This is a totally serious post. I need your honest inputs.

Was it right for me to punish my GF for lying about hooking up with someone else before we were exclusive? A few months into our relationship, she admitted into meeting up with someone else from Tinder(Also how we met) around a month into us knowing each other and becoming fwb. I tried getting over it, but It just popped up at random times and I took it out by being emotionally abusive at her.

A year into our relationship, I found out that she was pregnant but I started getting doubts if it was really mine. I forced her to abort it even though it's illegal in my country, which damaged her tubes permanently. I since ghosted her after. Was I justified in doing what I did?