Question I’m pondering... If not for women/relationships... What do YOU want from life?

AscensionExperiments · 2019-02-16T17:56:28+00:00

"Maybe it is all cocks in the end"- some fuckwit on game of thrones

It's true, our sex drive is one of our biggest motivators for achievement. We've fought wars over our need for busting that righteous nut. Also, look at the groups that have forsaken sex- the "herbivore" movement in Japan, the MGTOW movement- they usually lead a minimalist lifestyle, and make themselves happy with hobbies and a little traveling and such.

Of course- this is not the ONLY motivation out there. For myself, I want to improve the lives of the people around me, I want to help other people break free from this feeble mindset society puts us in- the blue pill, you could call it. That's a big part of my purpose, anyway, and empowering other men does nothing to further the crusade for poon.

MrBigBolls · 2019-02-16T17:52:19+00:00

I’m young so it’s hard to see right now what my mission is in life.

Right now, I want to be the best quarterback in the country (I believe without a doubt I will be once I go to college), to be rich (working on that too), lavish vacations as you said. Basically just to excel in every area of life and live a life worth remembering, and something to leave behind for my future kids.

ArchsofArch · 2019-02-16T17:54:40+00:00

Groupies and pussy cat dolls.

So, objectively if we are here for a while, you have couple of things that all people can agree upon that matter.

One is to follow some kind of hedonistic cycle of what you want. Best things life can offer you. Or best things you can discover in this world.

Two, is to build your world and leave a legacy. The point of leaving a legacy is honestly a bit due to narcissism. You see the world and its systems and you want to incorporate a bit of your voice there.

Three, which alot of people try to do is to avoid as much damage as possible. Life is about maximizing happiness and minimizing pain. So unless that pain has some meaning behind it, makes you grow, love, whatever you should avoid it. And here helping other people makes sense.

This is what I feel everyone looks for in life.

whatdidshewrite · 2019-02-16T19:05:06+00:00

This is a question I’ve been wondering for a while now. I don’t really feel sexually attracted to people so the “get bitches” bit doesn’t really do it for me. In general I think the society is pretty shit and it’s only getting worse so I don’t think the “make the world a better place” bit works for me either.

In law school I’m studying corporate law and when I graduate, most of my work will revolve around defending insider traders. Figuring out how to make otherwise illegal things legal is fun, I guess.

My main ‘goal’ is to provide for my family, but when I gave it some thought, it’s really more of a cop out. I wish to function as a provider so that the people close to me can do what they want to do, because I don’t care to do anything.

boy_named_su · 2019-02-16T19:50:53+00:00

healthmax, wealthmax

Radinax · 2019-02-16T23:37:30+00:00

To do whatever the fuck I want, but I need to work very hard for that to happen.

Capital_Recognition · 2019-02-17T00:26:45+00:00

Goals:

(1) To have "Fuck you, money." Essentially, have freedom. Not to owe anyone anything and live life on my own terms.

(2) To positively impact the world. Whether that be through non-profit or by other means. I want whatever it is to have a real impact and do so in a very intimate way. In other words, I want to see the people I am impacting. I would never want it to be so big that I lost touch of that ability. Once it did, the effect or purpose would also be lost just like so many large non-profits before.

(3) To have kids. To ensure they're taught early on what it means to live life pragmatically and most importantly, the "why" behind it so they never forget and never switch up. When you get old, all that matters is what you leave behind. The rest is noise. Even if you truly leave a mark on the world, it won't be enjoyed by you or by anyone else as much as it will be by those that are your blood.

(4) To have a female companion (man, I don't think I will do marriage, but maybe some type of contractual agreement) that knows I am the boss. She's got to be hot, but also low enough in SMV that if I ever do slip up (called being human), it isn't a catastrophe. Also, she will know that I need to fuck other women, but that she cannot engage in the same with other men.

(5) To be clean and clear. To be as free from desires as possible so that I may live my life for myself, and not for some thing or someone.

(6) To see the world from corner to corner, and it enjoy and appreciate it for what it is. At the end, to return home and remember every inch of it and how lucky I was to be able to see it before I died.

Title	Question I’m pondering... If not for women/relationships... What do YOU want from life?
Author	superbat33
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Date	February 16, 2019 5:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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