Rate my Tinder

UntamedBrutality · 2021-01-24T10:55:04+00:00

Remove photos #2 and #3. 2 looks way too bland and uninteresting. Photo 3 makes you look like a homosexual because of your pose. You have a serious look on the other photos but you destroy it with your third photo.

DisciplinedMind1 · 2021-01-24T15:29:20+00:00

You look too much of a boyfriend material. Remove 2nd and the photo with the girls your posture looks extremely "nice guy".

Get more ripped and show off your body and smile in some of them.

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-01-24T11:50:49+00:00

First picture is ok ish, looking too much of a nice guy, If you want a Girl that seeks a provider, OK. Only 6th picture is good

Correct-One-8945 · 2021-01-24T12:31:33+00:00

do people on this sub just ignore all the main teachings? Lifting is the #1 teaching of trp imo, definitely the biggest boost to your SMV you can get that is guaranteed if you just put the work in... the problem is you don't look like you even lift?

Spend 2yrs+ lifting then take some shirtless pics and report back how tinder goes for you..

All the tinder 'optimizing' in the world won't do shit in any meaningful way, different angles of your face, different pics, it's all a fugazi, it's all bs that you think will make a difference.. get your ass in the gym 6x/wk for 2yrs. Stop doing all that distance running shite i see you do if getting jacked and improving your looks is your priority.

Attractiveness/smv (which is what tinder is all about) doesn't care about little changes, you have to make big changes - the easiest one to make is to lift

DS_1900 · 2021-01-24T15:13:09+00:00

What do you want out of Tinder?

I think you look like *way* too much of a solo operator - hiking, running, a photo of you alone next to the statue of liberty, and in photo #3 with the girls, as has been pointed out by another couple of posters, your pose is a bit submissive and thus the effect of 'being with people' is lost.

With exception of photo #3 (and #1, which I agree with other posters that makes your profile look a bit BB) I think girls who come across your profile will think that you are somewhat of a "robot" who is a bit out of touch with the emotional world and therefore will have trouble giving them the 'feels.' I recommend a couple of (or at least one) party shots or at least a friendship group shot that shows you are able to have a good time. Photo #7 is starting to be on the right track with this but if you have one where the people you are with have their faces lit up as well then even better.

MIT and Harvard (both displayed in photo #3) will put many girls off unless you are trying to get dates / hook-ups in the after-graduation business world...

I very much agree with other poster that says you need to hit the gym and start lifting, you are a tall guy and with some more muscle (read, a good amount more, ie 10kg+) on your frame you could start dominating many rooms that you find yourself in just by your presence (women *love* men who do this, you literally won't even have time for Tinder if this happens as you can then have your pick of who to go home with from said room). It's good to be fit from long-distance running and hiking, but more than once have I reflected that such long-term "endurance" sports are optimal training for "endurance" lives, ie those where you work a boring corporate job, and support your unhappy wife and kids as a BB. I could be drawing too long of a bow on this one, but at the very least I don't recommend you communicate so heavily to girls 27 and below (most of which are looking for a good time and an interesting partner) that you are an expert at enduring long, monotonous exercise.

Edit: a couple of words

kuryu4 · 2021-01-24T09:43:22+00:00

MIT and dress shirt are best. running is okay. Everything else is not good especially shirtless pictures. Need more to work with.

2021-01-24T14:15:35+00:00

Use the fifth picture as your main. It's more appealing. And i would say one of your active pictures second.

You look rather dorky on the first.

Good luck mate.

RelucBeam · 2021-01-24T14:32:37+00:00

The only thing wrong is that there are too many photos.

Tying to prove yourself too much. 3 maximum

SalesAficionado · 2021-01-24T15:10:34+00:00

Why do you cross your hands like this? Take pictures with a powerful stance. Chest up and hands on your hips. You look innocent and safe. Fuck that. Look dangerous. Look manly.

kncrew · 2021-01-24T15:30:24+00:00

I think you got the gist from other comments. I would move the smiling pic towards the front.

NichRigga- · 2021-01-24T16:11:26+00:00

You got no sex appeal. Youre just going to match with post-wall women looking to settle down

Graphik0 · 2021-01-24T16:29:38+00:00

I’d leave 6th only

throw-away-1709 · 2021-01-24T09:12:53+00:00

Thumb....down.

2 ok - rest garbage

xxxthrowmeawayxxxx · 2021-01-24T11:41:17+00:00

body language in the MIT picture. great picture. but you're shoulders are forwards / kind of drooping and you're closing yourself off / crossing your hands in front of your genitals. for future reference don't do that again. think posture.

AltruisticBeautiful7 · 2021-01-24T13:54:37+00:00

I say it's a 10.

Would take out hte one with other ppl tho. Use contacts instad of glasses, will give you a point. Swap orders tho: NY first, then mountain/river one, then running, then suit (just one).

Your tinder is fine and you are good looking, if this is the medium UK Tinder i'm fucked

Coolguy1699 · 2021-01-24T12:00:12+00:00

I would eat remove 4, 5 and 6. The other pics are okay especially the one with the girls

Title	Rate my Tinder
Author	imjustaman93
Upvotes	4
Comments	23
Date	January 24, 2021 9:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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