I am sorta new here, but I have read the side bar and have started making some changes to my life that have made me happier and I believe better as a man. I have an exclusive girlfriend who I have been seeing for a couple of months and had some concerns.

I am not very sexually experienced and went on a very dry run because I lacked the confidence to approach women. I am doing my best to become better in this regard (currently reading SGM and am hoping to apply it where necessary), but she has stated that she doesn't think I will be able to make her orgasm with only PIV. I have obviously accomplished this through other ways, but I guess my insecurity here is in what she said. Is it normal that I have to go down on her to get her off, or should I be able to do this with ease through PIV? A lot of SGM elaborates on how accomplishing this is mostly done psychologically, which I will start using, but I don't have much experience in this area and don't know what the norm is. Things I do for her are obviously reciprocated and she tells me how she feels about me emotionally and physically. She also is on medication which I believe may affect this.

Am I reading too much into this/what she said or is this an area of concern or is it normal to have to go down on a girl for 5-10 minutes to get her off?