BACKGROUND:
Met A ~2 weeks ago
Seen A 3 times now
Last night (3rd time) after some time A nervously confesses she has never had a BF, and is a virgin in every way.
A also confesses she has "never met someone who makes her feel this way", she says this makes her feel "amazing, but scared".
I remain calm, say it's no sweat.
She talks about how she wants to jump on top of me, but "needs to take it slow","no kissing this time".
I say "OK", and escalate. 30 min later she is on top of me, kissing, grabbing ass, per usual.
That's as far as I got before it was time for me to go.
THOUGHTS:
I'll just escalate per usual from now on until sex, HOWEVER..
- I am a senior in college, aka will be leaving in < 1 year (she is a sophomore).
- Attachement issues down the road?
- Many green flags (submissive, smart, good parents, wealthy, funny)
Has anyone had experience with this situation? What did you do? I feel as though with proper behavior management she could be a good LTR for a while.
Who knows though, AWALT..
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