So after reading TRP I read continuously the importance of maintaining frame and using push pull so as to create attraction. But I have been in an LTR with a girl for a few weeks and she keeps on complaining that I'm just being outright rude and prefers to be more in control of the relationship. This kind of goes against what I've read on TRP since she sees push pull as me being rude, and me trying to maintain frame as an overly macho personality.

I obviously agree that women should be treated with respect, but the general red pill advice of poking "mean" remarks at her has really decreased attraction instead of accomplishing its intended effect.

Edit: whenever I start feeling bad about being too "savage" with her, I start complimenting her but she says that I shouldn't be so nice and that "she isn't perfect"

Thoughts?