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I read it in an RP book a while back "Women are not my priority. I have a mission and purpose outside of women." I do abide by it. Personally, This one line is very important for every Man out there and every Man should know this.

My question is, specifically to the older RP dudes, How do you find your purpose?

I read this in a book, "Ask yourself, “What was a moment when I felt extremely energized and excited? And what was I doing at that time?” Write down your answer. By recognizing what makes you feel most alive and invigorated, you can better understand your motivations – this can help you clarify your purpose."

I will try to put my thoughts into words here. Let's assume that I want to join "Goldman Sachs". As the above question asks "What was a moment when I felt extremely energized and excited?", So, to answer this question I'd say "The moment I was day-dreaming about working for Goldman Sachs". "And what was I doing at that time?” Day-dreaming. "By recognizing what makes you feel most alive and invigorated, you can better understand your motivations" Here, It asks "Feel alive and invigorated", To this, I'd say "Yeah I want to work for Goldman Sachs but don't like to study". So is this not my purpose? because I am not feeling alive while studying? and Then I am not gonna get the job.

I hope I was able to put my thoughts into words. Thanks.

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Thou In other words, what I am asking is "Even if you don't feel alive and invigorated while doing something, It's okay because when you force yourself to sit down and study, you will get the job you dreamed for, but it's not alive and invigorating because it requires boring hard work and sacrifices " am I right?