Seeing a lot of girl questions on here. This isn't one.

Recovering from a divorce (ever ongoing 7 mos) with a gaslighter. Brought that up to raise the question of progress. Divorce rape ensures I have no money most of the time so I'm limited.

Military guy right so suck it up buttercup and I have obligations. My question is if any of you fellas have any ideas on working on verbal/non-verbal communication.

Of course the obvious is to go out and interact and I'm great at it. Extroverted and love people. However, I know I come off strong because IDGAF. I do realize that tact is necessary for life.

The judge at the last court hearing said "I looked condescending" and that wrecked the entire last trial without me saying a word prior to. Just looking for ways to improve tact while keeping the dgaf attitude because that's not going anywhere.