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Building Powerwhatdidshewrite/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 06:47 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:49 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:26 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:55 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:44 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:09 AM
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Question For Menwhatdidshewrite/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 05:57 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:08 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:25 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:10 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:40 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:27 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:57 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:39 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:56 AM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:00 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:50 AM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:37 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:30 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:45 AM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:57 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:41 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP09/02/19 07:26 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:03 PM
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whatdidshewrite/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:43 PM
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this
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 04:55 PM
3

Jewish Question
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 09:40 PM
0

Obviously they do but this is done through the brain
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 02:39 PM
5

“Men act like…” implies some men
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 02:11 AM
0

Neurological processes have to do with the brain itself
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 02:10 AM
11

Everyone a bitch
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 02:09 AM
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And monkeys fling shit at each other
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 04:43 PM
5

Pretty sure it’s illegal to drive without insurance
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 12:37 AM
1

She-ra7 on YouTube
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 12:35 AM
-4

Hurts ma fee fees tho
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 08:00 PM
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Wut? I just said I agree with you generally but not in those specific circumstances
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:37 PM
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Not always. Sure you can have surprise deadbeats and it’s no one’s fault but the dad. In cases of serial deadbeats, there is an aspect of “she should have known better”.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:11 PM
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It’s just two sides of the same coin. If this guy is a deadbeat to two baby mommas already, am I going to be #3 and blame the man for being a deadbeat?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:55 PM
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):
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:45 PM
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Yea it started with someone named Ella Androphobia and I blocked her but now I get fed stuff from like She-ra or whatever her name is and such
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:39 PM
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There’s this one misandrist YouTuber, I saw her video once and now the algorithm keeps feeding me her stuff
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:29 PM
-3

🤷‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 05:32 PM
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Some people blame the men for being dead beats, some people blame the women for choosing poorly. At the end of the day it’s probably both
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 03:56 PM
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Same thing with women and everyone in general to be honest. Lack of empathy for the other side is what drives these issues into radicalism
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 03:54 PM
1

What behaviour? Marrying a Korean woman?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 03:53 PM
8

I 👁️ dont 🚫👎🙅‍♂️think🤔🧐it 👆👉is👈 glorified 🙏🛐🧎‍♀️everywhere 🙈🙉🙊it 👆👉is👈 just the manosphere 👨
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 03:51 PM
5

I think Islam is doing most of this heavy lifting these days, at least in the east
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 03:39 PM
8

Acting like a dick goes against your self-interest. Anyone who goes against their self-interest is an idiot
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 11:28 PM
3

JPT is retarded. When she gets pushed on any of her stances she’s literally like « I don’t know guys I’m not that smart »
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 03:54 PM
1

?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/23 11:25 AM
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Double negative 🙃
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/23 12:39 AM
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I am INFJ and i understand how you feel. I might have even done the same thing as you. However, you should also understand that this feeling is irrational and therefore unfair to levy on others.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 10:48 PM
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“Wow guys she said he had a small dick!!” #owned!!!!
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:26 PM
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RP theory coaxed me into a bad person and then through self-reflection I learned that most bad people were once good people that went awry. Pretty hard to be harsh on others when they suffer from the same pitfalls you suffer from.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 11:25 PM
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Basically RP is the reaction to becoming jaded by a woman
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 11:22 PM
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RPW is less toxic it seems though
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 11:21 PM
1

People generally seem to view the “other” as a unified hive mind
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 03:55 PM
-4

What does he say is bad about being a virgin?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 10:30 AM
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It’s almost like gender doesn’t dictate whether someone will be a good friend or not
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 04:40 AM
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Well I think it would be a mistake to consider them a hive mind. They share some common beliefs but they vary in others. Idk though I’ve cleansed myself from that space a long time ago.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 03:57 PM
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I don’t think it was the manosphere’s fault. Most of them were for abortion. Last I checked, they wanted women to have the right to abort so they could advocate for the right to financially abort
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:49 AM
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Ive actually seen a lot of MRAs upset about the RvW overturning because if it happens they won’t be able to argue for financial abortion anymore
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 01:01 AM
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It’s an opinion, and one of the denser ones. Elliot Roger was a decent looking guy…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 06:14 PM
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This says nothing about why one should or should not wait for exclusivity before having sex
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 06:07 PM
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That disdain for women seeps through their persona. You think you can hide but you can’t. Women are especially intuitive.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/22 08:57 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:20 AM
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Yeah lol if I wear a loose fitting t-shirt it just doesn’t feel as nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:45 PM
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Not tight enough to irritate me (obviously?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:44 PM
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Im a man; i wear tight shirts to enjoy the pump I get in the gym. I’d imagine the same applies to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:29 PM
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This post is literally « I can hardly see what’s wrong with the pill outside of everything wrong with the pill «
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:28 PM
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I don’t know if this helps, but in case it does: I’ve dated women that I didn’t find superficially attractive but I loved them for some sort of je ne sais quoi (thé way they made me think, feel, I don’t know - words suck) and strangely enough I began to find them attractive superficially after a while (even now I find certain physical attributes that they have attractive in other women even though I never liked them before) There is a YouTuber named Unnatural Vegan and I don’t find her physicall…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 04:02 PM
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Sorry
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 08:20 PM
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Honestly if you just explain your body count to anyone the way you did right here, any sane person would understand/not hold it against you
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 06:25 PM
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R A C C O O N
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 11:58 PM
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She kno da wae
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 05:26 PM
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I think the problem is that people start here by airing their problems, and once they finally “get it” (i.e. they can fix their problems on their own), they leave and so again you are left with the newbies that haven’t figured it out yet
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 06:06 PM
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What do chromosomes have to do with gender roles?
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 04:15 PM
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Don’t hook up
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 06:20 AM
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This presupposes that men and women use the same set of characteristics with the same weights
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 10:38 PM
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I think FDS is better than TRP to be honest. What do you mean by you wish they were more radical?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 09:55 PM
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Yes, thank you. What constitutes a “league”?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 09:53 PM
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I think it’s just the bottom part of the sine wave that is progression. People go to the red pill when they hit rock bottom, and eventually they will climb out of it. The only reason it is prevalent is because when people grow out of TRP they stop participating in the forum and what’s left are the new people who just started their descent.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 05:39 PM
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What do you mean by league
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 04:58 PM
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It’s well documented that women date across and up social hierarchies and men date across and down
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 11:19 PM
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The story of Jordan Peterson breaks my heart. When his celebrity status was limited to the inner circle of philosophy, he was at the forefront of 21st century philosophy (in my opinion). Then the issue surrounding free speech came about and he decided to take a stand. His stance was backed by genuine concern and because he put a lot of thought into it he brought to light the serious issues that the leftist position posed. Then he started to grow a fan base. In the beginning he stood for himself …
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 06:07 PM
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Take my poor man’s gold 🏅
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 02:11 PM
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What’s a good example of FDS doing this? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:48 PM
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Living by yourself is better than living with someone you’re not compatible with
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 12:18 AM
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I am a man in my twenties and this is the reason I prefer women older than me
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 02:14 PM
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If you were so malleable that a reddit forum made you dump your gf, you weren’t mature enough to begin with
/r/ExRedPill30/05/20 06:48 PM
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Could someone point out what FDS has said that is toxic (other than lumping all men into a category)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:43 PM
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JP’s 12 rules book did this to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:57 PM
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Mainly for entertainment value
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 12:27 PM
15

10 sprints burn more than an hour of jogging? First of all, how long are the sprints? Second of all, good luck sprinting 10 times in one day. Thirdly, no.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 12:16 PM
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This is a logical explanation, not an ethical explanation
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 08:23 PM
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I believe that. But if a man thinks a woman is ugly, he’s not going to want to sleep with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:44 PM
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But the existence of these thoughts don’t mean that they’re the only reason they like you - or even that they are a reason they like you, for that matter I mean I think if a woman has been friends with a guy long enough, the thought of dating them would have likewise crossed their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:37 PM
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What’s wrong with having passing thoughts of fucking a platonic friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:02 PM
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"It's not what you know, it's who you know." Actually, its who knows you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 04:46 PM
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Perhaps I misunderstood? I don’t think successful people do any of the things OP listed
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 01:33 AM
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Trust me, you do not want a man who dreams of an e girl as his ideal wife.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 05:59 PM
5

This
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:43 AM
6

I feel like I’ve read this same story before on TRP - someone posted it and analyzed it there
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:42 AM
2

Said what ?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 02:40 AM
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Being woken up for sex sounds like it’s a turn on in theory. However, in reality, being woken up from a comfy slumber is always irritating
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 10:06 PM
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wtf
/r/ExRedPill22/03/20 06:29 PM
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I don't think you can attribute the reason he frames it that way to masculinity. I have a friend who does this thing - when she wants to do something, she'll frame it as someone else wants to do it and she's obligatorily joining in. Something like: "Sarah wants me to go to Starbucks with her". She never says something like "I want to go to Starbucks". Irritates the shit out of me but whatev. Its usually done as a subconscious way to avoid liability and to justify their actions. In their heads it…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 07:11 PM
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Gotta love people who go on reddit just to tell people who ask questions to “Google it”
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 12:28 PM
1

What? The only reason I'm aware of this effect is because I've seen people on this thread talk about it
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 11:01 PM
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Are you on birth control? Birth control does this to some people.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 10:07 PM
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I feel like it’s kinda whack that this not the norm. Do people actually see someone and feel attracted to them without knowing them? I can look at someone and appreciate that they are attractive, but I never feel attracted to someone until I at least know them a little. Maybe I’m just demisexual idk whyamithewayiam
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 03:55 PM
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That’s not hypergamy. She didn’t leave him for someone better, she left him because he was inadequate
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 06:42 PM
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Sounds like he’s going through depression to be honest. Also that’s a pretty bad answer to why he wants the job.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 05:16 PM
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I found that lying gives me an excuse to not progress. If I can lie about success and still reap the same social benefits, overtime I start to feel less motivated about my goals
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 08:42 PM
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Well if you can afford it when the time comes then it shouldn’t be an issue, but if you can’t then you shouldn’t go
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 08:06 PM
7

Why are you going on a vacation if neither of you can afford it
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 07:51 PM
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Man many of the posts on this sub are wholesome and make me happy. When I read posts on TRP I feel pessimistic. Sorry this is completely off topic. Let me know if I should delete this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 08:03 PM
1

Don’t these things need a TLDR?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 01:48 AM
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Seems like more of a “cautionary tale of unsafe sex”
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 11:23 PM
2

Yikes
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 09:18 PM
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Yes
/r/ExRedPill16/02/20 04:40 PM
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I agree, she is the just the back up in his life life
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 10:31 PM
25

Man just stop with the dumbass pills already
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 04:47 PM
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The way you describe feminists was an accurate description of myself when I first found TRP. It’s been years now and I’ve come a long way but sometimes I still feel that same fear. Every now and then I’ll see someone depressed and go out of my way to help them feel better because I’d always wish someone did that for me when I’m depressed. Most of the time this ends up flying back in my face.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 12:21 AM
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You may be equating his opinion on your relative intellect to the value he sees in you. I think I’m smarter than my partner (if you asked them they would say they’re smarter than me lol) but I still love them irrespectively.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 08:23 PM
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I don’t quite understand why you would take someone’s belief that they’re smarter than you as an insult. I have many friends that I believe I’m smarter than, but I’m sure if you asked them they would say they’re smarter. For them to state otherwise would be dishonest. Why does that matter? When I used to compete in badminton, I had a small group of friends that I would travel with to compete. All of us thought we were the best players in Canada, and it was not out of disrespect to any of us. Tha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 06:06 PM
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I don’t quite understand why you would take someone’s belief that they’re smarter than you as an insult. I have many friends that I believe I’m smarter than, but I’m sure if you asked them they would say they’re smarter. For them to state otherwise would be dishonest. Why does that matter? When I used to compete in badminton, I had a small group of friends that I would travel with to compete. All of us thought we were the best players in Canada, and it was not out of disrespect to any of us. Tha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 02:38 PM
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Roald Dahl
/r/ExRedPill07/02/20 05:16 AM
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If he is a good man (I don’t know if he is) then it’s highly likely that he just can’t fathom what you’re going through. Political differences aside, it’s much more difficult for him to feel a sense of connectedness to the baby than it is for you (because it’s inside you). If he’s completely oblivious to the way you feel about the situation (which is what it seems like from the way you described his actions), his actions make sense. My point is that it is not necessarily the case that he had abu…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 02:11 AM
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Its all about recognizing and accepting risk. If you think she's worth the risk of you potentially getting hurt, then go for it. If not, then don't. ezpz
/r/ExRedPill30/01/20 09:40 PM
1

How do you internally validate yourself?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 08:06 PM
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Just like almost everything in life, the red pill has both good aspects and bad aspects. It’s on you to scrutinize it for yourself in deciding what to keep and what to discard. What’s not good is replacing it with your brain and becoming a zealot.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/20 03:53 PM
1

I believe you, but your hierarchy of values don’t necessarily match everyone else’s; and from the looks of it, probably not RPW’s.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 01:04 AM
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Value is subjective. If you value hedonism, someone with higher self-control (or whatever) will be lower value to you. If want to attract a hedonistic person, you would act differently than if you want to attract a self-controlled person. You come here asking why you should be like these RPW without considering if you perhaps should be in the first place. If you want something other than the type of man RPW attract, the answer is you shouldn’t.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 08:14 PM
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Does not necessitate satisfying urges =/= requires not satisfying urges. I didn't say abstinence is always healthy, I said satisfying urges is not always healthy. ...which is all besides the point because (like I said) RPW is about attracting a certain type of man. It isn't/doesn't have to be for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 05:52 PM
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Taking care of yourself is part of being high value but this does not necessitate satisfying your urges. Just because you want something doesn’t mean it’s good for you. Sometimes taking care of yourself is abstaining from urge-satisfaction. RPW is a strategy about attracting a certain type of man. This type of man is not one who is looking for casual sex. Therefore closing yourself from casual sex increases the chance that the man you end up with will be that certain type of man RPW seeks to att…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 01:41 PM
1

Lifting
/r/ExRedPill19/12/19 08:42 PM
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I normally wouldn’t quabble about this but since you’re a PT you should know that your leanest picture is closer to 9ish percent. 5% bf is extremely lean. If you don’t see chest and delt striations especially under harsh lighting like that which you took your pic in, you’re no where near 5% (not to be facetious but there’s a massive difference between bf%s when you get down into the single digits). That’s still pretty lean though so good job.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 05:29 PM
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Love the rubber thing! What does he do?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 08:14 PM
5

How do you reconcile being the prize with being the first mover with women? Don’t people usually go after the prize?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 04:10 PM
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If you presuppose they’re low value then the answer is obviously not much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:11 PM
3

Either is fine. Keto is great short term but unless you plan on never eating carbs again good luck because the moment you do you will blow up like a balloon.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 10:49 PM
3

There seems to be a disconnect regarding her behaviour that day and the way he describes her when she’s ‘normal’ which leads me to believe that she has a ton of faults that he either doesn’t recognize or willingly overlooks
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 04:54 PM
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How would you guys react in this situation? I’d love to hear specifically from an EC if they’d be willing to answer
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:11 AM
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When I first started out, the loneliness was very painful for me. However overtime I desensitized to it. Now I’ve noticed that I’m no longer desperate when I interact with women. I’m not chasing after just anyone just to not be alone anymore. Rejection doesn’t hurt as much because I’m used to being by myself. Although the pain still pangs from time to time, I wouldn’t go back to the way I was before for a second.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 12:43 PM
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Could not have said it better!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 08:03 PM
1

“Bad” and “fine” aren’t stand alone concepts. It depends on the goal. TRP is a sexual strategy focused on getting mena ton of sex. Polygamist instincts serve this goal. RPW is a relationship strategy focused on getting a high quality man to settle down with. Hypergamy works contrary to this goal. Of course these aren’t absolute, but at the end of the day it’s based on what you want. Hypergamy is good if you want to sleep around, polygamy is bad if you want to settle and start a family.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 12:24 AM
5

It’s dumb that she needs her feelings micromanaged and it’s dumb that you facilitate that
/r/ExRedPill05/09/19 06:53 PM
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This isn’t a babysitting forum. There is self-evident good in the world, you just need to search for it
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:43 PM
2

There’s nothing wrong with apologizing when you’re in the wrong, but why are you in he wrong here? I seriously can’t fathom someone saying to me “I can’t imagine what you were like before I met you” being offensive at all
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 07:12 PM
3

Lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 12:50 AM
0

Inability to prove or disprove is irrelevant to truth.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 10:39 AM
-3

Honestly there’s a lot of truth about what they say here about women. Most women don’t understand themselves. Also, most men don’t understand themselves. TRP teaches men to garner meaningless sex from meaningless women and then these men turn around and wonder why they feel meaningless.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 01:08 AM
1

Impressed by someone(’s achievement)
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:29 AM
1

Admiration =/= intimidation. I don’t train with sport specificity in mind and certainly not equivalent hours, but even then it’s just an example. There are various feats that I’d admire someone for. “Do what they do so you don’t think it’s admirable anymore” isn’t a solution. Obviously you can’t perform at a high level at everything and I can admire someone’s accomplishment while having no care to do it myself.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:45 PM
1

Not extraordinarily, why?
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:26 PM
-4

So?
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:34 PM
1

They mean different things
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:27 PM
1

Like a track star athlete
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:27 PM
0

What do you mean trust yourself? Literally just scrutinize your own thoughts. It’s not that difficult
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 04:16 PM
0

Think about why you hold the beliefs you do. If you can rationally justify them then there’s no reason to be ashamed regardless of the belief
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 04:09 PM
6

By taking responsibility for who you are rather than pretending to be the person you think you should be
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 09:18 PM
1

I’d try anything once
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:12 PM
4

If you can’t be 100% honest with your SO, you probably have the wrong SO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:11 PM
6

Think about the type of man that would be attracted to the type of shit you give them and then ask yourself if that’s the kind of man you want. If the answer is yes, continue.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 04:19 PM
1

Most of the things in TRP are tools rather than the truth. Ideas like “AWALT” aren’t pushed literally to get men to believe all women are a certain way, but rather to assume that they are a certain way because those assumptions better lend themselves to men not putting women on pedestals
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 03:26 PM
1

Yeah, it seems like it’s like that with every group. Most people become more concerned with the integrity of the group identity rather than searching for the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 03:22 PM
2

It’s funny you mention this. I recently started a part time job with a supervisor that I’m pretty in to even though I don’t consider her attractive. Actually I’ve only really been attracted to about 3 women in my life so far - none of them on a physical level though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:14 PM
12

This is true. The fact of the matter is that it’s easier to be led than to lead and most people live habitually rather than purposefully while using their feelings as their main decision making faculty - adults who tend to the former are akin to overgrown children irrespective of gender Fun fact: I brought this up in TRP and got downvoted to hell
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/19 08:38 PM
27

Like socialism, it sounds good in theory
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 03:26 PM
50

Yes but the woman should probably be questioning why she feels the need to do so in the first place
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/19 11:51 PM
5

When I said decency I was referring to my own standards of hospitality- ie. being like “I’m making eggs do you want some” or something. I didn’t mean basic human decency, as in refraining from picking her up and tossing her out the window. Also it’s really case specific. I make conversation with people daily - some of whom I don’t find attractive - just because. So me making conversation with a girl doesn’t mean much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:10 PM
7

Depending on how “low” on the “attractiveness scale” you’re willing to go, it doesn’t have to be that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:46 PM
12

Yup. You hear it a lot over at MGTOW etc. how attractive women don’t give some men the time of day but the truth is men don’t give women they don’t find attractive the time of day either. So many guys complain about attractive women not replying to them on tinder whilst not replying to the fat chick that matched with them. But also consider that men will usually be attracted to women with interesting/likeable personalities. At least in my case, I’ve only really been attracted to a handful of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:45 PM
26

I used to do it a lot. It always seemed like a good idea at the time and I always regretted it afterward. It’s very similar to a night out clubbing in my opinion. It’s interesting. I think the biggest benefit from porn cessation is that you deprive your brain from a non-beneficial source of dopamine and so you’re forced to search elsewhere for it. However I feel like meaningless sex is around the same ballpark in terms of non-beneficial sources of dopamine. When I first quit porn I was horny a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:18 PM
12

Actually I think #1 is the biggest. There are so many posts about people overcoming their blue-pulled self after being hurt/cheated on/divorced
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 01:32 PM
7

How did you show your interest in him?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/19 06:00 PM
23

I think you foster the type of relationships you find through your behaviour. If you act in a manner to attract women under certain assumptions, you will attract women of whom those assumptions are true. So it’s circular to assume women are a certain way, then attract some woman and then be like “omg you’re exactly the way I thought”.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/19 02:20 AM
1

You can’t change her. If you’re unhappy then the best thing to do is walk away. Sticking with her will only build resentment and make your relationship worse than it already is
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 03:55 PM
0

Nothing in his OP explains why he feels the way he does. Saying he’s embarrassed is equally assumptive. Simply calling him an asshole is unproductive. lol what projection
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 03:44 PM
0

...so you’d advise him to stay with a woman he’s not attracted to anymore because otherwise he’s an asshole?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 03:26 PM
-1

Attraction is an important part of a relationship though Also this is the last place I expected to find guys bitching at other guys for their life choices. TRP is amoral
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 03:17 PM
1

It’s more like OP is a dumbass because if you feel the need to tell your wife to wear a wig to prevent feeling embarrassed in public after she battled cancer then you married the wrong person
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 03:16 PM
0

Honestly you should probably leave if you don’t find her attractive anymore
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 02:57 PM
2

There’s no problem; the answer is that people generally prefer relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:24 AM
2

I was just quoting you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:22 AM
5

I’m more inclined to believe they’re equally rare, it’s just that men are more prone to derive a sense of pride from it and thus be more public with it whereas women tend to feel a sense of shame from it and do the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:21 AM
1

There’s no such thing as « pair bond » lol, that’s some rp lingo bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:19 AM
5

It’s possible, just as it’s possible for a woman to be connected to multiple guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:17 AM
2

Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:15 AM
3

It’s good advice. You’re not ready to be posting here.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:31 AM
3

Get over your oneitis “twin” instead of posting dumb shit like this
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:24 AM
1

There’s nothing wrong with coming off as somewhat/moderately interested
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 04:18 AM
3

Your entire post history is about some chick who you feel is your “spirit twin” that you’ve been trying to avoid because you’re scared of the connection or some shit. “Lmao”
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:16 AM
3

I bet you have oneitis for some chick and you’re sitting at your computer running a regression analysis obsessively trying to figure out how many guys she’s had inside her so you can dream about being one of them
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:11 AM
1

You wouldn’t have made this post if you felt that way
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:06 AM
1

It’s called pump and dump
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:05 AM
1

If you have something to ask/say why not just say it
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 04:03 AM
2

Leave
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 04:01 AM
11

If you’re taking valuable time out of your day to create an equation to estimate some bitch’s n-count, you’re doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:42 AM
5

Oxytocin produces feelings of closeness. It’s a hormone that induces bonding. It’s released during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 03:22 AM
4

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/11074867/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:54 AM
7

Sex is inherently an emotional thing, and it is for most people. You need to consciously disassociate yourself from it to remove that aspect of it - at least until it becomes a habit. It’s the same for guys too, they just admit it less. I learned this the hard way and had to spend the last couple of years working with a therapist to rehab my ability to pair bond again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:26 AM
9

What Sums up this whole post
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/19 07:42 PM
1

Every post needs a TLDR, it’s in the rules
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 12:40 PM
2

Many people are just overgrown children and aren’t ready to be treated like they’re autonomous. It’s up to you to decide whether you want to be single or baby a girlfriend
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 05:58 PM
1

I don’t think you told him you don’t care, I just read the “I hid my disappointment pretty well” bit and this idea came to mind
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 04:43 PM
1

I think men here recognize that women have the propensity to use emotion manipulatively but I’d be hard-pressed to think that they think all emotion is inherently manipulative. There wouldn’t be anything wrong with crying after the fact because he already made his decision as long as you recognize you shouldn’t accept any recant on his part afterwards. Making the guy you’re with think you don’t care about something you actually do care about generally puts you at a disadvantage. That being said,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 04:37 PM
1

May I ask why you felt you had to hide your disappointment when he first said he wasn’t ready for a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 04:05 PM
0

What are you talking about. Just don’t get pop/fries/dessert.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 04:04 AM
-6

You can eat at McDonalds everyday and be fine as long as you don’t make dumbass food choices
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 03:33 AM
1

Actually I’m a marshmallow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/19 07:48 PM
1

I typed a sentence. You interpreted it to mean something other than what I typed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/19 07:40 PM
1

Not always, but it happens. I’d imagine most guys discover porn before actually having sex for the first time, and at that point in their development they’re pretty impressionable. X not necessitating y doesn’t mean y never happens when x happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/19 07:35 PM
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I never left sweetheart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/19 09:51 PM
3

It’s because they watch hardcore porn and think that’s what normal sex is like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/19 09:43 PM
–

So edgy lmao. Go eat some meat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/19 05:38 AM
1

I find this to be true. Discovering porn as a kid started through searching for movie sex scenes on YouTube to actual porn and then it just got crazier and crazier. After cessation I find the stuff I used to watch revolting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 06:58 PM
0

BoRiNg!1!1!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 06:52 PM
4

You don’t need to lie to us, we can all see through you. You’re the classic woman trope TRP warns us about
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:47 PM
14

She’s just asking here expecting us to say yes so she can feel better about cheating on her own husband
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:18 PM
5

If you browse asktrp you'll come by many comments that bash OP unnecessarily - some while providing constructive criticism and others not. One of the differences is that as a newbie you eventually just desensitize to it. However the biggest difference is that people who generally have insightful comments to post won't go out of their way to be aggressive in their response. I think this is true when it comes to someone with something worthwhile to say regardless of their gender - that generally s…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 11:32 PM
11

Thanks for paraphrasing the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 12:27 AM
15

Weird flex but ok
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 10:39 PM
10

You can’t foster a happy relationship with one foot out the door by constantly refraining from getting close to someone. There’s inherently nothing wrong with getting attached. It becomes an issue when you become attached to the wrong person. This is why vetting is so important. However at the end of the day, it’s a game of risk. You could have the most rigorous vetting process in the world and still by dumb luck end up with someone not right for you. Those sucker punches life throws at you are …
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 10:18 PM
2

Doesn’t anyone read the rules? You need a TLDR
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 07:13 PM
2

Yes thank you. RIP that one guy for sassing an EC
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 08:55 PM
2

During my undergrad I went through a dark phase laced with tons of drugs and sex. Ever since I’ve been working with a therapist to try and rehab my ability to put bond. I’m a man btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:53 PM
1

Ive only really found 3 people seriously attractive in my life so far and I don’t find any of them particularly physically attractive. However they’re not unattractive, just average (one is actually a bit below average in my opinion lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:14 PM
6

Could you elaborate a bit more on “container words”? I don’t quite grasp the concept
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 04:47 PM
1

The post is mainly about low bf which isn’t necessarily correlated with being fit. You can be a skinny mofo and still have a low bf%. The dude who plays Barry Allen in The Flash tv series only looks good because he’s skinny. He has little to no muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:42 PM
3

A lot of guys focus on building muscle and forget about low bf%. Low bf makes your face look 10x better. Less fat means sharper jawlines and cheekbones. I was at 15% towards the end of my bulk; not fat by any means, but when I cut down to 12% the change in my face was extremely noticeable. Most models and many actors that are considered good looking aren’t really THAT muscular. They just have low bf. Actually (depending on the gig) male models aren’t supposed to have a lot of muscle. When I used…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:38 PM
2

r/niceguys
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 02:12 AM
1

The feeling is reciprocal, not the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 12:31 AM
1

That mindset won’t result in the scenario you say follows if the man has a strong enough sense of self to recognize that bending over backwards for his partner doesn’t serve his self-interest and then acting accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:23 PM
2

Oneitis doesn’t necessarily mean you lack the ability to walk away, at least in the way I’ve described it. Holding someone in the highest regard isn’t inconsistent with lacking the willpower to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:20 PM
3

It’s not an inherent weakness as long as you have a sturdy sense of self. Oneitis doesn’t necessarily mean you lack the ability to say “listen I love you but I will not put up with your shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:19 PM
0

Furthermore, who really wants to fuck someone who doesn’t want them? Basically this. Men want to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 09:43 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 05:10 AM
1

There is no inherent responsibility for us to do anything. TRP isn’t a babysitter for the rest of the world, not is it a hive mind. Its PUA without the superficiality/bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 02:05 AM
1

TRP is a sexual strategy. You won’t find the meaning of life in it. Nihilism is the default because if you don’t prescribe a meaning to life then you default to there being none. TRP is here to get men laid, not to guide them through their lives.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 01:37 AM
-4

I feel the same way when women insist on telling me about their menstrual cycle. Who knows why, he’s probably still just a kid
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:25 PM
1

So no studies? What a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 10:22 PM
8

Go pool hopping at community pools after dark!!! Hands down my best date ever (until she slipped and rolled her ankle and I had to carry her home)
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 10:20 PM
2

What happened to all the “absolute studies” you were referencing? What you’re referring to would be a test of your position, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 10:18 PM
1

You’re not supposed to qualify me, you’re supposed to qualify your position that there is a difference. This is how hypothesis testing works, honey. You assume nothing significant exists, and then you search for evidence to the contrary. If it’s absolutely studied, then you shouldn’t have an issue providing a study. Currently I’m of the opinion that you assume because you and a couple buddies feel that n-count matters, you assume most guys do. If it were a game of chance, I’d be indifferent betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 10:10 PM
2

Hello? You can’t prove a negative? ???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:51 PM
1

Show me a study. Again, you can’t prove a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:46 PM
1

Let me be upfront. My opinion on n-count: it doesn’t matter. Any belief should be substantiated qualitatively or quantifiably. Appealing to widely held belief (by referring to it as “the prevailing narrative” like that means anything) doesn’t validate a claim. You can’t prove a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:29 PM
3

Yes, you postulate a claim and I have to go disprove it. That’s how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:56 PM
3

Your argument rests on “most men do care” which again is equally as assumptive. Stating “this is obvious” doesn’t give it any more grounding. My opinion is that your n-count only matters insofar as it matters to you and your partner, therefore broad speculation about what most men do or don’t care about is useless in this regard. If you’re looking for a “high n-count is good” or “high n-count is bad” opinion from me, you won’t find one. If I had some reason to believe one way or another, such as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:40 PM
3

Im hère to point out that you people tend to overemphasize tiny details and end up missing the big picture. This happens all the time in many different fields. Look no further than the consumers of the supplement industry selling $100 pills to inhibit a small hormone spike for a few hours thinking it will stop them from getting fat. This emphasis on this idea that high n-counts negatively impacts the way men view women makes it seem like a woman with a high n-count is going to meet the perfect g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:24 PM
5

The reason I said it’s inconsequential is because the claim that the majority of men do care is equally assumptive as the claim that the majority of men don’t. Unless you have some sort of qualifiable basis for the claim? Even if this is assumed to be true, the value of the n-count only has merit on a case-by-case basis wrt the individuals in a relationship. Whether the specific man you’re interested in cares or doesn’t care about your n-count is irrespective of whether the average man does or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:10 PM
6

N-counts are whatever you make them to be. Some people care, some people don’t. TRP likes to use them as a chest-thumper for men and a value-dégrader for women. Others do vice-versa. At the end of the day, it’s inconsequential
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 05:04 PM
2

I don't have much to say but I wanted to quickly remark on something you said: to be honest if I could flip a switch and turn it off, I would Emotions are what colour our life. They make the good times good and the bad things bad. Negativity bias tends to make us overweight the bad times and which can make it seem like we'd be better off otherwise but in fact this is usually not the case. Learn to recognize that when you're feeling bad, it will eventually subside. The range of emotions that I ca…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 09:51 PM
1

As someone with sociopathic tendencies and is currently seeing someone for it, as much as I absolutely hate to admit this, these traits make me a really shitty partner. I could potentially make a decent partner if I tried really hard, but I don't think its worth it from my partner's perspective considering I'm sure she could find someone with my redeeming qualities but without the baggage. So don't sweat it. He may have been a decent partner but I'm sure there's better out there.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 09:42 PM
2

GVT is good. It has its place. Normally you'd do 8x8 or 10x10 for two compound movements and then do regular volume for accessory work. However if you're doing it right, you wont have much left in the tank for accessory work after the two main lifts.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 07:33 PM
11

Lots of bodybuilders cut by doubling their volume but you'd have to be on steroids to make that work. Running a deficit kills your recovery time and doubling your workload on top of that is a recipe for injury.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 07:32 PM
10

High volume and low volume both have their respective place
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 07:29 PM
4

To answer this question, you'd have to define what you mean by 'justified'. This would entail coming up with multiple scenarios and then labelling them based on whether you believe they should or should not illicit a response of anger. Then you'd have to come up with various qualities that would describe an 'average man' and an 'average woman'. After that, you'd infer from those qualities as to whether the 'average man' or 'average woman' would get angry in those given scenarios, tally them up, …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 07:22 PM
1

Of course, and its not your job to consistently make sure that you're not a bother to people. Its completely rational to assume that, on balance, people are okay with you being the way they are by virtue of them electing to be around you. If they're torturing themselves by choosing to be around while at the same time hating your guts, that's on them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 06:38 PM
2

Logic is derived contextually. Looking for logic in the mere existence of anger is as flawed as looking for logic in the mere existence of a chair. Only when considering the pretext of the existence of a 'thing' does logic become clear. In the same way that, once learning of the construction process of a chair does its existence start to make sense, learning of the stimulus behind the response of anger allows it to make sense. By virtue of men and women being different, its reasonable to assume …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 06:35 PM
6

You're not wrong, but you are using a literal interpretation of the words 'strength' and 'weakness'. Calling a destructive display of anger 'strength' is using the word the same way you'd use the word to refer to a tornado or tsunami. By definition it is 'strength' as in it has a lot of force. When I refer to strength in terms of dealing with emotions, I use it to mean 'emotional fortitude'. A man who brings down his house in a fit of rage is 'strong' by definition, but he lacks emotional fortit…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 06:24 PM
10

A man who is calm and reserved under pressure simply knows how to channel his anger in a way that prevents it from being too destructive. You'd think this would always be the case but it is not. Some people are desensitised to certain stimulus that should invoke an emotional response, and as a result they end up as doormats.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 06:15 PM
2

Personally when I develop frustration with respect to someone, whether or not I do something about it depends on whether I feel it is important or not. If its someone I don't particularly care or its more likely or not a one-off, I'll brush it off. However if its someone I care about or something that I feel needs to be addressed then I will address it. I've always been of the opinion that you are responsible for your own feelings, so if I am significantly upset with something, the onus would be…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 06:12 PM
6

Whether or not someone is capable of anger or simply efficient at channelling it elsewhere is tough to tell. If I were to use something as a measure, I would look at the drive the individual has when it comes to his approach to life. Emotions seem to be the sole, if not the strongest motivator for change in someone's life. In my case, much of my drive comes from being so fed up with the situation I grew up in. If the individual comes off as complacent, it may be that he simply lacks the emotiona…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 05:54 PM
5

One of the things that TRP likes to do is to paint life in broad strokes by using sweeping statements that attributes characteristics to large groups (ie. men do x, women do y). Though not without its uses, its utility declines as you move to deeper levels of analysis. It may be the case that in general men have more logically grounded anger stimuli than females, or it may not. However you'll find that in day to day life the truism of that fact is of little value. Just because it may be true tha…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 05:44 PM
8

Anger itself is an emotional response to some sort of stimulus. The response itself, as in the chemical reaction in the brain that causes the feeling, cannot be controlled; but the actions that follow can be. So yes, anger can provide a strong impetus for change but only if it is channelled in a productive manner. Learning how to handle the feeling is a skill in itself. One difference between a matured man and a boy (or any human, really) is in the way they manage their responses to the emotion …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 05:35 PM
27

She’s not responsible for his feelings
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 05:29 PM
8

Here are some of my favourite dates: Teach each other how to do something (skate, play pool, juggle, anything) Make food together Play scrabble with made-up words Go to a bar, watch people and make up random back stories about them Go to an amusement park/carnival/fair Pool hopping at local community pools after dark
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 02:51 PM
8

Consider that those active on TRP are those new to the concept and are still learning. Once members feel they have sufficiently adopted the idea they contribute significantly less, and what you’re left with are all the angry newborns.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 02:30 PM
9

This is all just speculation. No one can possibly know what is the correct/incorrect interpretation of OP’s situation until it’s over. At the end of the day, he needs to make his own choices and learn from them
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 06:29 PM
1

It’s a theoretical ideal but reality doesn’t work that way
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 04:51 AM
40

The answer isn’t to not love them back at all, just love them equally conditionally
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 11:28 PM
12

Everyone uses everything they have to their advantage. Nothing interesting here
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 06:38 PM
1

Damage is what you are financially compensated for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:35 PM
1

Shitty things happen all the time, that doesn’t mean they should end up with legal penalty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:01 PM
1

“Social contract” isn’t a legal term. Tell your friends, publicly shame them, whatever makes you feel better but the judicial system isn’t there to make other people pay for your tissues regardless of how sad you are. There’s no tangible harm inflicted by someone’s adultery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:39 PM
1

A promise isn’t a contract and your butthurt doesn’t entitle you to their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:32 PM
1

Love your partner all you want but if they cheat don’t get all bitchy and think you’re entitled to their wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:24 PM
0

The law doesn’t care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:23 PM
2

Emotions aren’t consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:05 PM
1

Sure we should financially compensate the spouse for the relatively mathematically insignificant increase in risk of something that most likely won’t cause cancer/lifelong disease. What’s a couple extra cents in a divorce settlement anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:50 PM
2

If you cheat but neither spouse cares and you’re still together then the marriage isn’t broken
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:32 PM
2

Technically it is, but as a society we strive for it not to be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:31 PM
1

Lifelong disease/cancer is something we risk regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:30 PM
4

Spoiler, law isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:57 PM
2

The marriage is deemed broken due to hurt feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:57 PM
3

Things are rarely consequence free. Remedies are there to put those affected in a similar position that they would have been if they hand been affected. To that end, I concede that some asset division is necessary. Extension beyond the required division by the system to punish the wrongdoer simply because he hurt someone else’s feelings isn’t justified because feelings are arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:54 PM
5

This is unrelated to the fact that it’s emotional damage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:48 PM
2

All the things you listed are feelings, except the STD bit. I’m not saying it’s not wrong, I’m saying it’s intangible. Thanks for the personal advice. (“Exposes them to pregnancy with another partner” wtf does that even mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:44 PM
1

Unless you can prove exogenous damage, all of it is in your head. You may not like someone who cheated on you; you may even hate them, but both of those things involve feelings and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:40 PM
5

“You irreparably damaged our marriage my by hurting my feelings”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:33 PM
32

Weight is more malleable than height but it’s pretty easy to guesstimate bf% by the fat chunk under their chin
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 04:32 PM
3

Seems emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:31 PM
1

Where is the non-emotional damage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:21 PM
4

Oh no you hurt my feelings so I’m gonna steal all your money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:14 PM
3

Everyone is a murderer, those that haven’t yet just haven’t found the right victim
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:04 PM
1

Protection is provided
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 04:03 PM
21

Prenups get thrown out all the time. Tell us something we don’t know
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:04 PM
3

Imagine the lack of class. ​
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 06:03 PM
8

Think about the kind of guy he must be to not be able to resist his ex. Think about what that must say about his personal fortitude, and then ask yourself whether you want a partner like that
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 01:28 PM
1

Obviously in academics you strictly appeal to logos but in day to day life emotions play a much larger role. Appealing to feelings is the most effective way to persuade the majority of people
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 01:25 PM
6

What makes a colour 'red-pilled'?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 07:19 PM
4

You can get away with it IIFYM but you’ll feel like shit
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 06:16 PM
1

At my gym its perfectly normal for people to leave between sets to get a drink from the water fountain
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:24 PM
1

I'm ready to ask, however I refrain from posting in the asktrp forum because the vast majority of replies are useless. A post there usually results in inbox spam of messages such as "AWALT", "oneitis", and "read the sidebar". Rarely if ever do I receive value over there, which is why I've resorted to testing other waters. I'd gladly post this in your forum if I were to know I'd be given an insightful answer/thought by you or some other knowledgeable contributor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 09:19 PM
137

She's home AS FUCK bro come on now
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 06:11 PM
3

Compliment them if you want to (ie. you feel it’s deserved)
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:49 PM
1

I have read your writing and I have little to no criticism of it. However unfortunately your work, despite its quality, is only a small portion of the TRP material I’ve read over the years by all the various posters on the sub. When I speak of TRP I refer to all the content on the forum that I’ve read as a whole. You’d do a service to the community if you posted more frequently. Your writing is what drew me to the sub. I've gone through your profile and read most if not all of your posts but am …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:57 PM
1

People are not that difficult to figure out. Contrary to popular belief, they aren't really that unique. She figured you out. So what? You don't need to be some magician-astronaut-football-banker guy.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 09:41 PM
2

It’s not emotional gratification. I struggle with caring in general, and during my relationships I only stuck with them because my women cooked, cleaned and drained my balls for me regularly. When I was single I thought a relationship would give me some emotional gratification, but whenever I entered into one I realized I was wrong. I’m certain there’s a lot I’m missing out on due to my lack of propensity to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 04:03 PM
1

Not caring prevents you from completely enjoying it while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:03 PM
2

Stop it. Get some help.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:26 PM
1

Well she dated you, broke up and moved on, and you're here posting on asktrp about her. Who do you think is superior?
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:26 PM
1

Yes, but how do you get rid of it as fast as possible? "Just do it" isn't helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:24 PM
1

I think most of the resistance comes from wanting to avoid the downside risk. Its easy to speak in theory that "if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out", but in reality there's an amount of pain that comes with the rejection. Its the same with job interviews. Not getting a job you really wanted stings regardless of someone telling you to "let it go".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:02 PM
2

You'll never receive gratification from an LTR with IDGAF. The difference between this and orbiters is that orbiters refuse to take the 'no' as 'no' and continue to follow them in hopes they'll change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:58 PM
5

I used to be called tiger as a kid. My ex used to call me big bear.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 08:48 PM
18

“I’m not interested in your drama bitch”
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:14 PM
1

Anti romantic dread game nuke duke: Fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:52 PM
1

“What’s your age plus one?”
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:54 PM
6

I got out of the shower half way through so my SO could use the bathroom and he said he thought that was very romantic. wut
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:07 PM
3

Never negotiate, you cuck.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:42 PM
2

"lemme smash"
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:11 PM
22

In regards to the sociopathic tendencies, I don’t think it’s just the current dating culture, it’s the culture in combination with the path of least resistance. It’s much easier to manipulate someone into being attracted to you via lying than it is to actually be the things you’re lying about (ie. easy to pretend to be rich than to actually be rich). It’s the same thing with feelings. It’s easier to force yourself not to care than to let yourself care and learn to be okay with things not working…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:28 PM
1

I see this a ton on the TRP forum. “Man waits three years for girl and then she gives it to some Chad in a day”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:10 AM
3

There is no "repairing" this relationship. Leave it alone.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 11:02 PM
2

To think for themselves
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:55 PM
2

use dumbells
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:55 PM
1

Most CEOs display sociopathic traits ​ *coughTRUMPcough*
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:53 PM
-1

I thought pecs were the most attractive muscle?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 04:42 AM
1

No dairy, sunscreen. I also rub down in coconut oil and use the steam room at the club I go to after I workout.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:13 PM
1

That’s not a feeling I have access to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:29 AM
15

The whole post is stupid. If you know anything about sociopaths you'd know that they're not overtly evil. They want people to think they're good. They use soft power techniques like manipulation and gaslighting. They don't just go around kicking people off bikes wtf
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 11:50 PM
3

cuz we alpha bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:17 PM
1

So how does this impact the dynamic of similarities/differences between partners? I hear the "omg we have so much in common we'd be perfect" bit a lot but doesn't this suggest that a lack of commonalities is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:47 PM
1

that explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:12 PM
2

You're not funny
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:56 PM
2

This compulsion to settle that you speak of is not something I understand. Maybe its because I'm still young. Perhaps when I'm older I'll feel the need to do better at everything all the time less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:55 PM
2

Technically the whole instinctual attraction process is not very productive. I think if attraction wasn't part of the mix and people picked partners based on what is good for them, this whole relationship thing would be a lot more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:49 PM
1

It’s not a hard and fast rule I follow, but I feel I do it subconsciously and most people do to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:41 PM
72

It sounds like the better question is why are you in a relationship with someone like this
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 06:57 PM
1

I'm not in a relationship, I'm just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:14 PM
4

You can OHP 100lbs but only bench 120? wut
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:02 PM
1

So as a man being "nagged" by a woman in a relationship, what is the best way to handle the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:01 PM
2

Most people don't understand themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:34 PM
12

No one owes you anything unless they agree to it
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:46 PM
4

That's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:15 PM
6

LMAO there's nooooo way this actually happens in real life. Her: babe can you rub over here? it feels better Him: no it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:59 PM
3

This is last on the list of worries for OP
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 07:35 PM
1

Not everyone wants sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:24 PM
1

A lot of guys are shit tier mates though. They play video games all day, are fat and jack off to porn regularly. In those cases, this advice won’t pan out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:23 PM
2

This is a blind spot the red pill doesn’t really have a solution for... ¿
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:47 PM
7

"be your best self" is bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:38 PM
9

Do you look for your golf equipment in your tool box and wonder why you can't find it there? Do you look for drinks at the gym and wonder why you can't find it there? ​ You're looking for your life's purpose in a sexual strategy-based philosophy and wondering why you can't find it. ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ You're looking in the wrong place.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:37 PM
16

You're looking for the purpose of life in a sexual strategy and wondering why you can't find it?
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:29 PM
1

fitted button downs w/ sleeves rolled up
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:23 PM
14

I think what people mean by "just be yourself" is really more towards the line of "be your best self"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:19 PM
2

I had a girl that used to do that to me. I used to turn the volume down and watch YouTube while she talked
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:43 AM
2

Just don’t pay attention to her when she starts rambling
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:31 AM
2

Honestly the beginning of my undergrad was a drug fuelled haze where I fucked anything that moved. The ramifications were that I lost the ability to bond with people. For years I’ve been working with a therapist and I’m now starting to regain that ability
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:51 PM
1

Why don’t you just put shoulders on your rest day
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:46 PM
2

Graduate in whatever you’re doing, work a few years and then try your hand at a professional post grad school.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:52 PM
14

Why go outside when you could get run over by a bus and die?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:38 PM
5

It’s just one of those things that seem easy theoretically until you actually experience going through it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:34 PM
1

Long story short I did something people find strange even though I don’t, and it was suggested to me by the police
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:20 PM
1

You can rely on people to do what makes them feel good
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:15 PM
1

As a person currently seeing a therapist, personally I can say it’s not that great. People make lack of empathy out to be this great thing only when they’re in a shitty mood and neglect the fact that many times, that same ability to feel is the reason behind their happiness. My mood is a lot more moderate than most people, and life is pretty bland. I always feel uncomfortable when someone is celebrating an accomplishment or mourning a loss. Sometimes I wish I could share in communal feelings, bu…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:14 PM
84

Most posters are people who are still new to TRP. Once people develop a strong enough understanding to think for themselves, they stop posting. So we’re constantly left with the shitters. I’m probably going to stop posting here too to be honest. When I ask for advice I can get one or two good pieces of advice from more seasoned TRPers but the rest of it is just inbox spam of regurgitated crap like “AWALT” “oneitis” “focus on your mission” “lift” “read the sidebar”
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:45 PM
9

She’s clearly interested in you, so set up a date like you normally would. Might be best to go somewhere rather than have her back at your place or hers because she might take it as you just want to fuck and resist
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:10 PM
6

Do you see her regularly?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:47 PM
1

I don’t imply that
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:08 PM
16

When I was younger I used to be very coercive and usually got what I wanted from people. Then somewhere along the line I got fed up putting on a face for everyone and I stopped. I lost my charm with the cessation of effort. Now I'm slowly getting it back.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:37 PM
-1

There's nothing magical about it. She just got back to university so naturally she's bombarded with all the shit she's procrastinated on over the break. If stress/work is really the reason she doesn't want to come see me then I can convince her to come anyway. If not, then I can't. Either way I got a girl doing nothing with her life who's dtf all the time. I have plans with her already but I'm down to flake if this other one changes her mind. Not much to work on there.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:33 PM
85

If I were you, I'd ignore the text and start treating her with behaviours that will build some comfort.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:11 PM
5

If he acted the way she wanted (non-TRP), she wouldn't be attracted; but if he acted the TRP way she will be interested but insecure.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:10 PM
1

I have other plans. I've had old plates tell me they can't come because they "have a lot of work", only for me to have them come over "to study with me" and end up fucking them anyway. So that's the objective.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:04 PM
11

Sure but you should really question why you're in a relationship with someone you're so distrustful of that you need her to take a a LIE DETECTOR TEST to believe her
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:52 PM
1

Getting her to come over Saturday
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:46 PM
1

Masturbated a few days ago and now the urge is back - you were right, nofap probably killed my libido
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:06 PM
10

As a guy who’s big on both partners finishing... a woman who refuses to help you get off after she has is a shitty partner. She obviously enjoys anal a lot more than you do if she came before you had a chance, so she’ll most likely want to do it again. That being said, I guarantee there are better sexual partners out there.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:21 PM
20

TRP stance: no one cares
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:18 PM
7

A lot of the hardwired female attraction that was helpful back in the more primitive times in terms of looking for the alpha is not as useful these days. In my opinion a red pilled woman is one who recognizes this and chooses to override her feelings with some sort of logic, rather than using tingles as the de facto decision making facility. The RPW sub is basically devoted to keeping their man around
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:17 PM
1

I appreciate the advice ty
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:42 PM
1

Can you give me an example of a line of thought that follows this mindframe?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:03 AM
1

If a girl doesn’t want half my wealth that’s fine by me m8
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:03 AM
2

I forgive you
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:06 PM
3

Sun will damage your skin regardless but if you don’t go outside I guess it doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:49 PM
3

Sun will damage your skin regardless but if you don’t go outside I guess it doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:49 PM
3

Sunscreen
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:28 PM
2

Some, yes. As for the relationship, not yet. I’ve come across women capable of providing the connection with me though.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:01 AM
1

Bad - usually why I ended things with them. I crave a strong mental connection and without that, once the novelty expires things get bland
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:36 AM
1

I’ve dated an average girl before. To be honest no matter how attractive they are, if you date them long enough they’ll become average in your eyes
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:28 AM
6

Not if you actually don’t want sex
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:27 AM
4

Attractiveness for men has to do largely with the way they act rather than how they look
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:06 AM
2

Tru
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:00 AM
2

Is it necessary for stamina? I honestly don’t feel like jacking off
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:54 PM
5

This is irrelevant
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:50 PM
1

The word “smart” is so vague. What do you mean by it? Book smart? Street smart? Wise? Intuitive?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:29 AM
2

Damn u must be thicc af
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:01 PM
1

You might be right for all I know - I’ve never done this before. Again I’m not actually redeeming the favours so she won’t have a chance to fuck with me in that manner, but I’ll look out for it. In general she should want to do things for me so I’ll get nothing out of forcing her hand that way
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:06 PM
1

I’m not planning on actually redeeming the favours; I wanted to plant the idea in her head that I’ve got a leash on her now. The whole “be boring and I won’t bother” bit was there to inspire the idea that she actually wants to be in my favour. Perhaps the compliment was a bit much, I don’t know. I usually say what I feel like at the moment and if I feel like complimenting her I don’t have an issue doing so. Compliments from me are rare in general anyway. I wonder if calling her smile crooked was…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:52 PM
2

She’s someone else’s problem now
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:43 PM
1

It sounds like negotiation on paper but that wasn't the vibe we had when playing. Kino was decent. When I met her I brushed some shit she had on her face off and tugged on her hand to take her places. I got my CFA exam results back when she was with me and when I learned I passed I picked her up and spun her around out of pure joy. We also went skating and she held my hand because I can't skate worth shit. When we played pool it was clear that the favour was absolutely anything the other person …
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:28 PM
1

Let me give you a quick run down of my last conversation: We played pool at a bar and made a bet that whoever lost owed the other 2 favours. I “won” the game because she sunk both the white and black ball but I let her think she won for a bit. Me: do you know what happens when you sink the cue ball with the black Her: I assume you lose? Me: I’ll collect my favours later Her: Nice try but I’m very sure I didn’t sink the white ball with the black one Me: Both favours (ignore) Her: oh I don’t think…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:42 PM
1

Yea I get that but I find a lot of enjoyment in having the right lines to toss back at them. Ignoring works but it’s not as fun
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:57 PM
1

Yea. Ignoring is what I default to if I can’t think of any but some girls low key call me out on it by saying something similar back to me again
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:55 PM
1

What if you're at yours? If I say something like "I think you should go", it's kind of awkward for them to be like "no I'm staying" isn't it?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:52 AM
1

Solid answer thank you
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:45 AM
1

Do you initiate the conversations? Or do you only reply to her initiations?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:17 AM
2

Thanks for not answering my question
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:07 AM
2

There are times where TRP attributes negative qualities towards women whilst completely missing that men also have these negative qualities. As for the 'fuck you over' bit, I don't know - why do women cheat? I wonder if the misogyny truly stunts their growth though. I think conceptualising women as these who don't know anything about anything helps men think they're better than them, which in turn makes them easier to be confident/dominant around women. Just a theory though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:46 PM
5

Honestly I'm dealing with the same shit. I'm in law school and soon will be making a fuck ton of money but I'll have no idea what to do with it. Its funny, I went for a coffee chat with a recruiter the other day; she asked me why I decided to get into corporate law and I bit my lip to prevent myself from saying "what the fuck else am I supposed to do".
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:43 PM
1

3rd one’s kinda cute. The rest are meh
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:35 PM
13

letting your girlfriend fuck other guys for a month is a good way to deal with the fear of losing her Best way to get over the fear of dying is to kill yourself ​ FuCkInG gEnIuS ​
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 09:02 PM
1

I mean TRPs community is basically completely construed of jaded men who have been screwed over in relationships. Also she could just fuck you over on the dl keeping you none the wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:31 PM
1

But the more slack you give them, the more room they have to screw you over no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:20 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:18 PM
1

Perhaps but there is less room for disobedience when there are direct consequences for misbehaving
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 02:30 PM
1

Man every time I post here I get 1 or 2 good replies and the rest is dumb shit like this
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:38 AM
6

I usually don’t respond unless they apologize, and if they say they’re sorry I just reply with “don’t be”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:35 AM
2

My dick
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:27 AM
240

Lmao this situation plays out hilariously in my head
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:26 AM
4

Bro
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:08 AM
2

Depends on what you mean by better. I’d say it’s definitely more effective/efficient
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 02:07 AM
3

Lol srs this is one of the most poorly rated beginner programs on the fitness sub
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:00 AM
2

Well you’d mould their behaviour to your liking through implicit push/pulling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:58 AM
2

I don’t know if this is right but you could argue that, through punishing bad behaviour and rewarding good behaviour, people can learn how to behave
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:35 AM
2

*i haven’t told many people that I give a fuck about
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:13 AM
1

Makes sense ty
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:30 PM
1

One of the ones in particular is a super introverted, tall, skinny chick with glasses who always wears jeans and usually some graphic men’s shirt she found at a thrift store (like Harry Potter or some shit). Basically the textbook nerdy girl. So I dunno if this applies
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:18 PM
34

This part of TRP that shits on women specifically when the same can be said for everyone else makes me cringe. Shit advice from a woman is shit advice. Shit advice from a man? Also shit advice. Listen to whoever you want but make your own damn decisions - woman or non-woman.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 10:00 PM
2

This is what happens when you let others make your decisions for you - woman or non-woman.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 09:55 PM
1

It depends on the dynamic of the couple. Some couples work interdependently as a team and benefit heavily from such candidly open communication. Other couples are more individualistic and tend to be more bf vs gf. In this dynamic, using soft power through push/pull etc. is more beneficial as open communication can be viewed as weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 06:40 PM
2

What’s the difference between visualization and mental masturbation
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 03:48 PM
-4

It’s called soft nexting
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:57 PM
8

she’s clearly interested since she’s eager enough to set up he second date
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:25 AM
1

Tru thank you for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:21 AM
1

As a sociopath, I don’t experience “love” in the colloquial sense. When I like someone, I just like having them around me all the time - kind of like a tiny kitten on your shoulder. It makes me happy, but it’s not romantic. All my previous relationships ends because I couldn’t reciprocate the way they felt to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 02:53 AM
2

Nothing. At the end of the day there’s not much you can do. He needs to come to the decision that he needs to change by himself. Just like you found TRP by yourself after recognizing something needs to change, so does he. I got a best mate fucking himself over in a similar manner so I feel you man. People are often disappointing.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:52 PM
8

Obviously?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:50 PM
1

She's just being playful (as far as I can tell). Transactional would be like "babe if you go pick up the groceries for me I'll give you a blowjob"
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:34 PM
6

I wouldn't read too much into the seductive bit. It's just part of the classic things men say to try and make women feel special - just like the rest of what OP has mentioned (ie. "I've never met a woman like you", "you're beautiful", etc.)
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 09:32 PM
5

OP: Men get abused Me: Women also get abused. Who cares? You: OmG yOu’Re A mAn AbUsEr
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:58 PM
1

Also use them when you’re in Compton
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:32 PM
1

FuCkInG gEnIuS
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:31 PM
1

The possessive feeling isn’t romance. I feel this way about my guy friends too.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:28 PM
1

LTRs aren’t my thing. I don’t do romance
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:22 PM
5

No I’m some guy who just wasted half a minute reading about some MRA man bitching about how there are people who lie on the internet
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:19 PM
4

Again I’m not apologizing for anything. Men get abused. Women get abused. People die. Children starve in Africa. The world’s a shit place. I’m over it. Are you?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:16 PM
1

Lol I caught my coworker sending snaps of me to her friend. Creeped me the fuck out
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:09 PM
4

Idgaf mentality will give you the best poker face, simply because you really don’t care
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:09 PM
2

You haven’t internalized TRP if you still trouble yourself with what others are doing
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:07 PM
2

400 ml whole milk 120g peanut butter 60g coconut oil 50g sunflower seeds 50g mixed seeds: a mix of chia/hemp/flax/pumpkin/walnuts 50g almonds 1 cup egg whites 2 scoops protein powder (~70g protein) 2 bananas Whole thing is about 3000cals which is enough for me to bulk on alone. I just carry it with me in a 2L jug and sip on it all day. I don’t care for food so it doesn’t matter to me what I eat. If I get hungry I’ll eat more though. I didn’t gain that much fat surprisingly. However I got my hand…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:37 PM
4

I’m not apologizing anything. Abuse happens on a regular basis - some severe, some not. Just like another high school shooting, what’s new?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 06:30 PM
2

Whole milk Peanut butter Coconut oil Mixed seeds Almonds Egg whites Protein powder Bananas
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:30 PM
5

If you have a lot of muscle mass then you’ll look cut on bf%s higher than average. That’s why a lot of athletes look like they’re at bf%s so low that it would hamper their athletic ability, even though they’re not
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:13 PM
13

Cuz she thirsty brah
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:10 PM
2

Not inherently, but it is frequently correlated with negative consequences in terms of behaviour
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:09 PM
16

It doesn’t really matter what your bf% is, just what it looks like. If you have a 6 pack and you think you’re at 13% but you’re actually at 15% and just have jacked as fuck and, who cares. Also I’d caution against going too low, your face can end up looking drained.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:07 PM
6

In my opinion, most men will eventually reach the stage in their life where they are confident and ready to lead. It’s just a matter of time before they find their footing in their lives. Reading TRP isn’t a prerequisite for this.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 03:59 PM
16

Honestly “shit testing” is just part of flirting. You tease them to see how they respond. If they take your teasing seriously then they’re probably not all that fun. Who’s more fun to hang around: the guy who can take being poked fun at on the chin and throw some pokes back at you, or the guy who takes it to heart and gets offended? TRP makes this whole courting process seem super serious but at the end of the day it’s all just fun and games.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 03:56 PM
15

Wtf are you talking about. First of all this is just one guy. So don’t go thinking “men generally get abused by their partners” from this one post. Secondly, women also get abused by their partners. Some women end up dying because of it. A few years ago there was a sorry of a woman who’s husband poured acid on her, and another where another girl was lit on fire. “Endurance to bear this kind of abuse” wtf? Thirdly, why they lied is besides the point. Regardless if it was out of fear or protection…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 03:49 PM
4

This
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:24 PM
33

Women lie to protect their abuser too, I don’t know what’s so special about this
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 03:11 PM
12

Tell them you identify as white
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:24 AM
1

I have more now than I ever did before, and the nasty feeling has compounded relatively. The reason I disregarded that abundance mentality was the reason was because I know that the solution is not to get more plates.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:23 AM
1

“Abandoning your logic for feelz” isn’t a rationale to justify instant gratification, it IS instant gratification - the very definition of it. I don’t think women are significantly more susceptible to instant gratification than men are, but even if they were it’s besides the point. Also consider that men and women succumb to the same instant gratification in many areas of life.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:18 AM
1

Perhaps, but not in the conventional way of thinking about it. So the solution isn’t clear. If abundance is obtained through more women, but more women exacerbates the problem, what do I do?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:15 AM
1

Instant gratification manifests itself in many different ways. It’s not just the “woman form” that’s retarded. One milkshake/cheat meal won’t do much, but if done repeatedly they will cause obesity such as the epidemic we see in the states. Men are equally susceptible to instant gratification and it’s harms.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:24 AM
1

I’ve learned game theory before. It depends on what you mean by viable. I’m sure people have come together and achieved a lot without screwing each other over before. Whether or not it’s a risk you’re willing to take is a different question
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:03 AM
1

You can teach yourself not to let your possessiveness show
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:20 AM
1

Yes thank you for telling me what I’ve read everywhere else on this sub
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:20 AM
1

You can teach yourself not to let it show
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:18 AM
-1

I’m fairly certain the possessiveness doesn’t stem from a lack of abundance
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:54 PM
1

Only text for logistics
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:33 PM
1

I’ve always been possessive over things, even since I was a kid. I don’t want them to not talk about other men because it’s nice be aware of what they’re doing. Open communication is half of the fun in my opinion. I don’t know how to tell if I’m seeking validation or not. Could you provide some hints?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:33 PM
1

I’d say once you adopt the realism paradigm it’s only a matter of time spent reflecting before you come to the more complex conclusions of AF/BB, etc.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:24 PM
1

You want to practice texting for logistics?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:22 PM
1

Realism is a perspective people just adopt. It’s the easiest to adopt because it requires little real understanding of the other parties. You just assume they are self-interested and then backwards rationalize their actions - “she’s just clearly using me to further her own goals so I can’t trust her - AWALT”. This doesn’t speak towards whether it is “correct” or not. In fact, it doesn’t really matter. All that matters is if it is useful for someone to approach situations this way. For example, i…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:06 PM
1

TRP is just realism made palatable. It’s inherently obvious to anyone who is reflective enough in my opinion
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:46 PM
3

For example, if you’re not very invested in a friend and he does well, you don’t care as much because your minimal investment. Conversely if he was your best friend, you’d be pretty happy for him. However if he fucks his life up, you won’t care as much either.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:40 PM
1

Always hedging your bets makes the wins unsatisfying because you know there was no real risk to begin with
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:26 PM
1

It is distancing though, and I find it leads to a lack of fulfillment in the long run
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:56 PM
3

Monogamy isn’t much of a sacrifice if you don’t care for sex much
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 09:54 PM
1

What? Those two things are mutually exclusive
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 09:38 PM
2

In my humble opinion, sex is great and all but it loses it’s lustre eventually
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 09:27 PM
3

I started out this week at 149 and now I just weighed in at 141.5. A good amount of that was probably water weight though. When I bulk I make a shake with 3000cals because it’s the only way I can ensure I get enough calories. If I leave my diet alone and only eat when I’m hungry, I drop pounds like it’s nothing. I’m a hard ectomorph.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:25 PM
8

Yes, but not everyone looks at human interactions as two self-interested parties coming to a compromise. To some, relationships are two parties with the same interests working together to achieve a common goal. In this perspective, always having one foot out the door can be have a negative impact.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:11 PM
2

I already do. I search for jobs after I receive offers, I have multiple friend groups, etc. I never put my eggs in one basket. It has its downsides though. I don’t have a best friend. If I ever got married, I’d have a hard time finding a best man. Sometimes I see people together in relationships and friendships and they look so happy and it makes me wonder.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:09 PM
1

Try what out?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:47 PM
1

I’m 23
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:21 AM
1

What gave you this impression of them?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:15 PM
2

I'm looking for someone to respond the posed question "why is she interested now", rather than be like "omg u broke a glass u fukin beta wtf man not cool"
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:11 PM
1

This comment made me open my phone for no reason.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:24 PM
2

I’m not fucking a woman. Plot twist ​
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:19 PM
0

This should go in RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:16 PM
1

I was listening to Ben Shapiro talk about this. He said originally it was men that started sleeping around and misbehaving, and then in response to this, women started misbehaving by doing the same thing. Cue the downfall of society. So I guess you can argue we're both in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 09:15 PM
3

IMO its similar to the obesity epidemic, where people make short term decisions based on whether they feel good and long-term consequences be damned. Apparently its better for men in general though, since most men are happy fucking randoms with no strings attached. Unfortunately I'm not one of those that can reap the benefits, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 09:12 PM
2

FINALLY AN ANSWER. Ty. I was starting to wonder where all the good quality TRPers went. ​ I have a couple friends that have no inhibitors and just do whatever they want all the time - ie. if you get them angry then prepare to get beaten up. They have a constant supply of women. It doesn't seem like these women consider them relationship material though (not that they care).
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:08 PM
1

I didn't really describe myself in my OP but I guess most people read that and took what I said to mean that I'm super boring now that I'm not crazy impulsive lol. My future's pretty panned out with law school on the horizon, etc. Naturally I take care of myself etc. I'm pretty athletic though my days of competing are numbered as adulting is steadily eating into my training time. I've got various hobbies such as whiskies, cigars, fragrances, audiophillia, fashion, etc that I like to indulge in. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 09:04 PM
3

I agree its easier to turn a casual sex partner into a lover, but its harder for me to love a casual sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 08:58 PM
1

but this doesn't explain why they were attracted to me when I was the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 08:17 PM
12

I might be an anomaly in this regard but casual sex sucks in my opinion. The way dating has always gone for me is I'd become good friends with someone, then get closer, and then we'd transition into dating. It seemed very organic to me. Now I've learned that this is not the most effective way to go for guys, at least according to TRP. The best way is to be upfront with your attraction and get into their pants asap. So sure, I switch up my mentality and have at it - and it works. I bed a few girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 08:15 PM
2

lemme know if it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:54 PM
1

What edit should I make?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:49 PM
1

That's kind of fucked though. In my opinion, any rational girl would nope the fuck away from a guy that breaks stuff when he gets mad. I don't break stuff when I get mad, btw. This is the first time I've done this.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:47 PM
1

I'm out of town, so no - but she keeps trying to set up dates/hang-outs/whatever with me even months in advance. She's offered to drive over here and stay over at my place and when I told her I only have one bed she responded with "is it big enough for the both of us?".
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:28 PM
0

I'm not interested in maintaining my reputation. For your reference, my question is at the bottom of my OP. I get enough free life advice from random people, but thanks for your concern.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:25 PM
-3

This has absolutely nothing to do with my question
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:16 PM
0

That I understand, but its been almost a week now and she's still regularly hitting me up asking me to hang out. If my friend was going through a hard time I would definitely message him every couple of days to ask him if he was ok, but I wouldn't constantly be like "wanna go to the movies on xxx" "lets study together out on xxx" "when are you back in xxx city?"
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:14 PM
22

Because they're easy to attract. BPDs crave attention. They're like Kumar from some duct cleaning service calling to ask you if you'd like their services. Pretty much everyone can get them.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:03 PM
-2

This doesn't matter. ​ I threw it out of anger. It was more of a reaction than purposeful.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:58 PM
0

Yeah the crime of breaking a drinking glass could've landed me on death row. What was I thinking.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:04 PM
1

You're conflating investment in one specific woman with investment in women in general. We don't condone 'chasing' one woman, so to speak. We encourage men to chase as many woman as possible. You diversify your 'investment' so you minimise your non-systematic risk - if one woman attempts to fuck with you, you don't care because you have other women to take her place.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:58 PM
3

Its called flirting man. This isn't something you should be anxious about. Flirting is supposed to be fun. Just roll with the punches and throw some light jabs back.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:30 PM
3

Hair grows back
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:32 PM
1

Nothing, I use a fleshlight. These days I can’t be bothered though and only jack off if I’m super horny which is probably once every couple of weeks
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 03:32 PM
3

Questions like this mirror the same mentality that a lot of people have on asktrp - the lack of recognition that not everyone uses their feelings as their main decision making factor. Just because my neighbour’s an asshole and I want to kill him doesn’t mean I’m going to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 01:15 AM
2

The red pill isn’t a “true or false” question. It’s a tool used to get something. This is like asking if a screwdriver is “true” Unless you mean to ask if TRP works or not. In which case, yes it does
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:11 AM
2

This is a question I’ve been wondering for a while now. I don’t really feel sexually attracted to people so the “get bitches” bit doesn’t really do it for me. In general I think the society is pretty shit and it’s only getting worse so I don’t think the “make the world a better place” bit works for me either. In law school I’m studying corporate law and when I graduate, most of my work will revolve around defending insider traders. Figuring out how to make otherwise illegal things legal is fun, …
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:05 PM
10

Your ex is your ex for a reason. You block them not because you’re low key trying to get them back, you block them because you are done.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:35 PM
1

The phrase AWALT exemplifies TRP’s tendency to hyperbolize. Naturally phrases that go along the lines of “all this are that” tend to be refutable unless they’re at least in part tautological. Although I’m sure there are some that believe that literally all women are like this, I’d like to think that most recognize this as hyperbole. Many phrases tend to be hyperbolized for simplicity’s sake, ie. “First time for everything”, “every rule has an exception”, “cats always land on their feet”, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:28 PM
-1

Sorry, RPW accepts what as true? TRP attempts to equip men to win over average/most women, and this type of woman is framed as hypergamous/branch-swinging. Whether or not the description is accurate is disputable, but this rebuttal: “most women aren’t like this because I’m not like this”, is not a strong one.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:12 PM
2

You also have to recognize that you guys are divergent from the norm. Most girls (or people in general) use emotions as their core decision making factor, and this is what TRP teaches men to use to their advantage. However you guys consciously use logic instead. Also, they type of women TRP teaches men to win over are typically unsuitable for LTRs (as are most young women).
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:00 PM
1

People are disappointing
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:52 PM
6

The world’s a shit place man suck it up
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 12:34 PM
2

The purpose of TRP isn’t to tell men to spin plates. It’s to show men who want to spin plates how to do so. It’s not for everyone. Oneitis isn’t inherently bad and abundance mentality doesn’t require multiple women.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:49 PM
1

Why do your feelings require reciprocation
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:15 PM
5

It’s not dumb advice. OP asks “why I do need more bitches”. He doesn’t. No one needs them, we only want them.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:14 PM
1

You should only give gifts to people who deserve it. It’s a token of your gratitude. Whether they want it or not is another story. It doesn’t have to be big
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:13 PM
1

There’s nothing wrong with developing feelings
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:03 PM
6

If you’re serious about lifting you should be doing your own research. There is a ton of information and cookie-cutter work out plans on the fitness subreddit
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:55 PM
1

Sounds fine gl
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:34 PM
1

Just because you’re a good guy doesn’t mean anyone else is/should be
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:33 PM
2

Tell her you want to change your mind but she needs to give you a reason, over drinks or something.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:24 PM
1

Do you want to fuck her? Because that’s not how you fuck her
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:18 PM
10

Everyone does this. Men too. We’re the first to cry AWALT whenever some hot chick ghosts us but if some fat ass HB1 chick tried to hit us up we’d ghost them no problem
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:16 PM
1

I usually wait for the chocolate sales and stock up so I can give them out later and win some favours
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:15 PM
1

Try girls in professional programs such as law/business/medicine. Good luck though, they’re the hardest lays in my opinion
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:13 PM
0

Fuck with her feelings. Tell her you still like her and give her hope and watch her desperately try to win you back with some wild sex
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:09 PM
5

Joke around, poke fun at them, make them laugh. People usually mirror behaviour so if they’re formal to you it’s probably because they think you’re a formal person
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:06 PM
3

The actual training regimen makes very little impact. Soreness (DOMS) is not an indicator of a good quality workout. As long as you’re consistently lifting heavier weights/more reps, you’re making progress so don’t worry about it. Just eat to fit your goals and don’t let up.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:03 PM
1

Give her a gift because you want to give her a gift. Who gives a fuck what she does/doesn’t want
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:00 PM
10

Do whatever you want because you want to, not because you’re worried some girl is going to lose interest in you.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:58 PM
10

When you do it right, she’ll be worried about losing your interest. Not the other way around
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:55 PM
8

Do whatever the fuck you want
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:54 PM
30

Sunscreen!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 12:51 AM
3

Google: anecdotal evidence
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:36 PM
2

We actually don't care
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:51 PM
2

Also try different variants like sumo or hex bar
/r/askTRP13/02/19 06:06 PM
2

Idk if I can post this here, but I found listening to this speech by philosopher Alan Watts helped me a lot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxBmQpZ1lys
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 06:05 PM
3

Also the change is slow so if you look at yourself in the mirror every day it will be tough to notice the change, but someone who hasn’t seen you in a while will notice. It’s like growing taller as a kid
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:53 PM
1

To me, talking to girls is something fun I do as a hobby. It’s not some personal development thing I do such as lifting. It’s more like going to the movies. So if I’m not in the mood, I won’t bother.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:51 PM
18

I’d say it’s the same issue I face as a guy. My best friend throws himself head first at women and then wonders why he’s single. In my opinion, the people need to get to the point where they recognize they need to change because what they’re not doing isn’t working. That’s when their eyes will open. Anything you or I tell them won’t change much because they don’t recognize the need to change. Development is very much something an individual must do themselves (in my opinion).
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 05:49 PM
9

Why does anyone do anything ever? Because it makes them feel good.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:40 PM
3

Lifting is probably the easiest pieces of advice to follow. I used to have my gaming set up on an old pool table in my basement. I've since taken it down, dusted off the table and started learning how to play pool instead of Overwatch.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:19 PM
1

As you said, TRP is amoral. There is nothing that is taught simply because it is 'good'. Sociopathic traits are effective in today's society, which is why it is discussed so much. Ethics/morals are individualistic. Just like I wouldn't require you to follow my moral guidelines (ie. veganism), TRP doesn't push an arbitrary set of morals on men.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:18 PM
2

Fuck lemme go cite it in my case brief
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:20 PM
2

I convinced my coworker that the Beaverton was real and she used it in one of her case briefs. I convinced another girl that the cheaper eggs at the grocery store were synthetically made in a factory
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:10 PM
3

Don’t mate guard
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:52 PM
1

Listen to that song from Frozen on repeat
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:38 PM
1

I rate how happy my dick is on a scale of 1-10
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:36 PM
1

Lots of men fail to recognize that women perceive confidence in men in relation to how they react to situations, rather than the situations themselves. Funny you mention badminton, I competed at university badminton nationals last year and in the final tie I was matched against some guy who was way out of my league. He was what we call a “fresh import” because here in Canada we’re all trash at badminton compared to the rest of the world, so when some exchange student from China comes over here a…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:26 PM
2

Clean up. Usually when I’m depressed, my room isn’t made - but when I tidy it I feel better. If not, I clean/organize something else
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:21 PM
14

I think in total, the value of righteousness has gone down (as part of the decline of society). It’s disadvantageous to constrain yourself to a set of rules that no one else follows - especially ones as dumb (in my opinion) as morals. I work in the finance industry and I see this every day.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:19 PM
30

I’m not condoning this, but I had 2 stunning LTRs that I used to manipulate emotionally and they literally ate shit out of my hand. So it works. (I have a therapist now)
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:17 PM
2

You need to understand the difference between allowing someone to lead and being led against your will. Submission is healthy as long as it is voluntary.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 06:50 PM
4

Don't forget to reflect on what you've learned and use it to fine tune your vetting in the future (ie. early symptoms that indicate negative qualities)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 06:48 PM
-1

I’ve already dealt with the situation (re: OP) but thanks. She comes up to me and follows me around so I don’t know how I’d ghost her.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:34 PM
2

Don't mate-guard
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:41 PM
6

Red pill rage refers to the initial anger someone feels after discovering/internalizing TRP, so I'm referring to the newbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:34 PM
6

Most of everyone thinks they're above average (optimism bias). Guys that find TRP usually come shortly after being scorned in a previous relationship. The last thing these guys have is an over-confidence issue. Sure improvement takes time but again, that's nothing to be mad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:28 PM
2

I don't think this is a source of rage for most guys. Most guys don't think they're that great; and even if they did and have come to this realization, its pretty easy to improve. By contrast, there's nothing you can do about other people - hence the rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:22 PM
73

Shit diet. Shit sleep. No lifting.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:17 PM
-1

Can't be low ROI if there's no investment on my end
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:15 PM
1

I don't, I've already dealt with this (re: my OP). I just want to know how others have handled this before
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:14 PM
-2

Probably, but its not going to work
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:13 PM
0

Fucking doesn't interest me much but this is off-topic
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:07 PM
1

Yup. She's like a pet.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:06 PM
31

Red pill rage comes from realizing people aren't as good as you thought they were. Most people are nothing but dumbass slaves to their emotions. Once you stop placing such high expectations on them and start treating them as they should be, you`ll have nothing to be mad about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:04 PM
1

I don't 'flirt' on purpose
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:59 PM
-2

I don't orbit her, she just tags along whenever I'm free.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:59 PM
-1

Nothing. I just asked a question to see how other people handled this situation
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:57 PM
7

If her approach to sex with you is "why should I do something that only benefits you and not me", then you're not very good at sex.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:56 PM
-1

She tells me to stop flirting but continues to hang out with me. Idc man she can next herself if she wants. No one's forcing her to follow me around
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:55 PM
2

I'm not that in to her
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:53 PM
-4

seems unnecessary
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:35 PM
50

This sucks because YOU can’t provide for HER anymore? She wasn’t doing you any favours man. You have nothing to feel bad about.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:02 PM
1

This is a bit tautological considering power is a lack of necessity
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:55 PM
1

Google “anecdotal evidence”
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:53 PM
29

It seems like she’s defensive. He admitted that he felt like she was calling him stupid, and she seemed to take that as being accusatory and snapped back. Sounds like she needs to remind herself that her and her husband are on the same team.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 02:48 PM
2

She’s mad at you because she isn’t your type? Wtf
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:44 PM
89

I don’t understand these ‘AWALT’ posts going along the lines of “waaah she left me”. You: future engineering graduate from the best school in Asia, able to provide for extravagant trips for yourself and your SO across the country. Her: some bitch And you think you got the short end of the stick?? Stfu.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:37 PM
2

She’s just young and dumb. It depends on the pool you pull from in my experience. In my law school, most women are about serious relationships. Very few sleep around and good luck fucking on the first/second date. Funny enough, this is so much so that the majority of guys have forgone law school women in favour of the undergrads because they know the undergrads are so much easier.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:11 AM
16

Sometimes breaking up is a dumb decision on behalf of the person doing the breaking up, just like in this case. Not all women are relationship minded in these young years - most of them haven’t matured to that period yet. On the other hand, you seem much more mature than average for your age. So don’t worry about it. You didn’t do anything wrong. Keep doing what you’re doing. Chances are you would have come across some other abrasion as a result of your differences in maturity levels. I guarante…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:59 AM
7

I’d only LTR a woman I could see myself spending the rest of my life with. Otherwise what’s the point
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:53 AM
3

Don’t suppress your bad personality, change it
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:51 AM
1

That’s extreme but sure
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:22 PM
2

I can do it because I just put a shit ton of coconut oil and peanut butter in my daily shake so I know I’m hitting my calories, but I hear it’s so easy to eat at a deficit on keto so I don’t know how well it would work for a bulk
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:14 PM
3

TRP teaches men to spin plates to keep their options open, but if the man thinks for himself he will be smart enough to know when he’s got a good one and it’s time to commit. However many TRPers take a hardcore approach to the doctrine and follow word for word without question. Those are the ones you have to watch out for
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 08:44 PM
13

No definitive answer = no
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:38 PM
3

It depends on the girl. TRP teaches men to slay women who are slaves to their emotions. If a woman knows what’s up she’ll value a guy who’s attached to her (in moderation).
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:38 PM
2

I'm a hard ecto so I make a 3000cal shake in the morning and drink that all day so I'm sure I'm getting enough cals in every day.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:35 PM
1

why peanut butter?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:34 PM
72

don't walk, run.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:30 PM
1

Do you bulk on keto? I started my bulk on keto but then switched to high carb because I figured that if my body gets used to super high amounts of fat then when I cut out carbs for cutting and raise fats, I'll still feel hungry
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:17 PM
27

its not
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:14 PM
1

For the first few times it will hurt but they build a resilience for it in my experience
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:08 PM
14

How about women are responsible for fucking themselves over
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:07 PM
1

Commenting for later
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 03:05 PM
3

She’s obviously not that in to you if she can’t decide between you and some other guy
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:04 PM
2

Aside from the ridiculous notion of him controlling you in this manner, 'do not mate-guard' is a staple rule of TRP so it doesn't excuse him telling you not to wear make up.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 11:32 PM
1

Just own your shit man. Being 'alpha' doesn'r require you being in the mood 24/7. In fact, it says something about your abundance to women when you refuse them sex. Just like you have to satisfy their needs to keep them coming back, they need to satisfy your needs. Don't be afraid to tell them "nah, you just aren't doing it for me" and watch their hamster spin as they wonder if they're not good/attractive enough for you - and try even harder next time.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:07 PM
3

Started with SL5X5, but recognized that my squat started becoming disproportionate to my dl. So I moved around the parts and ended up doing some PPL split with shoulders on leg day. Each day starts out with a compound movement, and then accessories based on what needs work. 5x5 for bench/ohp and 3x5 for dl/squat since my cardio uses legs and I'm prone to overtraining.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:53 PM
2

It's more important to take into account why their past was the way it was, and whether it is still an issue (if it even was one in the first place).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:50 PM
2

It’s not that you get less protein to work with. Whatever you eat, your body will absorb almost all of it. However what your body decides to do with the food you’ve given it depends on multiple factors. So it’s not that your body absorbs x amount of protein and then shits out the rest. The processes in your body have maximal rates due to bottlenecking factors. Take protein synthesis for example. Your body can only utilize so much protein for synthesis at a time (depending on the profile of the p…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:41 PM
1

There is a hgh spike but there’s also less protein to work with so overall the effect is minimal. The spike is significant but not in accordance with the overall picture of what’s going on in your body. Also your body will adapt eventually and the hgh spikes will stop.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:29 PM
1

Your body will absorb almost all of the protein you give it. However only so much of it can be used for protein synthesis. The rest of it will be used for other things. How much will be used for synthesis depends on the type of protein.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:27 PM
1

It’s not absorption, it’s synthesis. You’ll absorb almost all of the protein you eat but if you eat too much, only some of it will go toward protein synthesis and the rest will be used for other things
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:25 PM
1

TRP recommends SL because it’s simple, but it’s not the most effective
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:21 PM
1

Pretty sure there’s a rule against concern trolling in this sub
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:47 AM
1

It’s something I need to work on too. It’s how I deal with pressure though - I buckle down and make whatever it is I’m doing my entire life
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:00 PM
0

I notice one or two here or there but it’ uncommon. ~once a month, maybe less
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:59 PM
1

It really doesn’t matter as long as you handle it in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. As long as you’re happy with the way you handled it, it will reflect in your behaviour and they will respect you for it
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:27 PM
1

People just put too much emphasis on the outcome. It really doesn’t matter. Just go up to them and strike up something or the other. They don’t wanna talk? Who cares. They don’t want to give you their number? Who cares. It’s not that jaunting when you get used to it. Also it’s not something forced. If you don’t get good vibes off someone or feel it would be awkward to ask them for their number, then don’t. Who cares. The conversation should be fun for what it is, and if you’re both having fun th…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:25 PM
1

I use a shiny pomade, but the styling product you use depends on the style you want and what you’re going to be doing for the day
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:21 PM
2

Don’t shop at Walmart man. Try Zara/the Bay. Bonus points if you can get an idea of what size you are for a specific brand - this will save you a lot of time and help you when shopping online. Wait for sales, but if you can’t it’s best to buy one or two good quality shirts that fit you really well and that you feel good in, rather than a pack of 10 shitty t-shirts from a department store
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:19 PM
8

Frame is a reflection of you. You have a solid frame when you are your best self. It is natural to not always have a solid frame just as it is natural for you to not always be at your best. What matters most is how you deal with the hand you’re dealt. When you’re down, do you dust yourself off, puff out you chest and give it your best? Or do you let it get to you and spend the next few days moping around
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:17 PM
1

Literally
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:13 PM
3

I think it has to do with the change of ‘neediness’ (for lack of a better term) rather than the absolute amount. Men generally don’t care for attention, but when they get sick, they want a much more attention than they normally do. However, women generally like attention and when they get sick they don’t really want much more attention than they already get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:12 PM
1

It’s not a flaw in and if itself, but it becomes detrimental when it starts to make you miss out on life. I feel like I miss out on a lot because I’m never ‘in the moment’. I never take time to celebrate accomplishments, enjoy moments, etc. I’m not sure how I’d listen to music when approaching. I wouldn’t approach someone with earphones in - that’s rude. Also, it’s not necessarily hyperfocus when I approach, it’s just that when I go somewhere with the goal of picking up women, the interactions s…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:09 PM
1

Guyanese girls? Yikes
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:32 PM
5

Aww
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:22 PM
3

good advice is good advice irrespective of who offers it
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:12 PM
3

whocares
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:09 PM
4

As a man I use a few drops of foundation when I go out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:08 PM
1

Drink a glass of water in between every drink
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:48 PM
1

Also, it’s fun
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:48 PM
3

beat your chest to pontificate.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:30 PM
8

I don't think the flirting is as bad as the fact that he lied about it. Lying has no place in a healthy relationship. Also, I know flirting is a personal thing but if telling someone you think they're pretty isn't flirting, I don't know what is. ​ someone had "hacked" his account lol classic. ​
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 10:26 PM
3

How do you cut down her ego?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 10:07 PM
1

Confidence is based on your perception of how other people look at you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:05 PM
6

You can't really practice deadlift with the empty bar because you need plates on it to get to the right height for you to pull it off the ground
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:02 PM
1

And spaghetti bolognese is designed to be tasty. I've just known too many people who try spaghetti bolognese and love it later on in their life to take anyone who says they hate spaghetti bolognese seriously. Trying many different people's spaghetti bolognese don't mean shit if they are cooking the same recipe if one or neither doesn't understand how to cook, technique, the importance of spice and seasoning. Overcooking pasta or using too much spice effects how tasty it is. blahblahblah There`s …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:47 PM
1

and spaghetti bolognese is designed to be tasty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:33 PM
1

By that logic, everyone loves spaghetti bolognese, they just haven't tried the right recipe. I guess it depends on what you mean by narrow, but I wouldn't say I generally have had a small amount of partners. I've done a lot of experimenting with variety (men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:24 PM
2

Its a superficial explanation but sure
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:14 PM
3

I love this line of reasoning. “You like sex, you just haven’t had good sex” “You’re a murderer, you just haven’t found the right victim”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:13 PM
10

I’ve been in a relationship where I’ve made remarks about my exes like this to my then gf, and if I’m being honest it was because I felt like I missed what I had with them
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 12:00 AM
13

>poses a moral question to an amoral community
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:50 PM
3

sounds like a crazy ass bitch gtfo
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:48 PM
14

if she dies, she dies. +1 ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:38 PM
1

Ask in the RPW subreddit. ​ Also I'd say the majority of guys aren't red pilled so idk what you planned to accomplish by showing her this.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:37 PM
2

Start lifting bro
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:35 PM
13

thank u, next
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:59 PM
4

Yeah this one was pretty big for me. I recognized that attraction really isn't as important as the underlying friendship behind the relationship. Because once attraction dies (it comes and goes as all feelings do), if you don't like the person you're left with you're in for a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:48 PM
10

Growing up I used to think sex was going to be the best thing ever, but after I had it a couple times I couldn't help but think it was underwhelming. I've also found the dichotomy between what people say they want, and what they really want (as dictated by their actions) to be jarringly stark.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:45 PM
1

Sounds peaceful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:36 PM
1

Women have RPW which encourage them to find relationships rather than sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:35 PM
1

if she's already fucking around, WNAB isn't going to dread her
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:50 PM
3

I don't care, but the girl I'm with usually does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:48 PM
1

lmao my man
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:39 PM
1

Don't go, its a trap
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:23 PM
1

Why are you in an LTR with a chick who does dumbass shit like this
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:18 PM
6

TFW you think being called kind is an insult. Bitch I'm a big bad alpha man, whatchu mean???
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:17 PM
2

I think you’ll find that a lot of the women on here allow their husbands to lead, rather than being bossed around. There's a huge difference.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 05:57 PM
8

You don’t benefit from keeping semen in your balls. In fact if you do it long enough your body will expel it itself
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 02:55 PM
2

There’s so many factors that go into it. What kind of counsel are you? How many hours are you employed for? What company is it? How long have you been in your field?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:40 AM
2

Ab training shouldn't be neglected if you want a defined six pack when you cut down. It isn't necessary, but it helps. Also its one of the only body parts you can train daily.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:35 AM
2

People focus on the outcome of a situation way too much, and lose sight of the process as a result. When you go into a boxing match, you go in with a plan and the desire to do what you came to do. When you're in the ring, you're not worrying about whether you will win or lose - you're focused on executing your strategy. Then when the match is over, you recognize that winning or losing doesn't really matter as much as whether or not you did what you should have, and what you can improve on. At th…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:32 AM
2

In this day and age, its too risky to truly 'love' a woman how women want to be loved, because women can't be trusted to reciprocate that love (and vice versa). That's the real issue imo. ​ Perhaps porn influences the madonna/whore complex but I don't see the complex as very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:26 AM
1

Depends on what you're counsel for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:20 AM
3

spitroast
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:18 AM
10

spitroast that bitch
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:07 AM
11

It depends on the situation. This seems less like a shit test and more like her being a bitch. I wouldn't ask her to stop, just withdraw attention when she starts doing this. ​ But like I said, it depends on the context.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:49 PM
3

Then you're not eating enough, naturally. You do realize that whey protein is one of the lowest calorie forms of protein out there? You shouldn't need whey if you're bulking. ​ Figure out what your TDEE is, then add 500 to it and make a shake that is around that amount of calories. If you're not gaining weight, its because you're not eating enough - check in every 2-3 months and then adjust your shake ingredients/amounts accordingly. You shouldn't have waited an entire year to be like "well shit…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:46 PM
17

I gotta say that's pretty fuckin weird.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:43 PM
3

Use Diaro, the app reminds you to write everyday which makes all the difference IMO
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:33 PM
1

You gotta change the way you see people. Girls that act this way are inferior to you and you should treat them as such. ​ Thinking "WHO THE FUCK DO THESE LIL SHITS THINK THEY ARE" and then going up to them to give them a piece of your mind puts them on an even playing field with you. Try thinking: "Hah this lil shit thinks she can jump the line in front of me? That's pretty funny" and then go up to them and condescendingly put them in their place (ie. put your hand on their shoulder and say "sor…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:32 PM
3

That makes absolutely no sense. extremely large amounts of calories What is extremely large to you? 2000? 3000? You're tiny so your TDEE must be small (meaning you don't need to eat much to gain weight compared to the average man). so I supplement Calories are calories. Supplements aren't some magical non-caloric substance that make you grow. The whey you take? It has calories. You're literally saying "I can't eat lots of calories, so I supplement with calories". ​ If eating is your bottleneck, …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:25 PM
11

I have a pretty small body due to genetics and attempted to bulk up but gained no mass due to genetics If you're not gaining, it means you're not eating enough. You're not special. ​ Whey Protein and Creatine at the same time Holy shit protein AND creatine AT THE SAME TIME??? /s
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:56 PM
11

Why is self-improvement boring for you
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:52 PM
2

go to the fitness subreddit
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:44 PM
7

She's making him feel inadequate because she looks at you and thinks that he's inadequate.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:43 PM
3

You also have to consider the growth of the individual. Say she dated various investment bankers over the years, and then after the last one she came to the realization that her boyfriend having free time time spend with her is a quality she cannot compromise on. So then she finds you, who sits on an in-house counsel for a company 7-hrs a week and gets paid full-time for it. You definitely have more free time than investment-banker-man. And you are no longer interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:41 PM
-3

Let’s sick ‘em bois.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 07:23 PM
2

It’s more important to consider the specific traits you find attractive, and whether these traits are beneficial to you in a partner for the long run. You’re attracted to him because he’s a risk taker - but is he a compulsive gambler? You’re attracted to him because he’s mysterious - but does he just have deeply rooted psychological issues that cause him to shell himself off from the rest of the world? The same way that, for guys, there are smoking hot blonde chicks that go nuts at the club and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:17 PM
9

What do you mean? Feelings change. I could not give less of a fuck about the girl I liked in grade 9, even though I did all that lovey-dovey woo shit to her. Are you telling me that the next girl I want should feel insecure and “not special” because of some girl I had a crush on in grade 9? Stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:54 PM
6

What does a school shooter even look like
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:17 PM
1

It's possible, but none of us can know for sure. If she's actually attracted to you, she won't put you in the friendzone. ​ It also has to do with how you act, more than what you do. If you're constantly teasing/flirting/etc. that will be different than just treating her like a bro.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:17 PM
5

yikes ​
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:14 PM
1

Go for ice skating or something, and then invite her back for hot chocolate at your place
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:48 PM
1

What are some of these gender-specialised responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:50 PM
12

Wow you seriously came here just to post "you sound like a bitch"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:48 PM
0

depends on the kind of porn tbh, if we're being thorough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:47 PM
0

IMO maturity requires the desire/will to bear responsibility in the world. Someone who wants to play COD 24/7 hasn't matured yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:42 PM
2

You could also just say "I don't want to talk about it"
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:37 PM
1

I will not indulge your weird fetish and most of them are really uncomfortable. To each their own - some women are really in to that stuff. don't ask me What's wrong with asking? ​ They don't want to get married, they don't want kids or a family, they want a perma-gf who cleans and gives sex daily until he dies and asks nothing of him while he's working on the hobby-truck in the garage or playing videogames. Guys who want this are really just grown babies. ​ [Men are] an unpredictable high-risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:28 PM
1

Saks Off Fifth, Nordstrom Rack, the Bay. Wait for sales.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:08 PM
2

Ya
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:07 PM
15

You can literally say whatever. Especially with women, it’s less about what you say and more about how you say it. I usually just say whatever comes to my head first about them. For example, the last girl’s number I got, I basically went up to her and told her she smelled good.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:05 PM
1

How are you not endorsed yet
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:40 PM
2

To provide for my family
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:58 PM
1

Alpha isn’t an act, it’s who you are
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:55 PM
4

People are good pets but are otherwise disappointing
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:50 PM
1

Yes but this only works if you masturbated regularly before going into abstinence. Furthermore its a temporary boost that adds up to little in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:35 PM
4

It triggers me when people mention testosterone levels. There is literally nothing you can do to ‘increase testosterone’ in your body permanently. Yes, masturbation cessation can cause a temporary spike in test but only if you masturbated regularly before that - and even then the spike is relatively negligible. Your body is homeostatic which means it will adapt to anything you throw at it. Try to build muscle? It will fight you on it. Try to increase HGH? It will fight you on it. Test? Same stor…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 12:49 PM
1

Are you serious man? Move your mouse to the right and click on something
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:56 PM
2

IDK man, it could be one of many reasons. If its the first time you guys hooked up, then she could genuinely just not feel comfortable. You're in high school, so some girls your age are just starting to get sexually active. A seasoned CC rider would hop on your dick no problem, but if she's fairly inexperienced, she'll have to feel comfortable with you first.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:46 PM
1

Could you share/PM me the link? I wanna try this
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:44 PM
1

She seems super interested from what you've said - esp. if she actually sets up a date like she said she would. Perhaps she's just not as comfortable around you yet but from the looks of it she'll give in eventually
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:43 PM
1

It doesn't work.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:41 PM
2

Sounds fine to me.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:40 PM
77

A long time ago I mentioned here that jacking off is fine as long as you don't use porn and I got bashed by people who said I just wanted to justify my jerking habits. ​ Its porn that's bad for you. Nothing else matters. ​ After nofap, I started jerking off once a day in the shower and I noticed no difference.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 11:38 PM
2

I don't think its specific to status. I think its more like "I want someone better than me", which is pretty natural imo. We always want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:35 PM
12

It depends on what you’re running on. The harder the surface, the harder the impact is that is absorbed by your joints. So if you’re running outside on grass, that’s not as bad as running on concrete (which is what I assume most people do when they ‘go for a jog’). Running barefoot on sand for example, is really easy on your joints and is a good way to work muscles you don’t normally use. Running up hills takes pressure off your joints and puts it on your muscles. The only reason I can think of …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 11:04 PM
2

high off her lips obv
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:39 PM
1

This is the first time I've seen this advice on this sub. Good job
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:39 PM
132

Long distance running outdoors is one of the shittiest forms of cardio for your joints
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 10:36 PM
18

Use your right eye to stare at their left eye and left eye to stare at their right eye.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:26 PM
2

I'm a hard ecto and never get hungry so when I bulk I make this big ass shake so I can get my calories in: Milk Eggs Almonds Mixed seeds/nuts Peanut butter Coconut oil Protein powder Bananas Oats ​ Clocks in about 3000cals. Its super easy to make in the morning (like 10 mins) and I walk around with it in a 2L jug all day. ​ When I cut I can go a whole day after eating one McDouble lol.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:21 PM
5

sounds like solid vetting on your part!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:57 PM
7

TL/DR: I ignore my insecure thoughts. ​ FuCkInG gEnIuS
/r/askTRP05/02/19 07:55 PM
2

I think every relationship naturally falls into some sort of hierarchy, and this idea of 'equal partners' is just a theoretical ideal. It's the iron law of oligarchy ​ Then it becomes a question of who leads/is led, and I think the majority of people would prefer to be led because its easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:45 PM
6

I mean if you're asking TRP then obviously this is the answer they will give you. Of course no one can know for sure the reason why each specific woman takes their contraception. However there are many women (ie. lesbians) who take birth control to manage their acne.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:41 PM
1

Lol I mean I recently learned that I’m asexual but I’ll tell you right now I’m not down for a relationship without sex
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 11:19 PM
1

Happened to me too. It’s an autoban
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 10:44 PM
10

They have hormone-regulating effects ie. predictable/less painful period cycles, less acne, etc.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:32 PM
4

If they’re in capsules it’s fine. The ones sold in liquid form that you take by the teaspoon are at risk of being oxidized
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:09 PM
1

There’s your problem lol
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:22 PM
6

Have you read the sidebar? Cohabitation with a female is ALWAYS a recipe for disaster.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:06 PM
12

They’re can, it’s just that requisite help isn’t as readily available for women. Man dates crazy woman - other men: “you should have seen that coming dude” Woman dates crazy man - other women: “men are assholes sweetie you did nothing wrong”
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:04 PM
6

Make sure it’s fish oil from tablets and not liquid. Oxidized fish oil is actually harmful. Multivitamins aren’t necessary if you’re eating right, they should be more of a contingency. Créatine for aesthetics? Wut
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:01 PM
3

Hydraulic press that shit
/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:31 PM
1

I’d be wary of rules that say “never do xxx”; there’s usually always exceptions. There’s nothing wrong with them opening up to you when it’s meaningful. There’s a difference between “hey I’m having a tough time in my class and my mom just died, do you have some time to talk?” and “omg Bessie from Starbucks is such a bitch for spelling my name wrong”
/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:27 PM
2

Mistakes are only really negatively impactful if you make them seem like they are. So you talk to a girl with a drink in your hand, and while you’re talking you drop the glass on the floor. Do you: A) make some offhanded joke about it with a wry smile; or B) say “omg I’m such a klutz I’m so so sorry” The rest is self-explanatory.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:23 PM
4

Reading about your relationship makes me happy
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 06:11 PM
7

LTRs aren’t about not being hurt, it’s about being ok with being hurt. If you’re not going to care about each other, there’s no benefit to upgrading from fwb. There is no strength in being so afraid of being hurt that you forbid yourself from caring about someone else.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 05:43 PM
2

I mean if you want to get technical, you shouldn’t be paying for an entire brand new hookah unless his was brand new to begin with. You can determine what would be right for you to pay but to be honest you owe him at least something
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:16 PM
3

Sidebar
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:10 PM
1

I think it’s more like no rich and handsome men usually don’t do dumb shit like hit up a girls DM and call himself a nice guy and her a slut and send dick pics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:01 PM
3

I don’t get why you’d be worked up about it, it’s just an ad. You can ignore it like you ignore every other ad ever
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:59 PM
2

Dove did an ad on ‘toxic femininity’
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:54 PM
-2

I think it was fine as a PSA or whatever. I don’t understand the backlash. I guess I can see how guys could feel like they’re being chastised and be annoyed. Dumbass marketing move though.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:34 PM
2

Why should you ever take anything to heart
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:21 PM
1

Yes it does. It’s a sexual strategy and character isn’t necessary for getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:42 PM
2

Man must be walking around with giant ass shoulders and tiny ass pecs
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:30 PM
1

Let me chew that up into bite-sized pieces for you. If she fucks you shes fucking everyone else.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:28 PM
2

When I think of a “strong” man I think of soldiers, firefighters, athletes etc. I’ve never heard the phrase “shame on you for being a firefighter” before. I’ve never heard of the John Wayne or Cavill situation but I’m pretty sure they weren’t shaming them because they were in positions of power, but rather some offhanded thing they did.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:28 PM
5

If she’s dtf with you, she’s dtf with everyone else
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:35 PM
1

You can OHP 100lbs but only bench 115?? Wtf
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:35 PM
5

It doesn’t shame strong men ?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:25 PM
2

I know men like to one-up each other in social settings way past the point that women stop caring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:33 PM
1

I don’t know about that, many men and women enter into LTRs with men/women who are pretty average looking. Personally I’ve dated women of whom sex appeal was last on the list of reasons why I liked them. Like zero sexual attraction towards them until things got physical I mean you hear it all the time: “how did a girl like THAT end up with a guy like THIS” and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:29 PM
6

Yes
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:23 PM
18

I’ve noticed that society has become more and more distrustful of others as time goes on, so that being said I think you guys are pretty brave to be willing to put the reins in someone else’s hands. Vetting and awareness about your SO is also important and constantly preached in this sub which I think is the most important thing when committing to a relationship the way that you guys do. Honestly it’s people like you that make me think there is a sliver of hope for LTRs. Otherwise I find it diff…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 12:24 PM
2

Yup, but it’s not for everyone hence the many “I feel empty inside” posts on asktrp from guys who fuck girls but still aren’t happy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:32 PM
0

Technically long term attraction always fails. You can’t really be attracted to one person forever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:32 PM
1

People lie because it’s easy
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:06 PM
2

I’m a low N count guy and for me it’s kind of the opposite to TRP guys. I’ve been in open relations before and have had casual hook ups but I’ve never enjoyed the experience in any of them. I’ve been with women hotter than the girl I was in the relationship with at the time and still found myself preferring her over the hotter one. When I was with my LTR I would always think about other women and feel like I’d want to have sex with them, but when I actually did it I didn’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:04 AM
21

What you did wasn’t necessary, but there’s nothing wrong with it. You don’t owe her anything
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:57 PM
1

The thing is, if you go out there and be yourself you’ll probably have a harder time finding someone than if you make an effort to be appealing to people. But if you do find someone, you can be reasonably certain they like you for you and not something you’re pretending to be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:55 PM
1

Sure if you’re looking for a woman at her peak sexual prime then you need to act differently. But you can’t expect her to be mature enough to give you any other satisfaction other than physical. So it really depends on what you define as “winning her”. What kind of woman do you want to be with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:26 PM
0

I don’t think a debate based on where to rightly apportion sympathy is particularly useful. I don’t think sympathy is particularly useful in general. At least in my interpretation, TRP’s “alpha fucks beta bucks” term seems to imply that women give themselves up for alpha me while keeping beta men around for them to be provided for on purpose. However I wonder if this is truly the case. In my opinion, most of the time women in their early life will follow their feelings blindly and date men they …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:24 PM
7

Welcome to 50% of all responses in this sub
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:52 PM
9

Human nature is important to understand but as humans we also have the faculty of reason which can overrule our instinctual desires. It’s uncommon, but we see it whenever some guy decides “not to stick his dick in crazy” in the red pill forums or a girl recognizes red flags and doesn’t go for a guy in the RPW forum. I’d argue that the fun in dating only begins when you start finding people who are mature/self-aware enough to regulate their impulses with rationale. Otherwise you’re just dealing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:19 PM
6

It’s a decision he has to make by himself though
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:26 AM
4

Many women blindly follow their emotions and TRP takes advantage of this. Things like dreading are what conjure emotive responses in women, and in turn make them feel attracted to men. ​ The better question becomes whether you would want a woman who falls for that stuff. If you dread someone, would you want the woman who goes "listen I love you but I'm not gonna put up with this shit" or the woman who feels jealous and shows you more attention to win you back? My answer is the former woman, whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:36 PM
5

Conversely, I think that many good traits that you'd want in a stable partner don't produce the tingles men/women look for, and so they ignore them. ​ I wonder if the % is actually small. I've noticed that in the higher-level professional world such as law and business, women tend to be more self-aware. They have a better idea of what they want in a relationship and are less likely to stand for being mistreated. I wonder if much of what TRP teaches would work on them - I imagine it wouldn't be v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:13 PM
8

Yeah. It doesn't just apply to romantic relationships either. It happens many times when people take someone under their wing and then the person outgrows them and moves on to better things whilst completely forgetting the benevolence shown to them originally. Even in professional settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:05 PM
3

I disagree, I think men and women have equal shares of bad apples. Men are just as susceptible to falling for women who are bad for them as women are susceptible to falling for men who are bad for them. Its just downplayed a lot. TRP isn't indicative of men as a whole; it takes someone who is at least attempting to become self-aware to find the TRP community.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:01 PM
26

In my experience, most of them can’t be fixed. Besides, even if they could be, I doubt they’d feel indebted to me like I imagined. It happens so many times in life where you lift people up and they go on to better things and forget you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:31 PM
19

Personally, the reason I stuck with broken girls is because I felt that if I fixed them they’d feel indebted to me and wouldn’t leave
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:26 PM
2

Thanks
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:06 PM
3

You’d only feel that way if you didn’t think of yourself as a high value male. Also as far as I know women stop become docile after menopause. I don’t think branch swinging is bad. It’s in my nature to constantly be on the look out for something better. I’m sure if you were with a woman and subsequently found another woman who better suits you than the former, you’d go after her. After you’re far enough over the hill, you stop caring about things in life as much and the hypergamy stops.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:46 PM
27

Yup. Guys do it too when they date someone with BPD. When things are good they’re great but when they breakdown it’s pretty emotionally abusive. It’s easy to look on from the outside and be like “why the fuck are you with them”, but unfortunately when you’re in the situation, emotions tend to blind oneself. Hence why people stay in abusive relationships whilst people on the outside say things like “just leave them, it’s easy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:42 PM
69

I think the issue is that attractive traits that men possess to the extreme become negative traits, but women still instinctually feel attracted to them. For example, extreme confidence may manifest itself in narcissism, but women may still feel attracted to the narcissist because they appear to be very confident. However we can agree that narcissism isn’t a healthy trait for a partner to have. Vetting a quality partner requires one to overrule their emotions with their rational facility. They n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:09 PM
29

Women are highly perceptive and can usually see through superficial game, which is why RP advocates actually becoming high value instead of trying to act high value - afaik
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:35 PM
3

Get hot chocolate and drive around the block to look at Christmas lights
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:29 PM
3

The more you do it, the more comfortable you’ll be with it. There’s no one tip anyone can tell you that will magically make your nerves disappear
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:19 PM
50

It’s because when people start understanding TRP they stop posting frequently and what’s left are the guys who are still trying to understand
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:25 PM
1

In my opinion shredded is the way to go. Girls go nuts over Abercrombie models that are skinny as fuck
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:09 PM
1

Hard next the sex dolls
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:05 PM
0

It depends on the class of woman you’re dealing with. I’m in law school, we’re all up to our necks in shit. No one’s cancelling a job interview “for a shot at Chad”.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:04 PM
14

You sound pretty needy
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:57 PM
1

Dude if some girl texted me like that I’d be creeped out. She seems desperate
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:58 PM
0

Any girl worth their salt has shit going on and won’t be available on a moment’s notice. I think a week max is okay. I heard somewhere that giving 2 options a week apart is good so they can pick the day they’re not PMSing or some shit but wtf do I know. The main reason I say this is because I’m not even usually free for the next one or two days on a moment’s notice either
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:56 PM
1

Na man that’s p solid. You remained unphased. I would have made sure to leave him on read, or replied with something like “lol” so he/they know you saw it but don’t care
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:51 PM
2

I’d like that
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:51 AM
1

Why LISS instead of HIIT
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:51 AM
1

I wonder if these “my secret garden” stories can be akin to rape fantasies - as in they fantasize about them but wouldn’t actually want it to happen
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 05:16 PM
2

Classic
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:48 AM
53

Basically he means that if a girl doesn’t want you, you can’t convince her to want you
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:10 AM
1

“Just be confident/be yourself” isn’t bad advice when you are high SMV
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:51 PM
1

“Those who are slaves to their emotions are like 5-year olds” Nothing strawman about it
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:10 PM
23

I’d turn the girl on her friend by saying “clearly your friend wants me for herself”
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:41 AM
3

It’s a way to view them that prevents you from getting upset when they blindly follow their feelings. You wouldn’t get upset at a 5 year old for throwing a tantrum when his candy gets taken away would you?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:14 AM
1

Very strange for you to say “that’s simply not true” and then go on to ask “but aren’t the majority of humans like that?”
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:58 AM
19

Alright there Jay Gatsby
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:45 AM
2

They just don’t know any better. Women are like 5 year olds, slaves to their emotions
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:44 AM
1

I mean one of the big TRP ideas is that women sleep around. Hence, we can all get our turn Also sex isn’t the goal. TRP doesn’t really prescribe a goal outside of self-improvement. If someone gets bashed because they’re ‘blue-pilled’, it has no correlation with the amount of sex they’re having. You can still be red pilled and not have sex if you wanted.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 12:31 AM
12

But the experience of the transition has value in itself
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:28 AM
1

I’ve never got an LTR a gift that I didn’t want to because it was Christmas or whatever
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:27 AM
3

He wants us to feel sorry for him
/r/askTRP09/12/18 07:21 PM
3

Your answer seems to then beg the question: were humans ever supposed to monogamous to begin with? Without marriage, relationships would be volatile for all but the top SMV men/women with women constantly jumping to a higher tree branch. Especially considering that if you look at it, marriage seems only to benefit men that could not otherwise hold a relationship down for an extensive period of time. Women who are with the man she wants to be with will be with him regardless if they tied the knot…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 07:15 PM
1

...so is it necessary? Or is there some other way we can achieve the same effect on women
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 01:29 PM
-1

Attraction by itself is a flimsy feeling. You can’t fault someone for being attracted to someone else regardless of their relationship status because it’s an instinctual reaction. On the other hand I think it’s something else entirely to say that she’s in love with another man - as in she is actively choosing to leave her husband/partner and go be with the other guy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:05 AM
1

Just be direct and tell her what you want. For example, if you want to meet up, say “let’s meet up”
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:56 AM
3

Is it then necessary for society to suppress women to the extent that they require the support of a man to ensure they don’t sleep around, as society were before? Also this doesn’t really answer the marriage question. If women were simply forced to stay in their marriage to protect their reputation, all this would have done is force women to remain in relationships they didn’t want to be in while they actually loved someone else.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 04:50 AM
1

You can tank a torn hip flexor through a 10 mike run? Damn
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:12 AM
1

Your last sentence reminds me so much of that scene in Jump Street 2 “My names Jeff”
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:59 AM
1

Now that you’ve heeded the warnings, if you still want to do it, just message her like nothing happened
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:58 AM
3

This makes no sense. Fabric can’t make your muscles seem smaller. If it’s tighter around your muscles then it will make them look bigger
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:52 AM
5

If this is true, hasn’t the concept of marriage been dead since it’s conception? I read somewhere (might have been you, Whisper, iirc) that someone was trying to reconcile women’s behaviour by saying that traditional society’s set-up had it right. However if what you say is true - that women are always and only attracted to the next best guy - it seems as no form of society could make marriage work
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 03:47 AM
1

It’s not about who is saying it, it’s about what is being said. Don’t take information as given from anyone, and don’t reject information as given from anyone. Analyze it for yourself
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:27 PM
1

I think TRP has a lot of gold nuggets, but when it comes to women it seems as though the notion is “women manipulate to get what they want so we will manipulate to get what we want”. It doesn’t really solve the issue that both parties are being manipulative to each other. Whether that is something that can even be solved or not is a different story
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:31 PM
1

He says he wants our take... I guess that’s his indirect way of asking what our take is
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:23 PM
1

Lol I guess a benefit of not picking up cues is I don’t recognize when people are being passive aggressive to me so if you feel you were being abrasive don’t worry because I didn’t notice. I understood the whole joke thing after you pointed out that the reply was sarcasm but thanks for the explanation. Do you have any recommended comedians?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:18 PM
1

Lol I thought it was a troll post but the replies to the post persuaded me otherwise. Ya you’re right though, I’ve recognized lately that I’m pretty shit when it comes to picking up social cues. When it comes time to be social, I can turn on a personality and be social but it requires a lot of energy and I find it draining after a while. When I’m alone or in situations where I cbf my interpersonal skills are trash. I appreciate your advice. I have a therapist
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:37 PM
21

Optimism bias: thinking you’re an exception to the norm. “Most people who smoke get cancer but that won’t happen to me”
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:19 PM
17

What’s an example of a beta male bathing in alpha symbolism?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 05:13 PM
2

I know you value your weekend too much to set up a tinder date on it. What I meant was I don’t know why you keep telling people that they need to share the same notion. There’s no need to get upset, it’s just a question.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:09 PM
1

“Use sex god method on your sister” sounds like you’re telling him to engage in incest. Can you explain what you mean for someone who hasn’t read the book?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:43 PM
1

Check out the personalfinance and financialindependence subreddit
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:42 PM
0

Your post displays a severe lack of reception to criticism. The girls told you where you went wrong and instead of re-evaluating yourself and allowing for the possibility that you’re not doing something right, your immediate response is “no you’re wrong I’m right”. Given this, I’m not surprised you come off as arrogant in person.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:01 PM
2

There’s nothing wrong with friendship if it’s legit friendship and not some fucked up thing where you treat her like you’re in a relationship and expect that one day she’ll return the favour
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:55 PM
1

It depends on what you mean on sexist. I sure as hell wouldn’t ask a random girl if she can twerk live on air as a show host though. It’s such bad taste
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:50 PM
3

I’m not sure why you keep telling people not to make dates for the weekend. Just because you value your weekends this way doesn’t mean other people should. This seems like more of a preference
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:45 PM
1

I run SL5x5 normally but I injured my legs so I’ve been doing an upper body push-pull for a while now
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:41 PM
3

That’s the risk, especially if you go home with a lower SMV girl, she may be desperate to keep you
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:40 PM
9

Personally I’m not a huge fan of hooking up, but I like hanging out with women I find attractive
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:40 PM
1

I wonder about kino though. Id probably have to hold on to her a bit because i don’t know how to skate. I wonder if this is the wrong kind of kino. Alternatively we can go to the Christmas market in town or something, so there are other options as well. I’m not sure what’s more effective
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:39 AM
1

No it doesn’t have a fast enough progression for me
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:37 PM
1

It’s a good routine in general. Whether it is good for you depends on whether it gives you the results you want
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:08 PM
1

You’re guys aren’t exclusive, so they’re gonna fuck other guys. What’s there to analyze? They’re not going to limit themselves to one man if they don’t have to
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:32 PM
1

I took on law cuz I’m shit at math
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:32 PM
1

I don’t know what you’re talking about. It really depends on the school. Law school teaches you about the law. Some profs push heir political agenda and some don’t
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:31 PM
3

Ejaculation every now and then is good for your health don’t forget
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 04:28 PM
1

Shit tests aren’t work, they’re fun. It’s part of flirting. Women tease you, you tease women
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:27 PM
6

I don’t understand this pattern of guys fucking multiple girls and getting butthurt about their girls fucking multiple guys
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:26 PM
1

Try if you want, if not then don’t. Hit her up some other time and if she doesn’t respond then she doesn’t respond
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:27 PM
2

The thing is, getting laid is a byproduct of living a good life - it’s not something you can work towards. It’s like being happy. You don’t work towards being happy; you work towards your goals and happiness is a byproduct of the journey
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:54 PM
2

Tendinitis is a product of stiff and weak tendons. Stretch and massage it. Once it becomes bearable, work the muscle with eccentric loading to strengthen the tendons.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:37 PM
1

I’m the same way to be honest. As soon as I accomplish something, it feels good for about 5 seconds and then it stops. Recently I got into one of the law schools I really wanted to get into and I felt nothing, and I know if I don’t tell anyone I won’t celebrate it. I don’t know what’s wrong with me
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:33 PM
3

Dale Carnegie the legend
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:31 PM
5

This. She texts him twice a day every day and then one day she doesn’t and OP goes nuts
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:29 PM
2

TRP in a nutshell is about making your life important enough for you not to worry much about having a girl
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:27 PM
8

You are not your job
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:34 AM
1

Yeah it’s interesting. When you think of a good quality man, the first thing you think of is ‘capable’. Hollywood really reinforces this by showing men who can do pretty much anything without practice. So I wonder what the effect of displaying your incompetence at something has.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:24 PM
1

????
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:10 PM
7

Lift heavier weights for more reps doing bicep exercises ​ ??
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:07 PM
1

Not all therapists are the same. The ones that I've been to help you think for yourself
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:06 PM
2

not much tbh they all feel the same
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:42 PM
4

Your life isn't going great if you're this worried about finding a good enough girl to date
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:42 PM
8

A girl will never tell you straight up if she's lost interest in you. You'd best not worry about it. Who cares if she lost interest? Find someone else, or do something else. You should be preoccupied enough with your life not to worry about something frivolous like this.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:40 PM
3

Just go try them out
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:47 PM
3

Literally this. Who cares if you talk too much?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:26 AM
2

You’re not going to make easy 150k/year from scratch. Math whizzes tend to end up in operations. It doesn’t pay that much
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:25 AM
8

Dude you can do whatever you want. TRP is just a toolbox, use it to your fitting. If you wanna date her then date her. If you want to make it contingent on a threesome then do it
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:24 AM
4

All in moderation. It’s ok to cry if you need to, just don’t whine 24/7. No need to take it to the extreme. Also, it’s a movie.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:12 AM
14

I'd just lie. AFAIK they can't fire you because you lied about being married, and I doubt they'd care enough to
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:05 PM
1

It doesn't matter if she actually found someone or not. She went out of her way to politely let OP know she was no longer interested.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:39 PM
1

How do you know
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:50 PM
2

just because he knows the rule doesn't mean he has to follow it
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:40 PM
9

Gotta disagree with you here. Skinny can be attractive. Low bf% means your face looks chiselled. There are many male actors/models who have minimal muscle definition and are pretty much just skinny
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:10 PM
34

Thank her for her courtesy and find someone else
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:06 PM
1

Get a home gym and work out before/after dinner. A solid basic routine can take around 30mins
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:52 PM
6

She clearly gets her kicks out of intentionally trying to hurt you. Remove her from your life dude
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:47 PM
1

The Red Pill handbook
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:07 PM
10

Don't forget communication is a two way street. She should be talking to you as well
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:42 PM
1

AWALT is a general tendency, not a truism/law
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:12 AM
6

Where do you see people sexually shaming others on this forum?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:10 AM
1

The best routine is the one that works for you. Everyone’s body is unique and will respond differently to different stimuli. Test some routines yourself and see whether you’re making the kind of progress you want or not. What works for us may not work for you and vice versa
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:22 AM
3

wait a few weeks, ask again casually, if nothing then next
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:30 AM
2

There are always things you can teach someone and they can teach you but I want to be able to discuss things/thoughts in my life and value their opinion
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:05 AM
1

It peaks 1 week after ejaculation. Not jacking off does not increase test significantly but chronic masturbation decreases it because you’re constantly lowering it every time you ejaculate
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:04 AM
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The goal of TRP isn’t to find an LTR
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:33 PM
1

The test boost is temporary
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:26 PM
2

You can be different but equal. I’d like someone who I feel is as smart as I am at least.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:24 PM
3

If you want, lay off her for a while and fuck other women instead
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:45 PM
8

Who cares if she nexts you. If you wanna fuck, call her over. If she doesn’t want to come, call someone else. You’re in a scarcity mindset right now, don’t let it affect your behaviour
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:18 PM
2

If you don’t care for game anymore then then answer is clear. You should recognize that you’re assuming the risk of being played for the return of a good quality wife. Oneitis is not a problem if she also has oneitis for you
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:11 PM
39

Women are only attracted to men who they think are above them. This is tough because I don’t want to date down
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:04 PM
0

You passed good job
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:03 PM
1

Do you want to be in a relationship with her?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:03 PM
2

I think taking things to the extreme makes it easier for guys to manage women in their head. For example, assuming women are sluts who are fucking someone else when they aren’t around you helps you to not getting attached to them - because who would want someone like that
/r/askTRP24/11/18 03:20 PM
1

The nature vs. nurture debate definitely isn’t over yet, although it’s safe to say that the answer is somewhere in the middle. Just because women have naturally similar characteristics doesn’t mean they’re more nurture than not. We all have instinctual tendencies based on the roles we historically played in society. This doesn’t mean they can/can’t be overwritten through upbringing.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:55 PM
0

Its preference really, depending on what you like wearing etc. Pretty much everything goes on sale at some point wth the exception of a couple items (ie. cologne). For example a few years ago I picked up a $1,200 Burberry watch for $600. Just keep an eye on things and be patient, unless you need it right away
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:52 PM
3

A lot of the mid-high brands go on sale, and then they’re worth the price
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:48 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:39 AM
1

Tell that to my one downvoter lmao
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:16 AM
7

If you think travelling to go see your gf is a waste of time, you have the wrong gf
/r/askTRP23/11/18 09:09 PM
0

What do you need advice for? Just go on a date and escalate
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:17 PM
5

These are questions you answer yourself. Are you willing to settle for a lower HB to have sex? If no, then you're not missing out. If yes, then you are
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:16 PM
1

I use ig to follow fashion pages, athletes I like, etc. I don't follow anyone I know personally
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:38 PM
1

F
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:36 PM
1

TRP conceptualizes women this way because it makes them easier to deal with. Whether or not people actually believe women are this extreme is a different story
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:34 PM
1

They shit test you. Whether or not it "breaks" you has to do with whether you allow it to break you or not.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:32 PM
17

Your assumptions are probably right. Also what are you doing responding to random pics. Text for logistics only
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:24 PM
3

xD
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:21 PM
1

He says he wants an equal lol that's not putting women on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:18 PM
2

I don't think its an ad lol
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:15 PM
8

There's a difference between what women want and what they think they want
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:24 PM
3

You need to know how to be okay without having women or friends in general, so that when you go out to find women, you won’t feel needy
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:20 PM
1

Why
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:07 PM
1

I have dated women who make more than me before. It rarely crossed my mind while seeing them, if ever. Now that I think about it, I prefer it.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:04 PM
2

You’re not a chadder. You’re a dick
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:01 PM
8

I found this reply really fucking funny. Imagine being close to cumming and belting out a Tarzan scream https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qn7YDvNENDs
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:55 PM
15

sniff their butt
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:54 PM
1

That's why I said they use 'caring' as a means to tame them. It's exactly what you're describing in your second paragraph. When I said "a woman has a natural propensity to take care of a man", I didn't mean she does this out of the goodness of her soul. She does this to derive some sort of self-interested benefit - the same reason anyone does anything, ever. In this case, she takes care of him to encourage him to stay, like you mentioned. In short, I agree with you. My point was that the act of …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:53 PM
1

I decide on accepting points of view after vetting them. What does your point of that caring and taming not being the same thing have to do with my point that caring can lead to investment in a relationship?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:20 PM
1

Yeah it is. So is the false equivalency you pointed out
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:06 PM
1

I mean just because something is natural doesn't mean it isn't bad. I think the issue with catching feelings is not having them returned. At least personally, I would have never had an issue with fostering feelings for a women if they always felt the same way towards me. Its when the feelings aren't reciprocated that it starts to suck. I'm having difficulty understanding how loving someone can be enjoyable irrespective of the sentiment being returned. As far as I understand, loving/being in love…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 04:04 PM
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Why does it sound like that to you?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:51 PM
1

You're right they're not the same, but taking care of a bad boy is a means to taming him
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:50 PM
13

You're taking TRP to the extreme. What's the use of a gf if you can't get something as heavy as your dad's death off your chest with them
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:37 PM
7

I'm not saying she wouldn't be less attracted to him, but women have a natural propensity to want to take care of men. Think about the typical relationship archetype where a woman gets involved with a bad-but-broken guy to try and fix him. Something like this, if done correctly, can trigger the woman's natural instincts to care. In this case, though she wouldn't get wet for him in this instance, if she empathised with him she would feel invested in him to a certain extent, which builds value int…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:23 PM
1

Est enough protein and keep lifting heavy
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:08 PM
1

This is actually an interesting question. I’m of the opinion that when it comes to physical pleasure, esp with today’s toys and shit, you don’t really need a woman. On the other hand, the feeling when you fuck a real woman is much better. You can’t connect with a toy like you’d connect with a woman. But then at TRP it seems like we try to prevent emotional connection. I could be wrong though I don’t know
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:05 PM
3

Generally you can’t increase test because test production is largely genetic. However you can prevent test inhibition by taking care of yourself - being active, eating right, sleeping well, etc
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:02 PM
6

Learning to be okay with being alone is critical to developing the abundance mentality
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:01 PM
3

What do you mean “too high - too high for what? You say you only aim hb7+ and you’re currently not fucking anyone so clearly your standards are too high for sex. Whether that’s a problem or not is a different story
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:00 PM
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I don’t think that’s female nature, she’s just sociopathic. A normal person (man or woman) would have felt some sort of empathy. At the very least, there’s a friendship aspect to LTRs. Ya you’re fucking, but you’re also friends. Clearly this LTR lacked friendship
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:57 PM
1

This post really threw me for a loop. I assume like most guys here, I found TRP after searching for answers/solutions to deal with a rejection from a oneitis. Reading this post helped me recognize that I did it to myself by giving out my love on the unspoken condition that she has to love me back. When I think about loving unconditionally the way you describe it, it sounds to me like someone who gives but never takes - kind of like a pushover. Then I realized that the reason this feels this way …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 01:59 AM
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How do you cuddle without developing feelings? I can do sex but I don’t think I could cuddle with a girl I didn’t care about
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 11:04 PM
0

If one party ever cheats, its usually because the other party was unsatisfactory
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:31 PM
7

Is there a question?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:28 PM
3

As a rule of thumb, if you offer a date and they can't make it but they want to see you again, they'll reschedule
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:09 PM
1

Yeah its tough. When it comes to being friendly, there's a balance between being too nice and being disrespectful that you gotta find. I don't even know what it is to be honest. BUT at the same time, being yourself is the best rule to follow. Honestly, it has to come from you and your own level of comfort. If you don't feel comfortable touching someone, don't do it. You'll come off as uncomfortable and she'll sense it. Also, why would you do that to yourself, that's just unnecessary self-punishm…
/r/seduction27/09/18 05:36 PM
1

Ya man! Don't get discouraged; keep putting yourself out there. Love wouldn't be cherished if it came around easily. Keep doing you and people who like you will notice - just like you notice people who you like as they're doing their own thing. No point in wanting to be with someone who doesn't really want to be with you (you should also not want a relationship with someone you don't really want to date either) :) ​ Edit: Damn dude, I just lurked your profile and it seems like you're really smar…
/r/seduction27/09/18 02:43 PM
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Well if you're looking for love, you're going to have to consider that compatibility is more a rarity than a commonality. Generally speaking, the majority of the girls you meet wont be a good fit for you or vice versa. As long as you're being your genuine self; if they don't want to pursue things further, it doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. Even if they find you attractive, you just may not be for them. Similarly, if you went on a date with a girl and she was in to you but you…
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:31 PM
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Dates are a 'test period' where two people decide whether they are compatible with each other. This goes both ways - she's deciding if you're someone she's into and you're deciding whether she's someone you're into. Don't forget that she needs to pass your tests too. If you sent her a message and she's ignoring it (if that's what she's actually doing), you have to ask yourself whether that's a characteristic that you appreciate or not. Remembering that she needs to pass your tests too will give …
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:12 PM
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Continue to focus on whatever you were focusing on before you had feelings for her/told her you had feelings for her. I know, especially in your stage when the feelings are brand new, that it's really exciting. But you have to make sure that you continue to make your life about whatever your life is about, and not switch to making your life about the girl. If you were focusing on your school/career, continue to focus on that. If you were going to the gym or focusing on becoming healthy, continue…
/r/seduction26/09/18 03:43 PM
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