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| 3 | All Men Need To Womanize [A Patrice Series]Second that. Live somewhere with high xenophobia. Hot girls go for that areas version of Ken doll unless the ethnicity in question is generally thought of as positive in some aspect that could benefit family. Exotic hunting seems to be a bigger thing in capitalist hubs or overwhelmingly multicultural countries. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/19 02:21 PM |
| 70 | Women-only STEM college programs under attack for male discrimination"Invest in HR now" - we all need to stop worrying about what happens at universities and start taking advantage of the next obvious step. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/08/19 05:30 PM |
| 7 | Why She is NOT Worth ItYep, am not convinced of the wisdom of the last line. It's sort of an absolutism. The best lessons I learned at a young age when nothing was on the line were so valuable. The older I get I see lessons in others and I can learn from them but that took a lot of time and understanding. That line about learning from others needs an age dimension to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | It is often better to date European women and Latin American women.Big mentality differences across the cultures, but I think geotargeting for traits fails to also look at rural areas. The difference between a capital city European or American are pretty small but when you compound it with the traits of a person from a small east European village the differences are quite apparent | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/19 02:23 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on Seeking Arrangements?I felt that way in the past. You need to just pay for a handjob from a woman of your race (I mention that for reasons of ingroup/outgroup psychological associations) in a brothel. You need to get over and accept the reality of pay to fuck so anger about it will never cloud your judgement. Fish swim and you still can't accept that which is poison. Pay for it just once and you'll get over this mental block and move on a freer man. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 10:07 AM |
| 1 | The biggest misconception of Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks.More dudes out there getting dumped at the altar. Surprise you were just being used to validate her suspicion she could ride for 2 more years. She'll settle AFTER her face looks like she hit the wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Chinese nerd builds facial recognition to uncover IDs of over 100k porn stars. "Empowered" sloots and betas lose their minds.The tech option to whatever perceived problem this solves can't compare to the ability to be able to 'smell damaged'. Get burned once by 'daddy touched me' or 'I lie for money' and you'll have a pretty solid filtering mechanism. I wouldn't give these guys funding, chalk it up as 'beta services/Virtual experiences.' | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/19 02:19 PM |
| 2 | (xpost from r/justiceserved) ladies and gentlemen, we got em*could even be able FTFY | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/05/19 07:54 PM |
| 2 | (xpost from r/justiceserved) ladies and gentlemen, we got emHow loud did the judge hear that in his/her head I can only imagine... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/05/19 07:53 PM |
| 7 | TRP from a happily married guy's perspective"The TRP is... (XYZ one thing, not your thing)". The only time I heard TRP defined that fit anything useful was as a toolbox anyone could pull out the right tools for the life they wanted. OP pulled out the tools to make marriage. Another guy will pull out tools to build some businesses. Even if your marriage hits a bad point, here will be the tools for him to reinvent himself yet again. I can't fold comments and posts fast enough that say TRP/Alpha is (ONE THING HERE)... thats some narrow-minde… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What‘s better a girl who lived sheltered and never had contact to guys but is a virgin or a girl who used to have a lot of chances to sleep with other guys and didn’t?You won't actually know which is better by asking us. And you won't know by picking one either. Date both, commit to neither, drop hints there are other women and you'll see the best sides both of them have to offer. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 11:36 AM |
| 3 | American brothers on this sub. Why do American women place a lot of emphasis on Height?Women prefer a 'taller man' not a tall man, 6 foot X may be thier fantasy but two inches taller than they are is acceptable. A small but important differnce. This comes from reported preference so take it with a grain of salt but the difference matters, the uphill battle is with a girl taller than you. What they put on a profile doesn't matter bc through observation you can see dating preference remains the same... Taller than her but for a mid to tall girl. You see really short girls dating hug… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionAlso going on a date and being someone else might not be ideally honest but it's amazing for breaking out of your self-imposed limitations, finding unknown joy in courting and learning some lessons about how other people would react to the person you are not. My favorite hookups came from dates where I took on a role that I felt was totally unlike me and yes you can do this without lying. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Posted this on my ig story and already got like 4 comments calling me dumbSo where can I tune into your podcast and when will you pls start your podcast | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/05/19 11:10 AM |
| 8 | Men initiate sex more than three times as often as women do in a long-term, heterosexual relationship. However, sex happens far more often when the woman takes the initiative, suggesting it is the woman who sets limits, and passion plays a significant role in sex frequency, suggests a new study.It was a miracle science was openly shared to the degree it has been since the enlightenment. We'll need media patsies for a while to digest the science and take the fall in place of the actual scientists for a bit to... after that who will get access to mate selection research findings outside of private companies? Feels like it is just around the corner. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think people don't want guys to be taught game?Reading it from a book or getting the skill from training sessions is going to set off a woman's detectors for good gene selection. To these sensors you are actually cheating the system for good gene selection by acquiring it through intellect, and no this process DGAF what you consider fair or altruistic. You have 3 options, learn it from you father, learn it from your own past experience, be aloof and just say you feel acting this way seems natural and you dont know why. Or at least say those … | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 01:55 PM |
| 3 | The key you've been missingThe value is probably more broadly routed in delaying gratification and it's correlations than walking around with a fat load. Don't take me wrong those benefits are easily observable in terms of libido but that's a single dimension. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeAsk a fish how to catch it? Bring a fisherman on and get his input. That'll be useful. Women don't offer the common denominators in who they throw pussy to, they project an ideal version of themselves. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Which traits do most women find interesting?a surprising few only matter before she is about 22, Tall - Athletic build are the two that matter most and remain in play with diminishing returns by age. many come into play from 23 to 30, then Tall - Athletic build become completely anecdotal compared to wealthy and the rest that signal resource acquisition. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 07:45 PM |
| 9 | Unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction while married couples are among the least satisfied, finds a new German study (n=3,207) of sexual satisfaction among seven relationship-status groups. Only unmarried individuals with no partner scored lower than married.The post-fact era applies to both sides of the spectrum when science looks at mate selection. People like David Buss need the science equivalent for pen names. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm kind of "boring"Take an acting class at a community college. Throw on a small group communication class as well if they offer it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm too much of a nice guy, especially when it comes to teasing - how do I learn it?Well if you need to know how to tease people with some modern sarcasm just tune into some comedians and replicate the behavior. Some of my modern favorites are Bill Burr and Louis CK. Patrice O'Neil will give you some great humor on how to deal with women. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm too much of a nice guy, especially when it comes to teasing - how do I learn it?Watching it work gives you negative reinforcement over the whole thing if you're jealous even a bit. You are overanalyzing only because you just need to try it, fail, try it fail, try it fail and then once it'll actually work. Once you have that thrill of knowing it can work and you did it, it just becomes way easier to keep trying, it becomes a bit easier to fail, and before you know it your problem will be that you don't have time for it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 03:00 PM |
| -5 | I wanna give this guy a blowjobTo bypass a guys standards for sex you're already halfway there with a BJ, cuz thats not real sex. To cover the rest of the ground play real innocent. Pass him a note that says you've read all this crap in a cosmo mag and want to try it out on him to see if it works for your boyfriend. He'll reason that he is helping you out (a story he can tell himself or buddies that will excuse the dismissal of standards) and the note, secret medium for communication will sell the idea you really are keeping … | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 03:11 PM |
| 20 | The Invisible War - Frame and Social AwarenessAltruistic groups survive and dominate, individuals in those groups that feign and prop up altruism while acting in their own self-interest rise to the top of any given group. Just don't get labeled a psychopath before you cross the thin line between it's complete acceptance through success and responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 02:48 PM |
| 127 | How do i respond to "i have dated many bad boys" shit test ?Just wanted to mention that my life got way better when I turned this shit test into a disqualifier. good luck especially if she's actually being honest. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 07:17 PM |
| 4 | This girl (20F) at my (20M) school started texting me and sprung a weekend together snowboarding on me. Just trying to determine whether or not I’m “in”?Can't read 11 images but I'll say this... in the future never plan a trip based on the idea you will go or not go if a flimsy girl has to attend to make the plan complete. Anything like a trip even half the magnitude in terms of effort needs to be something you're willing to do with or without her. You invite her if she wants to come but you're in no matter what. They will drop out at the last moment and think nothing of it, and may even drop out not for the reason they give you, but because the… | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | The girl you want is the person you approach lastShort term situation I don't know how this applies, they are acting in groups during outings and the idea of isolating each building up to one seems impractical. The long term context implies you're actually making friends with other girls to get access to one? Yeesh, value your time more than that pls. If anything you could make friendLY with ONE who is higher value than the one you want to get the most bang for your buck. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Polygamous behavior in men is equilvalent to Hypergamous behaviorIf your environment/culture is punitive towards one more than the other tough shit I guess. But I agree, they equal each other out nicely and considering women can't turn theirs off, keeping my options open and not limiting access due to arbitrary commitment rules gives me peace of mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Get to know Her FatherI got lucky in that my FIL has an awesome philosophical path of just always doing what makes you happy. He passes that onto his daughter with very little care for tradition, specific behavior, and he has always had my respect. I am terrified of him because hes an old gangster but it is all coming together about 7 years in that she is growing more realizing his way of thinking and, no surprise, the MIL is off the rails fucken crazy, controling, and the further we've gotten away from her both geog… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | "Do you hate me?"Women and their solipsistic natures don't allow them to think about a situation from someone else's point of view. I've been thinking on this lately as I give my girl tips on dealing with managers above her in her work. It seems too useful a tool for them to be completely cut off from.. perhaps they can only access this type of thinking after they've imagined a perceived benefit to themselves for doing so? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/18 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Can Anxiety be channeled into Confidence?Read Blink by Malcolm Gladwell. Worked wonders for me. To put it simply, it made it so I came to realize my first instinctual reactions in situations were highly informed messages, not just blundering non-sense. When you really believe in your first sense of a situation or person it makes a world of difference. | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to be a nice guy?All moral shit aside, it is an exhilarating experience to re-invent yourself. For most people, a geographic move facilitates it. When you go to Uni, get a job in a new town, travel for a long time, you'll get the chance. Pursue a goal that will get you out there and become the guy you always thought it would be fun to try out. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | The Hallmarks of a Quality WomanIf TRP had more functional and understood levels, this type of geo-targeting would be welcomed. Unfortunately, it is usually advice aimed at getting bluepills out of a whole mindset. Swallowing who their local women are is very important, and you're going to get all the backlash on that. A mobile job lifestyle, demographic and cultural targeting are just too small of the audience for a post, reserved for the big players who've already monetized their exploits to TRP community long ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/18 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Texting is for logistics, but what do you do when they keep on texting you?I get caught in this alot too esp with girls who dont really annoy me with their texts (funny or thoughtful texting) but I still felt like I was failing on this. One thing that made me feel back in the captains chair was this. Instead of text I try to reply with a selfie of my looking good or at a fun place with people. No text, no matter the context, reply or even sometimes as an opening text in a day she wasn't texting me. If she keeps trying to pull it back to text I'll finally reply in some … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 09:51 PM |
| 5 | LTR wants me to marry her or move on.What a great opportunity for you. Congrats. Enjoy your new position as guy who gets to keep her on the line, enjoy all previous benefits and see other women openly as you "move on" | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Divorced - What Is A Good Reply If She Asks About It?Sounds cheesy but if you haven't heard Louis CKs stand up material on divorce it gives you a few lines to talk about it positively and in a direction that will imply you initiated it. No sympathy, perfect timing for me as I was ready to step up just as she was ready to fatten up. That kind of thing. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with this sub lately though?What they prefer? How about what they typically end up with? Let's not indulge ourselves, them or each other. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 09:05 AM |
| 1 | How did you raise your self-esteem?Yea, the idea of knowing exactly what you want and for it to be specific is so that you'll have a better dynamic with girls. Because they don't fit your ideal it will always be framed in the context of 'you are not my type, but I guess I can give you a chance.' That helps to get her to chase you | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 11:49 AM |
| 37 | How did you raise your self-esteem?Read Blink by M. Gladwell. Got a big boost there when I learned how reliable my instinct could be. Gym. 5 day challenges to test my limits. Be able to say exactly what kind of girl you like. Have an ideal woman. Not to become a unicorn chaser but to be able to take a L more easily. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Has travelling helped anyone here in terms of their confidence/experience/seduction?It is not cliche at all. I'm only interested in Evolutionary psych as a hobby to read about but I suppose the basic theory is your psychology adapts as if you were cast out of your tribe. You have to lose your inhibitions, your discriminations, the excuses you use that limit you from adventure, and you have to say yes and be open to many new things. Traveling is like tricking your psyche into thinking you have to build your social status up again from scratch and that person you become is in tha… | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 02:07 PM |
| 12 | Taking her phone away!Once. With a girl I wasn't interested in really. Yes, the permission asking/flirting dynamic came out quick and I learned a few things. But it seems like something I'd only use on childish girls acting goofy. A more mature girl or one with Real responsibilities probably won't play with you on this. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Does breaking up still hurt after you take the red pill?Patrice O'Neal explored an idea once that is a little less relevant today but still very true and a great stepping stone to not feeling heart break. 'They only leave you when they know it will destroy you'. Part emotional demonization , part economic signaling, once you internalize this you should quickly be able to transfer your insecurity into a forward moving non-caring attitude that will keep your LTR from thinking she can do better than you (Maybe the biggest cause of you getting dumped) Wi… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 09:22 AM |
| 1 | The Great Trad Con, and How Not to Get Conned.If redpill is a toolbox (as best described last year in a sticky post) then even a wily "tradcon" can be a toolbox if they tend to supply accurate data from time to time. No one is an enemy worth demonizing if the careful can separate their contribution from their bullshit. JP has plenty of both. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 10:52 PM |
| 3 | How can you be sure she's into you and not just being friendly.This. I can misread all sorts of signals but what happens when we touch after I few times, I just know what's up. It's very instinctual so you have to do it to not waste your own time. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 02:36 PM |
| 19 | Shit test question/statement "you are a player, aren't you?"I know it's not the standard agree & amplify but last time I past this one worked and it was on the fly. "You think you aren't attracted to players. But you have a strong opinion about them because you've found yourself with them often, which tells me I don't need to worry what you think about them" She shrugged and have me that "ok I conceed to that" look. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 09:37 AM |
| 2 | When you lose respect for people you cared aboutLSD changes your outlook entirely. But take alot more time to digest your thoughts. I let it open my mind often and I was so happy with the changes I made after but they were all after long periods of thought, reflection, choices I weighed and then acted on slowly. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 26I had an experience that made me consider there is such thing as a... struggling to name it so help me out. "Comparative Wingman" Basically a casual encounter with girl and one other guy who had slight brain damage and came off as a man-child. We bonded a little over teasing him (in front of him and playfully), I certainly tried to play the role as more serious and downplayed my fun side because he was goofy as fuck. Was fucking her on the second meeting where she asked to bring him along again … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Seduce her with your eyes!I've had just as much success stopping all conversation and just checking her out on both obvious (ass) and non-obvious (hands, thighs) areas. I do it with a very serious/critical look and it gets them nervously asking me if there is something wrong. Then eye contact, a long pause, and a simple No or 'Why do you ask so many damn questions.' Granted this also helps me test to find out if this is a submissive girl. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 11:50 AM |
| 6 | M20 - I will probably lose my virginity tomorrow to a Tinder hookup - any last minute tips/advice?Initiate fun foreplay with some clothes or underwear still on. As somone who struggled with performance anxiety in a lot of my first encounters this trick helped. If you want to make it last longer, definitely hold your nut and tell her she needs a break once she cums or gets sweaty and complacent. Hit the water bottle but dont chug it and find that right balance between well hydrated but not with a sloshing belly full of water. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Switching Positions?You need to check out THE SEX GOD METHOD in the sidebar. Its fucking great but to quickly hit how it would address your question, the answer is VARIETY! You know what you like and that is great but if you pull the same pattern or positions with a girl, no matter how good you are hitting her spots, you also need to put energy and thought into switching things up. This doesn't always mean positions though, so if you're locked into a few you just love you could change the environment, the roleplay … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Is physical affection -touchy-feeliness- a blue pill behaviour?You're right on, it is all about the intention behind it, even if it is the same basic action, with just a little acknowledgment and body language or verbal about your intention behind it... you'll be fine. Just don't let it slip into mindless petting, mate guarding might be assumed if you let it become a pattern with no intention. I too am fond of that type of affection and have learned it is helpful to lightly tease a girl when she wants to hold my hand but then let her, or make sure to whispe… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 08:15 PM |
| 2 | A Daily Habit That Will Make You FearlessI've been looking for a new 5 day challenge as they've been great ways to break old patterns and improve. Been looking for inspiration for the next and this is totally it! Can't wait. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Having a hard time not coming off as needyStruggled with this too. One thing that worked was for me to figure out exactly what type of girl I liked. Then on a first date I'd go in at first convinced we were a bad match bc she didn't fit my profile. Allowed the push pull to come more naturally. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Modafinil? Any recommendations?I cut back coffee to only pre workout and went with tea. Started creatine. Energy is much higher and more consistent. It's so bad I started taking a little antihistamine just to get to sleep on my rest days. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Guy friendsYou DGAF. Bc you are confident, know you are the better man than her friends, and you have girls you want to spend time with without pussy footing around her about it right? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 06:46 PM |
| 0 | How to handle disrespect without seeming whiny?Next few times you hang out with your friends and she asks why she isn't invited, remind her of this and tell her she can earn back the right to do so. Depending on how basic she is she may never attempt to even earn it back. Then you know you got a real loser. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Am i wasting time being friends with girls?Quick note to go against the norm. I struck out with a super cute shy girl. She told me she was too nice, said she had trouble saying no and with conflict. I fucked up my approach, no problem, onto the next thing. But later I realized I could still get her to do all types of friend shit bc of her submissivness. Use her to get other plates on dread when I'm visiting her town. Find something like that and you might get something out of it. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 10:22 AM |
| 3 | How to handle negative family members?They are resentful the world is unrecognizable to them. If you're not knocking on doors and offering to mow lawns like they would back in the 40s they will call you lazy. Fix up something in thier house to pay them back and shut them up. Get some headphones so you don't have to overhear thier fuckin kvetching in those very rare times you actually are home while they are awake. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Call for boys club mentality negate previous TRP logic?Thanks much for that. Great response. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Call for boys club mentality negate previous TRP logic?Some kind of pay for thing? I am curious despite the association with hipsters. Never even heard of this. Any refs? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | getting over ex and becoming redpilled?To clarify I dumped that girl fast the moment she didn't give me what I wanted. It was more about having my focus suddenly on someone else. It helps break oneitis to see how fickle that part of your mind can be and realize none of them is special. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 01:59 PM |
| 2 | getting over ex and becoming redpilled?Take a vacation to someplace you haven't been before. When we are out of our element we focus on us, think about staying organized and getting the most out of our time. Then find time to meet some new girls on your trip (so a hike up a mountain all alone won't be an option) Your mind will not be on her (ex-gf) and you'll get the chance to remember that other girls attention is just as good, if not better. Dante Nero says getting over a bitch is just 5 pussies away but honestly I was with a girl … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How to look and feel young again?Travel. Backpack around, use Couchsurfing app. Get some stories, scars. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 10:47 AM |
| 4 | I need help, Will hookers and erotic body rubs help you get comfortable with women ?I broke a dry spell after my first erotic massage. I guess after seeing that cold face, dead eyes and the cutting scars on that young thing I was kind of laughing at myself and what a piece of shit I was. But then I found myself escalating with girls more often. I think I had to take myself off a pedestal in a way and that did it. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Relationships with womenYou are trying to define love as purely emotional. It's a way to keep control over the concept and make it ultimately valuable to you, a highly emotional being. Either you can include a logical aspect and allow space for the definition to have more male related actions. If you can't open up the definition of love to include space for male energy... then of course I'll seem cold about it. I want my woman to be happy, but she can only be happy after I am happy as the leader. Femininity is a great … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Relationships with womenI want to explore many women while being open to the possibility one of them might have qualities so strong I could consider putting us on a path towards that ultimate goal of gene replication. Of course I'll care for her. That's what we do. I don't consider if I want it, I can do that if she earns it because then it is easy. I want her to love me. I want to LIKE her. The sum of my care, protection, guidance is my love. She will always like me until the day I am a loser, in which it will all be … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do I have erection problems(sometimes) at 18?I had those problems. It's not ED it's performance anxiety. The best fix is to keep clothes on, grind her while you finger her, push clothes aside for oral, build up with foreplay while not getting naked (clothing material that is soft helps alot) then get beastly and dominate after penetration when you're likely to stay hard longer. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:52 PM |
| 1 | car is pretty essential for pussy right?You're getting a lot of US responses here where cars are a requirement on job applications. You have options depending on which country in europe you live in, a lot more compared to US living. A car is status but might end up attracting girls into you for the wrong reasons. Calculate the real costs of a car is hard until you've had one for years. Everyone will pretend it's less as they try to control/ push you into this behavior bc 'this is what it is to be a man' Think it out carefully. I did c… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 05:03 PM |
| 2 | BrokenShot in the dark guess that the drugs and acne are closely related. You need to stop the most impactful problems first and the drugs is it. Start there. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 04:53 PM |
| 18 | Should I fuck unnatractive women or nah?I want to share a recent experience only to kind of give a different perspective than usual TRP advice. I picked up a FWB situation on a drunk outing with a 4. Nothing special on her body, 29 years old. Her ass is big but with dents. This is not the kind of girl I aim for. But she's a blast to hang with, we have fun sex, she cooks every chance she can. It's so nice to have something different in the catalog. So I guess the point would be to give a few chicks a chance now and then that don't fit … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is her goal?Oh I'm sorry I thought she was Bi and was testing your sexual openness. If she's straight and inviting males other than you to a sexual context you never contact again. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 10:58 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is her goal?Be cool with all of it, enjoy, ask her to send pics of the piercing and anything sexual after. She might bring some MFF threesome stuff to you if you can get your head out of the monogamy lie. But your post is conveying mate guarding and you need to kill that shit especially fucking around with Bi girls. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 10:48 PM |
| 2 | I got caught cheating recently, it actually happened a while agoI believe you can demote your gf to plate and keep her around. You have to show you are totally willing to lose her, just tell her to walk. If she wants to 'work it out' you resist on 10 levels citing that you know she will be out for a pound of flesh and you just won't live that way. If she comes back around for sex and attention you have an opening to keep her as a plate and now you can be open with her that you are seeing other girls. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:16 PM |
| 3 | How is the average age to lose virginity for western men so low?There was no social media when me and my friends were in HS. We all got laid by 16. White kids across all classes. Girls had to get thier validation at best by strutting by a group at lunch in something shitty. Good times man. Fuck, just realized how appreciative i should be. I expect this number to rise as everything hot and 13 is gearing up for her Instagram career. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with girlfriend's shit tests over the internet?Well of course shes going to prod with a various string of questions why you want to stop skyping. Just say its not working for you and remain firm Don't get tricked into defending yourself with reasons. It's just not working for you. Period. If she doesn't drop it stop giving her your attention in the moment. If you travel just to see her shell assume you are stuck with her. Don't be by having a backup plan to ditch her if she thinks she's going to nuke your day throwing a fit. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Why A&A when you can disagree and amplify?I just want to know what the fuck you smoked today hahaha | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 07:44 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with girlfriend's shit tests over the internet?She skypes you to check up on you to cure her anxiety that you might be off meeting other women. You're far apart so it's amplified for her. But since you submitted to her and she knows what you are doing all the time that anxiety isn't fueling her emotionally anymore so she's getting bored. Cut off any electronic communication wherever possible and when you do see her again you better damn well have some good stories of social events you attended and some vague hints of new friends that are fem… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 07:40 AM |
| 2 | How to thrive with women in today’s SMP with women getting so much validation from Tinder/InstagramDon't look at women and see a reflection of humanity. Look through them to see yourself on the other side and what she could add to your life. Your positivity won't be connected to the disgrace of western women, but from your growth. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 07:32 AM |
| 6 | How do I stop my friend from fucking up his life?Everyone is right, he's probably fucked and you can't help really. Sorry. The one ray of light here is he probably has no clue how hard it is to stay in a place over the 3 month tourist VISA, being forced to travel he might actually get some redpill experience + the speed in which she will reject him once she feels the pressure of being responsible for him and immediately hates him for it (I've done the expat to meet a girl thing and learned all about this) might save him from a larger mistake o… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with brother acting aggressive with me.You let him get to 17 without throwing down with him and that's contributed to his bullshit. Don't hit 20 without any scars or KOs. Fight that little punk. You'll be doing him a favor being his brother and not wanting to really hurt him. Otherwise he'll run his mouth at some dude who doesn't mind going back in. Help him out before that happens. Sock that fucker. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Affair with a Married girlCurious.. have you seriously approached your wife about 3somes/swinging? There's a chance you can get your cake on the other side of the minefield by walking around. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How can I carry on with a conversation in an interesting manner?Used this on a first meet with a girl last night. Results seemed to go to the next level. If you can point me towards where you got this strategy, myself and another user would are interested. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Need help tracking down advice that paid off.I spent 20 mins looking through everything grey and what not. Must have been a post that I didn't comment on or was deleted. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | I have almost no social skills and want to go out to some bars alone tonight. Any advice?Sit at the bar. Ask what the bartender recommends. Ask them a few regular questions to establish a bit. A drink in just ask another regular question or say something simple to someone sitting next to you at the bar. Look for people who are together but aren't talking to each other so much. Chatting them up is real easy too. Once you're socializing in that space its really easy to approach women even down the road a few nights as you'll feel comfortable there. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Can’t get laid to save my life. Some real advice would be greatly appreciated.Everyone in TRP internalizes so much there is barely room for discussion about environment. It makes sense, lvl 1 shit is to deal with the hand you are dealt and improve from within. You need a couple years of TRP to not be chasing after ideals in terms of geographic fantasies but ALL that being said.... You're in Florida man. Fuck. I've been twice and it is by far the place that produces some of the most twisted bitches I've ever met. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What do I say to girls about other girls?You are doing right just keeping a light cover on it. Girls will just assume you are fucking other girls who are around you. Just tell them all it's just friends and you'll give any girl an extension to her plausible deniability so she can give you an opportunity to hook up and trust no one can call her out on it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you a counter a shit test about your age being younger than the chicks?I'm just curious what old girls you are fucking with that don't appreciate you throwing them a bone... | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Why are Italian women (and people in general) so narcissistic, crazy, and mentally sick?Because Italian men allow it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Can't figure if she's shit testing me or is for real.No man she digs you. You got a shot. You may have lost a bit by not hitting the chance and reading her right then but I've had this twice before and just took the green light on the next date. All clear and if she brings it up frame it that you purposefully choose not to kiss her that night. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 12:04 PM |
| 9 | Woman who hates men, worth plating?It would be great to see you turn that around and there's probably 5 levels of her wanting you to dominate that shit out of her head but... she's got a whole grasp of the system and climate to throw you to the wolves if you make one misstep. I would next and leave that triumph to 10 year veteran with less to lose. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Want to enter monk mode but have social anxiety, how do I work on that by secluding myself?Couchsurfing.com is great if you live in a place with any tourism. Meets foreigners and show them around. Improve your social, meet hot girls, if you fuck up socially don't worry they leave town tomorrow. The app helps since it has the hangout feature. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 11:41 AM |
| 3 | What to say when she asks how many women you’re sleeping with?I have a lot of fun with this one. I use it to go down the line of nasty things I can imagine until I cross that line of things she could even imagine till she gets frustrated and realizes I'm not going to answer. "Does fingering her asshole count?" "Ok what if I put my dick in her just once during an orgy by accident? Does that one count too?" | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 11:13 AM |
| 1 | What if you realise some of it IS your fault?My last LTR was just starting to disrespect me and I gained it back. By leaving her with the dog and the lease while traveling and picking up plates. She wants me back now and treats me well when I visit her time to time. But she's permanently demoted, I'll always spin plates when I'm with her. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Same shit test all nightShe's unimaginative. A&A needs to be ditched and you need to tell her she is boring you and the date is over if she can't show you an interesting side. I would just be firm and tell her you won't be taking her out again unless she can be more respectful/fun/entertaining. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what this is..It is how it should be. TRP assumes your role as a man is to sacrifice those emotional connections always framed in a female perspective (butterflies FSS ) and force you to earn it and maybe, if it's your thing, get an LTR to the point where your emotional connections grow from the value she returns to your life. It will never feel like those BP relations you had before but it's different and better suited for what we are designed for. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | for those of you who are in an ltr , but do not plan to cohabitate or marry, how long do you think you relationship will last?Have an exit/demotion plan at 9 months. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 12:43 PM |
| 17 | i have been labelled "arrogant" should i try to change that.90% of behavior girls call arrogance becomes confidence when they become attracted to you and become beneficiaries of your protection and strength. Don't let them shame you out of it. It's a test. But peel back 10% of the behavior as there's probably a few dick moves that might be costing you opportunities. See if it makes a difference. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Can't stand being shortTeach yourself to look past taller girls. Don't check them out, skip over them on dating, put it all into shorter chicks.. it's fun to be on the hunt for them. On my best days my vision blurs out taller girls and I only see and get confidence to approach the shorties I want. Don't deform yourself. You won't feel any better. You need to struggle past it to master it. Otherwise you'll just be a timid short chump stuck in a slightly taller body with one less year of life you spent in a fuckin wheel… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 03:21 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to trusted friends who take the bluepill every morningNever works. But it's like an itch you want to scratch bc you want to help your buddy. Last time I fucked up I let my buddy know if a girl cheats once she'll keep doing it if you stay with her. He resented me for being right when she did it again. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Women who flake on set dates1st flake, gives a reason I can respect then I give her a second chance but still double book her on the reschedule and take my top choice. Otherwise next them after the first flake. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Cigarettes and weedI would consider quitting cigs first and letting the weed be the crutch. But if the weed is hampering your willpower to not light a cig you might be forced to do both at once. Consider what you are capable of before moving forward with that decision. As someone who 'quit' cigs many times before I really did I learned this... don't use pills, inhalers, gum. Just lock yourself in your room for a week and channel your anger away from anyone close to you. The harder that short term period of cold tu… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop yourself from wanting to go through girls DM'sYou're obsessed with her cheating because you are in a position where losing her is a big loss you aren't ready for. This is a position of weakness for you AND her. If you had other options you'd become immune to being concerned with her leaving, and she'd actually become more attracted to you as the economic signal of not giving a fuck if she cheated will endear her more to you. You might not be ready to talk to other women and weigh your options but this is what will help solve your obsession … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Should i take it or leave it ?Having options is good. If it's not a huge time sink to put her in the mailroom, why not? Having her won't stop you from moving on the next better option when you see it. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Help me figure out what's the deal with this oneThey do this to squeeze pieces of attention out of you in hopes you respond on thier time schedule and prove your time ISN'T valuable. Text game requires you setting a standard for how often you respond that makes a statement. If I feel my main girl is texting me daily with inane shit I just ignore her until she texts me with something that really interests me or is her offering me something. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | A different questionIf you are at home at 23 you need to take a big step to get outside your comfort zone that will put you beyond having the time to run errands. Between job hunting, lifting, socializing.. If these aren't tiring enough then look into volunteering, certification courses, apprenticing.... burn your energy out at this age instead of being mommas boy.. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Help me figure out what's the deal with this oneShe got a new job. Usually women who make a vertical move in thier own value test a lot of people around them to find out where they stand now. Luckily they rarely have big picture calculations and decide for themselves, just have other options and ignore her until she comes around, keep frame and let her know she is nothing special and ahe will realize her increase still didn't put her above you. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you nicely tell your boyfriend he's never made you cum before and you've been dreading sex with him because of it?If you say that it will sound like this. "I don't know my body/broken/inexperienced, now fix my problem". Now if he is very experienced he'll respond well so no worries. But I'm guessing he is also not very experienced or DGAF if you cum. If it was the first he'd have picked up on your lack of pleasure, if it's the 2nd you are screwed anyway. If we assume it's the first you add so much pressure by telling him he gets too much anxiety in bed and it's over anyway. So yea, logically the best thing … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 06:23 PM |
| 1 | regarding masculinityIt's hard to sum up but a great start would be when you see hard challenges and they excite you because you remember the journey and result from diving into something difficult. Nope. The overthinking it is a waste. Just do it. Today. You have to understand it THAT way first before the details even matter. It's like trying to break down art styles to someone who hasn't opened their eyes yet. Setup meetings with new people just to socialize, travel alone, strike up convo with random people at bar… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 11:26 AM |
| 14 | How do you guys spend your free time productively?If you are in a town with any tourism... Get on Couchsurfing, use the app and traveller search to meet people passing through from around the world. Has helped me a lot build my social skills, meet interesting people, and even a FWB from a nearby country. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 11:12 AM |
| 6 | askTRP Megathread December 06The golden ratio doesn't seem to be an adequate tool for social sphere exposure. My friends are funny, interesting, easy to get along with. Hers are bitchy, fat, uninteresting. If I introduce her to 2 cool dudes, it's way more valuable than if I meet 3 of her friends. and you start to get a glimpse that women purposefully pick low value friends and/or keep the high value ones away from you. (Low self-esteem, but I'm more a Patrice theory guy and I don't make her loSE my problem) I can't properly… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 02:04 PM |
| 2 | FWB Invite to Party With Close FriendsYou're spot on, a real FWB is usually on the same level with you and tends to avoid introducing you to their social sphere because they tend to be littered with conservative thinkers that would judge/put you on the spot for not being traditionally "together". A girls birthday, only in her sphere of friends, is a real testing ground. If you are ready for this challenge, you will have a real learning experience and you can come out on top if you are ready to be on your A game!... but from what I k… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 04:12 AM |
| 0 | What's a good response to, "are you talking to any other girls?"Just give them a no in a tone that lets them know you are not exactly being honest and they will happily go along with it and enjoy their full range of self-deception. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 03:43 AM |
| 6 | What's this pattern of prime young women following up an LTR with a high value male with one of seemingly lesser value?Patrice's take: Women hate being weak and sometime they spend some time playing with their food until they are ready to go back (and get real fucked) by the species they belong to. (Sharks dating penguins) SideBar take: (From The Manipulated Man): Women in college are really there to stake out a provider male so they don't have to work in real world/facing this looming idea they that will have to fend for themselves. To answer the question, "What am I missing?" You have to figure out, internaliz… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 03:25 AM |
| 1 | is this a shit test or something elseThose aren't my thoughts really. Listen to the Black Phillip show on YouTube and you'll hear the original man in all his perceptional glory. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 03:05 AM |
| 4 | is this a shit test or something elseYou're too available to her. She's getting off on just the fact she tied up your time/plans and then denied you what you wanted. You're very much right that she is testing to see if you'd come anyway. The trick is to not give her time/effort if she doesn't give back time/effort in some way that you appreciate. Go to her place if she is going to cook for you, make you happy in other ways that require effort. But shut down letting her start the night with "Can't fucking" by being straight up and t… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 04:58 PM |
| 42 | How long did it take for you to love yourself?Your time here is short. You are nothing in the larger picture of history, biology, the galaxy. You've got a New York minute to make yourself happy, get a piece of the world, and die a good death. Stop thinking you are special. Nothing is. You don't need to love yourself more. You need to realize love is a farce while all people pursue what is most economically beneficial in their quest to replicate genes. Now go forth and play THAT game. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 01:19 AM |
| 6 | Red Flag. Did I do this properly?She's that kind of girl. She knows it bothers you. It is the type of thing she can use to shit test you with all the fun oldies like "you're no fun", "I think I was roofied", "let me equate and analyze your vices and see if I can control you." I think you are better off avoiding that oncoming storm by considering demotion/nexting. Yes you did it right. But as Patrice said, it is not righteous unless you were willing to lose her when you drew that line. If she thinks you are not willing to lose h… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 05:18 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it?I would try something that gets you considering travel/less nesting like Hemingway or Bukowski. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Breaking up with my 3 y/o LTR. I did well?He has to demote her anyway as he already dumped her and she won't respect him if he takes her back into commitment. But my advice is meant for LTR. Yes, you dump her if she is showing interest in other guys AND it's making you unhappy but you still have to laugh at the idea of her orbiters and show it is not affecting you. Give it time to sink into her head and meanwhile get some side as this can make you impervious to jealous/oneitis emotions. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 12:09 PM |
| -3 | Breaking up with my 3 y/o LTR. I did well?You are way too needy if you care who she texts. Her tears don't mean anything, she is actually satisfied she emotionally fucked you up with a cell phone and her orbiters from the past. It's ok you still have time to level up but here is where you need to be... Never care who she texts or calls. In fact jokingly encourage her about it time to time. It will show her that your value has to be higher than her orbiters, and put her in a defensive mindset that you also are in contact with other inter… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | The Tinder Effect in a documentaryI loved all Patrice offered but I do feel part of his expanded scale was there to make room for superficial shit like clothes, makeup, fancy blingy shit we at time should not factor in. It has it's place and helps for a new way of thinking but I would also urge my mates to see past most of that shit to focus on natural beauty for many reasons. RIP PIMP. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Heavy investment, low returns?On the issue of intellectual partners I find I get what I need having girl "friends" who are smarter than main girl. Being attracted to each other on that level, them knowing they are smarter than main girl, the competition it gets out of main girl, the sexual tension + the intellectual conversation... It feels like the better position to be in opposed to LTRing a smarter girl. I would just consider that setup. Cheers and keep it up. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I Have A Drinking ProblemDont know if this will help, but its how I stopped smoking cigs or quit habits for the time I don't need them. I NEVER TALK ABOUT THEM, because that puts expectations into the world. The key is to keep my quitting completely to myself so that anytime I can have one if I want. That way I have the FREEDOM to get back into it the moment I want but don't have anyone expecting me to keep to my abstinence. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 11:42 PM |
| 1 | We are live at 8:30-9:30pm PST. Callers welcome! Beat Your Genes: An Evolutionary Psychology Podcast with Me & Dr. Doug Lisle PhDMy best way to simply it is that western men seem to be overwhelmed because they are seeing the women they want drenched in sexual attention and it is petrifying them, often at an early age. Age difference is key here because guys in middle to late teens are just starting to figure out their place in the world, but teen girls the moment they hit legal status can be launched all the way into porn status and they aren't often keen to hide it. Western society is at a place where hypergamy is broadc… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 10:04 PM |
| 2 | What do women mean by a "real man"?Women can't invoke anything about being a man truthfully, in every case it is an attempt to manipulate a man in being more beta. "Be a man" = Do what I want. "Real Man" = Satisfy my constantly changing desires I can't put into words because I'm too dishonest with myself and people around me. Laugh at loud in their faces anytime they even bring up manhood and ask them when they grew a dick. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test time gap closing, what is going on?yea I fucked up. I gave Patrice a little too much credit but that was in last weeks post, he was wrong there, you never bring a girl into the fold. I won't be doing that again. Problem is she is Slovakian, I don't have to worry about half the western shit most guys do but I can't imagine what is awkward in Slovakia, they're like Europe's rednecks. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:25 PM |
| 3 | We are live at 8:30-9:30pm PST. Callers welcome! Beat Your Genes: An Evolutionary Psychology Podcast with Me & Dr. Doug Lisle PhDI'm going to try to line up the time zone change but it's going to be rough for me. If not, I'm catching up and will tune in to the latest in case my Q gets on the show. I'm up to ep13 at this point and really enjoy how Dr. L is putting redpill truths in its scientific lingo. My question is this. Why do we see a huge discrepancy between societies empathy towards human needs until it comes to sexual satisfaction. We use tax money to fund basic needs of all kinds but if you're a sexual loser you'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else hate when people bump shoulders on purpose with you while you are walking?I'm a huge fan of people moving obliviously. My simple summary is as such. 1. Most people get out of you way if you look like you're ready to brawl with chin cocked high or if you're stumbling like a fucken tard. 2. The rest have their face buried in their phones and most people will do what they can to avoid a fight. The only time these rules didn't apply was in high school, where I went to a compacted indoor school where it was obvious the dudes were testing each other. Theres not much you can… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Found out she is a camgirl. Why do I attract these type of girls ?(details inside)Camgirl centers operate near capitalist focal points. Wouldn't be surprised if you were coastal or in big city? Small community ways tend to oppress this level of whore. Even that is dying though. Like alot of guys here who suffer from cultural suffocation you probably need to MOVE far away to a culture with little tolerance for whores. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 01:39 AM |
| 2 | How to next a psycho? (family friend)Can you take a vacation? Crazy bitch knocking on your door at 1am is your responsibility. But when you're not around, no blame transfer. That would be my move bc she could go nuclear at any point and try to ruin your rep within the family once rejected. Ive been in a very similar situation and my distance (away at college) somehow got everyone jyst seeing her as a lunatic and not holding me accountable. Im sure the same situation if I was around would have meant the women would organize a consen… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Books to read to become a well rounded manBlink - Gladwell Will teach you that your instinct is a highly critical moment of information crunching. Resolves a common mistake that it is somehow the same as a womans emotional/reckless decision making in high stress moments. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 02:08 PM |
| 2 | I've lived the beta life. It sucks. I want out, here is my plan. Critique and berate me.My life was all the same at that age with alot of partying mixed in I did enjoy. What came to my advantage, and what is rarely embraced on TRP is that changing your environment in a big way rattles you out of lazy patterns. Move far away once you get a chance, get around and travel and put yourself in some situations where you need your wit and some nervous nights about where you might sleep or eat. It pays off ALOT to get out there for breaking out of these kinds of slumps where being sedated f… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Top 3 best cultures/countries to date womenUkraine is amazing. Your dollar goes for miles and miles and the only problem I had to put up with was super shitty infrastructure where sometimes the water would be out for hours in a place I was renting and mosquitoes. Any stroll down the street and you'll think you're in a super model fantasy dream. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | College grads, what would you do differently if you could redo your college experience?Don't get a part time job. The time you spend working distracting from your school work might put you into an extra semester, and unless you're going to a really cheap school the math won't work out in most cases. Just study your ass off. What is your favorite reward you give yourself? A good beer? Gaming? A swim? Whatever you love, put it between yourself and your assignments and turn it into a reward system. My thing was I couldn't get a spliff till I finished an essay, I got my work done! | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 4 | What happens to sluts when they age? How do they end up?A fundamental problem with your question. Sluts by definition get used by men for short periods of time. You're asking men who are trained to value themselves higher than betas to recount patterns of women who hold no interest in their patterns after they've pumped and dumped them. You'd actually be better off getting accounts from betas who are likely to orbit them for long enough to actually present a pattern over longer time spans. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Ex boyfriendRealize any action here other than indifference puts her in the position to orchestrate a drama, a shitty woman's favorite position to be in and always at your expense. Her ex is her problem and if she ends up fucking him, it was going to happen anyway bc he just has a higher SMV in her eyes, there was nothing you could do in a short time span to change this, so don't get baited into the drama if the result is going to be the same regardless. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | On the topic of number of sexual partnersThere is an intelligence at work, embedded in evolution, that is far more advanced than your ability to rationalize sometimes. As a man you are much more capable of accessing it, and not getting it confused with emotional instability as a woman is likely to. It is the intelligence of evolutionary pressure and where it meets instinct. If you have a good understanding of evolution, and read Gladwell's "Blink", where he puts a big value on instant gut responses, you can appreciate why you feel it i… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What is your relationship like with your mother?Life levels up when you get away from your mother. I noticed we got along alot better when I was at college, see them less and they'll save their best side for the few times they see you. Now I live on the other side of the world and its even better. I think for alot of guys, beyond all the BP conditioning a mother enacts overtly, there is another BP conditioning going on. I keep my woman in check with a simple question, is every interaction an exchange where I am also getting something? It work… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | LTR declined sex twice, but wants sex tonight. Accept?If your poker face is a fail and you are sure you are communicating butthurt openly, aside from working on being stoic, you can usually fool a girl by firing up a funny video. Laughter is least expected from someone they assume is seething. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 06:50 AM |
| 2 | TRP for the most part advocates against marriage. What if you want kids?Get her pregnant and dont ring her? In a state with favorable laws. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 07:52 PM |
| 12 | Conditioned into being beta without realising, helpGet her to post here. She seems to have TRP down pretty well. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 07:56 PM |
| 5 | 39 and want to get married. What to do?Make decision AFTER incoming increases in confidence and SMV from company success, not before in anticipation. You'll have a different view then, more options, and realize you got there by yourself which is the headspace you need to prepare you for western marriage. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Need help going for broke with my girlfriend's fetishIf your instinct says no, no. Western guy are trained to fight their best tool in this world... its hard to tune into it sometimes. But if your gut says no, then don't. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Need help going for broke with my girlfriend's fetishAs a guy who went down that path with a girl I always regretted it for one reason. I was just doing it for her. It gave me no joy. And looking back I really hate myself that I took part in what ended up just being left overs of a sexual abuse history. Sexual abusive is contagious in a few ways and I put myself in danger and was getting nothing for myself out of it other than a lay. If that sounds true for you at least consider cutting it out or moving on. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 04:09 PM |
| 8 | "You will lose interest after we have sex"Patrice had one of the best responses to this shit test. "Yea, I will if that is all you have to offer." | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 04:04 PM |
| 2 | what's the most beta/embarrassing thing you've done for a girl in your past?I remember in HS I wanted to bone this girl and somehow I let her talk me into going to her church. Its a very old memory but I remember we went there and it was EMPTY, I was thinking, a recruiting is bad but if you're gonna murder me here I'm going right to hell. I bounced so fucking quick and was alright leaving her to walk home. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 03:20 PM |
| 4 | What triggered your Red Pill journey?I know its corny but just like Neo I actually felt an instinctual flaw in the give and take in the monogamous relationships I had and saw in my peers. It bothered my like something in the periphery of view you can never catch a glimpse of for too long. Eventually I began just doing the opposite of what was considered traditionally proper (what girls SAY they want) in a very mismanaged way with little direction, yet stumbling into some truth. I actually didn't discover TRP and find harmony and he… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I had a panic attack today and walked out of work, I'm so fucking lonely, and I am doing everything everyone says.Lots of great suggestions here, I hope you find your way. I didn't see one suggestion and it has worked for me to snap out of whole life patterns and ways of thinking. LSD or Psilocybin (Mushroom) trip with someone experienced in a good environment, I'd recommend in nature far from the city. Not mixed with other chemicals. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 03:55 PM |
| 18 | Dealing with "I'll get mad at you"She cant affect your emotions. That is part of the theory of keeping frame. If you take that power away from her she'll spend a crazy heap of time trying to find out how to affect your emotions because that is a womans domain. Never let her actions have an emotional consequence outside of entertained or uncaring. Once she had a single method to make you feel an emotion she will exploit it. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Balancing smilingThe human mind has entire areas dedicated to facial recognition that quickly filter out fake smiles from authentic ones. This is not a place you can fake it. Your best bet is to elevate your mood before social scenes, maybe a double espresso, or preconditioning ppl to your serious mood. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Unicorns do exist?Wait 10 years. Hes on top of the world right now, when she'd glue a goddamn horn on her forehead to make us all think so. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl is lying at your face and you know it. Call her out on it or just ignore?What works here for me is to just call out her lie and freeze her out on conversation that is srs in nature for a few days. You'll build an association that lies prevent them chances to engage in word vomit, which is a tool they dont want to break. I wouldn't do evidence building outside of the exception of divorce prep. It sets the idea you need proof to demote/next/punish her. Your instinct is enough which comes right back to the idea that when you say she is lying, you know it and proof/effor… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 07:46 PM |
| -1 | Ex plate in LTR wants me to "help" her do something.Good example of how a guy might think 'shes tingling for me' while shes getting off on the idea of getting a second time ho. Next up she sets up a scenario where you are moving her furniture and cuck comes home and she screams out that you not fight over her as she drops an sabre between the two of you. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 07:37 PM |
| 3 | I am having trouble not being a cunt after becoming higher value.Quick word on arrogance. I got this word hurled at me alot as I got into TRP. When ppl see you gain confidence this is how they shame you for it bc your change forces them to face why they are not. In time this word fades and eventually they call you confident. And loathing the needy is about hating what you once were, dont worry that will fade to and turn into disregard. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What does she mean by this ?What she is describing here is a resource base she wants to glaum onto, more beta things really. Sounds like shes hitting the wall and if this is premature (before 27 - 28) then its because shes hiding a srs problem with herself. And shes an alpha widow... I think you might want to move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 01:31 PM |
| 4 | The first time I had sex with this girl I couldn't keep it erect and the night ended quite awkwardly. Didn't know what to say so I left. I am seeing her again soon; should I address the issue when I meet her or just let it be?I used to get nervous dick. Like a boxer you got to learn to step into the punch, what I mean is let it be an excuse to let your freak flag fly. Let the imperative to get hard turn into requests to get her to do exactly what you like. You'll get and look confident to her and shake the nervous, you'll find out quickly if shes a prude or not and how submissive she can get, and if it still doesn't all work out it'll end in an awkwardness of effort you might be able to laugh about later... not the t… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 11:00 AM |
| 1 | What does she mean by this ?Does she seem like a really homely type or not? Could be a lot of things. If she seems like a normal girl who would have an active sex life she might be throwing you a warning early so she can lead into "I have an STD" and then guilt you for acting surprised bc she 'gave you warnings'. If shes a really good girl type she might just be saying shes clean and ready to go. If she's just really shy she might sizing you up as being much more sexually active and shes just afraid she's not good at anyth… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 10:50 AM |
| 3 | South Carolina Woman Claims Four Men Raped Her So She Could Hide an Affair She Was HavingHer? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/02/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | A lot of RP is about getting a woman to sleep with you, but for those in a LTR, how do you keep the woman happy?All 12 episodes of the Black Phillip Show on youtube. Patrice O'Neal paved many of the roads and was more LTR oriented though he did bring on a co-host that will throw in more plate spinning type advice. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Yellow FlagsPatrice O'Neal's top bitch had a kid already, more than a red flag, but he always said he could push her out of the house and put her in place by reminding her about the kid. He also admitted he really liked that kid. So, yea, yellow or red flags whatever can be leveraged to your advantage if you really DGAF about them BUT can identify them as flag other guys would stay away from. As long as you aren't rationalizing something that really is bothering you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 10:46 AM |
| 2 | How to help my brother get his life together?The same issue comes up on TRP all the time, it helped you and now you want it to help someone else. It just doesn't work that way it would seem. Most have to discover it on their own or hit an ultimate low so bad they open up to anything that would challenge their current worldview. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What to do in new country?No that wouldn't be real fun or traveling, it can apply anywhere you go as long as you try a hostel instead of a hotel or with friends. I just go to some places very close to where I live but far enough away to treat it like a vacation and keep the costs down, weekend trips because it makes it easy to put up with the close quarters and lack of privacy in a hostel. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What to do in new country?Do some traveling to some places you can afford nearby and do some good research on fun, clean looking hostels that have good reviews for meeting other people. I've made alot of great friends of all types in one specifically where I got real comfortable with the town, and the staff there. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a potential (and ex) fuckbuddy in another countryFrom my experience staying in contact with a past fuck just makes you look like an orbiter. Just leave the memories of you smashing and that's all she has to access if you do meet again and want to get back to it. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Temptation.Oversea for a long period of time? You should have ended it. Also a woman traveling gets SMV inflation and often fucks around and/or comes back with her inflated ego being a problem. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/16 07:49 PM |
| 7 | TRP on Valentine's Day ConditioningIn all LTRs she's fucked up somewhere and failed to do something you wanted from her. Agree to get right on the V-day stuff and tell her the day is still young to go take care of all that crap she put off hoping you'd forget about. Have some of it ready to go but play like you haven't lifted a finger. Keep your receipts. By the third year she'll associate V-day with effort on her part and that bubble will be popped. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 06:20 PM |
| 15 | Should I watch Girls?TL,DR: Unpopular devil's advocate, its harmless and yea there are TRP truths. I watched it all the way through and found it to be very honest about girls in the west. Watching it and figuring out what is going on is about paying attention to actions, and letting all the words just go in one ear out the other. If you do this you'll see plenty of TRP truths. How girls take choices for tingles and put up smoke screens of morality. How college entitlement authentically feels in the moment. How they … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I stuck my dick in crazy. What do I do now? [long post]I want to know if this fade out vs hostile thing is expanded on elsewhere that I can read it? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 08:37 PM |
| 16 | A desired pussy pass....... denied.Chivalry existed at the same time as the dowry. You want to negotiate ladies? Lets call you dad. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/02/16 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Establishing boundariesYou don't do anything but you have to be acting righteous as possible... follow that thread and it comes down to if you are asking her where she was. If you can stop caring to that point she'll switch roles to the one who is concerned with who is hanging out with who. If she is just volunteering the info, again, don't care and she'll press the matter if she is volunteering it to test you. That happens and you say "I really wouldn't want you getting mad whenever I got fucked up with other girls."… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Sober SexIs an ubiquitous party environment at play here? What I mean OP, is are you aware of a social group you could connect with that has enjoyable people you'd want to hang out with that don't binge drink, go clubbing, are in the middle ground between extreme partying or academia? You might not realize but you said you went clubbing several times in one week? This could be easily written off by many as cool, your age type of thing, but truly it does not seem like a balanced life and you are somehow c… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Question on trickle truthAWALT and generalizations are really about YOU and putting you into a mindset of where to place women in priority, and in the early stages really help you wash out the beta. You accept they are true at all times as a mantra, but as with all generalization, you learn more about individuals with keen exploration. Its true they are lying to you about their sexual history even as they tell you more slutty things they've done. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Ex openly admits she has sex dreams about me.Plausible deniability definition textbook example. It is a dream so her boyfriend can be made to look foolish for taking any action on this statement. But she can openly communicate sexual desires to you and still make him look foolish. But like you said she "loves" him and this is probably more about the process of betaing him up and seeing how far she can go. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Patrice & signals she is just a bit uncomfortable.I can only point you towards his short lived radio show where he made this point a few times. Really no way for me to quickly find which episode he elaborated on it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hAmCjqVkFg&list=PLE55F580AB012D5E3 | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 02:33 PM |
| 7 | Can no-sex be enough of a reason to make men depressed?You are only here because an immeasurable number of organisms that came before you successfully bred. They also found ways to replenish their energy, grow etc, but what is important is that considering everything that came before you procreated you are hardwired with many different biological pressures to do the same. Being depressed when you don't find mating partners is natural. But accepting it as OK because it is natural is how you'll end up the last link in the chain. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Visit Plate Who's Studying Abroad?"Watch while I beckon my American to my side ladies." Flip this or die. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Too much IDGAF and Abundance help!This post is about online dating and how it is not working for you. You've got a dangerous look but these online women are part of a system where they use filtering to attention whore, find excuses to indulge in antisocial behavior, but still get emotions and a bit of your time. Essentially you picked an entire audience who won't fit your patience level. Try something more old school for meeting women. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 10:46 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you start feeling bad for a plate?Shes happier holding out for you and wanting to be your main girl than she'll ever be the moment she realizes she "has you". You think you or any other guy submitting to monogamy will give her what she deserves, but thats ALWAYS the slow descent into unhappiness. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | If someone says "No" to a joke you made, how do you agree & amplify that comment?"Ah well when I told this X - Y guy/girl they loved it" X and Y are two good qualities the person who said NO doesn't have, and you can obviously just use 'funny' for one since this person doesn't have a sense of humor. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How to get out of small town? Should I do real estate?If you really want to break into RE try to find a place where you have people who are connected, through public service, big business, community participants. If you just pop into a new town and get hired into a RE team you'll either have to get very lucky that they have a deep desire to help you out or have had sales experience else where to have an idea how to start at the bottom. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Weird feeling/mood about ex-girlfriends/ girls I likedNot a scientist but after reading individual vs social group evolution, economics, psychology, etc. I do firmly believe that you have factors of evolutionary psychology at work. You are programmed to want to be surrounded by women with healthy bodies to birth children. You see them poison those bodies, whore around (which you can argue is bad for child rearing in a couple complex ways) and finally the a lack of community means you have no ties or knowledge of the guys who are bedding the girls y… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | NEVER GIVE WOMEN ULTIMATUMSPatrice O'Neal covered this in two of his popular points. Give a woman "Options". Embrace the fact that they fall apart, lose power when you don't care about the breakdown of the relationship (from their perspective, you'll always be just fine!) You can go talk to those guys at the bar, no problem, hell you can let them buy you drinks and then blow them. But the moment I'm not enjoying myself I'm going to bounce for something fun. You can keep me entertained and I stay. Those are your options. G… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What is some advice you were giving before finding the RP that you thought was really good and insightful but is actually balony?Sure, I think we're talking about the same thing. Not indulging in the type of communication that is overly verbal. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | what are some RP movies or music?Woody Allen & any pre-70's band that was open about their drug use. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Response to "why don't you pay for me"Don't answer 'Why' questions. A cheeks out flat smile that says "this dopey question again" and let her stew in the silence. All her other options give you a reason to next. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | About to "do something else" for the first timeIn cases where you can do it alone and enjoy it, always just say that is what you are doing and she can come if she likes. If she complains in anyway that is your out to stop telling here where you are all the time, because negative responses hold you back from being the best person you can be. For events you really would only enjoy in her company, say you were thinking about doing A or B, A being the event you want to do with her or B being the event you'd only do alone, typical guy stuff... gi… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 07:02 PM |
| 3 | What is some advice you were giving before finding the RP that you thought was really good and insightful but is actually balony?Communication is key - Communication barriers with women are blessings! Their laziness & struggle means they only get across what is absolutely pertinent and your sparse participation comes off as stern, desirable male demeanor. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it really true that women in general are more manipulative compared to men?For all the links between science, university, government and private funding... these things ultimately produce medicine, weapons, chemical compounds for consumer goods... things where it is highly beneficial and lucrative to have well tested methods. But dig as hard as you may TRP "science" will never come near that. You can find nuggets of help but you have to piece it together yourself from evolution, economics and psychology mostly. Beyond that the simple truth is there is no big consumer p… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 06:22 PM |
| 3 | My younger sister shit-tests my dad and I just wanna slap a hoeHarsh to hear this one. In most cases your family is your foundation and you gotta protect it... but if your family is your weakness... you're in for an extra hard time. And a family full of bitches is something you must rise above. My grandfather and grandmother were the focal point of a very strong family structure up until their deaths. It wasn't until I was in my 20's I learned my grandfather left his entire family in the midwest behind, and my grandmother left her entire family in Mexico be… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | I feel a strong attraction to my buddies new girl. Advice?might as well fuck her at this point. he needs to learn a lesson about who his friends are, LDRs, etc. consider it your last shitty gift to him. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women seem to get bored and branch swing when the man is too loving, respectful, devoted, etcIt's not a perfect to only treat them as economic machines, but it is helpful to understanding them. Don't blame them, don't pretend you're different, but know that almost everything they project out, usually via words, purposefully serves to deceive and distract from the fact they are making choices on economic perceptions to get the most they can from their environment. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do many women seem to get bored and branch swing when the man is too loving, respectful, devoted, etcThey are programmed to obtain the most commensurate to their own perceived value. A man who is too XZY is sending a signal that he getting the better end of the deal by not making himself scarce. Having not to worry about obtaining more from him, she sets her goals higher, often to the next man. The man who keeps her working for his attention is sending her the signal that she is getting the best for who she is. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:44 PM |
| 2 | 'We Need to Talk' and other ways of controlling the flow of information for power.Point one about "Fine" & "Nothing is wrong" is a result of you asking about her emotional state. Things like..."Are you ok" "What is wrong" Theory aside I asked my wife this question twice in the three plus years we've been together. I would only ask this type of question in an emergency state where I needed information to address a situation. Any other time, she is an adult and can voice her problems when she needs to talk about them. If shes acting huffy, shitty, whatever I'm not going to inqu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Should i dump her?You should dump the idea that commitment is leverage for women. They get curves for leverage, YOU get commitment. (Among other things) You need to match then surpass her as far as having options for other women and show her how little you care if she has both feet out the door because it gives you free reign to smash other girls. She'll break when your commitment seems to be floundering to another girl and she'll work to get your approval if you act like her fucking around doesn't matter to you.… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 01:00 AM |
| 17 | My girl of 8 months wants to open up and share her pastEvery situation of mental health problems is one I regret getting involved in and would step away from it. It is not even that they drag you down so much as the trauma is usually used an excuse for shitty behavior and they expect special treatment. Dark pasts aren't dark, they are red, as in a red flag most guys would avoid, which is why she hid it from you in the first place... to get you settled in before she let loose... expect bad things. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 06:30 PM |
| 2 | "You don't understand me anymore" how to reply to this?Here is where you want to be... 1) She doesn't expect you to understand her because you have better, male oriented things to do (indifference and attention to other women to fix) 2)You actually understand her well by reading more TRP and ignoring her words and only seeing her actions as the sum of her value to you. 3) You master that giving into why, explinations, and feeling like you need to respond to her emotionally trolling you are something you do rarely and completely out of entertainment. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 09:25 PM |
| 7 | Bill Maher delivers gem of TRP wisdom.Don't overlook the satisfying and filtering aspects of this remaining taboo. You're doing what is right by evolution and putting a 'fuck you' in every dry hags face and they can't stop you. If they bitch about it, then you know who to keep at arms length. As an expat who now lives in a culture where age gaps are acceptable... its fine but I don't think the difference make for a worthy battle to pile on the already high heap of shit in the culture war. One of the perceived problems is that a woma… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Do Not Try to Engage Woman in a Logical ArgumentJust stop at WHY. *Some sort of request, comparison, hint, subtle lead into a topic to get something she wants *You tell her no *She asks why *Because I said, thats how it is, or a wry smile and silence It is actually how my parents raised me, because just like women, as a child I would twist reality into anything possible to get a shiny new toy. But if they cut me off at why, I wasn't smart enough to know where to go next in the argument. Basically you've got a system, morals, discipline, intel… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted on RP views. Need a bit of guidance."Clingy", "Depressed", "I feel forced into this mentality..." For guys who've had much more experience than you, these are the red flags that we reflect on and realize we should've saw a bad thing coming. We learn to avoid these things as soon as we see them and we're all MUCH better off when we get that through our heads. Like you said, you are young, and your lack of experience of having been with many different types of girls is why you think you are "ok" with alot of this stuff. You really d… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | I need some advice to give my brother.You can only lead by example. Never with words, warnings or protective behavior. Remember that failure often teaches us the most and bite the bullet and let him. Hard to watch, I know. Everyday I want to turn my cousin onto Redpill but... I truly believe no one is ready for it until they're already seeking it out themselves. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 05:26 PM |
| 1 | TRP and Female PromiscuityBecause guys with low counts need that tenant as guidance to help them find reason they might be unhappy in a society that is always trying to convince them a girls count doesn't matter... then they think about it, try a low count girl and BAM things feel better. Other dudes, usually with higher counts themselves, never cared and never will and have no real need for a tenant to help them. In other words if you never really thought to compare the difference between being with a low and then a hig… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Should I ever talk on the phone with plates or LTR's, or will that lead to more beta behavior?Girls don't have to face the complexities of cross gender communication with texts. Even if things start out great, it will become a safe space for them to try new shit tests on you. Start out the gate with any girl saying you hate texting. Even if they send you long, praising text, dont read. Call them back and say TLDR what did you want to say or come see me. Calls are generally much better IF you re able to express each emotion through your speaking. If you feel timid or caught off guard in a… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 03:00 PM |
| 2 | My sister of 22 seems mad that I'm dating girls younger than her. Why could that be?any attempt to define a man = conform to my insecurities & do what I command shifting to completely opposite definitions observed over time. duh. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 02:44 PM |
| 0 | I know she is interested but I'm not sure where to take her.Dante Nero, AKA Biege Phillip, always goes on about doing dates where you hit up many places in one night to make her feel like you've taken her on many dates when she reflects on it. Small goals, breeze through with little intent. I used to fuck up dates by focusing on "where would she want to go for 2 hours?", but all you need to do is go to a commerce center and keep saying "OH I really wanted to stop by here real quick for XYZ".. dont ask her if she wants to come just lead away. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Need advice to get out of the anger phase or how to attain inner peaceOnly works if you like economics Start thinking of people like they are all corporations. Assume they are fined tuned utilitarian machines trying to reap the most benefit for themselves from any situation. Then it is so easy to laugh off how bad they are at being that, rather than being so mad that they aren't all the things you thought they'd be from media, parents, culture, etc. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 12:25 PM |
| 2 | What sites/blogs do you read regularly? What do you recommend?Chateau Heartiste will be great once the 2016 election is over. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How often do you think guys lie about getting pussy or fucking some girl?I go the other way and do aloof and dismissive but obviously showing I have something to hide. Easiest to express in a couple Q - Responses. "Where did you learn that?" - Ohh umm.. in a book. "How many girls have you been with." - Ahh you know.. I don't know. Who counts these days? "Have you ever tried..." - I don't really remember but if you want to try I'll show you how to clean up there first... that is important. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Being an "asshole" in an LTRLearn to love the labels. Let her see you get lighten up over them. When you are a "jerk" for not opening the door for her say without thinking "I know". Then when you are an 'asshole' for not calling her 2 days into a trip you take give a big hearty laugh and say "thats what my other girlfriend tells me too." When she goes level 3 and starts telling you "how to be a man" you look her square in the eyes and ask her what the fuck she knows about being a man. No woman has ever went level 3 to try … | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Old friends from school who want to "catch up"They shouldn't be in your life if they don't have your back. But you were ambiguous here... just because they were at the same event where this girl cheated on you. Really you have to blame yourself for her actions... not to bum yourself out but to stay focused on improvement. Ditch the "best mate" for good. The friends are a grey area. If they remind you of beta past you then stay away. But I would want to clear the air with my brother and find out. If he cops to saying he knew I wouldn't be sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else not care/feel anger towards women anymore?You're right. Western media is reaching everywhere and changing things in that way. Exceptions falls under places further away from large cities I think. Its not easy to explain it but there is a subtle difference between Slovak girls I talk to that aren't from the city. The western things they love they also kinda know that it isn't "them" or their culture. Its outside and other. Whereas most Western women I know will fully internalize media and act as if that is what they are. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 09:43 AM |
| 12 | The Rational Male "Women in Love"Love and romanticism are PR and marketing. Its a cover to be pulled over your eyes to distract you from the very economic/utilitarian behavior both sexes, engage in when they chose who to give to. Anyone who blabs on about romanticism or love will eventually make utilitarian choices based on evolution/psychology/behavioral economics. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else not care/feel anger towards women anymore?I go absolutely nuts when I go back to America. That high pitched, forced way of speaking sends actual loathing fueled chills down my spine. It ruins my mood and I need to gtf away from them. Western women will always anger me. The Red Pill has helped me in so many ways but anyone who says I have to go back and face a western bitch can suck my balls. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 04:19 PM |
| 1 | It's like I'm 2 different people nowI used to practice confident talk and guiding conversation with a quiet and shy girl I know. I was never close friends with her and didn't really care either way if she liked me or not... she wasn't very good looking. Find a girl you dgaf about to practice if it's not working out for you with the girls you want to be around. Then step it up. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How does one stop putting their dick in crazy?Aside from the raise your SMV responses- Consider your environment. Maybe it is time for a change. Just like spending dollars in poor countries, each 'point' of SMV you have and gain has a purchasing power different to each local. You might be swamped in crazy + beta boys who provide easy alternatives for those crazies. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some Red Pill playlists/tv/movies/literature worth using?Read Blink by Malcolm Gladwell It'll teach you to trust your instincts what I've found to be a foundation stone for confidence. Basically, your first reaction, that happens under a second, is a very well informed reaction. When you get to trusting it you will come off very confident socially. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR is secretly a 'size queen' - am i fucked?Aside from generally agreeing with the guys below saying you're just tripping, what kind of woman you're dealing with here makes a big difference. A 32 year old, 27 year old with a high partner count, or even a 23 year old after 1 kid and the way shes used her hole explains it. But if you got some young good girl who is shy to even admit she touches herself, this type of girl will attribute the dildo experience entirely to you. That dildo may have well been your cock because she sees it as ONLY … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Just a quick situation"She wants you to be her time ho. Her move my shit ho. Her wire up my stereo ho." - Patrice O'Neil I don't go into work and give my time for the implied idea of money, and just shrug and try again if I don't get money. There is no reason you should give up your time and energy without direct benefits of greater or equal value for what you put in. Also... having a kid isn't a red flag... Its like seeing the damn Nazi flag and you're trying to sneak into their camp with a last name like Rosenberg.… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 05:18 PM |
| 30 | Exit Strategy: playing safe in a false claim societyYou just put a condom on life. But really, much wiser than the careless pump and dump attitude. Have dat upvote. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 12:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with a girl with bi-sexual tendencies?Black phillip radio show on youtube. Patrice and Dante give advice on navigating a 3 but its aimed at an older crowd. If shes young, good girl, low partner count you might need to be more in control of the situation. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Proud of Nephew / How To Deal With Rumors and Gaslighting?Had an ex who got brain damage and was pulling that shit on my family. She was poison though and everyone saw that and withdrew from her life. I just didnt ever comment on it, kept my chin high and it went away. Anyone who is easily sucked into that your cousin deserves to have those ppl filtered out anyway. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Hooking up with HB9 but stuck on the wrong side of a power dynamic. Tricky situation. What would RP do?Just the high values if shes a true 9 like OP says. If shes a 9 with uncle touched me issues she'll dip lower. Then the patrol girl 4-6's will call her out and she'll be shamed into other middle men unless she jumps to a new group first. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Talulah Riley will get $16 million in cash and other assets from Elon Musk in divorceWhen I see this high profile divorce shit I do sometimes wonder if there is a consultant in these guys corner that projects the loss vs. the benefits when looking like a "family man" or whatever. Does hitting a larger demo compensate for these personal losses? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 06:25 PM |
| 28 | Hooking up with HB9 but stuck on the wrong side of a power dynamic. Tricky situation. What would RP do?This is so obvious to me because of the experiences I've had I'm surprised the other comments haven't hit it yet. Take it for what it is but I have seen plenty of this pattern. She is only hooking up with you to get access to your social circle. She is going to ID and take the Alpha as soon as she decides on who it is and the proper time has passed where she feels she wont look like a whore and has the backing she needs to jump ship. You post started "a few months ago" and then quickly revealed … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 04:48 PM |
| 2 | What are some good films, TV series, and books with good male role models?Im gonna paraphrase the best TRP comment I ever saw on this topic... If you want stong male rolemodels in your media, READ HISTORY. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | You have to give somebody ONE relationship tip. What is it?Think in terms of economics, handle each situation with your experience of psychology and analyze the big picture later on in the context of evolution. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 02:28 PM |
| 4 | International Marriage Advice?Listen to these wise words. Also try to land a foreign girl further away from capitalist centers (cities) and with religious values in both her and her family. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Using your phone's camera to dominate social situations.Didnt have a reason to want a smart phone till this moment. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is ruining the lives of young American boys."just one more equality" perfect. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 11:09 AM |
| 3 | How to talk to girls over Facebook?Facebook is a validation machine where you are placing yourself exactly where she is getting the most attention from betas. I know Im being that guy obnoxiously overturning your question entirely but Id say the only thing to show a girl you are of high value is to say, I dont have mych time for Facebook so message me if you want to meet. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The Modern Attempt to Kill Masculinity: It's not about Evolution, it's about SocietyBest post Ive read here in a long time. Contraceptive tech changed the game, and allowed sex to be coopted by capitalism. Then we double down selling alternatives to sex to men. Explains why feminity remains in its best forms further away from capitalist centers and in places where religious doctrine counter contraception. Write more please and what TRP related materials have you read? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Why You Need to Give Up Video Games (and How to Do it)I found a middle ground approach that works so well. I only play old games I loved as a kid. No competitive games, nothing new, nothing insanely long or online. I can still zone out and be entertained but its never quite entertaining enough that I cant just stop and do something productive. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 10:10 PM |
| 4 | Feed a western woman the Red PillRevealing the methodology never made sense to me. If shes the most responsible teenager in the house it seems like she would do what most teenagers do with behavior guiding methods... rebel against it. But I havent read any stories of guys regretting introducing the ideas so.. I guess I was wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | punish or reward? big good behaviour followed by small badI can kind of relate but I leveraged abundance mentality until kissing became a scarcity. Wife thought she was communicating unhappiness/punishing me by not kissing me so I made an effort to stop it altogether. Eventually came time she complained I never kiss her anymore and I just stated I knew she was using it to try to make me feel bad and I didn't really feel the need to kiss a woman like that. Once she was called out on it and in a position of possibly losing an affectionate gesture she lik… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/14 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a good book on self confidence/esteemBlink - Malcolm Gladwell A bestselling psychology writer. This book focuses on instinct and will prove to you scientifically to completely trust what you feel within the first 3 seconds of a situation unfolding. Changed my life. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Oneitis - why can't it be a goal?This very much so. Even if you're only pursuing one girl at a time because thats all you have the energy for, having these assets will make it much more easier. So trick yourself into a mentality that you are pursuing many and have limitless substitutes if you must. I'm married and one of TRP biggest contributions in my life is overcoming this paradigm of knowing I'm committed to one girl. I'm always focusing on how easily replaceable she is and when I figure out how to project those realization… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Fat Women shit-testing skinny women ?I've come to value "fitness test" more because any test is really shit, and it helps your remember this is reserved for when a woman tests your fitness as a mating partner. I've never had a situation like this but I feel like if you mom got lipo and a tummy staple she'd suddenly be 'on your side of the healthy fence' in a finger snap and even picking on you the moment you had a second slice of pie. Don't let her shame you, shut her ass down. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many white guys lust after/relationships with Asian girls?I think alot of white american guys idolize the traditional model they saw in their parents, or more likely grandparents. They relate media representations of quiet asian girls to obedience while tuning out the reality of the asian girls they know who blend in with the western world. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/14 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on when to start the dread game?It might be better to use dread more randomly. Or just when you damn well feel. This works well with the idea of being all over the place and giving her emotions the workout she wants. Establishing any pattern is a risk of it being identified and solved. I just pulled a weekend dread vacation over my wife getting mad about a stash of beer bottles I hadn't cleaned up. Called her fat, lazy and a loser after I bounced right out for a hotel stay. Had piles of texts of her offering to be everything a… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Eastern EuropeI think you can bypass this by trying to pull from the villages. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:03 PM |
| 1 | [MOD] You used to get two chances to fuck up. Now you only get one.That's really a pity the older guys with more RP knowledge end up doing more grunt, or "janitors" work. I'm surprised more newbies aren't told to read the sidebar THEN go to asktrp. I go there and I see people interacting on the more newbie level and its amazing. I think that has alot to do with the lack of seniority. No one feeling they've been around too long to be above others. No one frustrated by topics being revisited. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 06:32 PM |
| 0 | I have a serious babyface. What can I do?yep. Beard time. I hid a babyface all through college this way. If you can beard and have a babyface you got a secret weapon that works on the right girls sometimes too so cheers. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The 12 Levels of Dread: "The Rules" for any Long Term RelationshipYea I agree with Boney here... these are working points for getting more out of your LTR but many of them don't qualify as dread as I understood it. Some of these are just "up your game, improve yourself" points. Dread as I understood it directly targets and triggers a woman's perception of scarcity. I guess the key being directly there as the improvement points can all be argued will indirectly affect her perception of her SMV vs yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Blaming women is not betaI agree with you that calling a woman out on her shit openly is often the right move. But that is an external thing. When I talk about blame I know I'm talking about an internal process. I will deflect any blame thrown my way unless its spot on and I can be credible by coping to it. But when shit goes south I think it has to be routine to blame yourself as long as it leads to reflection and then considering how you could better yourself/the situation/your responses. That way others people shit w… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why I love TRP"...sooner or later you're going to realize just as I did that there's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path." | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 06:50 PM |
| 14 | Why Many Don't BelieveI used to think equality was such a great ideal. I used to think 'traditional families' was just a republican buzz phrase. Moved to a place with traditional families and found real happiness. Realized a good ideal on paper is actually driving people nuts. And ironically in the grass is always greener situation I see guys in this country fucking their shit up by lusting after this Western woman ideal having no clue what the reality is like. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Wife makes more money than I do. How do I get control of our finances?You have a fundamental problem that TRP god Patrice O'Neal would point out. Your wife makes more money than you. She can't handle that. As long as this is true she will always be in the process of marginalizing you in her mind. So focus your energy on making more. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 01:35 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about sites like Ashley Madison which actively promote cheating on your spouse?You're not going to get any self-improvement rejecting western phenomenon one thing at a time. You can make a large effort to try to GTFO or make your personal environment less western. That being said I read one user comment where his wife was shit testing him for a threesome and she wanted to get double teamed. His response was to setup an Ashley Madison account and he showed her his hits and how fast he could setup a threesome with more women. Shut his wife right the fuck up on that topic. Wi… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 01:24 PM |
| 8 | I am Tired of Protagonists that accept SlutsThis reply was gold. I'm going to change my reading line up with this in mind. Cheers sir. But also... Hemingway | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 03:41 PM |
| 52 | Joe Rogan Red Pill KingI've noticed how Joe keeps saying he "cant side with these MRA guys" and only mentions divorce rape as their one credible issue... then he goes on to bring up redpill after redpill issue. I think he's aligned with this place but he knows he doesn't really need to say it out loud. Kind of like how you can write a redpill truth in other subs as long as you do it without the codified words or under an account with trp posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Women shaming you = a sign you're doing something right?You're in transition. All the ladies who are used to you being a beta bitch are rejecting what is going on. Its gonna be a long process. If you really advance you'll GTFO esp away from Mom and the family. (Pssstt East Europe). Congrats. You are doing it things right. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 08:30 PM |
| 2 | "Feminist" Stripper hamsters in CNN articleImagine a PUA scammer selling DVDs on club psychology later being like "I was trying to pay for my expensive fucken women's studies degree." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 08:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys handle facebook feminists?There is a button to unsubscribe. No more posts from that person. No butt hurt msgs about it later. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/14 08:25 AM |
| 1 | American MothersOuch that 6th paragraph was such a concise way to explain childhood. Gdi lube. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Found a great resource for dealing with BoarderlinesYeeeaaa practice how to ask about this invitingly on a first date like you are ok with it. Then gtfo. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy as the evolutionary motivator of men?We need a thread to explore Locality vs. Hypergamy. Im starting to become of the opinion hypergamy is best suspended by small town community and the threat of easy access to relocation. While larger, more anonymous urban centers accelerate it in a linear fashion with population growth the ease of access to relocation has always been limited by social group dynamics but is currently most defined through citizenship and national agreements. Tl;dr - bitches are gonna act right when everyone knows w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Beyond lifting and game: TRP's opinion on "other" enhancementsFuck with you confidence, dexterity, strength and wield a mean sex toy. No need to go under a knife man. My step dad got cancer like a year after male enhancement and it was too sad a story. Sure no one could prove it caused it but still Im sure he blamed himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 07:34 AM |
| 9 | Girls with more guy-friends than girl-friends. What do you guys think?When a girl tells you, "other girls are threatened by me, I don't like drama, guys make better friends" the translation is... "Im cultivating this image to get fast access to man space so I can have my pick for the most alpha in your men club. When I pussy him up and divide you Ill blame you next for "creating drama" and watch how any problem you have with me will be labeled the same way. And once my work is finished here SURPRISE my girl friends will suddenly appear as I go about flaunting my v… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 07:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you motivate for work outs?I wont need caf but yea trying to get theanine here its a srs pain. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you motivate for work outs?Thanks for the ideas. Ive been drooling over kettlebells online for weeks just looking for the best deal. Shipping a big problem for me. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/14 07:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you motivate for work outs?Realized the other day I need to buy a bike for the wife and me. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/14 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you motivate for work outs?I wanted something I could do anywhere. I travel alot, I've never been fond of owning more than I can fit into my suitcase. And I need something I can do on work days. But I am working on getting access to bench and bar so I can start the always recommended stronglifts. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/14 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Swallowing the red pill has been a reliefWith the exercise the best tip is to just start trying anything today. Then ask yourself if you like it after a week. Borrow some dumbells, do the first half of a simple routine, jump rope for 10 minutes. JUST START ANYTHING. Don't overthink it too much, that thinking will be better spent down the road when you get an idea what you like, dont like, see your goals more focused. I recommend to everyone Malcolm Gladwell's - Blink. Teaches you to trust your instincts 100% from a top writer in psycho… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/14 03:36 PM |
| 1 | A possible exception to the "never marry" rule? Foreign women.Married to a Slovakian and AWALT applies but I'll never go down that path of moving us into a more western influenced area. That will only make my job to keep her in check harder. Marrying them can get you residency and that might lead into citizenship but is it worth it to you? The stories I read here of finding the good foreign girl and then moving them back to the states all end the same. She becomes the same as the women in her locality and you lose hard. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/14 03:25 PM |
| 10 | Don Jon, lightweight redpill material or heavy weight bluepill indoctrination.I don't remember the specific scenes as the movie didn't leave that much of an impression. I only had one take away from it all and that was that a girl building a concept of romance from media is just as much of an idiot as a guy who builds a concept of sexuality from porn. For me that was a huge redpill thing to because now I always go out of my way to put commentary on romance the wife and I watch that make her realize how fake and unsustainable it is to expect that. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women (and beta men) want to think that their guy = every guy?If their man has a problem it can be addressed, people can expect you can change it with some social skill and effort. By projecting those problems onto 'all men' the problem becomes monumental, impossible to solve and the person bitching doesn't have to fear the obvious retort "Ok, well then, what are you going to do about it?" Projection is pretty easy to spot when you see someone paint you in some way that seemed to come out of left field. A girl just did this to me recently, saying I was sex… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 01:20 PM |
| 2 | A Few Words on Chivalry"What happened to Chivalry?" I gotta kick in... "Yea and dowries!?!? ...oh we're not trying to revive ancient gender policies? ... pass the biscuits." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wanted to go through my phone, I didn't let her and that's led to tension. What steps to take now?Now there's heat. Is she just fuming but knows shes wrong? I get this from the wife when these things happen. Don't even sweat it. They make themselves feel like children then put on this angry vibe until it becomes too tiring and they finally have to learn something. I think you handled it just fine for a manipulatively timed shit test. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Advice on Living the Life I WantI can only recommend LSD or shrooms. Shrooms are a bit more mean because there is a good chance you'll barf during your trip. But they are also great for starry skies and the desert. DMT was an ordeal I didn't care for but that is only from one trip. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/14 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Crazy Story involving HS girl, College Guy, need adviceWell here is what you need. A high five. Shes hot and you like her it can't possibly matter shes in HS. Also you're floating a free SMV point just because HSers have an inflated sense of how amazing college must be so she thinks you're snubbing a sea of other hot sorority girls to hang with her. Tell her not to lie again and knock it off with the texting. Jesus, you think its fun now but down the road it will be 4 shit tests a day via text. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/14 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Finding women that are not completely uselessBig world out there. Lots of countries. Plenty that still have traditional gender roles and no feminism. Plenty of places with no need or access to Facebook. (Which could be good for you too) | /r/askTRP | 24/09/14 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Advice on Living the Life I WantOh I'm sure this will earn me some downvotes for drugs being against alot of RP thinking but if I was in a serious psychological rut I would try an LSD trip. It is like a reset button on the shit that wears you down. I recommend with someone more experienced with it and far away from regular civilization. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/14 05:22 PM |
| 2 | "Worst case scenario I end up with a few baby daddies and a BMW."Yea, you think it can't get worse but wait till she starts picking her favorite basketball players. Did you know close to half the American expats I met in Ukraine/Slovakia are from Southern California? Food for thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 07:39 AM |
| 2 | What single question can you ask to find out if someone is red pill? (assuming they don't know what red pill is)You can probably play them some clips from Patrice O'Neal or Bill Burr and see if they laugh along. The bonus here is comedians deliver the material which is near impossible for them to character assassinate you over later on. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/14 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How does romance fiction warp what women expect from men?This. Long term exposure to media convinces a person they are learning about their own culture. Porn and Romance alike. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are attractive American women are so picky compared to other attractive women around the world?Because Hollywood sells them their role models. And those role models jump between the stereotype goofball to the stereotype smart guy to the stereotype rich guy, milk something out of all of them, and then look JAST adorable for not being able to find that perfect something in anyone of them. Women in the West don't look at their mothers, theirs aunts, or the grandmothers for guidance in these choices anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 04:30 PM |
| -1 | Need some advice on a girl ive already hooked up withPlow one of her friends well. Enlist a formerly well plowed girl you tapped to blab about it in front of her. Look for a opp to share a great sexual encounter you had. Get a friend to lie about a sex tape he stole form you and you had to buy him 10 drinks to get it back. Not a direct brag but something that makes it look like you're actually trying to suppress from this girl a much more exciting sex life than you may have. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Female college students become prostitutes to pay the billsConsidering the cost of college education and perception of a healthy financial boost post-graduation why aren't these "businessmen" asking for sex and a percent of the future income? Would've been an excellent case of guys becoming the pimp AND the john. Such a shame. Also this site needs to open up its sister site "Seeking Top Grades" so the teachers can leverage their positions. I love when the invisible hand reaches up skirts. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on a girl ive already hooked up withMe and my friends all agree she wants to get fucked by the way she acts and goes around but im having trouble regenerating attraction. I barely ever text her and im not that clingy at all. The story has a context that feels like its being muffled right here. A girl acting like "she wants to get fucked" is probably getting around already. Its not hard for them to get dick. That first sexual encounter means means a great deal when a PYT has a lot of alternatives. You got to manufacture a way for h… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Advice/Help plsWanted to chime in my wife used drinking as a blame point for everything. I've cut back quite a bit and still after 2 beers she would bitch. If I wasn't feeling well, if I was tired, or ate something that didn't agree with me she would blame it on the beer I had the day before. I realized she was grasping for an easy to demonize weak point because she didn't see my SMV as high enough. After I started lifting and got a second job and got a good summer tan... nothing. We all need to be able to kic… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Are white knights complete poison?Yea, alright you're right here for sure. I just get tangled up here thinking 'this guy is sick with BP' or 'I can help him with the truth of RP magic' but there is no need for this. Thanks, this will help me in setting a boundary. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | "I just got out of a relationship"Because a girl who just got dumped wants a man to bring her out of the dumps. Get her confidence back up, etc. A girl that just did the dumping tends to fantasize about running around with more guys, having more "fun". Either way the play is the same to look like the fun guy that can make her forget about her previous LTR. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 02:34 PM |
| 0 | "I just got out of a relationship"Well there isn't too much info here so I hope this is close to helpful but I don't think women ever say THAT to mean "I want to be alone" or "I don't want any male sexual attention right now." Maybe something about you struck her as an LTR kind of type. First I would make sure you go about making sure she knows that is not what you are interested in. And DON'T worry if you actually are interested in that, just get your foot in the door. Maybe try inviting her to something you're already going to… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How did our Western culture go from "a girls most precious gift" to "my junk"?The world is big and worth exploring. Find a place with traditional values and smash every television you come across on your way to it. Find some girls with big soft titties and milk her udders. Cheers! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Swinging for abundance mentalityPatrice O'Neal was certainly for it and saw the value in controlling jealousy, not eliminating it though, and he was a smart RP dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Explination why schools = feminist indoctrination camps? And how would TRP improve them.School is very nurturing. Very agricultural (as opposed to hunter gatherer). You often go through primary school with all female teachers (USA). I have this PERCEPTION, that could be false since I wasn't there, that back in the day of old boys club college was much more masculine... but feminism originated in civil rights with a HUGE connection to the university so no surprised that masculinity evaporated there. A good school for your son might focus more on home building, repairs, hunting skill… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/14 12:02 PM |
| 10 | PUA's who've dated foreign women: American women are worseSo impacting since boomers embraced "cruise control" parenting (which I admit I stole from another redditor) and people think they are learning about their own culture when they absorb television. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Maximizing Relationship Utility Through Understanding Nature And EvolutionSo how many cycles of this do you think we're (men) setup for? At some point we get signals even our fertility is fading and its time to stop spreading genes. Rather than hole up all alone there has to be a strategic time frame to lean towards companionship. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 06:56 AM |
| 17 | Women encourage other women to give shit testsSo true. I have a 24 hour period where any shit test that comes my way gets a "I don't wanna fucken hear what your mom thinks" a day after the wife has been visiting her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 06:48 AM |
| 25 | How to maintain frame: don't take anything women say seriously.This is why dating girls who barely speak your language kicks ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 06:45 AM |
| 8 | I stupidly asked my girlfriend about her past sexual partners and now I feel contempt towards her...Alot of these comments say you shouldn't hate her for the creature she is... there is truth to this TRP often prescribes a disregard for large number of sexual encounters for girls you will be with. Other research based posts will tell you this changes in marriage as over a long period of time girls with many sexual encounters are likely to be less satisfied having sex with just one person. All that aside some men find great gratification being the one to introduce sexual ideas to women and feel… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/14 07:56 AM |
| 2 | People who were previously pretty lazy, how did you change?Came up with some exercise habits I could jump right into if the wife handed me a bag of shit. I take it out on the weights or my running shoes or in the pool. Helps maintain frame, give me time to mull over how I want to handle things, fitness ofc, and I wake up with more energy. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/14 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Women who are serious validation seekers .... should I just avoid?Spot a hottie. Ask to meet her single cousin, sister, friend. ID hot genes but go for the girls who cultivate real skills and sidestep the self marketers. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 06:45 PM |
| 2 | TRP seems like a coping mechanism for tolerating and exploiting the feminized state of the west. Are there any movements dedicated to actually changing the sorry state of society?Can you really politicize a harsh truth that a sea of betas and overvalued women don't want to hear? Some of the loudest 'democratic' nations are where the problems in gender relations is growing. This could be an indication that this can't be solved politically. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Being a short dudeAre your buddies the kind of guys that make good wingmen? If not try getting other more distant friends to wingman with you. Make an agreement with your buddies that when you're out you'll make plays to highlight their SMV for tall girls and they'll make plays to highlight yours with short girls. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I became shallow, theres more to life. Seriously learn from me.A good case study in the limitations of TRP if you limit yourself to only one of its many goals. This will be a more fleshed out and valuable piece to pass on once it is part of the larger story of the next phase of you life... and the one after that... all which I would hope continue to benefit from the shared knowledge here. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 03:27 PM |
| 5 | What are some tell-tale signs that a girl is marriage-material ?Look for connections with her views on relationships to people in her life with strong relationships. A woman with real examples of strong relationships has down to earth expectations. Girls without this tend to have fantasy expectations they pick up from television and movies. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Elegant Use Of Married Dread Game With Self-Improvement & Frame Yields Resultsbest story on the board ever! way to go man! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Adjustment Period: Married VersionThis is a good way to check yourself. You're used to her nag but sometimes she offers things that can improve YOU and you're first reaction is "oh shit another nag coming". I struggle with this too but they can improve you in ways you want just got to get over that part where it doesn't FEEL like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 07:45 AM |
| 7 | As a redpiller, how would you greet a hot stranger?Context matters too much for one answer but alot of smart dudes here will tell you 7 - 10's are hit with the same old bombardment of attention everyday and usually produce a thoughtless reaction to shoo them away. To get past this first barrier and differentiate your first move may to greet them in a way that does not factor their hotness in at all or even consider purposefully giving them little notice. If I notice a hot girl I want her to notice me having a good time before I'm even faced with… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Success stories from "late bloomers?"My best friend in college and beer pong partner revealed to me that we were actually going to parties to make that next great mistake from which we would learn. Overtime it sunk in that mistakes and failures teach you so much they are worth pursuing. And then you get over fear, you improve, and before you know it you realize you're chasing down success, not mistakes. Go find a girl and make a mistake but for the love of god wrap it up. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the tradition of asking the brides father for permission to marry her?Didn't, never was an issue. My family (westerners) seemed to think I should have. Her family (east eur) couldn't have given a shit, the dad included. He was the one most supportive of our marriage through it all anyway. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/14 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Dilemma: How do you ensure that any of the girls you have sex with won't come back with rape accusations?The love contract of course http://cdn0.lostateminor.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/love-contracts-2.jpg | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 05:10 AM |
| 1 | 1,000,000 Subscribers ...... but we might be deadThats how it felt here but then again when late teens come here I can only imagine how far ahead theyll be if they get it... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 07:34 PM |
| 2 | How does ignoring shit tests help?From my understanding the tests are often to see how much of a bitch you can be and what she can get away with. You want to answer those questions with 'Not at all/Nothing" but if you don't have a rock solid way to do that then ignore... because that leaves the question floating around and she will be too afraid to put the shit test into action without prior information. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 02:21 PM |
| 1 | "You need to learn how to deal with me"That is some excellent rent. How long a stay will you let it cover? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 02:17 PM |
| 0 | How do you last longer?Well this is a double edged sword but.. alcohol keeps me going. Also go hand in hand with my other trick.. having a full bladder. If I get aroused when I gotta piss that pressure subsides and provides a more effortless erection and longer time. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/14 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How to 'not tolerate' SO's bitchiness and rudeness?I've been absorbing a shit load of Patrice O'Neal here so I'm sure can channel his wisdom beyond the good advice in these other comments. This tries to cover the psych of what these other commenters are saying.. A woman's worst enemy are the crazy emotional voices erupting in her skull. When she goads you with bitchiness, she is literally feeding, like a vampire on WHATEVER emotion feedback you give her. Even if you apply logic and make a solid front to her emotional shit she is still getting so… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 05:52 PM |
| 25 | Girlfriend texting other guys. What to think.You're in college man. You're limiting yourself by thinking you need to have a girl on a leash. She ain't cooking all your meals, making mortgage payments with you, taking care of your kid. Like... maybe you're holding all Aces and its not a big deal in your mind but... I can't imagine keeping a college girl locked down that hard is worth it. I think this whole mentality is why you get so bothered by some texting. You're right she is probably flirting with this guy. Men and women just don't make… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Patrice O'Neal's Fisherman Analogy ParaphrasedThank you, had no idea he got it into his stand up material! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 08:23 AM |
| 7 | Patrice O'Neal's Fisherman Analogy ParaphrasedI'll take the slow digesting wisdom of Patrice, Louis CK, Bill Burr with good laughs over the PUA videos anyday. But Patrice pushed the envelope the furthest on the most direct path. His death was to TRP knowledge what the burning of the library in Alexandria was to science. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 04:34 PM |
| 3 | NumbersThis one is a great opp to test back and see how jealous she can be. Stick your fingers our like you're going to count but don't show a number with them just wiggle them in order like you are counting. Then go into questions like "Well does just anal count? Just oral? What if she just licked my balls during a threesome?" If you take it far enough you'll find out more about her and what she has done. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Patrice O'Neal's Fisherman Analogy ParaphrasedAwesome! thanks for the updates on Von Brown guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How do girls tell the difference between shyness and chillness?If I can throw in a different type of comment.. a way to look at it differently. I was always the quiet guy not very comfortable at parties... in America. I left parties questioning if I was becoming some douche and talking so much to everyone... in Lviv, Ukraine. So make sure to break out of your usual social spaces to take on a party and up your confidence. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 12:54 PM |
| 10 | Slut-shaming and TRP?It could be said that is one of the goals but I don't feel it applies to a majority. If it was the only goal and applied across the board you'd be right. But you have to consider there are goals including self-improvement, family planning, philosophical meaning, the feeling of being part of a community you understand and more. If we take your focused goal and apply it to a pretend man who only TRPs to score and nothing else... then slut shaming performs a function in which a loud social gesture … | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 11:46 AM |
| 0 | how to respond when people realise your changed and more confident and they shittest you to see if you "yourself" and not "fake"Change as a concept is something you can always fire back as something people can either handle or not. The follow up response you'll get coming out of beta is "well I don't like it" and the proper response is "I'm glad you said this now and not later because I'm moving forward in my life." See what they do with that retort. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Being confident in the company of better menDon't just think about how to stay on their level either. Dip your toe in mentioning things older, accomplished people envy in YOUR position. Not being tied down, traveling, dating around, a young person's metabolism, potential, etc. A lot of time guys who seem like gods to you want to get back in touch with who they were by listening to those things you experience now. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/14 05:32 PM |
| 35 | 2xC: "TheRedPill is causing me to self-harm, as I become more depressed by what women must really think of me. "It was on a show called The Wire in reference to a drug infested neighborhood where they tried experimental new drug policy... but it is a way better use for 2xC | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | RP for being friends with a girlSome women will sell themselves as the bro or the tomboy really well. Then 4 months down the road they are dating one of your other bros. Now, would you have to deal with that awkward shit if you found a REAL bro? Girls gain access to social spheres through men they see as betas this way in search of alphas. They can't do it through other girls because other girls are on the lookout for this behavior, trying to hold down the alphas for themselves. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/14 01:43 PM |
| 3 | How do I respond to this?Man... what a bomb response. You're playing this perfectly I'd say. Also stay on that line of only answering text that lead to immediate benefit. Ignore all the shit test via electronic comm. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How'd I handle this shit test?One thing you did was throw other men under the bus and validated an overused word (creepy) that women employ all the time, usually to make covert brags about how sexually attractive they are. Wife pulled the same on me when we were still dating and I beta flopped like a fat kid in the pool. But later I came back around and said I was ok with it and happy she wouldn't have a problem with me buying girls drinks. After which she had to 180 and apologize for accepting said drinks. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 03:07 PM |
| 2 | What are some really subtle, even meta, shit-tests women do that are insidious (like the man-cave)?Wish Dan would've kept on the first point bc thats the biggest shit test I get from my wife. She thinks bc someone else has something in a relationship she should have it. Kept it under control with firm "I dont act based on other peoples relationships" and shes basically given up on this shit test but it still pops up now and then. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The origins of the red pill knowledgeFor me the matrix was a perfect analogy. Overtime I just became sure something was wrong with the reward to cost ratio with relationships and sex. I had to turn to evolution, psychology and economics to explain my cultural confusion. I had already expated out of the anglophere by the time I found TRP. Im sure others arrive this way too.. having been bothered for sometime that something is just plain wrong. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Bad date w/ wife confirms frame after 4 grueling hoursIt's not easy but I mean... hell that is why I am here. Getting her to enter my frame would be excellent. I see improvements as I continue to improve my physical shape. Obviously the financial side needs improvements. I would say yes comparatively if I was still in America married to an American. I'm hesitant to put too much info all in the same place else I end up one of those TRPer who has to sweep out all their posts one day but if you check my profile you'll easily see where I live. Being an… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Bad date w/ wife confirms frame after 4 grueling hoursSlotted or not things are improving for me. TRP helps me fend off being treated like that so... I guess we'll see. We're both certainly in the lowest of the tax brackets and we're going to settle these issues before I would ever have enough for divorce-rape. I made a decision in my life to forgo high income to ditch the anglosphere. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Need opinion on LTRSaid it before will say it a million more times. Texts, messengers and phone calls are mediums for women to run insane shit test behavior on you. My wife sends stupid shit to my phone whenevr shes mad and I just dont read it. Then shes quiet as a mouse in person and acts right most of the time. You cant leverage your sexual dimorphism in text. Only answer the ones that lead to meetings, sex or other direct benefits to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 06:24 AM |
| 1 | What kind of families were you all brought up in?Eastern Europe. Already there. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What kind of families were you all brought up in?Came from the common nuclear explosion 2nd marriage family. Divorce that made my step dad looking paranoid/sociopath and my mom a gold digger. Now I can relate to him alot more after TRP. Multiple suicides post divore in other family membera sealed the deal and pushed me mentally to ditch the west at all costs. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Refusing the "Gift"Great post. I also get this shit test but never take it too seriously. I will now. I usually get it when already naked in bed (trapped) but its time to start ignoring it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Bitcoin a good starting option to have money 'aside' in marriage?Im thinking about the safe. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/14 04:27 PM |
| 4 | I got this girl I like constantly messaging meYea listen to this. Texting is a weak medium where it is easy for women to shower multiple people with attention with a click. This will come back and hit you in the ass later when you start getting shit tests via text. Show disregard for texts beyond that which doesn't convey vital information. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 07:41 PM |
| 0 | How do you respond when a girl calls you hot?"Girls are 'hot' because we haven't figured out how to lower to cost of that compliment to just two letters. You can say I am handsome though." Super arrogant with a dash of that 'word is vapid'. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Guys who you know were crushed by women- what happened to them?2 suicides. Both from collapsed marriages where she cheated and all the shit fucken anti-guilt hamstering afterwards you could snack on at family gatherings. Don't marry in the west if you can help it. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/14 07:11 PM |
| 1 | To those in successful LTRs, how do you feel about your SO?You've hit an interesting point asking what kinda of EMOTIONAL relationship... TRP is full of pointers on how to avoid entangling, go nowhere, circular emotional traps. That frame avoids emotion to a great extent so you can stay in control and on point. I look at my wife and often think "What is she doing of value now, yesterday and tomorrow" and I never really think "How is our emotional relationship?" I guess I've come to rely on her to provide it in excess, try to steer it and fabricate all k… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Bitcoin a good starting option to have money 'aside' in marriage?Thank you for this info! Looking into this in my area. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/14 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Topic: Success stories; have you been successful with TRP? C'mon, tell me objectively how your life has changed.Cut my drinking more than in half and replaced that time with exercise. Lost weight and starting to show some tone. Rarely get sucked into dumb arguments or shit tests from my wife. Get to look back and laugh that I dumped all that Disney prince behavior and am happy with my lady and my life. Yea, I contribute the majority of these advances to TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Topic: Women lacking father-daughter relationship; where can i find info and/or people who have experience with this?From my experience women from single mother upbringings aren't attractive in any special way... they are just easy. In the west I can especially see the value considering all the daddy princess bullshitting that goes on. But my wife does have a strong father figure and I think it helps her see things from a different perspective than her gold digging mother... which is very valuable. So I think aiming higher would be finding a girl with a down to earth father who you could relate to if you're lo… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/14 05:25 PM |
| 2 | "Ruining Virgins for Everyone Else" (Another Case of the Myth of Female Hypoagency)LAWL so well put JP. #TeamFuckenPutin | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Lost composure, damage control?Broke frame on exactly the same shit last week but told wife to STFU about till she complied and I left. Just keep on trucking and take a few jabs silently before saying you dont respond to gossip and trash. Watch a funny YT right after too. Nothing conveys "yourshotdontphaseme" like a good,real laugh. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/14 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Wife came in and just said "I'm going out."Love your note 2.0 That is where you can pass alot of shit tests with LTR. You put yourself in thier shoes and see the moves like a chess board. Wish I could access those moments everytime. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/14 10:14 AM |
| 1 | This Red Pill stuff is bloody difficult sometimes.TV and commercials? - Well thats a blessing in disguise, read more books. And being demystified by their affections and having short lived interests? GOOD! There is more to life then women. And if you really up you game, make money and get into travel you'll find one of the remaining places in this world you don't have to RP so hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Wondering if this is a normal reaction for women.Kinda a red flag that her disinterest was obviously about your physical connection and then she lights up over your compassion. If she's really turned on by something about this then awesome but be on the lookout for her thinking that your volunteering is a signal to make you into a beta orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Question about hamster roomateSchools are all different but I would recommend you go through housing to get a transfer away from your roomie. I know this seems daunting and it's been a long time since I was in college but always remember to 1) Frame your moves in terms of how you can deny the college money now and in the future. 2) Make the case the impossible situation is effecting your grades and your health. That covers the college interests and liabilities. List the problems with your roommate but don't focus on them. Se… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Severe problems with money and relationships.You could always get into politics | /r/askTRP | 10/08/14 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How to Socialize With People in a Club Setting...If you can pull a well timed nap in mid day you will have an energy advantage over others. Simply aiming for 11 - 3 is the best time, anytime after can make you too groggy as your body might think you're going down for the big long night sleep. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/14 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How to Socialize With People in a Club Setting...This is my club recipe from a white married guy. :Sneak a short - medium nap from mid-day :Smile in the mirror and pep talk yourself before the club :Drink half as much alco as the ladies but more if you just feel annoyed :Dance your ass off and invite ladies to dance if conversation awkwardness hits | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 06:10 PM |
| 0 | If she left tomorrow, would your sex life be better?Good post. I'm more thinking you should balance it out and demand more from your wife once you surpass her attractiveness... you don't want to be the guy getting all the looks and start wondering why you're married to this dog... But, yes, just knowing you could leave and go get some better makes alot of the inane shit get the volume turned down. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Female wingman?Interest to see if she actually grasps how to help you or will or if her just standing around will be enough. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 05:57 PM |
| 3 | TRP and college adviceGood man widower. I noticed TRP forum is where seniority goes to bitch that people aren't on their level about my 2nd week in. Asktrp is always good cuz it's never above the newbs. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are (western) women so concerned about how men react to periods?"My other friends don't feel the need to berate me with their hygiene problems. I can't figure out why we hang out. See ya." | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 02:42 PM |
| 0 | I friendzoned a hot but messed up chickWish I had that wisdom going after peanuts back in America. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 02:38 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with shit tests from women in a position of genuine power over you?Great one. Sure she would've gone off about the place being a humor filled and fun place so lighten up... followed by absolutely zero tolerance for jokes and overt fun. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/14 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What's the TRP verdict on bisexual girls?I'll second this. I wouldn't say that all bi's are nuts but there is enough bad nuts in the bag to make me stop putting my hand in it. Besides there is some clearly marked uncracked, pistachios in that bin over there. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/14 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Compilation of amazing Patrice O'Neal redpill rantsThanks for putting this together Stuff! I was searching for this before and didn't find it like a month ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Once you break up with a girl... is there ever going back?When I changed my pattern and committed to walking away and never talking to girls after a break up things became much better for me. I won't list the perks of the various outcomes but it is just way better. More than half the time if you go back it'll end up in some kind beta- orbit situation anyway. Even just fucking can fuck with your confidence and hold you back. Toss em out and don't even enjoy the pathetic texts and emails, delete them on sight. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/14 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Suddenlt it's everywhere...If what you read here rings true, resonates and helps you understand the world... then yes you will experience this ubiquitous stage that may or may not ever pass. But if your legs work and you are motivated and you find your environment is slowly eating your brain ... you can get out. I went back to America for a honeymoon with the wife and gritted my teeth every time a blonde girl opened her mouth. Once my eyes were open there was no going back for me. Don't be afraid it can push you into some… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | GF (LTR 9mo) working in another country for a month, says she doesn't mind if I bang other chicks meanwhile, how to handle the situation?Agree with Luke. I would agree with him if she was just a western girl but add in the TRP aware thing... I think you should definitely take this as a sign she wants an "open relationship". Also feels like you're kinda rationalizing for her saying she is MORE committed to the LTR when she took the job away from you. And you blame YOUR game for that? It doesn't add up but if you dont mind her banging around maybe all will be well. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/14 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Answers in Evolution?Interesting question but full of things that are not mutually exclusive. Humans are adaptable. Narcissism is much like the marketing to find the higher status mate. Sure they had to survive the cullings of war and widowing but those are exceptions while the day to day norm was probably more rooted in narcissistic behaviors. The last question hurts me though, evolution is such an awesome driving force I cringe you think it would weed out what is "good". It will only get rid of what is the least a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 04:53 PM |
| 1 | SO childishly tells me something is wrong but won't tell me what.adults talk about their problems, non-issues don't pass the bar of me caring if you can't just say it... that's why I'll never ask you what is wrong. Haven't asked that question to the wife since we met. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/14 12:34 PM |
| 1 | What are some unethical/dark triad/Machiavellian life hacks you know?Remember that patterns are invitations to get what you want by route. If someone exhibits a pattern you don't like it is often common to try to break it. At times this can be foolish. Find the fundamental thing you want then train a response. Example: I noticed my wife and I fight roughly once every 2 weeks. If we don't she starts chipping at me for dumb shit and I realize she hasn't gotten her steamy drama in a while. So now if that time is coming around I instigate a problem on an issue that i… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 07:14 PM |
| 0 | An incredibly fucked up situation. You can't make this shit up.Back in America on my last western whore I made it a policy she would never get to hang out with me and my friends. I know girls infiltrate social circles of the guys they date to make these kind of options possible in the future. I know RP says up your SMV by showing you have supportive alpha friends but I never trust other guys and western whores. It paid off since when I dumped her she ran to some guy I hadn't been friends with for quite a long time... totally could've been a close friend of … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How can i compensate for a beta father?Thanks for replying | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Is a "shave trade" a shit test?When you said Shave TRADE I thought you were getting something in return. Is... is it her validation? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How can i compensate for a beta father?With both you and OP I'm intrigued to ask if you both think your mom's are trophy wives considering the finance provider nature of your fathers? With your dads gone these ladies had to compensate with giving you a larger foundation in almost every way. I can only relate since I never had a father figure but once I moved past that the next step was rejecting the world my mother painted for me. She was strong and awesome as a mother but a trophy wife unquestioningly riding western overvaluation of… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I think my LTR is trying to make me jealousTexts are one of the easiest places to get a girl around your finger by defying conventional use patterns. I don't get how guys EVER have a problem with texting. It is the first place a girl runs shit tests and her pink little dready games. Just don't answer any text that leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Then don't answer some you even like to not leave a trail of one pattern. Then shrug when she asks about not texting back, say you were sleeping, or just say you fucken hate cell phones. edit: … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is NOTHING like what Red Pill generalized women as. I'm convinced she is literally 1 in a Million.Sounds good. Way to go and enjoy your time together :) Keep up the parts of TRP that make you feel physically and mentally good about yourself. Sure, it sounds like you have her on a pedestal but if you are actually happy whatever. Remember that TRP is largely dudes dealing with a twisted Western discrepancy. It is actually very bad for some of these dudes to hear stories of unicorns and they will react defensively so... I don't really think you need our validation, right? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Whiteknight shamingMost reading TRP field reports and I find many good examples of guys dealing with it this way. White Knight speaks white knight blue pill garbage. TRPer might grunt a bit as if to disapprove but eventually finds an opening to just blatantly say he likes traditional gender roles. Girls listening find a time to later approach TRPer and give him an opening at the poos. But I wouldn't apply that method at the workplace or scholastic environments. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a plate that says "the way you talk to me sometimes is a bit disrespectful"?With my wife I would make a face like "Yep, that is correct" but just nod silently while maintaining somewhat menacing eye contact. Talking to someone disrespectfully is a sign in the moment you don't respect them. There is nothing wrong with that. Her bank of good will doesn't give her an excuse to be an uber cunt out of no where. You don't respect her in that moment. Let that sink in however you need to and she'll stop thinking she can get away with it. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Club bitches starting shit with methis. It's a club. Music videos cover all clubs marketing costs with a big fat "Women come here for your Hypergamy fantasies". If any of that is a problem for you why why why are you there? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/14 06:26 AM |
| 5 | 59-yea-old woman goes on multiple dates with desirable 55-year-old man, gets rejected and hurt by his well-intentioned honesty. Female reader comments are brutal.thanks haha some of this sour grape shit is funny. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 06:01 AM |
| 2 | 59-yea-old woman goes on multiple dates with desirable 55-year-old man, gets rejected and hurt by his well-intentioned honesty. Female reader comments are brutal.fack my bad, edited. Wait whats SRS? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 05:54 AM |
| 29 | [FR] Clubbing without alcohol & a short tale of hypergamy.One thing you need to do is step way back and see this... You're at a CLUB. A CLUB. How many music videos do you see where clubs are marketed at the place to find hypergamy. You want to dance with a girl who is hot and not on the cock carousel? Try a church dance. In Hungary. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Inequality is everywhere, get used to it.That was an excellent point on the word royalty and how it means nothing in America. I liked wrapping my head around that and then I thought... Ohhhh but what about all the little PRINCESSES out there. Daddy's little princess heres your BMW sweetheart. If I have a daughter and she want to be a princess she better learn the language of each surrounding country, learn palace level etiquette and brush up on her world history. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 05:29 AM |
| 29 | So, MGTOW's get a lot of hate. Why?I forget which comedian made this point but he listed all the steps of from turning on your computer to getting to the comments section of a post only to write I DONT CARE. YEA, you do. You really do. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 05:18 AM |
| 10 | 59-yea-old woman goes on multiple dates with desirable 55-year-old man, gets rejected and hurt by his well-intentioned honesty. Female reader comments are brutal.My fave is after a long rant about porn destroying men's images of bodies "Luke - If only we could get those young hotties to stop making porn." | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 04:58 AM |
| 2 | If RP is anti-female, why do women like me better this way?Oh isn't it just the best when they're telling you a row of guys who creeped them out and you know its really just a brag to show how desirable they are with a big excuse to flaunt a buncha ism's so they can look like they are SO selective. Then you find them mackin' some turd who looks like he sleeps in alleys. That's an old rant from a girl I was bangin' at 18 and I put up with all kindsa weird shit cuz omg the tits on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Strong Female Characters in the MediaAlso gives us precedent for "If you don't birth me dragons I'm gonna be fuckin' upset." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Redpill humor movie on NetflixI didn't care for the way he shot ANYTHING and some of the characters shit but I did like how Don Jon shows all the congruence in porn and romance. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 02:28 PM |
| 1 | 2 hour interview with Gad Saad (Redpill gems from a professor)Sea Gate Oracle. From worldwake. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Question about LTRsRP don't fix women, it fixes you and eventually you won't have to deal with those types anymore. Don't dump her, ERASE her. Break up sex ain't worth the wonderfully accelerated out of the rainness you'll get if you never speak to her or speak her name again. I did this and it got alot of the blue pill out of my life. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/14 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think tinder is making things too easy for women?this. Tinder should have one use in your life. As a filter "Are you on Tinder." | "Yea!" | "What's your friends name then?" | /r/askTRP | 12/07/14 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I spend 1400$ to see my friends wedding? details insideI was gonna say go for the experience but then again Steve reminded me of that fackin lame everything the womans way weddings are. They are a good place to capitalize on womens insecurity of finding a mate but I wouldn't pay that much to go. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/14 02:06 PM |
| 2 | How do I feel like a man and have confidence with an objectively small penis (4.5inc x 4.5inc)Small. Vaginas. THEY EXIST! Find some brother! | /r/askTRP | 12/07/14 02:02 PM |
| 2 | TRP request. Fight Club and TRP breakdownTyler glimpsed a profound spirituality in rejecting materialism. He couldn't give two fucks about status. He surrounded himself, in the most extreme sense by housing them, with Alphas vastly devaluing his local market value and raising his own competition. So maybe he shouldn't be held so highly as a RP. But I don't really believe that... he had a higher calling and we can all take a lesson by stepping back from the Red Pill after some success and think... OK what is the bigger picture in my lif… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Books you wish you had at 18Blink - Gladwell | Getting to Yes - Fisher/Ury | Citizenship Papers - Berry | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 01:38 PM |
| 3 | 2 hour interview with Gad Saad (Redpill gems from a professor)Oh man their graphic is from a Magic the Gathering card! LMAO I'm in the right place. edit: lurkin around there but tbh I can't keep up at these level of writing. Science sure but politics I guess not. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 2 hour interview with Gad Saad (Redpill gems from a professor)E.O. Wilson's the Social Conquest of Earth anyone? Last Sci book I read till a long spell of going back to classic fiction. Also I'm looking for a RP type of economics book if anyone knows of one? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Check out /r/The_Woman_You_Have - sexual strategy for married guysyea man my wife is too good to treat like a ho. the alpha approach for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How does a person cultivate Machiavellianism?Yea I post them all over the place sometimes I feel like a gd book salesman. Blink - Malcolm Gladwell | The Social Conquest of Earth - EO Wilson | Getting to YES - Fisher and Ury I don't have any recommends on economics because I'm currently hunting down something in that field that has a RP edge to it. I'll let the forum know if I find something. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/14 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Check out /r/The_Woman_You_Have - sexual strategy for married guysLooking forward to the posts there. Some much longer RPers here say its not built for married/LTR, I get that, but I find at the root of the plates thing is simply the concept of scarcity. I read stuff here and get alot of value on how to send scarcity signals as I just re apply it in terms of friends, co-workers, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 12:13 PM |
| 1 | (Preferably free) Reading recommendations?Blink - Malcolm Gladwell Scientific data to back up what I'd commonly call instinct and why you should trust it. Can give you instantaneous confidence in situations when you realize your first reaction to things is every lesson learned from every man (and woman) in your lineage. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 11:49 AM |
| 2 | How does a person cultivate Machiavellianism?You can try studying/reading psychology, the everyday applicable stuff and avoid the content on mental diseases. Economics and evolution too. Once people start to seem less complex and just a product of what you learn in those fields you begin to experiment with cause and effect and getting results can be downright fascinating. And I hate lies too. They are sloppy and hard to manage and always a last resort. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/14 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Let's be honest and cop to the "manipulation" this subreddit propagates in order to "trick women into having sex" with us. (Been lurking for a few weeks, this is my first post here)"Are you saying I have to trick women?" "No Neo... I'm saying that when you are ready... you won't have to." | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 07:57 AM |
| 2 | And Western women wonder why their male counterparts want to marry Slavic women...Expat happily married in Slovakia. Yep can't think of a single thing American women have over Slavs.... nothin'. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 07:49 AM |
| 0 | Some basic TRP for the NewcomersI truly false dichotomy built on this guys inability to realize he can redefine his idea of love which he built in an adolescent period without experience or wisdom. My experience is once you learn to understand them you can then apply that knowledge practically to shift the dynamic. After that you can start to define love with more elements of your success in making these happen for you. That is key because you aren't just loving her you are loving yourself in process for self improving. I feel… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Need tips for summer allergiesI googled this but am totally unaware of this content and didn't see a good enough result to point me right to anything related to sneezing. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/14 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Is the red pill relevant only in the western culture?I want to counter on one point here Bingle but its not core RP stuff from how I see it. I just want to point out even in what I've seen of East Europe you can benefit alot from leveraging scarcity. You get more back if you keep what you have to offer just scarce enough for her to always be working for it and these cultures don't seem to enlighten their young men on that fact either. Also as a westerner if you expated here like I did you would still be beta trained and need help fitting into the … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/14 04:24 PM |
| 3 | I never saw a wild thing...If you're bored then you're boring If you're creeped out then you're creeping all great ways to understand your flaws and good ways to shut down a woman using the same shit language that is a huge turn off. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Control Voice Techniques for Establishing Frame of ReferenceI also read to speak deeply and confidently breathing is the key. The source said it was more important to breathe from deep down below but I have trouble inhaling through my nose when I do that so I end up doing both inhales and exhales through my mouth before. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Semi-FR - What is she up to?As a huge fan of instinct and if yours are alarmed then they are right. Trust yourself there is all kinds of hardwired shit in there you can rely on! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Need tips for summer allergiesI got those down pretty well but no idea on the dairy. Noted! Thanks! Can't ditch the beard unfortunately else I look like Homer Simpson without his stubble. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/14 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Best way to ignore Attention-Seekers?"You're hot. Got a sister or cousin?" "Well because I like your genes but not your aggressive marketing." | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Can I have a non insulting discussion with a few members here? I disagree with the ideals behind this subreddit.In a happy marriage. No you don't have to trick anyone. What you do have to do is not be tricked yourself and realize how western women market themselves is wildly different from the reality that governs their behavior. This sub puts you on the path to acting right yourself which will in turn help you get alot more of our your own relationship. Yea, it could always be better! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 04:54 AM |
| 2 | It's not my height, it's my gameAgree. A dating service CEO is laughing at you somewhere for letting him put his financial gain between you and the sea of fake girls he's stocked. That's every dating website. If you have to do it internet style and want a meeting strangers environment you can try tinychat maybe. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Gorgeous girl texted me, not sure what to do.If it was me, I'd reply "You'll have to hit me up when you're in my town" It's YOUR town. If she sends more texts subtly weave in something about hanging out with some really fun people or ladies real close by. The message being your attention is on what is right in front of you and she would need to be too. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/14 04:13 AM |
| 1 | GF smokes pretty much right in front of me even though she knows I hate it. How to react?There is alot of power in dumping her right now just for the reason you're over her smoking. You'll always remember that decision you made for your health. And in the future you can say with a straight face if it ever comes up again you easily dumped girls for smoking near you. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/14 02:50 AM |
| 1 | After 8 months of being a Red Piller. Today I became an Objectivist.If you want to challenge yourself in your own beliefs and get a good dose of balancing altruism in the context of social vs individual health then check out E.O. Wilson's book The Social Conquest of Earth. It's all about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Welcome, newcomers. Some useful links and reminders.I know its not directly related but I'd highly recommend Malcolm Gladwell's book Blink. It teaches you to trust your instincts, which are very real and fast acting measures for making decisions and forming opinions. Anyway just found this community days ago after already expating out of the Anglosphere a year ago. Way interesting and calming to not feel like I'm some schizo sociopath. The antibiotic nuke had me going awwww yeeeaa people get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Expatriating to escape feminism without sacrificing your career?Sent ya message on my personal experience but for the public readers... East Europe and yea it is way better. But expating is no easy task no matter which way you go at it when it comes to East Europe. It's NOT 3rd world but once you get away from those kind of people you'll be happy to be just teaching English. Edit: And they're way racially homogeneous in the smaller towns so aim for the big cities if you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 06:32 PM |
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