hey guys. 20 years old (was blue pilled as fuck before I woke up 3 months ago). Have been hitting the gym lately, started going out and talking to girls, read TRM and redpill forums etc. I'm getting there. Girls have started to be more interested. I don't defer to women anymore, I'm slowly applying my own frame. Long journey but huge improvements already.

For 1 month I've been seeing that girl from uni, she lives 10 minutes by walk away from my place (we both still live at our parents' place to save on rent). Had dinner with her parents, they like me etc. She even told me her mom liked me otherwise she would not invite me for dinner etc. Her parents are very protective however. She used to be a virgin but she met a guy and dated him for 2 years, he took her virginity etc, stereotypical chad before he dumped her to go with another plate.I think she is an alpha widow, she was depressed when he dumped her last September and her parents are probably cautious about new guys because of that. Also, she has a car and I don't. I take the bus 90% of the time to show that I am independent and refuse it when she offers me lifts except once in a while.

I go for walks with her as she lives in my neighborhood. I have kissed her a couple days ago, she was positively responsive.

questions:

  1. she doesn't want to show me her bedroom (in her parents' house). Is this a redflag?
  2. She hasn't opened the door to sex yet, is she fooling me or should I escalate it further ?
  3. She is shy as fuck, textbook definition of a shy girl. I bet she only had 1 partner so far. Hard for me to see if she will let me escalate or not, because I'm always doing the moves for her (grabbing her hand etc). How can I know if she is interested or not ?

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I don't have oneitis as I'm seeing another girl simultaneously. I don't text her except for logistics, I ain't a beta orbiter. I sometimes reply 2-3 hours late etc.

additional info: she texted me the night we kissed to say that she liked the day spent together etc (she genuinely acted interested when I kissed her, which I guess is a good sign). Also, I'm planning to watch a movie with her to escalate things soon. She said she was interested to watch a movie, although she has postponed it until next week. Lastly, she refuses to study at my house even when I invited her. She always wants me to go to hers, not the other way around.

also, I'm tall and good looking , which definitely helped won her parents over and her too I guess. I've got looks, need to work more on game I guess. How do I get to escalate with her ?