Hi guys,

Some little Background on my current gf: When i first met her i used my usual Chad game and it did not work, i dialed it a couple of notches down and actually dated her and got to know her before sleeping with her.

She just turned 20 and it turns out she was a virgin. I broke it. Being genuinely good turned out very good.

We have been together for 4 months in an exclusive relationship now, the sex is good, she has opened up and is becoming very loving. She's a unicornish woman imho.

I am a fan of setting the bar low from the beginning, every nice gesture you do afterwards has much more power.

Here is the issue: This girl has seen me out there being a Chad, she knows i've been around, she knows women like me and has seen this firsthand a lot, she knows i have female friends and i enjoy their attention. She's also pretty and gets hit on a lot, on the course of the relationship i have dialled down the dread a lot , especially because she completely did.

But right now, she's been very moody when it comes to trusting me, our periods of cool moments are always succeeded or preceeded by days or comments in which she expresses her concerns indirectly or very directly about me staying loyal and fucking around with other girls.

Her emotions got very strong the other day, because she is away for a couple of weeks visiting her family and she's worried i'm going to cheat on her. I take it with humour and lightheartedness but she has really been pushing the boundary lately. I definitely played on this insecurity to instil dread in the past, but right now i don't think it is productive at all anymore.

I'm considering talking to her directly about this and reassuring her that she can trust me, which is actually the truth. How much reassurance, how much bp? I don't want to go over the top. Do you openly discuss this kind of things? I would like any way of showing her through actions instead of just promising, i considered dialing down on my female social contacts and letting her see it/know it, but im wondering if thats actually an unattractive decision that obviously just damages me in the long run if things go awry between us.

TLDR: My 20 years old gf is very insecure about my commitment even though i deflowered her and we are in an exclusive relationship. And i am wondering about RP ways to reassure her that i am commited.