LTR seems to think its okay to get drunk to the point she has memory loss.

Last night she kept calling me from her Christmas Work Party. Messaging me constantly. I responded slowly but I ignored her calls several times till she wanted me to go there and pick her up. Well she was absolutely wasted surrounded by old women in the reception area.

We get home she's drunk and passes out. Wakes me up in the night freaking out how she even got there.

In the morning we discuss it. Proceeds to tell me that oh she forgets things when she gets drunk. Forgets our conversation. She's done this before but now I'm redpilled a Red flag waving big in my head. I said all this calmly by the way without sounding upset:

Me: Sounds alot like plausible deniability. That's a red flag for me.

Her: Predictable. Knew you would act this way. I remembered everything till it was time to go home... (proceeds to DEER on me)

Me: It's concerning that drinking like that affects your memory.

(Her More DEERing)

Me: Look, I won't be with a girl who can give herself plausible deniability, not saying that's what this was, but this is a red flag for any sane person

Her: So my only options are stop drinking or we break up?

Me: I understand why you could have blacked out last night but my boundaries are set, take it or leave it. But I won't date someone let alone move in with someone who drinks irresponsibly.

She goes off in a huff and hasn't spoken to me since. First time I've ever put a boundary down like that. Did I do this properly? I don't think she respected me saying this. She's pissed off with me. Would not be surprised if she turns round and says fine "its over" etc.

I know she didn't do shit at the work party because they are all old as fuck but she's got an upcoming GNO and I don't need a girl who gets wasted enough to give herself plausible deniability.

She isn't speaking to me at all now. Do I hold frame and let her come to me?