We all know how it goes: when girls are young they ride the cc with chads, then when they are ready to settle down they want to lock down the richest beta guy possible. They do not actually feel attracted to their husband, they are just long term prostitutes for him so they can use his money to out-instagram their female frenemies by having more instagram posts about new restaurants and travel destinations.

Ok we all agree with the above and it is true.

HOWEVER... there ARE non-chads in relationships with girls who are too young to marry. It is getting more and more rare every year (thanks to feminism and online dating becoming more mainstream every year), but the fact is that this phenomenon exists. On online dating it doesn't... the majority of these couples meet in college or something real life like that.

So I am a non-chad. I already worked out for over a year but I will never have a 200+ pound muscular chad body because I have super skinny bones. Girls have always called me "cute" never "hot" so I don't have square jaw. I already pushed my genes to the max, I am not as skinny as before but I simply can never be a 200+ pound thick/wide Chad. I see guys like me in real life with decent looking girlfriends. It is rare but I do see it occasionally. So how do they do it? It is being stuck in the middle of beta bucks alpha fucks... how do I pursue? Should I act beta or alpha? I really don't know. I feel like if I act beta then because it is in girls nature to only be attracted to alphas, they will reject me for being too nice. But also if I act alpha, since I don't have the physical attractiveness (chad body) to back it up, I feel like they will just call me an asshole and tell me to fuck off. I actually tried both of these strategies and this is exactly what happened in each case. So I am stuck. How the fuck do the other non chad young guys do it? I think it is because they get lucky.. they meet in school or something and they are lucky enough that the girl never tried online dating, so they go on a few dates then the girl gets attached to them and stays with them. It is the initial part (getting the initial chance to be with her) that is hardest.