question about oneitis

kempff · 2014-09-21T13:22:41+00:00

Just tell her No.

philipzimbardo · 2014-09-21T15:16:42+00:00

It's hard to go from orbiter to her seeing you as AF and ready to date you. You could either ignore and let her squirm, she probably just wants attention anyways, or you could play it off like nothing's wrong but don't give her attention. She'll wonder why you're so cold and that will make her curious and possibly want to meet up with you.

thelotusknyte · 2014-09-21T15:45:46+00:00

Just say no.

OG-Wyze · 2014-09-22T00:20:12+00:00

Are you successful in any way? If so shove it in her face in a way she doesn't necessarily catch on.

Why would I be angry with you? Wheres this coming from why would I be angry with you? (The "Wheres this coming from" makes it sound like you just really haven't paid it any attention and just kept on living life, it makes her sound like shes obsessed with you) I've been having a pretty good time actually, did you end up going to that concert last night? I went with a few friends and it was amazing. I got to call up this chick I met there, she gave me her number telling me she wanted to hang out sometime.

elduckbell · 2014-09-22T05:52:15+00:00

I cut all contact and stopped orbiting her

[deleted] · 2014-09-21T14:04:05+00:00

Say no, and if she asks why you dont talk to her again, just say this: I already have male friends, i dont need you

Title	question about oneitis
Author	donRafael
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	September 21, 2014 12:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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