I initiated my own version of a Soft Next with my LTR of 3 years.

  1. I don't contact her

  2. When she contacts me I choose to respond

  3. I usually only respond if sex is offered or is a strong possibility

  4. I start to look for other women

These other women include her old high school 'friend' who she played sports with. Apparently she was a slut (good for me) and the LTR always asks if I'm talking to said slut. I always respond with no but I hint that I could if I wanted to.

Well I've actually been chatting her up for awhile and will probably execute a meetup in the near future (she's giving me signs she might be interested).

My only concern is because these two are very competitive in nature and also played sports together in the past the "slut" will talk to my LTR about our interactions for some bullshit revenge or competition thing. If that happens I may have to Hard Next my LTR and I'd rather avoid that.

I would be considered Alpha 1.0 if any of you are familiar with that. I'm working on outcome independence but for now my schedule is extremely full and my sex drive is equally high. In short I need my LTR for sex or I have to sacrifice school to have the time to pick up chicks.

So if any of you have experience about talking to other girls that may be close to the LTR please advise.

Thanks!

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