I have always wanted to have my own family despite swallowing the pill a few years back.

Hearing stories about affairs and cheating is one thing when it's online, but when you hear firsthand accounts of married men being cheated on, it is a revolting experience.

Just wanted to ask how you married men manage the potential and expectation of being cheated on with/without knowing. I don't mean to ask this question in terms of labelling wives' as unicorns. Rather, how could/would you possibly deal with the betrayal of trust and insult to your name.

Especially, in the stories I hear where the guy never finds out; I couldn't imagine anything worse, but is that not a reality all married men face?

And given my case, where I want my own children, I don't quite know how to assess this topic maturely.