recieving hate for no reason

GayLubeOil · 2017-06-19T07:32:25+00:00

My guess is that you were in Omega nerd territory before. Perhaps you were weird or gross or whatever and people avoided giving you attention. Now you are somewhere in the medium to high beta zone, so now there is a perceived threat that you might steal some dudes vagina person.

So whatever you are doing do more of it.

Ubiquitous-Toss · 2017-06-19T06:07:37+00:00

Keep doing you if you think it's for the best. Crab bucket mentality can be for real, might be worthwhile to determine if it's that or you're actually bragging to your friends too much and they are getting tired of it. Either way don't stop improving

Frigzy · 2017-06-19T06:05:11+00:00

recently I have been acting different. ... I haven't been acting different.

See what happened there? Don't bother yourself with what other people think and keep improving.

exit_sandman · 2017-06-19T10:39:55+00:00

people i know said that i have become so full of myself recently even though i havent been acting any different.

Maybe you are acting differently? I wouldn't let that irritate you, but keep in mind that just because you aren't aware of it, this doesn't mean that other people can't be as well.

Kennen1Trick · 2017-06-19T06:56:28+00:00

Schadenfreude is a German word for the act of taking pleasure from another's pain or suffering, like when someone trips and another person laughs rather than asking if they are alright.

I believe you're experiencing a similar situation in that those around you see you have stuff going for you and you're trying to be a better you, and they're trying to knock your resolve. Use it as fuel my friend. Lift!

MattyAnon · 2017-06-19T07:53:48+00:00

. people i know said that i have become so full of myself recently even though i havent been acting any different. what is happening????

Crabs in a bucket.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-06-19T11:54:17+00:00

Crab bucket mentality bro. People see you succeed and they want to pull you down. Fuck em keep going.

Halfassredlife · 2017-06-19T15:29:42+00:00

Crab bucket mentality.

modashi · 2017-06-19T18:37:25+00:00

Same thing is happening to me. Cut out the shit from your life and be thankful they revealed their ugly side now and not later on. Some people really do keep others around just to feel better. I don't understand it, but it happens. It just seems like massive self-loathing to me.

sanicthehedgefund · 2017-06-21T07:09:47+00:00

I think you are in a transitioning phase. You are becoming super cool but aren't quite there yet.

The mediocre people feel threatened because you probably already reached their level or surpassed them. Crab bucket mentality! Keep pushing and you will get a lot of respect. The haters will disappear or become fans.

Title	recieving hate for no reason
Author	swarlytheskigod
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	June 19, 2017 5:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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