When it comes to getting rid of oneitis, people here always suggest you to go out, game chicks and get plates.

That makes complete sense. If I can't have something anymore, I just go out and replace it with something similar.

But for me that doesn't sound like true abundance mentality. How do you actually reach that real abundance mentality? How do you not give a fuck to the point where you can't even get an onetis, even if she's the only one you're hooking up with?

There must be a way to get there. I know, we are all humans and we have emotions, but there must be a way to have that ultimate IDGAF attitude.

How and when do I get there?