Tldr: lost frame with plate when she flaked, she asked me why I was cranky, now she's ghosting. Can I recover?

There's a girl (plate) I've been seeing for a few months. She asked me to hang out but on a Friday or Saturday. the first I had free was 4 weeks away - she agreed. we set a time and place the day before. I hit her up with some light banter in the weeks between.

That Friday came two days ago but she flaked.... Usually I am late to things so this time I think she wanted to make sure I was there before I got there. As I was 5 mins away I said I'll be there in 5mins but I was a bit late again. When it came she wasn't there and I called and she said she was still at a friend's house. This is where I lost frame and said I don't have time for your crappy behavior (ie called her out on it). She then sent me messages saying "why so cranky" and "you see me as low priority" and "you think I waste your time" etc she then said "I'm trying to come and meet you". Five minutes later she asked if I would go to the suburb of her friend house and I said no. She didn't reply and after 15 mins I called her and said don't bother coming, have a fun night. I then went to my friends party.

Next day (Saturday) I called her to address the comfort issue of "her being low priority" and talk about reorganising but she didn't answer and she didn't call or text.

How to recover? Or should I next? This is the first time shes misbehaved and is usually very reliable so if I can recover that would be good.