I am 5'11, currently 280lbs down from 356 from two years ago. Most of this weight was lost just quiting soda and occupying myself with hobbies rather than getting bored then eating.

I have done little exercise except walking around am hour a day in the morning, plus my job is pretty much just walking around. I am still saving up for a car and have no access to a gym, so I have started a beginner bodyweight program.

Lately some women from my have been more friendly and successfully asked two to lunch. My game is alright and I have the feeling one was pretty much just waiting for me to make a move, and was dtf but I was too thrown off to realize right away. The other was full of shit test and constant mentioning religion. I feel like I did more harm then good.

Should I just try to focus on myself and wait to continue approaching or continue to work on my game and interactions understanding I'll fuck it up for a while? What are some realistic goals to have currently and later on?