Have this girl I'm dating for about 3 months. 19, beautiful body. Probably 110 pounds. She really wanted a relationship but I told her I couldn't offer her that at this time as I had some things in my life I needed to work on. I needed a better job (got it now) and I need to get in shape because I'm uncomfortable with what I've got right now. 6'4" 290lb. Going down steadily.

Anyway, this girl always wants to know whether or not I'm fucking other girls (I'm not, but she thinks I am) but I tell her I don't necessarily think it's her business and I don't answer the question. She gets frustrated/angry but she gets over it quickly.

Because she thinks I have other women in my life I have a feeling she's not down with just being another girl I'm fucking/dating and she's pulling back.

Lately she's been texting less, showing less interest in me, etc. I invited her out tonight and she just replied "have other plans" when usually she would give a bit more detail and offer another time that same night. She used to send me pics of herself and now not so much.

I'm not the kind of guy that desperately chases girls. If she loses interest then I also lose interest. I cut my losses and move on instead of continuing to ask her out and continuing to receive excuses.

So, should I just steer into the skid and pull back twice as hard as she is?