good Started a much better long-term career path also Got a separate improved part-time job Joined a gym
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:46 PM
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deference, bad posture, lack of mindfulness (getting emotionally overwhelmed and stressed-out /cortisol), lack of eating/supplementing right, lack of talking to attractive women, lack of ever being the alpha in any social situations,
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:04 PM
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This. Hyperextensions, core, hamstrings(both strength, and stretching). Address the limiting factors. Mirrors can help with strict form.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 04:12 PM
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if you meet any of the 3 above types, you are top 20%
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:23 PM
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my own pseudo-science interpretation. TYPES = characteristics 'wealthy redpill' = 440,000 members (open/poly, over $100k, over 18yo, idgaf about the rest) 'natural/chad' = 830,000 members (anypill, 19-34, healthy weight, tall, bigDick, idgaf about the rest) TRP 'self-improved members only' = 300,000 members (open/poly, 19-54, >$25ksalary, healthy weight, at least 150min moderate or more exercise) Total = ~1.6 Million. (assuming no overlap, but I'm not getting paid for this) Saying that this 1.6 …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:19 PM
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Good post. Social Proof is a significant model, and can be very powerful. An easy example is the 'rock star' example. We can look at a guy like Steven Tyler (mid 1970s-80s, when he wasn't an old fuck). He was an ugly mug, but he was thriving, and he had a huge social-proof media force. You literally can't be a media star without generating a bunch of social proof (can be an engineered media tactic, or simply a byproduct of success). Thousands of cheering, screaming fans, groupies, MTV music-vide…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 01:12 AM
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aye men. OP's 95% pie chart on attraction applies to a 'leverage-free' situation(although the actual figures '95%/5% etc... may not be precise, but for the sake of the internet, let's go with your pie chart being correct). When you apply leverage, the pie chart can change wildly. The easiest examples are 'ugly' celebrities; Danny Devito, Howard Stern, Steven Tyler, Andrew Luck, Jay Leno, Anthony Davis, etc... Other countless examples exist(but are harder to google on demand) with guys who are 'u…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:24 PM
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Status, or 'opening the door' to a mega-high SMV social circle, or maybe a role in a movie he starred or produced/directed, a new designer handbag, her bills... the list is longer than DD himself(not difficult). Women PASSIONATELY throw themselves at the red pilled DeVitos of the world. He's more 'truly, raw, primal, etc..'(or whatever bullshit rationalizing labels) than 99% of us on this sub. Do you think women don't get biologically wet around powerful red pilled ugly guys? High SMV is High SM…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 06:56 PM
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"Yes, Danny DeVito gets laid more than any of us on this sub... But women are biologically repulsed by his height and inferior genes. They will fuck him, but they will never be truly attracted to him in the raw, primal way." I'm sure that if you send him a pre-paid shipping label, he will dutifully return all of that discredited pussy that he racked up in the 70s and 80s without qualifying to your standards...
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 05:23 PM
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You are becoming self-aware, and that can be a painful frame to hold. Keep growing. Your upbringing sounds like it was very tough, and may have slowed your development (becoming a man now @ 29, rather than 18), but now your life is in your hands. You are free to move on, and work on yourself and become the person you want.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:11 PM
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gancho izquierdo Yea, 6-7 days/week is physical therapy, not training. wtf @ the steroids pseudoadvice coming from left field. Matterfact... backup... Reagan on a 'masculinity pedestal'?(*I fully understand his deifying in certain political circles, just never knew about the alpha male side). I feel like I just got caught w/ a left hook that I never saw coming. The ring is spinning.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:02 PM
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If you've been playing the field, you've likely fucked 'prostitutes'. Only, instead of fucking 5 guys a day for heroin, they are fucking 1 (and occasionally 2) guys once a day for hypergamy, or a place to stay, or a void to fill(figuratively). // but yea, there is a big difference in degree, and your advice is really good in general
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:37 PM
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Prostitutes can be a positive experience on an infrequent(rare) basis. / Do=Enjoy/learn what having power/leverage feels like....Do=break up a cold spell...Do=infrequent hedonism.... / Don't=Put them on a pedestal/treat 'romantically'(sadly some guys act shy, and spray them with a howitzer of - - compliments!?)...Don't=habitually use them(frequent basis)...Don't overly fetishize the power dynamic or specific sex acts (you never want to get to the point where good HB7 pussy isn't 'enough' anymore…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:26 PM
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golden rule of power/leverage
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:20 AM
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short and skinny < tall and skinny < average height and strong < tall and strong (i feel like this is one of those logic problems... Johnny is high SMV, most high-SMV guys are fit, sally is johnny's oneitis, - is Johnny fit??? ugh... ) it's all relative. Being skinny isn't a guaranteed incel sentence, but you could improve your SMV if you put on some muscle and developed a physical presence/self confidence. A bigger concern is 1. the laziness, and 2. the worrying, AND 3. the combo of you being l…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:44 PM
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I like the idea of including the whole spectrum of stimulus into the concept of 'diet'. Nice post.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:19 AM
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big difference between beta bux, and crafting an image that raises your SMV. Take control of your appearance and your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:24 PM
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Learn how to use power and status. You are a university student or graduate. You are already, or soon will be economically well endowed enough to have some plates spinning. You will never be a stud physical specimen type. You also weren't born looking like the prototypical pretty white boy. Get over it. In the mainstream sexual market place, you are going to have to be the 'has a good job' 'drives a bmw' 'dresses for success' guy, if you hope to have high SMV. Those are very attainable.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:10 PM
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I agree with what you are saying, but your post comes across with a bit of triggering/trolling and a bit of romanticizing. I do think you are unfairly getting moralized, in so far as far as trp is generally supportive of that kind of writing, when it is relating the core concepts. I could be diagnosed as Dark Triad or Dark Tetrad, and I believe in a good bit of what is generally ascribed to those labels(which I'll list below). //Some of my beliefs which may be labled DT// no fear.... no morals/e…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:31 AM
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Start off small, and gradually work your way up. It's kind of like lifting. Lift the hot pink aerobic(2lbs) hand-weights, and you aren't going to grow. At all. As an added bonus you are going to downgrade yourself to those in that social group. Get a feel for the situation, start small, but make sure that you are facing enough resistance to grow.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 01:10 PM
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Marriage without a hard prenup often removes any incentives to please. Removal of those incentives often leads to a relatively rapid decline. It's not just her controlling the sex, it's also a less attractive, less pleasing person than what you started with. Neither of you are as interested in initiating. Cultural networks can sometimes also help at least with social pressure to maintain appearances.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 05:58 PM
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I mostly agree. The OP was all over the place. The only input/advice to the OP would be to concentrate on the perception. Perception is the reality you are going to have to deal with when presenting yourself. Just make sure your assessment of how you are perceived is based on a rational valuation, not confirmation of your own identity.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 03:30 PM
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Unless cuckolding is his fetish or something, the outlier in your example doesn't have a complete understanding of power. Power is not 'money'.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 03:21 PM
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I'd rank power above sex. There's guys with a soft harem of HB3s, with lots of kids and a couple/few mothers. (In the US) It's called the 'ghetto', or the 'trailer park'. These guys are getting abundant sex, but eventually many end up slaves to child-support, or criminals, or escapists/addicts/etc... Their kids(their genetic offspring) are getting poor education in a crappy environment. Power enables better biological success and a better life. And if sex is your favorite thing, power gets you g…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 02:10 PM
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Isn't learning how to manipulate interpersonal relationships considered a part of the self improvement category? If it isn't, I think it should be.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:53 PM
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very interesting effect. I like this post. Awareness, and organization of, my 'extended-family' of Dunbar's number of relationships (50 through 150?) is something that I can improve upon. That seems like a key for abundance, and power-economies of scale. I'm not sure that means "Stop!" to all fictional character media/fantasy football/ etc.., but it is interesting, and it's something that you should be aware of. Every relationship that you maintain is a use of precious resource. If you make your…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 07:52 PM
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Interesting. While I'm not a liberal or conservative, I'm not sure that committing to 'center' is my thing, either. At the moment, I'm basically looking at the (political) system and thinking about how to best game it. I have my own goals, but politics (as an abstract idea) are about as meaningful to me as a moral code. However, in the concrete world of reality, we do have this very real polarizing power dynamic that is full of irrational behavior. That part of politics is meaningful to my inter…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 05:09 PM
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Good post. confidence reminders = abundance mentality, be comfortable being alpha, and be comfortable with trivial failures. comfortable being alpha = Shed the blue pill morality of alpha-shaming. You understand the game and there are limitless opportunities for you to be alpha. You also likely have an area of expertise, and you should be comfortable being alpha there as well. Don't defer unless it is duplicity. Have to be comfortable with 'failure' = Especially, little, individual fails, that a…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:19 AM
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Not idiotic, just specific. They are useful for a 'ballpark' scale of looks. Any number could be maybe 2 points higher or lower from the perspective of a strong like/dislike(still talking about looks, alone). The looks-scale is just one part of SMV. The looks-scale tells nothing of status, wealth, personality, frame, etc...
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:54 PM
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That's about where my thoughts are as well. Zoning out for hours (unless maybe as a sort of meditation following intense high-stress building) is usually not a positive. Mindless extended channel surfing(be it radio/internet/tv/life/etc.. is usually NOT positive. Music can help to tune you into a desired frame. Some music is motivational. Some is great to work to. Kind of an odd example - I'll sometimes put on a Dj Premier (90s hip-hop instrumentals) playlist, in the background, the second time …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:44 PM
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Procrastination comes from a weak and unhealthy state of mind. $Always be bigger than your task$. When you have a beta state of mind, and/or a scarcity state of mind = wow the task is bigger than me! Overwhelming! scary/anxiety = AVOIDANCE. Let me just avoid this until absolutely necessary, and if possible fill my current time with dopamine rewarding activities. Have to look at it in an Alpha/abundance state of mind. This shit will be easy to me. I am acing 100 similar tasks at the moment(plate …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 04:03 PM
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High school has kind of evolved into a babysitting activity. Illuminated parents can have a big impact on helping their children get more out of it (actual insight, as well as advanced curriculum/college credits). Not me. I pretty much ran wild. Volatile grades, volatile attendance, aced sports(heavily immersed), then effortlessly aced the SAT. If I learned something, anything new, in HS, it was that the majority is walking around following the rules in a mindless herd, and that in spite of what…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:40 PM
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In the end, it all pretty much works out the same for every guy = if your a 4/10 to a 7/10 and want your "looks matched" partner, you have to work on your talking skills/personality/status. Women have an advantage on a pure 'looks scale 1-10' basis. Fortunately for average-joe's like myself, women give bonus points for things like wealth and status. Social-group-relative status that you mentioned is also interesting. I guess it's possible to luck into a looksmatch or above, if you are a big fish…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:44 PM
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Ideally you combine the best of both worlds. Abundance mentality. No baggage. ONS actively filtered with a small percentage groomed to be plates. With all the social activity between ONS and plates, you can influence your environment for your long-term benefit. A rotation of high-quality locations where you are treated as a high value patron. A leveraged social group when it's not a solo mission.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 07:33 PM
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If my post comes across as 'offended moral sensitivities', I did a really poor job of expressing my points. I was basically warning trp to remain mindful of their game and not be caught naive. Obviously, If this PUA friend was someone who has earned your trust for some time, and you've accepted him into the pack, it's a different story. Thanks for offering feedback from a perspective that I may not have considered.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:57 PM
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'intuition' is kind of an unorthodox thing to teach or to learn.. Intuition is basically pattern recognition. Recognizing patterns or 'prototypical situations'. These can be your brain's natural heuristics (which generally help, but occasionally harm, and are vulnerable to manipulation from others), or they can come from having a competence and a familiarity with common 'templates' that are similar to your real-time life situation. I don't know enough about leftvs.right brained thinking to comme…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 08:23 PM
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be mindful of your game around this guy a) He either has a need/weakness to try to impress you and the guys with his knack for manipulating this girl, or less likely, the girl is working with him in a con situation. b) He apparently gets a kick out of exploiting others when he happens to have leverage. As far as the 'gross' 'sloppy seconds' comments, - a lot of us may have gotten sloppy seconds and not even known it at the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 05:53 PM
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I used to smoke as part of my daily routine, and it basically calmed my anxiety, while giving me a boost of energy (may sound like contradicting effects, but not really). As far as things like fitness or mental clarity, I was operating at a high level. After some significant health issues, and a long time away from smoking, It has given me bad anxiety (to the point of insomnia for that night) when I dabbled in it. Kind of like a childhood friend with whom you've gone in different directions, and…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 01:49 AM
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Stay on your path to success. When you partake in a short-term negative impulse, it's like taking an equity loan out against tomorrow. Costs you time, and maybe gives you a hangover. Do it repeatedly, and you'll find you've followed a shitty path that has winded far away from your path to success.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 01:33 AM
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