Just need a little wisdom. There’s this girl that showed me high interest in the beginning and was initiating everything, all I had to take the hint and lead her on dates.

I was able to get her on a fun first date and on the second date she came to my area, we chilled and I was able to get her back to my place. I Was able to get her into my bed and unclothed her but she wouldn’t let me take off her panties- she stated that she was on her period and we could fool around next time.

Instead of backing off immediately and playing cool, I continued to pursue thinking it was just a shit test. Even with Me pushing forward she was still hesitant so after a while I just backed off. All in all the date wasn’t bad. Progress was made.

The girl hit me up the next day after with a cute video, but after that hasn’t really initiated anything.

I’ve sent a couple pings to keep the interest alive but she isn’t making any effort herself, but she is receptive.

I hit her up to come over Wednesday and she said “that she can try. She has exams this week.”

Something is telling me that the medium is the message and I should just back off to be honest and let her come to me if she wants to.

I just want to know how I should respond to this without losing frame:

Leave it alone and see if she hits me up Wednesday to confirm.

Leave it alone until Wednesday and I tell her to come over and take a study break.

Or just rescind my offer by saying: Word we can hang another time. Good luck on your exams. And leave the ball in her court.

Personally, yes I would like to push forward and fuck, but at the same time I am in no huge rush to fuck this particular girl. I don’t want her to think that I need her to come quickly because I really don’t.

I don’t know if I am leading/pursuing or chasing?