Ok so I have a problem that I recently discovered and it's that out of all the women I talk to the badder ones (I'm talking about dimes , straight tens) , the most gorgeous ones , I develop oneitis for very quickly and it's just annoying. I tend to start daydreaming about being with these girls and just thinking about them to the point that I end up focusing on just them, all the other girls below a 10 get pushed to the side like they don't even exist. So what are some things to get over this ? Can meditation solely help with this ? Or do I actually have to use my thoughts and re-frame them(meaning change them)?

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Disclaimer: I have zero problems getting women like zero , I have a lot of women to talk to that if I went outta of my way to get more I wouldn't have time for myself. I have 2 good cars (both Audi suvs) and work out a lot my physique is nice , used to play college basketball etc. Women like me to the point some are willing to fly on their own dime to see me and their attractive.

But my problem is the fantasy making in my head over "1" damn girl is annoying at this point, tbh no matter how much I have or how much other women I get whenever I do this, getting with the girl in question never works. It's like they know I'm thinking about them and as soon as I know I'm daydreaming about them lol I know it ain't happening