Been plating a girl for 2/3 months, Always have sex when we meet etc. I see her 1 or 2 times a week and I never text her. It goes like this:

20 min call to schedule a date/meet up The date Break rapport for a few days 20 min call to schedule as date

I was a body builder but no longer lift weights due to injuries. After 2 years of injuries and paying multiple so called pros we’ve found the problem, my glutes don’t activate and it’s given me imbalances and injuries. My whole body is super tight and I’m doing daily physio. (During my bulk I got to the point my body couldn’t take the imbalance)

This experience has given me mental health problems due to constant self analysis and inactivity. But the come back is on and I’m starting to get less pain i can now do lunges and squats for the first time in 2 years.

I have a plate for 3 months who is a yoga fanatic, she trained with me one day and her warm up and warm down stretches really helped me, I’m so Tight. I’ve made the decision for my well being and long term progress I’m going to continue to train with her every other day, (this isn’t costing me anything) I’m helping her with strength training. I also have nowhere to train due to lockdown but she has a home gym.

I want to make it clear that my progression from this crippled state is my absolute priority and I will be training with her because it’s like having a personalised yoga instructor; I’ve made progress already.

I don’t want to damage this plate also. I don’t really want to fuck her after training as it’s not convenient so I’m concerned about giving her too much non sexual time and giving her comfort

Any advice for me on how to try keep a good frame and abstain from comfort?